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THE MOTHERS 



BY THE SAME AUTHOR 


The Making of Humanity 
Psyche's Lamp 
The Mothers, 3 vols, 1927 
Sin and Sex 
Europa 

Europa in Limbo 
Reasons for Anger 

The Decline and Fall of the British Empire 
Les Troubadours et le Sentiment Romanesque 

OTHER BOOKS BY GORDON RATTRAY TAYLOR 
Economics for the Exasperated 
Conditions of Happiness 
Are Workers Human ? 

Sex in History 
The Angel Makers: 

a study in the psychological origins of historical change 1750- 1850 
Eye on Research 



ROBERT BRIFFAULT 


The Mothers 

Abridged, with an Introduction 

by 

GORDON RATTRAY TAYLOR 


Ruskin House 

GEORGE ALLEN & UNWIN LTD 

MUSEUM STREET LONDON 



FIRST PUBLISHED IN 1927 
SECOND IMPRESSION 1952 
THIS ABRIDGED EDITION 1959 


This book is copyright under the Berne 
Convention. Apart from any fair dealing for 
the purposes of private study , research 
criticism or review, as permitted under the 
Copyright Act 1956, no portion may be 
reproduced by any process without written 
permission . Enquiry should be made to the 
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This abridged edition © George Allen & Unwin Ltd., 1959 


PRINTED IN GREAT BRITAIN 
in jo on 11 point Plantin type 
BY HAZELL WATSON AND VINEY LTD 
AYLESBURY AND SLOUGH 



ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS 


I am indebted to Mr. R. G. Phillips, who introduced me to 
Robert Briffault, and to Mrs. Briffault-Hackelberg, Mrs. 
Herma Briffault, and several old friends of Robert Briffault, 
particularly Mme. Bradley and Mme. Stalio, all of whom 
helped me with biographical information. 

I should also like to pay a tribute to my two secretaries, 
Mrs. Delgado and Mrs. Sawyer, who determinedly tackled 
the exceptionally demanding task of transcribing and typing 
several hundred thousand words of technical matter and 
obscure names, as the abridgement passed through pro- 
gressive drafts. 

G. R. T. 



CONTENTS 


INTRODUCTION 

page 9 

BIOGRAPHICAL NOTE 

21 

i 

The Origins of Human Society 

2 7 

2 

Motherhood 

35 

3 

The Origin of Social Feeling 

39 

4 

The Herd and the Family amongst Animals 

45 

5 

The Primitive Human Group 

5 i 

6 

The Motherhood 

64 

7 

The Matriarchal Phase in Civilized Societies 

76 

8 

Division of Labour 

96 

9 

The Institution of Marriage 

hi 

IO 

Group Marriage (/) 

126 

ii 

Group Marriage (II) 

146 

12 

Promiscuity and Individual Marriage 

i 57 

i 3 

Primitive Jealousy and Love 

173 

14 

Selecting a Husband and Acquiring a Wife 

189 

15 

The Social Evolution of Monogamic Marriage 

207 

16 

Tabu 

234 

17 

The Totem 

256 

18 

The Witch and the Priestess 

269 

19 

The Lord of the Women 

288 

20 

The Resurrection and the Life 

306 



CONTENTS 


21 

Primitive Cosmic Religion 

309 

22 

The Magical Origin of Queens 

354 

23 

The Great Mothers 

361 

24 

Holy Matrimony 

378 

25 

Modesty 

386 

26 

Purity 

396 

27 

Romance (/) 

407 

28 

Romance (//) 

423 

29 

The Mothers 

431 

INDEX 

435 



INTRODUCTION 


It is just over thirty years since Robert Briffault’s prodigious work 
The Mothers was first published. Its enormous length — about ii million 
words when the extensive footnotes and the vast bibliography are 
reckoned in — and its consequent relatively high price have prevented 
more than a very few people from studying it, for few libraries hold it in 
stock. 

Furthermore, at the time of its first publication anthropologists were 
turning away from the larger questions of cultural evolution, which 
they felt to be insoluble, and Briffault’s work tended to be seen as the 
last shot in a controversy which had already ceased to be interesting. 

But today anthropologists are beginning to turn once more to these 
larger questions. For some forty years they have concentrated upon the 
detailed study of specific societies or ‘cultural configurations’ — a task 
made the more urgent by the rapidity with which modem technical 
progress and commercial expansion are destroying the social patterns 
of non-literate and technologically backward societies. During all this 
time, the attempt to erect large theories of cultural evolution has been 
in disrepute. While many of the criticisms brought against the theories 
of the older school of anthropologists — Tylor, McLennan and others — 
were just, it is nevertheless becoming recognized that the pendulum has 
swung from one extreme to the other, and groups like that headed by 
Steward at the University of Illinois are beginning to develop studies of 
a more synoptic character. The moment is therefore well chosen for a 
reissue of The Mothers , and the time is ripe for a reassessment of 
BrifFault’s remarkable work. That Briffault’s ideas might be considered 
on their own merits, I suggested to the original publishers that the work 
be published in an abridged form, with an introduction to put the whole 
topic in perspective. They accepted this proposal, as did the owner of 
the copyright, Mrs Joan Briffault Hackelberg. The present volume 
therefore presents the original text reduced to about one-fifth of its 
original length and omitting almost all the footnotes. 

I have attempted to preserve the order, proportions, and literary 
style of the original work, chiefly by omitting much of the overwhelming 
mass of illustrative material and by condensing some of the more dis- 
cursive comments. As Briffault gives the reader few clues as to where 
he is going, preferring to let conviction grow out of the mass of the 
material, I have added a few verbal signposts to assist the reader in 
keeping track of the argument. Where passages are given in quotation 
t.m. — i* 



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marks they are in quotation marks in the original, and the source can 
be found by referring to the corresponding passage in the unabridged 
version. 

It should perhaps be added that Briffault prepared for the Macmillan 
Company in New York a one- volume work which was published in 1931 
under the title of The Mothers ; it was a complete restatement of the 
material and in no way an abridgement of the original English three- 
volume work published under that title. 

Briffault' s Thesis 

The form in which Briffault couched his ideas and the relative lack of 
interest with which they were greeted can only be understood in rela- 
tion to the controversy of which they formed part. 

This controversy was launched in 1851, when the famous jurist. Sir 
A. Maine, published his Primitive Law , in which he asserted that the 
patriarchal family was the original unit of society, and that larger social 
units had been built up by the aggregation of these family units into 
clan and tribe. In support of this view, he cited chiefly Biblical examples. 
In the same year, the Swiss jurist Bachofen was preparing his Das 
Mutterrecht , asserting that the original state of man had been one of 
sexual promiscuity, from which had emerged matriarchies, which had 
only later been replaced by or converted into patriarchies. 

This set off a series of attempts to draw up schemes designed to 
account for the whole development of human society, and represented 
the application of the idea of evolution, which had proved so fertile in 
the biological field, to society as a whole. J. F. McLennan made the most 
important restatement of the matriarchal view in 1886, citing a great 
mass of new anthropological evidence. Early in the nineteenth century, 
Westermarck — a man without anthropological qualifications — published 
his History of Human Marriage , in which he attempted to re-establish 
Maine’s position. He was not so much concerned to draw a picture of 
the whole development of human society as to assert that lifelong 
monogamy was the normal pattern of marriage throughout human 
society, polygamy representing a degeneration from the original mono- 
gamic pattern. This thesis was naturally much to the taste of Christian 
apologists and traditional moralists generally. Westermarck’s works 
enjoyed wide acclaim, and he wrote a long series of works embroidering 
this theme, most of which are still to be found in the majority of public 
libraries. Largely as a result, this view of marriage is still held by very 
many laymen, in so far as they concern themselves with the topic at all, 
and is often given fresh currency by American anthropologists. It is 
asserted in the new Chambers’s Encyclopaedia. 

This view is, in point of fact, wholly untenable, and there can be 



INTRODUCTION 


II 


little doubt that Briffault felt incensed by Westermarck’s scientifically 
unjustified success, and that his main object in writing The Mothers was 
to explode this fallacy. This he undoubtedly achieves, adducing such a 
wealth of material to the contrary, and so decisively convicting Wester- 
marck of manipulating his references and betraying other signs of bias, 
that one might have supposed that belief in the universality of mono- 
gamic marriage would have been abandoned for ever in a gale of 
laughter. In fact, as we know, his statement was ignored; and if this new 
version of his work does something to restore a more detached and 
speculative approach to the topic, it will have been worth while for this 
reason alone. 

But Briffault was not content simply to destroy — he sought to estab- 
lish an alternative theory. In contradiction to Maine, he asserted the 
former existence of a primitive matriarchy universally preceding patri- 
archy, but, unlike Bachofen, he did not define matriarchy in terms of 
actual mother-rule or inheritance through the maternal line, but in more 
general terms as a period in which women were socially predominant. 
As the crucial factor, he selects, for reasons which he adduces at length, 
the question whether, after marriage, the wife resides at her husband’s 
abode or the husband at the wife’s — i.e. what anthropologists term 
patrilocy or matrilocy. (The distinction is important, and several sub- 
sequent investigations designed to prove or disprove the matriarchal 
theory have gone astray through ignoring it. 1 ) 

Furthermore, his inquiries lead him to the view that marriage was 
originally a contract between groups, in which it was agreed that a man 
of one group might have sexual access to all the women of another 
group while being denied access to his own. This primitive restriction 
on sexual behaviour was then elaborated into such forms as restriction 
to all the women of a particular family — that is, in our terms, if a man 
marries a woman he is thereby married to all her sisters. Briffault 
persuasively argues that ‘sororal polygyny’ and its complement ‘fra- 
ternal polyandry’ are not perversions of the basic idea of a monogamous 
marriage. Quite to the contrary, they are restrictions of an original group 
contract so different from marriage as we know it that we shrink from 
applying the word marriage to it. Indeed, where such group contracts 
are found they are usually termed by the scandalised Western observer 
‘sexual communism’ or ‘promiscuity’. 

To establish these two main points, Briffault seeks to show that the 
alleged change from matriarchy to patriarchy was associated with the 
change from hunting to agricultural production and the essential 
emergence of property. 

Into this landscape he also attempts to fit such well-known anthropo- 
1 E.g. R. Karsten: Origins of Religion (1935). 



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logical puzzles as initiation ceremonies and the prevalence of lunar 
symbolism. 

Briffault develops his work in four main sections. In Chapters I to 5 
he considers the domestic arrangements of animals, from which human 
arrangements presumably developed, and seeks to show that they were 
matrilocal in character. More precariously, he argues that the male 
instinct created the group or herd, while the female instinct created the 
family. Since he is going on, later in the book, to argue that the family 
is a feature of patriarchies, the relevance of this section is obscure, to 
say the least. 

In Chapters 6 to 16 he considers the whole question of the emergence 
of marriage, arguing the universal existence of a primitive matriarchy in 
the prehistory of all peoples, and seeking to show in various ways that 
marriage was originally matrilocal. 

In Chapters 17 to 24 he considers various indirect forms of evidence. 
In particular, he argues that lunar deities are indications of a primitive 
matriarchy, and that such cults were originally served only by women, 
who were the first hierophants. He seeks also to fit the concepts of 
totemism and taboo into his system, and here he is least successful, 
though he makes a number of interesting points. 

Finally, in Chapters 25 to 30 he attempts to trace the growth of the 
modem Western conception of marriage as a sacrament, as a cultural 
remnant of the idea of a holy marriage between a deity and a woman. 
Ideas of this sort are indeed present in our thinking to a much greater 
extent than most of us realize, and Briffault’s demonstration is fascinat- 
ing; but on the sources of this need to preserve a sense of sacredness — 
so notably absent in many other fields — he has nothing to say. In con- 
junction with this, he traces the origins of the notion of romantic love. 

Criticism of Briffault' s Views 

For some time before Briffault reached the point of publication of these 
views, anthropologists had been becoming increasingly critical of such 
attempts to provide a general schematic account of the development of 
society, on two general grounds. 

Firstly, as anthropological studies developed it became even clearer 
that one could only hope to understand the meaning of a culture item 
by considering it in relation to the whole culture. A given social action 
may carry quite a different connotation in one culture from that which 
it has when part of another. Consequently, to pick out a given pattern — 
let us say, mother-in-law avoidance — from a number of different cul- 
tures and compare them was an unacceptable technique. (Like many 
before him, Briffault relies heavily on this ‘comparative method.’) 
Anthropologists therefore rejected the whole method, and turned to 



INTRODUCTION 13 

studying individual cultures in detail, seeking to profit from this new 
insight into their structure. 

This argument was reinforced by another: we cannot assume that 
societies which are technologically primitive resemble equally primitive 
societies as they existed thousands of years ago. A long sequence of 
social changes may have occurred — the marriage customs of the techno- 
logically primitive Australian aboriginals are so complex that it seems 
certain they represent the outcome of a long process of elaboration. 
Hence (they felt) we have no information about primitive society, 
except what archaeology may uncover, and speculations about the past 
state of man are vain. 

No doubt there is much truth in both these views. The horse has 
changed greatly from the Eohippos from which it is descended. But it 
is unnecessarily defeatist to say that nothing can be learned from such 
studies. If we had no skeletons of the Eohippos to go upon, we might 
not appreciate that the horse was so much larger, and we could only 
guess that the Eohippos had not developed the horse’s specialized hoof; 
but we should at least be sure that the Eohippos did not swim or walk 
upright. 

The passage of time may modify or complicate a given social pattern; 
it is not proved that it can bring about a change in kind. Indeed, it 
seems to me that it may be the case that technological advance is only 
possible when certain underlying changes of attitude or psychological 
make-up occur; such changes would also effect changes in social patterns 
generally, so that some aspects of social pattern may be correlated with 
the level of technical development, after all. 

Though anthropologists tended to reject these synoptic attempts on 
a priori grounds, subsequently the advance of archaeology went far 
towards confirming their scepticism. It was observed that agricultural 
peoples, driven by population pressures out of Asia Minor into the 
steppe country, became pastoral — which is just the contrary of what 
Briffault asserts to be the normal process. Gordon Childe subsequently 
showed that various primitive peoples have passed through matriarchal 
and patriarchal stages in varying orders, and have adopted various 
methods of subsistence in quite a haphazard way . 1 Meanwhile anthro- 
pologists have noted tribes which, at the present time, are passing from 
patriarchal to matriarchal patterns of society; for instance, the neigh- 
bours of the Tsimshian in North-west America . 2 

It is now past all reasonable doubt that society does not evolve 
according to one single standard line of development. Of course, it 
might still be true that there was a normal line of development from 

1 V. Gordon Childe: Social Evolution (1951). 
a J. R. Swanton: Social Organisation of American Tribes (1905). 



THE MOTHERS 


14 

which societies would occasionally depart in exceptional circumstances. 
The foregoing evidence does not justify the conclusion that all attempts 
to find any system in such data is vain. But once we admit that matri- 
archy can follow patriarchy, much of Briffault’s material becomes 
ambiguous. When he draws attention to signs of an earlier matriarchy 
in a society which is now patriarchal, he may in reality be observing the 
signs of a future matriarchy which is only just developing. 

A New Assessment 

Briffault did himself much disservice by claiming too much : it was in 
the nature of the man to prefer the sweeping generalization, and he 
loved to shock the unimaginative out of their preconceptions. His data 
do not justify him in making the assertion that matriarchy always and 
everywhere preceded patriarchy, even if wc neglect the facts just 
adduced. Even if in existing patriarchies signs of earlier matriarchy can 
be detected, this does not prove that a still earlier patriarchy may not 
have preceded the matriarchal phase. The periods of time in question 
are but a few hundred years — the pre-history of man runs to tens of 
thousands. 

Briffault would have made a more convincing contribution if he had 
confined himself to asserting that in every patriarchy the existence of a 
previous matriarchal state can be shown or inferred, leaving unbroached 
the question of what had preceded that state during the thousands of 
years of pre-history. For the realization that these social patterns are 
labile is a novel and important one, to which we are only now coming. 
It never occurred to Maine that the Jewish patriarchy which he so much 
admired, and thought was fundamental and God-given, had actually 
developed out of an earlier mother-centred system, as Briffault shows. 
Even today, few people are any better informed than Maine. The belief 
that patriarchies were always patriarchal is almost universal. Briffault 
might justifiably have written his book to prove this one fact. 

Again, Briffault invited ridicule or neglect by grossly over-generaliz- 
ing his theory of marriage. It is certainly true that monogamy is not the 
universally preferred pattern; but it is going much too far to assert 
group marriage as universal. The likelihood is that humanity found a 
number of different solutions to the problem of regulating the relations 
between the sexes; group marriage may well have been one, perhaps 
even the most widespread one. The hypothesis certainly enables Briffault 
to reduce a great deal of otherwise baffling material to coherence, even 
if it does not explain quite as much as he claims. It is therefore well 
worth much closer examination than it has so far received. 

His larger theory, in which the change from matriarchy to patriarchy 
is linked with changes in the method of subsistence, from pastoral to 



INTRODUCTION 


15 

corn-growing and so forth, again attempts too much in asserting a single 
sequence of development. The more modest task of exploring whether 
certain social structures are always associated with certain modes of 
subsistence would have been more rewarding. 

The Psychoanalytic Clue 

Briffault’s greatest mistake, one cannot help feeling, was to dismiss as 
valueless the entire contribution of Freud, for it is precisely Freud who 
could have helped him to solve the points on which he stumbles most 
hopelessly. First and foremost, Freud provides a comprehensive and 
consistent theory of the origin of incest fears. Since, as Briffault accur- 
ately notes, the whole system of exogamy rules is simply a system of 
incest-regulations, it is strongly supportive of his views that Freud 
attributes this preoccupation with incest to a preoccupation with the 
mother. That is, Briffault’s contention that exogamy rules arose in 
societies in which mothers were dominant is completely in harmony 
with Freudian theory. Conversely, the jealousy which Westermarck 
thought a universal human instinct is revealed by Freudian theory to 
spring from a preoccupation with the father, and thus to be character- 
istic of patriarchal but not of matriarchal societies. Briffault, who justly 
rejects Westermarck’s view on this point, could have proceeded to 
explain just why it is found in patriarchal societies, and indeed why 
Westermarck should have held such a view, had he not been so cavalier 
towards psychoanalysis. Unfortunately, Briffault derived his psychology 
from the teachings of Shand, now almost forgotten. 

Again, Freud provided, in his description of the mechanism of pro- 
jection , a theory which explains perfectly why those who are preoccupied 
with the mother-figure tend to envisage their deity as a mother, while 
those preoccupied with the father tend to postulate father deities. 
Briffault, who traces the tendency for the moon to be seen sometimes as 
a male and sometimes as a female deity (and occasionally as both con- 
jointly) could — had he realized this — have related this dynamically to 
the corresponding social changes from matriarchy to patriarchy. Simi- 
larly, Freud’s account of decomposition — the process by which people 
sometimes classify people into good and bad figures, and have difficulty 
in seeing that good and bad aspects can be combined in a single person 
— is accurately reflected in the way in which some peoples divide their 
deities into good and bad, God and Devil, while others feel that a deity 
may have good and bad features simultaneously. Briffault notes the 
anthropological fact quite correctly, but makes heavy weather of fitting 
it into his system because he does not understand (what Freud could 
have explained to him) the origins of these alternative attitudes. 

Briffault was correct in his insight that the description of the deity 



l6 THE MOTHERS 

could be used as a clue to the social structure of the people making the 
description, but tries to link the two in a mechanical way, instead of 
regarding both as reflecting an unconscious attitude. (In matriarchies, 
women have the priestly role, and the moon is their patron because it 
seems to control their menstrual periods, his argument runs.) 

Freud’s attempt to account for totemism and to explain taboos seems 
to me only partly successful . 1 On the other hand, Bettelheim’s analysis 
of Australian initiation ceremonies, and the comparisons he makes with 
the disturbed children he has studied in the USA, seem to me the only 
writings which make any sense on this subject and, indeed, to be 
stimulating in the extreme. To say, as the anthropologist generally does, 
that initiation ceremonies mark the transition from youth to manhood 
may be true — if we assume that this transition takes place at puberty — 
but it certainly does not account for the frenzied violence which often 
accompanies them. It certainly offers no clue as to why the Australian 
aborigines should make a long and deep gash on the underside of the 
penes of these boys, and dress them in women’s clothes — hardly a 
gesture designed to bring out their manhood. On the contrary, as 
Bettelheim points out, it is clearly a ceremony designed to turn them 
into substitute women, and it is the women who insist on this ceremony . 2 
The anthropologist who is unwilling to accept a psychoanalytic inter- 
pretation of such odd actions would be more honest if he were simply 
to admit that he has no explanation to offer, instead of talking earnestly 
about rites de passage . 

Briffault, though he takes a different view, is no more a propos. He 
argues that these ceremonies are designed primarily to demonstrate the 
young man’s fitness to support a wife. This explanation at least recog- 
nizes the vital fact that it is the women who insist on these ceremonies. 
But tortures which maim, render impotent or even kill the victim do not 
really have this effect, and are clearly in a different category from de- 
manding (as may also happen) that the young man demonstrate his 
prowess at hunting or fighting. At best, the aspect which Briffault 
stresses is but a single one ; the other features — all the stranger because 
they seem to have no utilitarian value or even to be harmful — demand 
explanation. 

Briffault is in even deeper water when he tries to explain the changes 
in the status of women. It is when men come to possess so much wealth 
that they can keep women in idleness that they become sexual play- 
things and lose status, he declares. He realizes that this view is quite 
inconsistent with the depressed status of women among the Australian 
aborigines, and suggests that this is because the aborigine has used his 

1 S. Freud: Totem and Taboo (1919). 

a B. Bettelheim: Symbolic Wounds (1955). 



INTRODUCTION 


17 

superior strength to dominate his women. But elsewhere Briffault has 
argued that women are not only stronger but also fiercer and more 
cunning than men. And even if this were not so, it would still leave him 
under the obligation of explaining why, in matriarchal agricultural 
societies, men do not equally exert their strength. The Celts, too, whom 
he sees as matriarchal and deferring to women, had notable heroes; 
why did they tolerate their women’s arrogance and sexual freedom ? 
Finally, in our own day, in the West, man is more than ever able to 
earn sufficient to support his woman in idleness; but the American 
woman, for one, is hardly dominated by her male. 

But here psychoanalytic theory provides a scheme which, though 
derived from quite other data, fits the anthropological facts as if it had 
been made for the purpose. The Oedipal situation, as described by 
Freud, accounts for men’s fear that women will betray them sexually, 
and their sense that they are a threat to be kept under control. But the 
Oedipus situation can only exist where a strong father-figure is present, 
and is intensified if he is severe or thought to be so. Hence we should 
expect to find this attitude to women strongly marked in families of the 
patriarchal type, and absent in those families where the children are 
brought up by the mother alone (usually with the help of her brother), 
and where the biological father performs no parental role. It is many 
years now since Malinowski reported just this absence of sexual guilt 
and concomitant freedom of women from the Trobriand Islands, where 
the family structure is of the type just mentioned. 

(Note how, in the West, the status of women has risen and sexual 
freedom has increased in proportion as the patriarchal nature of the 
family has declined.) 

In making this estimate of Briffault’s work, I am naturally influenced 
by my own speculations on these matters put forward initially in 1949, 
and developed in 1953 an d I 95^; 1 in them society is postulated as oscil- 
lating irregularly between phases in which the mother-figure is dominant 
and others in which the father is dominant, with the possibility of a 
balance between the two. Institutions, such as marriage or the inheri- 
tance laws, change so slowly, that institutions appropriate to a father- 
centred phase may persist into a mother-centred one, and no doubt the 
reverse also occurs. Hence we cannot safely classify a society by the 
little we know of its institutions, such as, whether marriage is patrilocal 
or descent patrilineal. Thus, as Margaret Mead has shown, the Tcham- 
buli have all the social features — such as patrilineal descent — associated 
with a patriarchy, but in fact the women dominate the men. 2 

1 G. Rattray Taylor: Conditions of Happiness (1949); Sex in History (1953); 
The Angel Makers (1958). 

* M. Mead: Sex and Temperament in Three Primitive Societies (1935). 



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For the same reason, when Briffault succeeds in showing signs of the 
existence of a preceding matriarchal phase in a patriarchal society, this 
does not seem conclusive proof of a primitive matriarchy, since an even 
more primitive patriarchy may have preceded it. 

Does this mean, then, that we should reject Briffault’s contribution as 
worthless? That is the conclusion which some contemporary critics 
reached; but in my view this is to throw out the baby with the bath- 
water. 

The Problem Restated 

The task which has fascinated so many anthropologists in the last 
hundred years — the attempt to devise a comprehensive account of the 
sequences of social development — turns out to be insoluble and perhaps 
meaningless. But this does not mean that this whole area of inquiry 
must now be abandoned ; it means only that the task must be reformu- 
lated. The many extraordinary social phenomena which Briffault 
chronicles remain for the most part without any satisfactory explanation. 
Is it a matter of pure chance whether a given tribe adopts polygamy or 
monogamy, exogamy or endogamy? Or are such practices related in 
some way to its mode of life, or to its religion ? Is it a matter of pure 
chance whether it adopts a father-religion, a mother-religion or a 
religion of some other type ? What is the explanation of the savagery 
which so often attends initiation ceremonies ? The remarkable range of 
human behaviour which Briffault records in such profusion still calls 
aloud for clarification, and if we object to Briffault’s synthesis then we 
admit the need to find some alternative. 

More than this : is it not possible that the explanations of many such 
cultural features are tied together ? To put it differently, is it not pos- 
sible that there is only a limited number of basic sociocultural patterns, 
that the almost infinite variety of those we know consists only in varia- 
tions on a few simple themes ? 

If such patterns could be found, the task of analysing the history of 
cultural evolution would be greatly simplified. And if the conditions 
determining which pattern would be adopted could be established, it 
might be possible to make more reliable inferences about the social pat- 
terns of human communities in prehistoric times. Only by exploring the 
subject in this kind of way do we seem to have any hope of forming ideas 
about the manner in which social and sexual institutions have emerged 
in the long evolutionary scale of man’s slow assumption of humanity. 

If the psychoanalytic approach is adopted, we require, in order to 
account for the social changes which we observe on the historical scale, 
only to account for the changes in family structure. Perhaps it could be 
shown that economic factors make it inevitable that a pastoral society 



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should be patriarchal. Perhaps, however, it may be the case that a 
patriarchally-minded individual prefers to occupy himself with flocks 
rather than with agriculture. We are most likely to find the answer to 
such choices when we can locate cases in which a change is actually 
occurring or is known to have occurred. Why are the neighbours of the 
Tshimshian, for instance, moving from matriarchy to patriarchy ? 

For the past half century, anthropology has taken a static rather than 
a dynamic approach : it has explored the structure of given societies in 
great detail. It has given little attention to the interaction between 
societies and to the change of societies with time. This is natural enough, 
and probably the harder task could only be fruitfully attempted when 
the easier had been performed. Naturally, too, the psychoanalytic tool 
has first been employed in order to explore the structure of given 
societies in more detail (e.g. by Kardiner, Linton, du Bois and others). 
But the time has come when it could be turned on these larger problems 
of historical change. 

It is reasonable to believe that a new epoch in anthropology is now 
opening up. When we really understand the dynamic connections be- 
tween social institutions, such as marriage, and economic conditions, 
and the connection of both with personality structure, we may reach a 
position from which we can attempt the task prematurely undertaken 
by Maine, McLennan, Brifiault and others, of inferring how first social 
institutions were developed by the human race, and what form they 
may conceivably have taken. 

Conclusion 

Brifiault opens the way for some development on these lines both by 
the devastating way in which he clears the ground of the forest of 
misconceptions which have grown up and enables us to view the data 
with less ethnocentrically-prejudiced eyes; and also by the many odd 
features of the terrain which he then points out, and the stimulating 
suggestions he offers to account for them. 

It must be conceded that he is open to criticism in matters of detail. 
He not infrequently contradicts himself, and sometimes uses a fact to 
prove one thing at one stage and to support an equally plausible but 
quite different view at a later point. He is sometimes guilty of selecting 
his references to prove his point and glossing over those which are 
incompatible with it. The captious critic could make him look small, 
and it is easy to be persuaded that the writer who is inaccurate in detail 
is, ipso facto , wrong as regards his thesis. In point of fact, the kind of 
mind which is capable of conceiving a large theory is apt to be impatient 
of details ; the mind that concentrates on details generally fails to see the 
wood for the trees. 



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We do not read Briffault for a text-book statement of incontrovertible 
fact, but for a challenging argument supported by a mass of fascinating 
detail. We can hardly expect that, having written a million and a half 
words, having impoverished himself and damaged his health in the 
process, he should then sit down and spend the next ten years trying to 
disprove his own theory. It is for others to raise the objections, and to 
see whether they can be met by minor modification of the main hypo- 
thesis or not. 

Nor do we read Briffault exclusively for his main thesis; his inquisi- 
tive and radical mind explores many byways of anthropology, always 
throwing light, challenging preconceptions, and offering new insights. 
He is as instructive when he is discussing the origin of human clothing 
as he is when evaluating the role of the troubadours. Not the least 
fascinating feature of The Mothers is the way in which he weaves 
material from Biblical Jewish history or from Classical Roman and 
Greek sources into the general anthropological picture. It is intensely 
stimulating to see societies which we have come to know and take for 
granted in our schooldays, and which have thus acquired a special status 
in our minds, compared with societies which we regard as strange or 
primitive objects of anthropological study, and to see how they, too, 
are just as strange, their development just as complex. Just as our read- 
ing of the Bible, coloured as it is by religious presuppositions of a later 
date, seldom reveals to us the moon and mother-worshipping origins of 
Jewry, so our reading of the Classics is focused on a late phase of the 
society, and its curious matriarchal origins escape our eye. 



BIOGRAPHICAL NOTE 


Robert Stephen Briffault’s life starts with a mystery. He seems to 
have been bom in Nice in 1873, although he later claimed to have 
been born in London in 1876. Briffault’s mother — we should start 
by considering his mother, surely — was a Scotswoman of strong 
religious views; the daughter of a sea-captain. Nothing else is known 
of her life before she married — astonishingly — an elderly French 
diplomat, already retired, Charles Frederic Briffault. It was his second 
marriage, and of his first nothing is known either. Charles F. Briffault 
had been Chef du Secretariat du President de la Republique Napoleon 
in 1849, but left the service of Louis Napoleon on his unconstitutional 
seizure of power, and became naturalized British. He travelled a great 
deal on the Continent, where he had many friends. For many years he 
made his home in Florence, and it was there that Robert Briffault 
attended a private school for English boys until his ’teens, though he 
completed his education in England. 

At the age of 19, his father being dead, Briffault went out with his 
mother to New Zealand, where, at 24, he married one Anna Clarke; by 
this marriage he had one son and two daughters. After much indecision 
as to a career, he decided to study medicine, and in 1901 he received an 
mb at Dunedin University, and a ch.B at Christchurch in 1905. He 
then set up in practice. After a visit to Europe, he returned to New 
Zealand, and was president for a time of the Auckland branch of the 
New Zealand Institute. 

On the outbreak of the First World War, he returned to England to 
enlist, and served at Gallipoli, and later in Flanders and France, where 
he was rather badly gassed. 

He had written a good deal in his spare time, without publishing 
anything, and while in the trenches he worked on a survey of human 
evolution which was published in 1919 as The Making of Humanity ; 
Psyche's Lamp , an outline of psychology, followed in 1920. His wife 
having died at the end of the war, he established himself in London, 
where he alternated between frenzied spells of work on The Mothers , 
and working as locum tenens at one of the London hospitals. The death 
of his mother in 1924, followed by the death of one of his daughters, 
with other mental stresses, affected him so that at times he would slide 
to the floor in a trance lasting ten or twenty minutes. After sustained 
efforts, in which he gave up all medical work and depended largely on 
his daughter. The Mothers was finished and revised, appearing in 1927, 



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when he was 54. With this he gained some reputation. Other books 
followed. 

In 1930 he married Herma Hoyt, an American some twenty-five years 
his junior. 

In 1931 he went to the u.s., but by the end of 1932 was living in Paris, 
where he remained until the end of the Second World War. While in 
New York, friends suggested that he should write a novel; the result 
was Europe which, to his surprise, became a best-seller in several 
languages. A sequel, Europa in Limbo> followed, with other novels, and 
a number of essays. 

In Paris, during the Occupation, Briffault was twice imprisoned for 
short periods. His principal difficulty was that he was cut off from the 
English language market, and presumably from the receipt of royalties 
also, and had to support himself with translations and hackwork. He 
also wrote, in French, Les Troubadours et le Sentiment Romanesque , 
which may be regarded as an expansion of Chapters 28 and 29 of The 
Mothers. After the war, he returned to England, in broken health, 
although he travelled restlessly several times to France and Italy. His 
wife, herself ill, returned to New York, believing that the State Depart- 
ment would then grant her husband an entry permit — this having been 
refused on earlier applications ; but it remained obdurate. In December 
1948 Briffault died of pulmonary tuberculosis at St Helen’s Hospital, 
Hastings, aged 75. 

Briffault’s tastes were those of the Romantic. His favourite composer 
was Wagner; his favourite painter Hieronymos Bosch; his favourite 
play Goethe’s Faust. Poetry he loved. His intelligence was encyclo- 
paedic. He spoke more than seven languages — French, German, Italian 
and English fluently. In addition he knew Latin, Greek, Dutch and 
Proven9al French. He started learning Russian at 70. 

As a general practitioner, he was much loved and even adored by his 
patients, particularly women, and by the nurses with whom he came in 
contact. The medical profession looked at him somewhat askance, it is 
said, because of his radical ideas and sometimes unorthodox methods of 
treatment. He seems to have been reasonably popular with fellow 
officers and men during the war. 

Of Briffault’s childhood and the forces which may have influenced 
him into undertaking the series of broad studies which culminated in 
The Mothers , we have no direct knowledge. Europa tells the story of 
Julian, the son of a retired diplomat living in Rome and his puritanical 
Irish wife — and from it we may gather some clues. The incident in 
Europa in which Nietzsche puts his hand on the head of Julian saying 
‘Thou mightest be He’ is drawn from Briffault’s own youth. 

Julian is, as a boy, vaguely uneasy in the cultured setting of his 



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father’s many distinguished, wealthy friends. He is sensitive to the 
contrast between the ease of his own surroundings and the poverty of 
the peasants. He is much struck by Darwin’s theories, and feels that 
knowledge is the key to the mystery of life; he must know everything. 
He asks a sympathetic teacher if it would be any good his reading the 
Encyclopaedia Britannica from cover to cover. His teacher tells him that 
nine-tenths of what is taught is untrue, and he must find out for himself 
what is true and what is not. A Catholic priest, attending his parents, 
finds him reading The Origin of Species and snatches it from him in a 
fury. A cardinal is brought in to dissuade him from accepting such ideas 
in a more subtle and intelligent manner, and he is shortly sent off to 
school in England. Here the science master lets him see the glories of 
the stars through his telescope ; he is awed by the insignificance of the 
earth and the individual. This master warns him that the school does not 
teach what are now known to be historical facts, such as that Aeneas, 
Homer and King Arthur are not historical figures, for if the authority 
of tradition were flouted, all authority might be upset, even belief in the 
historicity of the Bible. 

We can see here the gradual unfolding of doubt, and the desire to 
establish a scientifically tenable world view, which evidently animated 
Briffault’s first books, although the Julian of the novel does not proceed 
to write works of this kind. If we ask where this curiosity came from, 
we may find the answer in the account Europa gives of Julian’s aware- 
ness of sexuality. As a child he is represented as suffering considerable 
shock when a peasant woman, seeing him relieving himself against a 
wall, jokingly asks him if he knows ‘what that is for’, with other crude 
innuendoes. Sexuality breathes in the warm Italian air, and the adoles- 
cent Julian’s sexual education includes a visit to a private collection of 
phallic emblems. While a psychoanalyst would certainly look for some 
earlier experience as the real starting-point of sexual shock — doubtless 
something concerned with the relationship between his parents — we 
can, in any case, see here the association between sexual curiosity and 
scientific curiosity which is asserted by Freudian doctrine. This, then, 
explains the possibly excessive interest in sexual matters which runs 
through The Mothers , and the violence of his attack on sexual ignorance 
in Sin and Sex and other writings. We can see, too, why the Church, 
and especially the Catholic Church, seemed to him to be the obscuran- 
tist force which opposed both scientific knowledge and sexual under- 
standing. 

Europa also depicts the disgust which Julian experienced when he was 
transferred from the cultured, adult world of Rome to the narrow and 
barbarous surroundings of an English school where, though not un- 
popular, he was an oddity who knew more Latin than the master 



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teaching it, but nothing of cricket and who had never heard of King 
Solomon's Mines. This experience may well have reinforced the resent- 
ment which Briffault was developing for all established authority and 
morality, and against Britain, the country to which he nominally 
belonged. 

This resentment was voiced in his book The Decline and Fall of the 
British Empire (though it must be noted that the title was devised by his 
American publisher, over his protests). A close friend has told me that 
his attitude to Britain was in reality highly ambivalent; at bottom he 
loved Britain, and he returned to his country to die. It was because he 
felt that Britain had rejected him that he hated it; such feeling must 
have been intensified by the grudging recognition accorded to The 
Mothers . 

A psychoanalyst would surely see in this the reflection of an attitude 
towards parental figures, since native countries are either ‘mother 
countries’ or ‘fatherlands’. And it is not unreasonable, when a man has 
devoted seven years of strenuous work to arguing the importance of 
mothers as against fathers, to ask whether he betrayed any marked 
attitudes towards his own parents. 

Mrs Herma Briffault, however, informs me that he had little apparent 
attachment to his mother, but often spoke of his father. (He seems, 
nevertheless, to have had a picture of his mother in his room in the last 
decade of his life.) His mother was evidently a reserved, ‘canny’ Scots- 
woman, of strict views, whose capacity for personal warmth seems to 
have been limited, and perhaps he felt, as an infant, denied the accep- 
tance he desired. He certainly rejected violently his mother’s strong 
religious beliefs and teaching. Clearly there was strong ambivalence here, 
and the attacks — which suggest narcoleptic stupors — which assailed 
him at the time of his mother’s last illness seem consistent with the idea 
of a powerful love-hate relationship. His attitude to his mother country 
was, as I have related, very similar, and the fact that he was brought up in 
isolation from that country, and regarded as an oddity when he visited 
it, may have completed the parallel. 

His father seems to have been a broad-minded and cultured man; he 
wrote (probably at Louis Napoleon’s request) a novel, The Prisoner of 
Ham (1846), in which may be found ideas and principles which re- 
appear in the work of his son — such as faith in the power of truth, and 
dislike of those who proceed in everything merely from day to day, 
unable to conceive any grand idea or to create anything grand or useful, 
and convinced that poverty is unavoidable and evil necessary. 

Briffault was generally regarded as having Communist views, and this 
is no doubt why he was refused entry to the u.s. He was certainly 
extremely interested in ‘the Communist experiment’, and learned Rus- 



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sian in order to study it; but there is no evidence that he ever took part 
in any Communist activities. Asked by his daughter, about 1922-3, to 
what political party he belonged, he replied, ‘To none.’ He did not 
agree sufficiently with any. He felt strongly that social reform could 
not be achieved by reforming the individual, but only by reforming the 
system. His conception of history was materialist: he accepted the 
desire for economic gain as the mainspring of human action. 

It is not difficult to see how natural such attitudes were to one whose 
outlook had been conditioned by the experiences just described. I have 
observed elsewhere that, when a child has one parent who is easy-going 
and affectionate and another who is severe and apparently unloving, it 
identifies itself with the former and is preoccupied throughout life with 
its relationship with the latter. When it is the father who is severe, this 
seems to lead, in the case of a male child, to a homosexual tendency ; 
when it is the mother who is unloving, this leads the male child to a 
preoccupation with women and with incest. This was certainly the case 
in Briffault’s great contemporary, Havelock Ellis, for instance. It seems 
to have been equally true of Briffault. 


Richmond , 1958 


GORDON RATTRAY TAYLOR 



CHAPTER 1 


The Origins of Human Society 


Our object in this book will be to trace the origin of human society. 
What was the character of the first social groupings which arose as 
humanity evolved from the level of the animal ? To ask this question 
raises the problem of what was the original nature of the family and of 
marriage. 

Many writers have assumed that the family as we know it — the 
patriarchal family — was the first form of human grouping; that societies 
were created by the coming together of such families. Professor Maine, 
nearly a century ago, put this view forward, and early in the present 
century Professor Westermarck restated the idea with a much broader 
apparatus of anthropological information. Westermarck went further 
and claimed that the family had always been monogamous, polygamy 
being a late and decadent manifestation. 

But this is by no means the only view of the origin of society which has 
been taken. In the year that Maine produced his Primitive Law , the 
Swiss jurist Dr Bachofen was writing his Das Mutterrecht , in which he 
maintained that the primitive state of man was one of sexual promiscuity 
and that the first social groups consisted simply of mothers and their 
children without the presence of any father. This view was further 
developed by others, notably McLennan, who introduced a novel con- 
ception when he claimed that the earliest human groups consisted of 
groups of kinsmen having an animal or plant for their badge, a state of 
affairs which he called totemism. 

Founders of modern social anthropology — notably Morgan, Tylor and 
Robertson-Smith — also established the fact that in primitive society the 
role of women and their influence was much greater than has been the 
case during historical times in civilized societies. This conclusion is 
generally called ‘The Theory of Matriarchy’ — a name given to it by 
McLennan in opposition to the theory which traced social origins to a 
patriarchal age such as is presented in the Bible. The term has been 
loosely employed to denote a status of women ranging within wide 
limits, from the mere reckoning of descent in the female line instead of 
in the male line, to the exercise of supreme authority by women, or 
gynaecocracy. It may, I think, be used legitimately in a relative sense, 



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in opposition to the term ‘patriarchal’, when referring to a society in 
which the interests and sentiments connected with women play a more 
important part than is the rule in the civilized societies with which we 
are most familiar. 

Professor Westermarck’s long series of books appeared after those of 
McLennan, and at the time of writing the view that society was primi- 
tively patriarchal is still widely accepted. In this work we shall attempt 
to re-examine the evidence, making use of anthropological material not 
available to McLennan. 

In our inquiry we shall start from the fact that primitive societies 
approximate more closely to animal groups in structure than advanced 
ones, and their character is a consequence of this. In animals there is 
nothing corresponding to a patriarchal social group — the male has little 
or no share in the formation or maintenance of the animal family, and 
is often entirely absent from it. If human society developed out of such 
groups, it must have had its origin in an association which represented 
female instincts only, and human culture must have been moulded in the 
first instance not by the fierce passions of hunters battling for food and 
women but by the instincts of the mother. 

The difficulties of such an inquiry are formidable. The remnants of 
uncivilized races at present existing are not truly primitive, inasmuch as 
they have survived the tribulations of hundreds of thousands of years. 
Even in conditions of isolation and stagnation, time must have deposited 
a detritus of culture. Fortunately culture — and I use the term in the 
contemporary sense of the inheritance of institutions and patterns of 
behaviour, of ideas and beliefs — has its own rules . 1 

Firstly, no human sentiment, no idea, no institution, has ever appeared 
completely de novo. Secondly, no phase of human ideas, sentiments or 
institutions ever fails to leave its imprint upon subsequent phases. 
However grotesque some institution, custom or idea, found in some 
uncultured tribe, may appear to us, nevertheless its equivalent is 
invariably to be found in our own customs, institutions and ideas. The 
quaintest cultural peculiarity from the Cannibal Islands or Central 
Africa can be matched in modem London. 

But despite this undying persistence of primitive forms, it is a strange 
fact that primitive behaviour appears to us a fantastic and incoherent 

1 Briffault, in fact, does not use the word ‘culture’, which has been popularized 
since he wrote, but speaks of ‘traditional heredity’. As the concept of culture is 
now much more widely understood, I have substituted the modem term, and 
have abbreviated his remarks on it very considerably, but it is only right to 
restore the balance a little by stressing that he was one of the very first to 
perceive the importance of cultural forces in moulding both behaviour and 
personality, and much of what he had to say was, at the time when he wrote it, 
of great interest and novelty. — G. R. T. 



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product of a mentality utterly different from our own. And despite our 
belief that human nature never changes or that it is the same the world 
over, many beliefs and customs and institutions which are found to be 
common to primitive humanity from the Poles to the Equator, from 
Polynesia to the American prairies, nevertheless appear to European 
man to be uncouth and strange. To interpret their significance and 
origin has been the standing puzzle of anthropology. Many interpreta- 
tions have been put forward, but it must be confessed that these ideas 
and sentiments still remain to a large extent a riddle. 

In attacking this problem, we depend upon two sets of facts. In the 
first place man displays a number of instincts which he appears to 
inherit and which must represent the result of evolution from animal 
instincts. At the same time, he learns from his society much which soon 
becomes ‘second nature’; it is clearly important for our purpose to 
distinguish very carefully between what is inherited and therefore un- 
modifiable, and what is acquired from the culture and thus is peculiar 
to a given society. In point of fact, many attributes which are widely 
believed even today to be entirely inherited turn out upon examination 
to be largely or wholly cultural. In general, the instincts of man appear 
to be much less determinate in character than those of animals. With few 
exceptions, such as the infant’s instinct to suck, they are quite general in 
nature, and their form of expression is largely determined by the 
culture . 1 

It is often thought that civilized man inherits a higher intellectual 
development than the savage, and a greater aptitude for education, 
which enables him to acquire more easily than backward races the 
cultural inheritance of his society. The facts are, however, that the 
children of savage peoples learn just as rapidly as those of Europeans, 
or even more so. Thus of the negro children of the coast of Guinea 
Captain Binger says: ‘They have an extraordinary memory and capacity 
to learn anything that one may teach them. They are quite as highly 
gifted as our European children of the same age.’ And a missionary in 
East Central Africa writes : ‘It has been the general experience in other 
parts of Africa that negro children have no greater difficulty in learning 
to read and write than European children, but quite the reverse; and 
that experience is confirmed in our own schools.’ When schools were 
first established in Hawaii, teachers were often embarrassed by being 
unable to keep up with their pupils; while in Samoa the natives deve- 
loped such a craze for arithmetical calculation that the Hon. Frederick 
Walpole declared that his visit to that island was positively embittered 

1 For instance, a tailor bird can only make a particular type of nest. If man 
has an instinct to house himself, it is certainly not an instinct to make only one 
particular kind of house. — G. R. T. 



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by ceaseless multiplication and division. Scientific tests have shown on 
a number of occasions that although individuals differ there is no 
appreciable difference in the natural mental capacity between savage 
races and modern Europeans. It seems, however, to be true that this 
aptitude reaches an early ceiling, whereas the European out-distances 
the savage in the long run. 

It is often supposed that artistic talents are inherited, and attempts have 
been made to demonstrate a specific aptitude for music. In particular, 
it has been thought that the ability to recognise the pitch of a musical 
note when sounded is a rare inborn capacity. However, it has been 
shown that almost every child is capable of acquiring it quite easily; it 
is only that the majority of children lose their natural musical ability 
through lack of training during the most susceptible period. 

To many it seems evident that the progress of the human race is 
correlated with the development of moral qualities. But Professor Boas 
says: ‘As the civilization is higher we assume that the aptitude for 
civilization is also higher; and as the aptitude for civilization presumably 
depends upon the perfection of the mechanism of body and mind, the 
inference is drawn that the white race represents the highest type of 
perfection. . . . There is no satisfactory evidence that the effects of 
civilization are inherited. , And as Mr Burt says: ‘In inborn mental 
constitution the civilized inhabitant of Paris or London today is, if any- 
thing, inferior rather than superior to the Athenian at the time of 
Pericles or the Englishman at the time of Shakespeare; and indeed, if 
anything, inferior rather than superior to his prehistoric ancestors. . . . 
The superiority of the modern, civilized man is due, not to the heredi- 
tary powers and capacities but to mental contents and achievements 
accumulated not by inheritance but by tradition . 5 

Social co-operation and other moral factors are often thought to be 
inborn, yet many observers have noted how well-conducted young men 
can become lazy, disrespectful and dishonest as a result of mental 
injuries or even exposure to a different social environment. What are 
supposed to be racial characteristics also seem to be derived from 
culture rather than inheritance. As Professor Boas says: ‘Much has been 
said of the hereditary characters of the Jews, or the Gypsies, or the French 
and Irish, but I do not see that the social causes which have moulded the 
character of members of these peoples have ever been eliminated satis- 
factorily . 5 The French feeling for ‘logic 5 and the English tendency to 
blunder through by ‘horse-sense 5 can be deduced from their respective 
social histories. The French language itself developed its lucidity and 
logical qualities in the French salons and had previously been as un- 
couth as English. It is a current view that the acquirements or contents 
of the mind are of secondary importance to ‘good stock 5 , and if a Briton 



THE ORIGINS OF HUMAN SOCIETY 31 

behaves well in difficult circumstances it is often attributed to his 
hereditary background or breeding. In much the same way the Gothic 
barbarians despised the culture of ancient Europe and refused to have 
their children educated because they said ‘education enfeebles the 
mind ’. 1 

Sir Thomas Browne affirmed the inborn character of all the virtues. 
‘Rejoice that thou wert born of honest parents, that honesty, modesty 
and veracity lay in the same egg and came into the world with thee/ 
Such beliefs die hard. The absolute validity of moral ideas is thought to 
demand that they should be rooted in the very structure of human 
nature. Even social institutions such as private property, monogamic 
marriage or male dominance tend to be viewed as embedded in human 
nature. Able writers have sought to show that regard for chastity and 
the sentiment of modesty are also implanted in the human mind. 

The transmission of culture takes place by words, and since animals 
have no language there can be no true equivalent of human society in 
the animal world. Without language it is impossible to form concepts or 
to think in any but the most primitive manner. Thought is but un- 
uttered speech ; the infant learns to think and to speak at the same time 
— it thinks aloud, and its thoughts take the form of a continuous babble. 
Though later the child learns ‘to hold its tongue’, the adult, when no 
one else is present, will often talk to himself. 

While some germ of thought no doubt exists in the higher animals, 
nevertheless, as Professor Lloyd Morgan says, animals are without the 
perception of relations; their memory is desultory and ‘the evidence 
now before us is not sufficient to justify the prophecies that any animals 
have reached that state of evolution in which they are even incipiently 
rational’. 

Man is man by virtue of language alone . 2 The point is so important 
that it is worth a little development. Thus we may draw attention to 
the fact that in Latin as in Greek, the same word meant both dumb and 
stupid, while our own word dumb derives from the German ‘dumm’ — 
stupid. The name of a thing has widely been regarded as intimately 
connected with its very nature. Plato’s famous doctrine that a word is 
not a mere label or representation but is the true reality, as an indepen- 

1 In many cases apparent racial differences are due to malnutrition or endemic 
disease. Where aristocratic classes arc of a finer physical and mental type than 
the common people, this is probably the result of their privileged position, not 
the cause of it. 

2 Controversy sometimes arises as to whether thought is possible without 
language. The answer is that language is but a particular system of symbolism 
and thought is possible by means of any other symbolic system. Mathematicians 
can think in terms of mathematical symbols, and the blind deaf-mute Laura 
Bridgman was observed to move her hands in sign-language when dreaming. 



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32 

dent existence, is merely a developed form of a theory found in many 
phases of primitive society. The Babylonians believed that the name was 
the essence of the person or thing to which it was attached and that that 
which had no name did not exist. The Egyptians also held that all things 
had their true name — the essence of their being. Thus it is that things can 
be created by uttering their names and that creators so create the world. 
‘There was a time’, states an ancient Egyptian papyrus, ‘when no one 
and nothing existed except the creator. A desire came over him to 
create the world, and he carried it into effect by making his mouth utter 
his own name as a word of power; and straightway the world and all 
therein came into being.’ That creative utterance was known to the early 
Sumerian priests as mummu, and in later Babylonian theology as the 
God Nebo, called by the Greeks Hermes, who had been identified with 
the word as far back as the sixth century. Among the Persians and in the 
Vedanta the same conception is found. ‘The world’, says a Vedic 
hymn, ‘originates from the word.’ We find the same ideas among rudest 
humanity. For example, among the wild tribes of Brazil every creative 
thing has as they say ‘its mother’, every lake, every stream, every species 
of animal, vegetable has its determinal paradigm or ‘mother’. Father 
D ’Acosta, writing of the Caribbean natives, remarks ‘that they approach 
somewhat near the proposition of Platoes Idees’. The same comment 
was suggested to Father Lafitau when he saw the American Indians. 

The person’s name is therefore regarded as his spirit or soul — the 
very word soul is from a root denoting wind, and the Greek is 

derived from the word Wvxco — I blow. 

In many languages the word for breath and spirit are identical. 
Hence if one utters one’s own name one is liable to lose one’s soul, 
and names are commonly kept secret so that magic cannot be worked 
with them. Sneezing, which is an expiration of the breath, is also liable 
to cause the soul to depart, and the Malays when they sneeze call back 
their soul in a loud voice. 

It is by the same conception of the importance of the word that 
spells, curses and blessings and incantations operate. The Bechuana, 
when they go to war, have a priesdy personage who marches with the 
troops and continually calls out ‘the army is not seen’, which effectually 
conceals the troops from the enemy. No sorcerer can harm a person if 
he is ignorant of his name, and an Irish poet quite failed to curse a 
certain King of Ulster whose name would not scan in any known metre. 
Accordingly, to work magic it is necessary to know the correct words 
and in Persia the magic art was called ‘The science of names*. All that 
Eskimo require to command the spirits is a knowledge of their 
names. The power which such knowledge bestows is illimitable. 
Australian medicine-men can stop the sun, cause thunder, raise moun- 



THE ORIGINS OF HUMAN SOCIETY 33 

tains, create lakes and rivers; in Brazil they can control the course of 
nature and human life. 

By the same argument, poets are creators and even sorcerers. ‘None 
merits the name of creator save God only and the poet’, said Tasso. 
The word magic is derived from the word for ‘making* and vates 
means both prophet and poet. The word runa meant first of all the poet’s 
magic word and then poetry in general. The classical invocation ‘Sing, 
heavenly muse!* was originally the formula by which the poet invoked 
the god who possessed him. The Hindus and Arabs have a simple 
means of depriving a sorceress of the power to do harm : they extract her 
front teeth, so that she is unable to sing or articulate distinctly; and it 
was for analogous reasons that Odysseus had the power to tame animals, 
heal sickness and compel the affection of women. Vergil assures us that 
poetry can draw down the moon from heaven; while the ancient Irish 
were convinced that a satire inevitably caused blisters to appear on the 
face of the victim. 

It follows that to doubt that language is innate in every human being 
when born is tantamount to denying the existence of the soul. Eunomius 
charged St Basil with atheism for maintaining that babies learn to talk. 
Many rulers have sought to put the matter to the test: James IV of 
Scotland put two bairns in charge of a dumb woman on the Island of 
Inchkeith and we are assured that when they came to the age of speech 
‘they spak guid Hebrew* — for Hebrew was, of course, the primitive 
language of the world. The view that language was given to man and 
not invented by him was maintained even as late as the nineteenth 
century by the famous Catholic philosopher Vicomte de Bonald. 

But in fact the numerous discoveries of children who have been 
brought up wild by animals shows that in no case could they speak, 
nor could they even think. Madamoiselle Leblanc, the wild girl found 
near Chalons in 1731, said that in her pre-linguistic days she had no 
thought at all and had now only very dim memories of the period. 
Kaspar Hauser, the youth found in 1828 near Nuremberg, had the 
mind of a child and mistook inanimate objects for living things. It 
would appear that the same is true even of animals — a cow which is 
born deaf will not low, and sparrows brought up with canaries have 
acquired the trills and call-notes of the latter. The paradox is that 
human culture must be acquired in order to be inherited — a paradox 
which Goethe expressed by saying, ‘That which from thy fathers hast 
inherited, acquire it! — that it may be thine.* Nevertheless, the belief 
in inborn character dies hard. 

We may see in the most ordinary child evidence of the primitive 
character of the human animal before it has become influenced by 
culture. The child is amoral ; it is callous, if not cruel ; it is attracted by 

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34 

dirt and those things which we regard as obscene; it is selfish, passion- 
ate, gives way to anger and resents deprivation bitterly. In an adult 
such behaviour would be regarded as insane, and it is hardly too much 
to say that we derive our sanity from the culture. It is this socially and 
traditionally acquired mind which thrusts our physiologically inherited 
attributes into the obscurity of unconsciousness, and which may be 
equated with Freud’s super ego and id. 

In short, all those mental characters which are specifically human 
are derived from the culture. They include not only the conceptual 
forms of consciousness — thought and ideation, but also those feelings, 
sentiments and effective values by which the behaviour of the social 
individual is for the most part determined. The human mind, in all 
that distinguishes it from the mind of animals, is thus a social product, 
and it is for this reason that I have already said that there is nothing 
properly corresponding to a human society in the animal world. Thus 
it is in the social history of the human race itself that the origin and 
development of the human mind — in so far as it is human at all — are 
to be sought. The true field of investigation into the psychology of 
mind is that of social anthropology and social history. 



CHAPTER 2 


Motherhood 


The nearest thing to an emotional relationship among animals, and 
the presumable point of origin of all social relationships and structures, 
is that which subsists between some primate animals — mother animals 
and their offspring. If, as I hope to show, it is from this germ that 
human society sprang, we must start by asking how the maternal 
instinct originated. 

As we ascend the evolutionary scale, the role of mother becomes 
increasingly important, but let us take the argument back a stage 
further and ask how it is that mothers come to exist at all. In the simplest 
forms of life reproduction can take place asexually. In many higher 
forms reproduction is effected by the female alone parthenogenetically. 1 

Sexual differentiation is not rooted in the constitution of life, but is 
a biological accident, a special device designed to meet certain condi- 
tions. This differentiation becomes marked in the higher organisms. 
Whether males or females are produced of such unions depends 
essentially upon nutrition — good food giving rise to an excess of females. 

While the function of the primitive female is fulfilled when she has 
produced an ovum, as we advance up the evolutionary scale another 
duty becomes thrust upon her — that of care for the offspring. In the 
simplest stages this care is perhaps involuntary. The young of some 
animals attach themselves parasitically to their mother and suck the 
fluids of her body. In the case of some gall-flies the young actually eat 
their mother, and creep out of her empty skin only after the matricidal 
feast is over. 

As we ascend the evolutionary scale we find that the period allowed 

1 This is the ordinary mode of reproduction among wheel-animalcules and is 
common among many species of crustaceans. It has been observed among thrips 
and nematode worms, and is the rule among saw-flies and caddis-flies. ‘Among 
gall-flies the male is useless; the continuation of the species being effected by 
virgin females, although males exist.’ It commonly takes place among several 
species of moths and butterflies. Reproduction of males without the female is, 
however, unheard of. In some species which habitually reproduce partheno- 
genetically males may be entirely absent, as for example in Cypris ovum and 
other ostracod crustaceans and in fresh-water rotifers. In the Solenobia butterfly, 
males appear only occasionally, sometimes at intervals of years. In some species 
of rotifers the males are not sexually functional. 



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36 

for gestation steadily increases in length. It is true that an elephant 
carries its young for two years but, proportionately to weight, human 
beings carry their young longer than any other animal. This increased 
period of gestation allows for an increasingly complex development in 
the organism, and is generally associated with the reduction in the 
number of young produced. Furthermore, the young require increas- 
ing amount of care after birth in the highest stages of development. 
Rats, for instance, shift for themselves when thirty-nine days old and 
reach maturity in six months; a hartebeeste antelope, one week old, 
can outrun the fastest man. A young elephant is capable of following 
its mother when two days old. Carnivorous animals, on the other hand, 
are bom helpless; they are unable to stand for several days, and are 
entirely dependent upon their mother for many months. Young lions 
are unable to stalk for themselves until they are about a year and a half 
old. In the case of monkeys the period of care is even longer; a baby 
gibbon remains clinging to the body of its mother for seven months; 
the orang-outang at the end of one month is as advanced as the human 
baby when a year old; a lamb a day old has proceeded farther in its 
development than either. This period of immaturity is not required 
for bodily growth but for completion of the brain and neural system. 

Similar (differences in rapidity of growth and maturation can be seen 
between the lower and more civilized races of men; savage children 
develop more quickly than Europeans but, their development being 
completed earlier, are less capable of further progress. For example, 
children among the Baholoholo of the Congo know how to paddle a 
canoe and catch a fox at an age when civilized children are still in the 
arms of their nurses. Among the Kirghis a child of three can already 
ride a horse and at six takes charge of a herd of camels. Among the 
Habbe of Nigeria children of six or eight leave their home, build a hut 
and provide for themselves. Among the Aleuts, children of ten have 
already become hunters and not infrequently keep a wife. Chiriguano 
children of seven or ten go on war and hunting expeditions with their 
fathers. Unfortunately mental development ceases about the time that 
sexual maturity is reached. Captain Binger remarks: ‘Not only does the 
intellect of the child cease to develop, but it might be said that it 
retrogresses; the memory becomes impaired. He becomes stupid, mis- 
trustful, vain and deceitful as he was formerly intelligent.’ 

Thus it would appear that the congenital superiority of what are 
regarded as the higher races of man consists essentially in a slower rate 
of development, and this slower development is rendered possible, and 
perhaps caused, by the prolonged relief from the necessity of providing 
for subsistence and protection — in a word, by mother-care. 

But the mother animal’s instinct to look after her children is, in ani- 



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37 

mals, of a purely physiological kind. It is not something which is always 
with her, but comes into being only at the time of pregnancy or just 
before birth. Unimpregnated female mice take no notice whatever of 
young mice, and it is not until the later phases of pregnancy that they 
will lick them and endeavour to carry them away. Manifestations of this 
instinct cease about six weeks after birth ; moreover, it is often satisfied 
by substitutes — a pregnant bitch, noted Loisel, searched restlessly until 
she was presented with a litter of young rabbits, when she was entirely 
satisfied and licked and fondled them. A female crab bristles with 
anger if the maturing larvae on its appendages are touched — behaviour 
which would provide a text for maternal devotion — but the crab be- 
haves in just the same manner when the brood-stalks have been appro- 
priated by noxious parasites. 

Maternal reactions generally take place in response to gross physical 
stimuli. Suckling is sought by the female to relieve the tension in the 
mammary glands, and brooding in birds is caused by exhaustion and 
irritative congestion of the abdominal wall. In birds that are not good 
sitters, the defect may be remedied by rubbing their abdominal skin 
with nettles. Consequently when we speak of maternal 'care’ and 
‘devotion’ in the lower animals, we are really projecting human senti- 
ments into behaviour which is in fact purely physiological. 

That the maternal instinct is a product of evolution and not of 
primary impulse is indicated by the fact that it requires an appreciable 
time to develop fully. The same females that will offer their life for their 
young will commonly eat them when they are new-born. Carnivores 
are prone to eat their young whenever they are frightened, as are sows, 
and even dogs and cats, while the reindeer is said invariably to kill its 
second fawn. Even in humans mothers not uncommonly take a day or 
two until they become attached to their children, and at the moment 
immediately following birth infanticide is common among both savage 
and civilized mothers, whereas a little later it would be difficult or im- 
possible. 

Maternal instinct is also frequently limited in duration. Few animals 
pay regard to earlier offspring after the birth of fresh young ones, and 
many animals throw out the young after lactation has finished. Birds, 
for instance, change from ‘unceasing solicitude to open hostility’ and 
drive forth their young from the neighbourhood. Swallows and house- 
martins when migrating frequently abandon their nestlings. While 
carnivores frequently defend their brood, the practice varies — for 
example, the offspring of a seal can be killed before its mother’s eyes 
without causing her the slightest concern, whereas the walrus mother 
will fight to the death in defence of her young. Nevertheless, on maturity 
the maternal instinct ceases. 



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38 

Among monkeys and apes, however, the maternal instinct is so intense 
and uniform as to contrast with all other mammals. The tense and watch- 
ful anxiety of the monkey mother has often been noted. Baboons will 
wash their young in a stream, and the Cebus has been seen to drive 
away the flies which plagued its infant. Some monkey mothers will die 
from grief when deprived of their young, and there are several cases 
on record of a monkey placing its body between its child and the 
hunters’ gun and so sacrificing its life for its offspring. In contrast, 
carnivores, although they may fiercely defend their young, will occasion- 
ally abandon them. Starving tigresses have been known to kill and eat 
their young — behaviour which has never been reported of monkeys. 

The new relations which are established by protracted mother-care 
transform the very springs of action and behaviour, for they cause the 
individual mind to be linked up with others to form a new organism — 
the group bound by social ties. Let us consider next what we can infer 
from animal societies about the origins of social feeling and gregarious- 
ness and the character of the primordial family. 



CHAPTER 3 


The Origin of Social Feeling 


I t has been generally assumed that feelings of tenderness and affection 
are part and parcel of the attraction between the sexes, an attraction 
commonly spoken of as love. Love is generally identified with the 
sexual impulse, and is assumed to be one of the mainsprings of the 
universe. Life, says Schiller, is ruled by Hunger and Love. 

But love, far from being a basic force in the universe, has arisen late 
in human evolution. Primitively, sexual feelings are associated not with 
tenderness but with delight in the infliction of pain. Animals are preying 
beings and the sight of a mangled or a weak and helpless creature 
means to them food. All carnivores are cannibalistic; lions frequently 
eat their mates or their cubs. A jaguar in the New York Zoo showed 
every sign of fondness for a female kept in an adjacent cage. He purred, 
licked the female’s paws, and behaved like the most love-sick admirer, 
but when the partition between them was removed, his first act was to 
kill her. Sexual hunger, as it is aptly called, is a form of voracity. The 
object of the male cell in seeking conjunction with the female cell is 
primarily to improve its own nutrition. The female requires the male 
also to assure her nutrition, and in some forms of life the female devours 
and assimilates the male. 

With both sexes, sexual attraction is pre-eminently sadistic, and is 
gratified by pain. Rutting animals maul each other, and emerge from 
the sexual combat bleeding and mangled. Crustaceans usually lose a 
limb or two in the encounter. All mammals, without exception, use 
their teeth on these occasions. So fundamental is the association between 
sex and cruelty that it is probably never wholly absent even in human- 
ity. According to M. d’Enjoy, the kiss has developed out of the love- 
bite. Among the ancient Egyptians the word translated by ‘to kiss’ 
meant ‘to eat’. 

Sentiments of tenderness between the sexes are originally connected 
not with the sexual impulse but with the mating instinct — something 
very different. Mating, meaning association between the sexes, is an 
adaptation to the reproductive functions of the female. With the exten- 
sion of maternal care, the female needs protection and help in procuring 
food, and so requires the co-operation of the male. For birds, where the 



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40 

female sits on eggs, such help is almost indispensable ; hence it is among 
nidicolous birds that the mating instinct has achieved its most striking 
development, but even here it is confined to those species which hatch 
their eggs by prolonged brooding. 

Many mammals, far from associating after the sexual act, appear to 
be actually repelled from one another. In general, mammals do not 
mate, but the sexes roam in separate herds. This is true of all herbivores. 
Elephant cows, after being impregnated, form bands, from which males 
are driven off, as do seals and walruses, bears and leopards. Among 
carnivores, the female generally conceals herself and her brood from 
the male lest he eat the cubs. Even where an association exists between 
the parents, it is the female which attends to the feeding of the young. 
The male lion is frequently represented as bringing his kill to the female 
while she remains with her cubs, but in fact he drags his kill to his lair, 
whether there are cubs or not. Not only is it the female alone who pro- 
tects the offspring, but in some cases she protects the male also, as 
among deer and antelope, and also elephants. 

Among primitive human races the mating instinct is almost equally 
unimportant. As will later be shown, cohabitation is very transient in 
the lower phases of human culture. Conjugal affection is almost un- 
known. ‘If you wish to excite laughter,’ says Father Petitot, ‘speak to 
the Dene of conjugal affection.’ Similar reports come from many parts 
of the world — from Africa, New Zealand, Papua and elsewhere. The 
point has been the subject of controversy, but the data which will be 
brought forward later in this book will show that in primitive peoples, 
sexual love, as we conceive it, is at best rudimentary. 

On the other hand, there is no doubt that among savages the love 
of mothers for their offspring is unambiguous. In the very peoples who 
are described as being devoid of love between man and woman, the 
strength of maternal affection is constantly noted. For example, among 
the Eskimo the coldness of the sexual relation is conspicuous, but 
maternal love is said to be ‘lively and tender’, more so, as Father 
Petitot remarks, than among ourselves. Among the Dene ‘maternal love 
is developed to the point of obliterating every suggestion of prudence, 
and even every reasoned act of intelligence.’ The Patagonians display 
a love for their children ‘which is quite extravagant; they show such 
extreme compliance with regard to them that whole tribes have been 
known to leave a district or to remain there longer than was advisable 
simply to gratify the whim of a child. Primitive women will court 
danger or pain for their children. During a tribal war in Samoa ‘a 
woman allowed herself to be hacked from head to foot, bending over 
her son to save his life’. Women will not eat until their children have 
been satisfied; they offer themselves to redeem children who have been 



THE ORIGIN OF SOCIAL FEELING 41 

taken as slaves. This intensity of maternal affection is equally noted 
in the lowest races, such as the Fuegians, the Seri Indians, the 
Veddahs, the Ainu and others. 

It might seem that the widespread practice of infanticide was irre- 
concilable with the existence of maternal love, but it must be recalled 
that in primitive society murder is often not a crime, and it is believed 
that the dead are still with us. Thus in the Cameroons, during the 
German invasion, the natives, who are devoted parents, killed most of 
the new-born, ‘in pity for their sufferings and in the firm belief that 
their spirits would return to earth as soon as all was peaceful once more’. 
In primitive society corporal punishment of children is unheard of. 
Father Le Jeune complained that ‘all the savage tribes of these parts, and 
those of Brazil, as we are assured, cannot chastise a child or bear to see 
one chastised. What trouble this will cause us in carrying out our inten- 
tion of instructing their young!’ In fact, many missionaries have stirred 
up trouble by their chastisements. 

In other respects, the primitive mother is far from gentle. Her feeling 
for her mate is primarily that of loyalty. She is content to leave the choice 
of mate to her parents, and her estimate of the husband’s value is a 
hundred per cent utilitarian. His appeal therefore grows with the close- 
ness and stability of his relationship with her. Among the lower races, 
where sexual selection exists, it is predominantly exercised by the 
women, as we shall see in detail later. In those races where the men are 
indifferent or brutal to the women, strong and genuine attachment to 
them is nevertheless displayed, and their widows are inconsolable 
when their brutal husbands die. Fijian women, who are among the 
most brutally treated, insist upon being killed on the graves of their 
husbands. It is probable that the custom of ‘suttee’ was originally 
voluntary. The numerous wives of an African chief, whom he uses as 
pillows and footstools, vie for the honour of being so employed. 

The female’s affection provides a powerful inducement for the male 
to modify his sexual instincts to suit her mating needs, for her affection 
is the equivalent of the maternal tenderness which he knew in infancy. 
Biologically, however, his sole function is the impregnation of the ova, 
and his instincts are limited to that. These instincts are indeed in 
antagonism with the mating instincts. The sadistic hunger of the mascu- 
line impulse can never become entirely blended with mating attraction. 
T1 n’y a rien de si loin de la volupte que rattendrissement,’ observes 
Lamartine. Indeed, the two forms of sexual attraction are essentially 
incompatible. Love — tender feeling — is a common cause of ‘psychical 
impotence’. The two instincts, sexual and the mating, may exist in the 
male quite independently, and this, as we shall see, is common in 
primitive humanity. The sexual impulse may have no trace of affection, 

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THE MOTHERS 


42 

while genuine attachment may be unattended by sexual jealousy. 
Throughout primitive societies the distinction between the two func- 
tions is much more consciously recognized than in our own, where 
sentiments and institutions have tended to obliterate the distinction. 

The moral qualities, such as courage and character, which are supreme 
in the woman’s sexual choice have no place in the man’s in so far that 
the choice is purely sexual; he discriminates chiefly with regard to sexual 
values; that is, the physical qualities of youth and beauty, which are 
ultimately expressions of the suitability of the female for rearing the best 
offspring. Hence the feminine taunt that a man may be attracted by a 
woman whom he neither esteems nor respects. 

Since the female instinct is more directly founded on biological 
need, and is developmentally older than the male, it tends to retain its 
primitive character, even in advanced stages of culture. This is why it 
is less subject to cultural transformations in women than in men. Even 
a cursory study shows what a wide range of fashions in love have existed, 
and it has frequently been remarked that romantic love is profoundly 
influenced by literature and traditions, and that no one would be sub- 
ject to it in the same form had he never read a novel nor seen a play. 

Yet people constantly treat animal and primitive sex impulses as 
identical with the love of cultured humanity. Sexual love is spoken of 
as if it were a simple basic emotion or impulse, when it is really the most 
complex of sentiments. It is compounded of self-esteem — ‘amor a 
nullo amato amar perdona’, of aesthetic elements — few men would be 
attracted by a woman who was a habitual frump or slut — and, by 
participation in common tastes, mostly imaginary. As Spencer says, 
love ‘fuses into one immense aggregate most of the elementary excitations 
of which we are capable’. 

Just as the transferred affection of the female for the male is a deriva- 
tive of maternal love, so all feelings of a tender, altruistic character are 
extensions and transformations of the maternal instinct. Altruism is 
almost unknown in animals, and is in contrast to basic biological de- 
mands. These sentiments, being of female origin, develop more strongly 
in the female. The sympathetic, protective, affectionate attitude, trans- 
ferred by the female from the offspring to its father, is gradually ex- 
tended towards all males, towards females who are not possible rivals, 
towards animals and all living things, and even towards plants, flowers 
and inanimate objects. These are handled tenderly, whereas the male is 
disposed to be rough and to destroy. For the male the extension of 
sentiments in this way is much more difficult, more unnatural. The 
male child is born cruel. It is his natural propensity to inflict suffering 
and to destroy. Only social education can develop a tender disposition 
in him to any degree. 



THE ORIGIN OF SOCIAL FEELING 43 

Long before such a transformation occurs maternal instincts produce 
an even stronger bond of attachment in their direct object, the offspring. 
The strong feeling of the child for his mother, founded upon infantile 
experience, is highly developed in primitive societies, but is weakened 
in advanced societies where sentiments of manliness and independence 
are stressed . 1 Savages remain children. 

The primitive’s continued dependence upon the mother’s affection 
is a feature of primitive psychology. The Indians of California ‘scarcely 
acknowledge their father but they preserve a longer attachment for their 
mother who has brought them up with extreme tenderness’. Among the 
Iroquois ‘the crime which is regarded as most horrible and which is 
without example is that a son should be rebellious towards his mother’. 
In Melanesia, when engaging a boat’s crew, one comes upon men of 
forty who say that they must first obtain their mother’s consent. The 
Dayaks of northern Borneo are devoted to their mothers and honour 
them all their lives, but ‘their father they may like or they may not ; they 
recognize no duty towards him; but their mother is something holy to 
them, whatever she is like, and no one is ever allowed to breathe a word 
against her’. Similar examples are found in almost every part of the 
world. The strongest of all natural ties, says Wilson of the West African 
negroes, ‘are those between the mother and her children. Whatever 
other estimate we may form of the African, we may not doubt his love 
for his mother. Her name, whether dead or alive, is always on his lips 
and in his heart.’ 

Daughters, too, are more closely bound to their mother than to their 
husband. In Togoland, ‘the bond between mother and daughter is so 
strong that both remain bound to one another until one dies. Never can 
love towards the husband displace in the heart of a daughter the love 
towards her mother’. 

The attachment of the young towards the mother consists, not so 
much in the sentiment of tenderness, as in the sense of dependence and 
fear when protection is withdrawn. The child is therefore ready to 
accept a substitute protector. All young animals will attach themselves 
to the first creature, animal or human, that will look after them. Mr 
Selous mentions that, having shot a female rhinoceros which had just 
dropped a calf, the latter at once trotted behind its mother’s slayer, and 
quietly followed him to his camp. (Such instances show how animals 
were first domesticated.) The reliance upon the mother extends to all 
companions who are recognized as not being hostile or dangerous, and 
results in the general disposition to friendliness. 

Brothers and sisters are naturally the first substitutes adopted to 

1 In some tribes boys are taught to use violence towards their mothers in 
order that they should grow up manly. 



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44 

satisfy this desire for dependence and to appease the fear of solitude. 
Such feelings are even more prone to assume the character of affection 
when directed towards companions of the same age than when directed 
to the mother. An instinct of clannishness becomes a marked feature of 
such a group. 

It is often held that gregariousness is a fundamental instinct. In fact, 
it is evolved from family feeling. The majority of animals are not 
gregarious; in those that do form herds, the herds are constituted of 
family groups. Far from there being any natural tendency to congregate, 
most living organisms tend to disperse, for there are biological advantages 
in wandering to fresh fields and pastures new, and concentration tends 
to exhaust the food supply. Primitives, far from displaying signs of any 
general social instinct, exhibit profound distrust and hostility towards 
those who are not members of the group. ‘In primitive culture’, observes 
Dr Brinton, ‘there is a dual system of morals; the one of kindness, love, 
help and peace, applicable to the members of our own clan ... the other 
of robbery, hatred, enmity and murder, to be practised against all the 
rest of the world.’ It is for this reason that small groups are so unwilling 
to merge, and that tribes in the same territory are deeply suspicious, and 
their languages diverge so far that they cannot converse with one an- 
other. 

Wherever groups exist, it is as the result of specific needs and instincts, 
not the result of any generalized mutual attraction. In the higher forms 
of animal life the so-called social instinct is the direct outcome of the 
relation between mother and offspring, and of the reflection of maternal 
instincts between members of the same brood or brotherhood, as 
Darwin perceived. The material out of which all human society has been 
constructed is the bond of those sentiments. The origin of all social 
bonds, the only one which exists among the higher animals and in the 
most primitive human groups, is that created by mother-love. 



CHAPTER 4 


The Herd and the Family 
amongst Animals 


Let us now consider animal societies and herds. 

Supposed Animal Societies 

Every association of individuals in the animal kingdom is, without 
exception, a reproductive organization, even though such groups often 
serve other purposes, such as mutual protection or the securing of 
food. 1 True, in insect communities the correlation which takes place 
between the male and the female is elaborated so that a large number of 
differentiated individuals co-operate to achieve the reproductive end, 
but the principle is the same. Insects are, however, an offshoot from the 
main stem of evolution, and lie outside the direct line of human ancestry. 

Many visible assemblages of animals are not true associations. Fishes 
collect in shoals simply because they seek the most favourable conditions ; 
just as sea-birds congregate on rocks. Flocks formed for migration are of 
analogous origin, and revert to separate groupings as soon as the migra- 
tion is accomplished. The same is true of deer and antelope. Sometimes 
the presence of a large number of species, such as African reed-bucks, in 
one place, gives rise to the impression that they are gregarious. 

The association of lions in groups of as many as forty is, as Selous 
remarks, only of a very temporary nature. Hyenas, too, are solitary 
animals, even though they are often seen in packs, since they scent the 
blood of a dead animal from afar and collect for the feast. Wolf packs are 
the nearest approach to an organized association, but they are not per- 
manent associations, and the South American wolf never forms packs. 
The ‘pack law’ of the Indian wolf, so eloquently described by the author 
of The Jungle Book , exists only in imagination; it is scarcely ever known 

1 The tendency to interpret biological phenomena in terms of human tradi- 
tions and assumptions is illustrated by the conceptions put forward at different 
times about bees. The ancients regarded the egg-laying female as a patriarchal 
male, and called it ‘the king’. The hive was divided into patricians and plebians. 
When the true sexes of the insects became known, the female was called ‘the 
queen*, and the hive was regarded as a more democratic organization, and com- 
pared to an industrial community under the term, ‘hive of industry.* 



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46 

to gather in larger numbers than three. Another animal frequently 
spoken of as organized into communities is the beaver, and beaver 
colonies have been described as working under a leader. Actually 
beavers live in families and have no leader. The largest communities 
ever seen by Agassiz consisted of five families. Tt is evident’, he says, 
‘that beavers are not really gregarious in their habits, and that the dams 
and canals are the work of a comparatively small number of animals.’ 
A dam has been known to be constructed by a solitary beaver. Equally 
romantic descriptions have been given of the ‘societies’ of ‘prairie dogs’. 
According to Captain Marryat, their burrows are laid out in regular 
streets, forming prairie-dog cities. They are in the habit of paying 
afternoon calls on one another. It is scarcely necessary to say that this is 
pure fable. 

Polygamy and Monogamy amongst Animals 

Are any animals ‘monogamous’ ? Woods Hutchinson has made the 
extraordinary claim that among animals ‘monogamous marriage lasting 
for life’ has ‘become adopted by every dominant race on account of its 
resulting in the largest number of most efficient offspring’. Several 
writers have been anxious to discover such a relationship, and to suggest 
that ideas of sexual morality which developed at a late stage in human 
history have some sort of validity among the lower animals. The facts 
show, however, that whether such relations are polygamous or mono- 
gamous has no bearing on reproductivity. Actually the terms, ‘mono- 
gamy’ and ‘polygamy’, applied to animals, do not have the same mean- 
ing as when applied to human marriage, for they refer only to the 
associations which take place during one breeding season. The so- 
called ‘true marriage’ of birds merely means pairing during a single 
season. Thus the mallard, while essentially monogamous during the 
pairing period, as soon as the duties of incubation have begun, savagely 
pursues every other female that ventures in his neighbourhood. Simi- 
larly, the bull moose, which is spoken of as monogamous because it is 
rarely found with more than one cow at a time, does not remain with 
her for more than a week, and, since the rutting season lasts about two 
months, he mates with a considerable number. The same is probably 
true of the majority of animals which, though not forming polygamous 
herds, do not remain with the female after sexual union. The lion is no 
more monogamous than the domestic cat. Among mammals ‘a union in 
pairs lasting beyond one season’, say Brehm’s editors, ‘has been ob- 
served only in the case of the dwarf antelope . . .’, in which species 
pairing depends upon the circumstance that two young, a male and a 
female, are generally born together, and these subsequently pair, the 
species being perpetuated incestuously. 



THE HERD AND THE FAMILY AMONGST ANIMALS 47 

While monogamous associations are found among the lower mam- 
mals, such as the rodents, polygamy is universal amongst the highest 
mammals, the monkeys and the anthropoids. A report, often quoted, 
that some species of monkeys are monogamous seems wholly unsub- 
stantiated. Dr Westermarck quotes the assertion of Dr Hartmann that 
‘the gorilla is monogamous’ as a foundation for his theory of human 
marriage. It is quite incorrect. Gorillas live in groups polygamously, as 
numerous observers have reported. Hartmann bases his assertion on an 
article in a popular magazine, and this, when inspected, proves not in 
fact to make such a statement. 

Jealousy among Animals 

If the patriarchal group derives from animal society, we should expect 
animals to display sexual jealousy. Among carnivores, competition 
among males for the possession of females is much rarer than in the 
herbivores, and it is the latter which are equipped with weapons of 
sexual combat. Lions never fight; bats queue quietly for their turn, 
while other males pair with the female. Though deer fight, they do so 
only during rut, and this combativeness does not denote anything cor- 
responding to jealousy, which, as we use the term, implies the choice of 
a particular female, the appreciation of differences. The displays of male 
decoration serve to attract attention, as do call-notes, but not to influence 
individual choice. Some animals, such as salmon, fight in order to 
protect their eggs, as does the stickleback, whose combats are so furious 
that they have often been described in terms of human sentiments, but 
the stickleback is by no means monogamous, as was once believed, but 
endeavours to induce a number of females to deposit eggs in the nest he 
has built. 

The struggles of male animals are not for the possession of particular 
females, but for access to females in general, and commonly take place 
when no females are actually present. Male animals fight for the oppor- 
tunity of reproduction, as they fight for food. Brehm placed two pairs 
of bears, which appeared to be affectionate couples, in the same pit. 
The males immediately fought for the possession of both the females at 
the same time, and the winner immediately paired with the she-bear of 
the loser. The carnivora are jealous of all rivals, and imprisoned lions 
are even jealous of the keeper who approaches the cage. Stags often herd 
their does and force hinds to stay in the herd, but they have often been 
seen to leave the whole herd and take possession of a new one ; some- 
times to exchange herds. Often several stags keep possession of a herd 
together, and fights are by no means as frequent as some people believe. 
Though seals fight, the bull does not appear to know his own females 
individually. Once one has strayed outside his marked-out territory, he 



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48 

pays no further attention to her. ‘It is the cows and not the bulls’, says 
Major Hamilton, ‘which have the real control of the harem system.’ 
Some young bulls were even observed to mate with females under the 
eyes of the old bull without his paying any attention. The male becomes 
spent after a short period of rut and loses interest. 

The Female in the Animal Group 

Though it is the male which keeps the females in a polygamous herd 
together, his control is purely in sexual matters. An animal group is not 
usually led by a patriarch — an old male — but by a female, who guides it 
and keeps watch against possible dangers. Whereas stags will often walk 
blindly into danger, the females seem more alert; the same is true of 
buffaloes, of African antelopes, of gazelles, chamois, zebras and so on. 
‘Sometimes’, says Dr Hornaday, ‘a herd of elk is completely tyrannized 
by an old doe, who makes the young bucks fly from her in terror, when 
one prod of their sharp antlers would quickly send her to the rear.’ 
When a male and female tiger are found in company ‘the tigress is 
generally in advance of the male’; and the same is true of the lioness. 

The migrations of mammals are led by the females, and appear to be 
determined mainly by the females’ search for favourable grounds to 
bring up their offspring. In short, even in the typically polygamous herd, 
the dominance of the male is qualified, and the protective social functions 
are discharged chiefly by the female. It is in the field of sexual relations, 
in the narrowest sense, that the herd is dominated by the male, and then 
only during the period of rut. Thus, the real animal group depends on 
the bond between mother and offspring, and not upon the association 
between the sexes. Indeed, the male sexual instincts tend to break up 
the herd. In the typical herbivorous species — for instance, the red deer 
— the female withdraws from the herd after impregnation, and leads a 
solitary life with her calf until the autumn. If the hind then joins a herd, 
her male offspring is driven off by the stag, and is thus weaned, although 
a female calf is allowed to remain. 

In short, there is opposition between the maternal and the sexual 
instinct. The tendency of the female is to segregate herself with her 
offspring, and the more prolonged the maturity of the offspring the 
more complete will that segregation be. Since the herbivorous mother 
neither feeds nor trains her young, maternal instincts must be regarded 
as more highly developed in the carnivores than in the herbivores. Thus 
we have the paradox, as it seems to us, that those animals termed 
gregarious are devoid of any binding social sentiment, and it is among 
the supposedly non-gregarious creatures that the germs of the social 
instinct have developed. It is in the maternal not the sexual association 
that the growth of the so-called ‘social instinct’ takes place. 



THE HERD AND THE FAMILY AMONGST ANIMALS 49 

The mother is the centre and bond of the animal family. When the 
male attaches himself to it, his association with it is loose and precarious, 
and in no animal species docs it appear to survive the exercise of the 
sexual function. Nor is any tendency towards a closer association of the 
male with the family discernible as we ascend the scale of evolution. 

It is usual to apply the term ‘family’ to animal groups, but there is, in 
fact, no analogy between the animal family and the patriarchal human 
family. The former is entirely the product of the female’s instincts, and 
she, not the male, is the head. The male may be more powerful, though 
this is not invariably so. But, in any case, this has nothing to do with 
his relation to the female. Nowhere do we know of the male using com- 
pulsion towards the female. Nor is the position of the male in the animal 
group affected by mental superiority, for in animals, whatever may be 
the case with humans, it is clear that the female is superior. Masculine 
intellectual superiority, if we assume it, is the product of advanced 
social evolution, and has no application in primitive conditions. The 
female animal is the more cautious, ingenious and sagacious, the male 
is reckless and often stupid. With most animals males are much more 
often caught or shot than females. It has been said that monkeys, how- 
ever, are led by old males. If this is true, it may be due to the females 
being burdened with their young, which they carry in their arms. In a 
troop of chimpanzees observed in a reserve in Teneriffe the group was 
led by a male, but the rearguard was brought up by an old female, to 
whom the group ran in time of danger, and who seemed to carry the 
group with her when she changed her place. 

The female, not the male, determines the condition of the animal 
family, and when she can derive no benefit from association with the 
male, no association takes place. It is the female which does the house- 
hunting; which, in the case of beavers, builds the dams or makes the 
burrows. It is the female bird which builds the nest. 

While the female instinct produces the family, the masculine in- 
stinct produces the herd, for the masculine instinct compels the male 
to impregnate as many females as possible. The stability of the herd is, 
therefore, limited by the operation of the sexual instinct. It is not an 
assemblage differing merely in size from the family, but is opposite in 
kind, and, when true herd association takes place, means the dissolution 
of the maternal group or family. Thus the herd results from atrophy of 
the maternal instinct. As Mr Pycraft observes of animals, this ‘poly- 
gamy* arises not because the males capture the females but because the 
females seek the males in their desire to satisfy their natural craving. 
This extinguishes any feelings of jealousy. 

From these facts, it can be understood that the masculine herd is 
patrilocal; that is, the female follows the male’s place of residence. 



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whereas the animal family is matrilocal; that is, the males goes to the 
female’s lair. Wherever circumstances bring together a large number of 
animals, there is a tendency for the family to lapse into the herd. 
Rodents, such as rats or rabbits, which gather in large numbers, 
become promiscuous. It is, on the other hand, well-nigh impossible 
for the herd to become transformed into a group of families except by 
breaking up completely. 



CHAPTER 5 


The Primitive Human Group 


What was the form of the most primitive human groups? This is a 
question of the first importance, for upon the answer all subsequent 
human development, social and mental, has depended. Presumably 
the earliest human societies developed out of some form of animal as- 
semblage. They were, therefore, like all animal groups, primarily 
reproductive in function, and not, like existing human societies, co- 
operative organisations. 

Certainly the human group did not develop out of the animal herd 
for, as we have seen, the herd is incompatible with prolonged maternal 
function. It must therefore have been derived from the animal family 
based on the maternal instincts of the female. 

At the same time it is impossible to suppose that nascent human 
society consisted of small isolated groups corresponding in size to what 
we understand by families. Such limited groups could offer no scope 
for the development of those distinctively human social relations and 
feelings which are essential for the mental evolution which took place. 

Some races on the lowest level of culture are, it is true, found in 
small scattered groups which include sexual societies and may be called 
families — for instance, the savages of Tierra del Fuego, the Eskimo 
and some of the most wretched tribes in the forests of the upper Amazon 
and Parana. The forest Veddahs of Ceylon are also found in small 
groups, consisting for the most part of sexual partners, or single 
families. 

Such populations are not simply ‘primitive’ in the sense of having 
remained wretchedly backward ; they are also unsuccessful races which 
have been driven towards the least habitable parts of the earth. The 
Fuegians, who belong to the same stock as the other races of South 
America, have been ‘pushed off the edge of the world’, and ‘forced to 
break up into small clan or family groups’. The forest tribes of Brazil 
have been driven to their present habitat by Caribbean invaders. In 
these unfavourable conditions ‘it is safe to assume that they never 
could have emerged from their savage state’. Likewise there are clear 
traces among the Eskimo of a former organization into clans, now 
fallen, owing to physical circumstances, into almost complete decay. 



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52 

The Veddahs of Ceylon are the descendants of the aboriginal royal race 
who were driven into the jungle by invaders. 

In short, such societies represent, not the primitive condition of 
human society, but the effects of its dissolution under the pressure of 
unfavourable conditions; we cannot infer from them the condition of 
incipient humanity. They arc defeated unsuccessful races; the animal 
race which developed into humanity must have been a favoured race 
living in exceptionally propitious conditions. 

All that is involved in human evolution postulates a much larger 
group than the family — and, in fact, we find all human communities 
above the most miserable and degenerate in much larger groups; and 
the larger those groups, the greater, as a rule, is their cultural and social 
development. 

How came those larger groups to be formed ? The question may sur- 
prise the reader. The formation of a larger group from the original 
family group appears to be a quite obvious process. It might take place 
in two ways : either a number of neighbouring families might come to- 
gether ; or the mature offspring of the original family, instead of separat- 
ing from their parents, might remain with them and found secondary 
families. 

Such a simple view of the origin of human society has been taken for 
granted from ancient times until the present . 1 However, it begs the 
question, for it assumes that such family groups will continue distinct 
within the larger group, and will retain their character and constitution ; 
that is to say, it is postulated that those characters are already consoli- 
dated in such a manner that they will be preserved unaltered, notwith- 
standing the conditions presented by a different type of association. 
There is nothing to justify such an assumption. On the contrary, it 
follows from all that we know of animal groupings that the association 
of a number of separate families must put an end to a form of organiza- 
tion which demands isolation as the first condition of its existence. 

Whenever, among animals, such an assemblage of a large number of 
families takes place even temporarily, the family grouping tends to be 
broken up, and the constitution of this larger group lapses into that of 
the promiscuous herd. This takes place even among the most typically 
pairing and family-forming animals, viz. among birds ; it does so in the 
short period in which they gather in large numbers during the breeding 
season. The larger grouping no longer depends on the manifestation of 
maternal instincts, but on the male instincts. From a maternal group 
it is changed into a masculine group, from a family into a herd. 

Among the apes we find large assemblages, it is true, and the maternal 
instincts are more highly developed than among other animals. But 
1 Cf. Westermarck, E.: The History of Human Marriage (1901), p. 49. 



THE PRIMITIVE HUMAN GROUP 53 

these assemblages are not under the dominance of the males. In human 
groups the conditions are quite different. There is no division of labour 
amongst the apes ; in the human group, the male is differentiated as a 
hunter and a warrior. In a promiscuous human herd a struggle would 
inevitably take place for the possession of the females, and would at 
once result in the dominance of the most powerful males. The group 
would, in fact, be a patriarchal herd, in which a few of the stronger 
males would hold the weaker males and all the females in subjection. 

In short, unless some principle can be shown to operate which will 
maintain the arrangement — unprecedented in biological history — of 
an associated group of separate families, the result of simple aggrega- 
tion will not be a group of families but a promiscuous herd. We explain 
nothing by supposing that a number of families are brought together. 

If, on the other hand, the compound group is supposed to be formed 
by the offspring of a single family continuing with their parents and 
giving rise to new families, the difficulties are even more marked. If 
the sons, after they grow up, continue with their parents, they must 
either marry their sisters or else import women from another group. 
The effect on an incipient human society would be equivalent to the 
haphazard fusion of family groups into a herd family. The capture of 
females from another group and their introduction into the parental 
group would result in a complete transformation of the group’s consti- 
tution. If the compound family grouping is to grow out of the original 
animal family and to retain its distinctive advantages, the feminine 
constitution of the family must be maintained ; it cannot be maintained 
if the sons remain and import their wives, while the daughters are taken 
away by strangers. The structure of the group would then be trans- 
formed. The female line of influence would be destroyed, and a group- 
ing, based on male initiative, would be formed. Such a transformation 
has occurred in later stages of social evolution ; and, where racial develop- 
ment is already fairly advanced, it is not attended with untoward effects ; 
but in the initial stages of that development, it would abolish those 
conditions upon which the emergence of the social group has depended. 
The group would cease to be a maternal animal family; it would become 
a masculine herd. 

There is, in fact, one way, and one only, whereby the feminine con- 
stitution of the family could have been maintained while it expanded 
at the same time into a larger assemblage — namely, by the sons leaving 
the group, and the daughters remaining and pairing with the males 
from some other group. 

This peculiar arrangement is, in point of fact, the one which was 
adopted by nascent humanity. Everyone who has even a passing 
acquaintance with anthropology knows that the most general rule 



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54 

governing the organization of primitive social groups is that of ‘exo- 
gamy’ — the rule that marriages shall not take place within the group but 
always with members of another group. The manner in which that 
rule is carried out in a large number of primitive societies is by the males 
either leaving the parental group and being adopted into the group to 
which their wives belong and living with them, or simply visiting them 
while they continue to live in their own group. In either case, the 
daughters do not leave the family group in which they were born. 

The great majority of primitive societies regard the exogamic system 
as the most inviolable principle of their social organization. In many 
communities it has assumed complicated forms. 

The group is subdivided into two, four or even eight sub-groups, 
and frequently the members of one group may intermarry with members 
of only one other group. With those complexities we need not concern 
ourselves here. They are necessary effects of the development of the 
exogamic group which in time must needs subdivide. Fundamentally 
this principle is identical with the prohibition of incest, for in the primi- 
tive family group there is no alternative to the marrying out of the males 
except union with their own sisters; thus our own horror of incest 
represents the very principle which appears to us so strange in the 
exogamic regulations of primitive man. 

It is significant that nothing approaching to a satisfying explanation 
has been offered of this principle. That failure seems to point to some 
radical fault in our method or in our assumptions. 

J. F. McLennan, the first expounder of the principle of exogamy, had 
no better hypothesis to offer than that exogamy arose from the 
scarcity of women resulting from the prevalence of female infanticide 
among savages. Both his arguments and his facts have been fully refuted. 
Lord Avebury ascribed the law to the practice of capturing wives, but 
this would produce results exactly opposite to those that are known to 
accompany exogamic organization, and there are, as we shall see, definite 
grounds for regarding wife-capture as a much later development than 
exogamy. To appeal to the ‘natural horror of incest’ is to beg the question 
at issue. 

Alleged Injurious Effects of Inbreeding among Animals 

It has been thought that the rule of exogamy is connected with the 
supposed injurious effects of inbreeding. Though belief in such ill- 
effects has been practically universal from time immemorial, attempts 
to substantiate it scientifically have failed completely. 

Since some writers continue to assume it as a basis for explaining the 
constitution of human society, the following points may briefly be 
made: 



THE PRIMITIVE HUMAN GROUP 55 

(i) All animal species propagate without regard to inbreeding, and 
some propagate exclusively by what we should term incest. Thus the 
African reed-buck usually brings forth two young at a birth, a male and 
a female; these, when mature, pair with one another. The same appears 
to be true of most of the smaller species of antelopes and all red-deer, 
tigers, buffaloes, etc. 

(ii) Whole countries have been rapidly overrun by the offspring of 
single pairs or of a very small number of individuals. Rabbits have 
become a plague in Australia ; they are the progeny of a few individuals 
brought there in 1863. In New Zealand a hardy race of wild pigs, much 
sturdier than any of our domesticated breeds, is the offspring of a 
couples of sows and a boar left there by Captain Cook on his second 
voyage, and of a few animals similarly turned loose in subsequent years. 

(iii) Numerous experiments have been carried out on rats, mice, 
guinea-pigs and rabbits, by causing them to inbreed closely for many 
generations. They have in most instances shown no perceptible evil 
effects as regards the quality and size of the animals, but a diminution 
in fertility has been observed. It is, however, well known that all ani- 
mals, especially rodents, suffer a diminution of fertility when kept in 
close confinement. In recent large-scale experiments by Dr H. D. King 
on white rats, it was found that: ‘These laboratory rats, which have 
been inbred as closely as possible for twenty-two generations, are in 
every respect superior to the stock rats from which they took their 
start six years ago, and which have since been bred in the usual indis- 
criminate manner.’ The largest albino rat ever recorded was produced. 
The inbred rats ‘live fully as long as do the stock rats, and they appear 
equally resistant to disease’. The fertility of the inbred rats was nearly 
8 per cent greater than that of the stock rats. 

(iv) The experience of breeders of domesticated animals has been 
supposed to afford evidence that inbreeding results in degenerative 
changes and impaired vitality and fertility. The English racehorse is 
one of the most closely inbred of existing animals. Several elaborate 
investigations have been made of the stud records of famous English 
racehorses, and it has invariably been found that noted winners excel- 
led in almost exact proportion to the close inbreeding shown by their 
pedigrees. The Percheron horses are also a closely inbred race, most of 
the individuals being traceable to two original sires. Numerous similar 
illustrations of exceptionally fine breeds of domestic animals, the pro- 
ducts of prolonged inbreeding, are mentioned by Darwin in his book on 
The Variation of Animals and plants under Domestication — a work in 
which he seeks to uphold the evils of inbreeding while showing the 
benefits sometimes observed in domesticated animals from occasionally 
crossing them with another breed. 



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56 

Inbreeding may indeed, produce injurious results where the animals 
are bred for the improvement of a single characteristic: thus pigs bred 
for fat sometimes become less fertile and the sows are unable to nourish 
their young. The surprising circumstance is that such evil effects are 
not more common and more conspicuous. It is only where the stock 
has been thus inbred that the ‘occasional cross’ is beneficial. In Central 
Europe and the Baltic countries the art of stock-breeding was for long a 
complete failure; until recently nobody ever heard of a reputable breed 
of German or Scandinavian horses or cattle, and breeds of domesticated 
animals had constantly to be improved by importations from England, 
France and Spain. The chief reason for this was the great authority 
attached in those countries to the works of Professor Settegast, who 
fiercely denounced inbreeding in any form, until Count Lehndorff and 
de Chapeaurouge exposed the baselessness of his dogmas. 

If the results of the breeding of domesticated animals prove anything, 
it is the absolute innocuousness, if not the actually beneficial effects, of 
inbreeding. Thus in many British parks, such as Cadzow Castle, 
Chartley, Lyme Park, Somerford, herds of cattle have been left to in- 
breed from time immemorial. The Arabs inbreed their famous horses 
as closely as possible without any scientific refinements. In the records 
of breeding from domesticated animals there is not a single fact, alleged 
or verified, which indicates, much less evidences, that inbreeding, even 
the closest, is in itself productive of evil effects. 

Results of Inbreeding in Human Communities 

In the human race the evidence is, if anything, even more definite. 
Close inbreeding takes place habitually among many peoples ; for, even 
where the principle of exogamy is strictly observed, if marriage outside 
the group takes place for generation after generation in one particular 
other group, the intermarrying members stand to one another in the 
relation of cousins. It is a very widespread custom for a man to marry his 
first cousin; such marriages are regarded in many parts of the world as 
obligatory. Yet nowhere have any evil effects been observed, and the 
races which practise those marriages include some of the finest physical 
types of mankind. Thus the Bataks of Sumatra are described as being 
physically the best-developed race in the Indian Archipelago; the men, 
Junghuhn remarks, might have stood as models for the sculptors of 
Greece. An elaborate census of the population of Fiji, among whom 
marriage between first cousins was regarded as a sacred duty, showed 
that such marriages were associated with a higher birth-rate and a 
markedly greater vitality in the offspring than unions between non- 
relatives. So much so that the former are maintaining their numbers 
while the latter are rapidly dying out. 



THE PRIMITIVE HUMAN GROUP 57 

From the large number of peoples who favour cousin-marriages no 
instance has been brought forward which might be set against the testi- 
mony of such instances. 3 In almost every part of the world small, iso- 
lated communities exist where, for centuries, marriages have of necessity 
taken place between closely related individuals. They are almost invari- 
ably distinguished by conspicuously fine bodily development and robust 
health. For example, in the Tengger Hills of Java the Surabaya com- 
munity, numbering some 1,200 people, has intermarried for ages. ‘They 
differ from the people of the plain, being taller and more robust*. The 
same is true of a small segregated community, the Baduwis, in West 
Java, who number no more than about forty familes all told. In Europe 
such intermarrying communities are common enough in hill districts 
and among fisherfolk. That of Batz, near Croisic, which numbers about 
3,300 people, was made the subject of a very thorough investigation by 
Dr Voisin. He did not find an instance of malformation, mental disease 
or any of the evils ascribed to inbreeding; marriages between first 
cousins in that community were found to produce an average of 4-6 off- 
spring, whereas the general average for France at that time was only 
33. The island of St Kilda contains [i.e. in 1927] twenty-seven families, 
and supplies, as Dr Kerr Love remarks, the proper conditions for the 
production of all the evils ascribed to intermarriage. The inhabitants 
are poor and badly housed. Dr C. R. Macdonald, the Chief Medical 
Officer of Health for Ayrshire, has assured the writer ‘that there is no 
history of any case of deaf-mutism in this remote islet, nor, moreover, 
of other signs usually attributed to the results of intermarrying.* In an 
article (1888) he says: ‘There are no cases of deaf-mutism; insanity and 
idiocy are unknown, and cases of imbecility are extremely rare.* This is 
after centuries of intermarrying. 

Many similar examples are forthcoming. The Pitcairn islanders are 
descended from nine of the mutineers of the Bounty who in 1790 were 
deposited on the island, together with six men and twelve women from 
Tahiti, and in 1800 consisted of twenty-five people. They are described 
by all observers as remarkably strong, healthy and well-built; the men 
averaging six feet in height, both sexes being well formed and hand- 
some; the women being as muscular as the men, and taller than the 
generality of women, and the children uniformly healthy. 

While the manifestations of racial degeneration in royal families, such 
as the Hapsburgs and the Spanish Bourbons, are often popularly 
referred to — it is hard to see on what grounds — as illustrating the evils 
of inbreeding, those royal families which have systematically practised 

1 Dr Westermarck has ransacked ethnological literature for examples, yet he 
feels compelled to apologize for the results and for ‘their vagueness and more or 
less hypothetical character*. 



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58 

dynastic incest furnish no evidence of those supposed evils. None is 
afforded by the Ptolemies ; the practice which they adopted when they 
took over the throne of Egypt had been regularly observed in that 
country for at least 3,000 years. In the golden age of the Egyptian 
monarchy, during the XIXth and XXth Dynasties, every king of the 
former married his sister as the lawful mother of the heir to the throne. 
Yet the race that produced Seti and Rameses affords no evidence of 
degeneration, nor does there exist in the age-long records ofbyfarthe 
longest line of kings in the world’s history, among whom, not mere 
inbreeding but actual incest was a fundamental principle, any fact 
lending support to the doctrine of the evil results of inbreeding. 

No attempt to demonstrate this theory by statistical investigation has 
met with any success. The most thorough general investigation of the 
kind is still that undertaken by Sir George H. Darwin, who was, like 
his father, strongly disposed to believe that inbreeding is attended with 
injurious effects. As regards fertility, he found that balance was slightly 
in favour of cousin-marriages. He found no differences as regards 
insanity or deaf-mutism. 

When the belief that consanguineous marriages produce deaf-mutism 
and other physical conditions, such as mental deficiency and sterility, 
are scientifically examined, they turn out to be equally unjustifiable. Thus 
a Mr Huth, at the end of an exhaustive discussion, declares that ‘statis- 
tics on which so much reliance has been placed as a proof of the harmful- 
ness of consanguineous marriages are, when not absolutely false, miser- 
ably misleading and defective’. 

The belief that the offspring of parents consanguineously related will 
be stricken with deformities or diseases is much older than any attempt 
at scientific inquiry, and in more recent times is often derived from the 
fact that such marriages are condemned by the Roman Catholic Church. 
But this belief is firmly held not only in Europe but among almost all 
savages. The mountaineers of Albania believe that incest results in 
deaf-mutism; the Aleuts that it produces malformations and that the 
offspring of such unions will have tusks like a walrus. The Kaffirs 
believe that it causes idiocy, and the Basoga of Uganda are even scan- 
dalized at the thought of incest being committed by their cattle and 
punish the criminals. The consequences are not limited to the children, 
but may extend to the parents and even to the more distant relatives or 
sometimes to the whole tribe. In the Celebes such unions are regarded as 
causing earthquakes and floods and volcanic eruptions. (These are, of 
course, the usual effects of infringing a tabu.) 

But the definition of what constitutes a consanguineous marriage 
varies widely. Thus the Murung of Borneo permit marriage between 
brothers and sisters, and believe that their offspring will be remarkably 



THE PRIMITIVE HUMAN GROUP 59 

healthy, yet regard with horror marriages between cousins and certain 
other relationships. The Bhotias prohibit cousin-marriages on the 
father’s side only; while the Herero consider that, while the children of 
a brother and a sister may marry, the children of two brothers or two 
sisters may not. Some people regard all marriages between close rela- 
tives as particularly lucky. The Kalangs of Java believe that incestuous 
unions between mother and son are blessed with prosperity, while the 
tribes of British Central Africa believe that incest makes one bullet- 
proof. Current ideas of the evils of inbreeding are, in fact, a survival of 
an ancient superstition. 

Theories of the Origin of Exogamy 

Sir Henry Maine and Lewis Morgan accounted for incest prohibi- 
tions and exogamous practices by supposing that men noticed the evil 
results of inbreeding and forbade it. Many savages give a similar account. 
Yet it may be noted that they give no similar account of marriage be- 
tween extremely young persons which invariably produces undersized 
offspring of poor vitality. The physical decay of many primitive peoples 
is due to this practice, but it has scarcely anywhere led to a prejudice, 
still less a rule against it. Although the belief that inbreeding is damag- 
ing has now been generally abandoned, Dr Westermarck, while profess- 
ing his inability to find conclusive proof, nevertheless decides that 
‘inbreeding generally is in some way or other more or less detrimental’, 
and suggests that the peoples who failed to preserve such principles 
were exterminated by these injurious effects. The practice of exogamy 
itself he ascribes to the lesser sexual attraction of habitual companions. 

M. Durkheim starts from the proposition that defloration of a female 
of one’s own group must be regarded with horror. Unfortunately 
defloration in primitive society does not happen in marriage, but is 
usually performed by the very members of the group whose relations 
with the females would normally be considered incestuous . 1 

Darwin believed that the emigration of young males was due to the 
jealousy of the old males, but such a procedure — even if it exists — could 
not account for the abhorrence of incest; and the tyranny of the older 
males would surely operate as strongly against strange males as against 
their own male offspring, so that young males would thus never obtain 
wives in a strange group, except by fighting old males. 

Havelock Ellis is one of those who feel that the explanation is ‘really 
exceedingly simple’ — boys and girls brought up together from infancy 
fail to evoke the pairing impulse because familiarity has dulled the 
sexual stimulus. But, as is widely known, men frequently marry the 
companions of their childhood, and relationships which have for a long 

1 See p. 397. 



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time been platonic end in marriage. Dr Ellis confounds the sexual 
impulse with the mating impulse. The latter is based on companionship 
and affection and not on sexual desire; indeed, it involves subordination 
of the male sexual impulse. 

In primitive societies in every part of the world children are 
commonly betrothed to one another and grow up like brothers and 
sisters. Such marriages are attended with the greatest success. Thus we 
are told of the tribes of the Upper Congo that it is rare for children 
brought up together to fail to marry and to dislike one another. Drs Hose 
and McDougall, speaking of the intercourse of a youth and his sister by 
adoption in Borneo, point out the difficulty of reconciling these facts 
with Westermarck’s theory. The occurrence of brother-sister incest and 
the strong objection of the Sea Dayaks to newphew-aunt incest — these 
often being members of distant communities — seem fatal, they add, to 
Westermarck’s theory. 

The fact, adduced by Mr Walter Heape, that animals will neglect 
their accustomed harem to attend a newcomer does not illustrate the 
greater attraction of the stranger but the male’s instinct to impregnate 
as many females as possible. And he does not explain why the buck 
rabbit, which is so susceptible to the fascination of the strange female, 
is yet incorrigibly endogamous. 

Derivation of the Rule of Exogamy from the Constitution of the Maternal 

Group 

All these theories have one feature in common — they refer exclusively 
to the operation of the male sexual instincts and assume a patriarchal 
social state in which those instincts are dominant. As soon as we postu- 
late that primitive human groups were not patriarchal but matriarchal, 
we see that observance of the rule of exogamy is essential to the pre- 
servation of the maternal character of the group. If the women left their 
family to join their husbands, that family would cease to be a maternal 
group. If the men were the sexual mates as well as the brothers of the 
women, patriarchal succession would be established, and their authority 
and rivalry would bring about patriarchal dominance. The mothers are 
the basis and bond of the primitive group, and the only relation origin- 
ally taken into account is the maternal relation. Kinship and descent are 
reckoned exclusively through the women; the relationship through the 
father is ignored. To permit women to follow strange men, to sever their 
connection with the group, would be to break up the social unit, and 
would be opposed to its most basic sentiments. 

Such principles do not, of themselves, impose upon the men the need 
to mate outside the group, but the distinction between the permanence 
of the women and the freedom of the men being established, there are 



THE PRIMITIVE HUMAN GROUP 6l 

many factors to lead men to make use of their freedom. Thus while men 
are naturally of a roving disposition, the women are home-loving. The 
man instinctively seeks for food, the woman to settle down. But while 
such facts make for the association of males with females from another 
group, they do not imply an actual prohibition of sexual intercourse 
between members of the same group. However, a habit which has 
hardened into an established rule that one should seek one’s partner 
elsewhere inevitably gives rise to a corresponding prohibition, not to 
seek them in one’s own group. This prohibition is reinforced by the 
sense of ownership implicit in maternal instinct. In the human family 
the maternal instinct does not, as in animals, cease to operate when the 
males reach sexual maturity. It is not the mother, therefore, who drives 
off her male offspring, but the son who at sexual maturity tends to 
transfer his allegiance to another female. The animal is wholly unreason- 
able and responds at once to impulse ; the semi-human mother was not 
the gentle creature of our conceptions, but a wild animal to whom the 
idea that one of her sons should transfer his allegiance from herself to 
one of his sisters was a horrible thought, because a blow to her jealous 
love. Darwin describes how female baboons protect their young from 
being teased by one another; since any attempt by a male to perform 
intercourse with another member of the brood would be regarded by 
the female as violence, this would infallibly bring the mother to her 
assistance. 

Though it is not a trait likely to be noticed much by observers, there 
are several references to the jealousy of primitive mothers. In New 
Britain ‘sometimes fond old mothers are desirous of keeping their sons 
with them as long as possible’. One very intelligent Dutch peasant said 
that mothers are more jealous with regard to their favourite son than 
wives as regards their husbands ... ‘if mothers had their own way their 
sons would never marry — at least not for a long time’. 

The incest prohibition applies primarily to relations between 
brothers and sisters. In the simplest forms of exogamy, as found in 
South-eastern Australia, where there are two intermarrying classes, the 
system prevents marriage between brothers and sisters but not between 
parents and children. In the Island of Kiwai, a father may take his 
daughter to wife, although brother-and-sister unions are regarded with 
abhorrence. Similarly in some of the Solomon Islands. It is easy to see 
why this should be extended from the sister to the mother, for the awe 
and dread attaching to the head of the family would make it even less 
likely that she would be the object of incestuous advances. 

These rules are, of course, generalizations. It is most unlikely that in 
every primitive human group the males sought their partners elsewhere, 
and instances in which incestuous relations habitually take place have 



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already been noted. And if this prohibition is the most primitive of all 
the regulations imposed upon sexual relations, every subsequent regula- 
tion must have tended to consolidate it. 

The Mother-in-law 

Connected with the rule of exogamy is the fact that in savage society it 
is a constant rule that a man may not speak to his mother-in-law and 
generally may not even look at her; the breach of this rule is regarded 
with as much horror as incest. In Australia a man is warned of the 
approach of his mother-in-law by the sound of a bull-roarer; it was 
formerly death for a man to speak to her — later banishment. In Tas- 
mania a native, concerned about the attentions a younger man was 
paying to his wife, betrothed his new-born daughter to the suspected 
rival — thus making it quite impossible for the latter even to look at his 
future mother-in-law. In New Britain a man must not only not look at 
his mother-in-law, but must avoid meeting her and must hide if he sees 
her coming. Suicide of one or both would be the only course if he 
inadvertently spoke to her. In the Banks Islands a man would not follow 
his mother-in-law along the beach until the tide had washed out her 
footsteps. The rule is as rigorous in Africa as in Australia and Melanesia. 
Among the Baholoholo the ceremonial avoidance is observed even after 
the death of the wife. The Yukatans believed that if a man even met his 
mother-in-law he could never beget children. The Baganda regard the 
prohibition of meeting the mother-in-law as more sacred than the 
prohibition against incest, and the remark would appear to be generally 
applicable. The well-worn jokes of the British music-hall are probably 
therefore an echo of a very primitive sentiment for which no satisfactory 
interpretation has ever been offered. 

Lord Avebury’s hypothesis that the rules of mother-in-law avoidance 
are connected with wife-capture is ruled out by the fact that those usages 
are commonest where wife-capture does not obtain, and are rare where 
it does. Moreover, they would not account for singling out the wife’s 
mother for avoidance, but would require rather avoiding the menfolk 
of the wife’s tribe, and especially brothers and uncles on whom the 
duties of revenge would fall. The rule of avoidance does in several 
instances extend to other relatives, and even in Australia to the whole 
clan, but in most cases it applies to the mother-in-law alone and where 
others are included to her chiefly. Father-in-law avoidance by women 
is found f6r the most part in advanced Oriental nations, such as the 
Hindus and Chinese, where patriarchal domination is established. 
Significantly, avoidance rules also sometimes apply to the grandmother. 
The suggestion frequently made that these rules are intended to prevent 
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to be excluded by certain curious derivative practices found in several 
tribes. Thus among the Navaho, although mother-in-law taboos are 
exceptionally strict and extensive, yet a Navaho can sometimes avoid 
them by the simple expedient of marrying his mother-in-law pro forma 
before he marries the daughter. The Cherokecs and the Caribs have hit 
on the same plan, while with the Wagogo and the Wahele of East 
Africa a man must cohabit with his future mother-in-law before he is 
allowed to marry the daughter. It seems clear that tabus which can be 
evaded by marrying one’s mother-in-law are not intended to guard 
against incestuous relations with her. 

On the view that the feeling against incest and the rule of exogamy 
are consequences of the matriarchal character of primitive groups, 
these avoidance customs present no problem. It is because he fears the 
mother-in-law that primitive man originally avoided her so sedulously. 
It is a memory of the awe which was originally inspired by the mother 
that, even where the supremacy of the mother has passed away, it still 
survives in these rules whose widespread distribution betrays their 
original importance. 

Moreover, mother-in-law restrictions can be commuted by presents. 
Among the Arapahos, all restrictions are removed if a man presents his 
mother-in-law with a horse. That the supposed danger which these rules 
were designed to obviate comes from the mother-in-law and not from 
the son is further shown by the fact that among some peoples (e.g. the 
Warramunga of Central Australia), though a man may not go to a camp 
where his mother-in-law resides, she is quite free to visit him in his own 
camp. The idea underlying these observances is also betrayed in other 
instances. Among the Banyoro of East Africa, for example, a man is 
not obliged to avoid meeting his mother-in-law, but it is absolutely 
essential that he kneel down and remain in a reverential position when- 
ever he meets her. In these and other customs the mother-in-law does 
not appear as a possible object of unlawful desire, but as an offended 
personage who it is needful to conciliate. 

If my conclusions concerning the origin of the rule of exogamy are 
correct, such customs present no real enigma, but confirm these con- 
clusions and serve to exhibit the natural authority of which the primi- 
tive group was the expression. 



CHAPTER 6 


The Motherhood 


Montesquieu was considerably amused when he read in a mission- 
ary’s account that in Formosa the groom remains in the house of the 
bride’s parents, but in fact this custom, which is known as matrilocal 
marriage, is widespread, and is of especial interest since it suggests the 
existence of former female supremacy. 

It is found among many varieties of Eskimo; it was formerly the 
general rule among all North American Indians. The Senecas, the most 
important of the members of the Iroquois confederation, formerly 
dwelt in ‘long houses’ under the authority of a matron. The female 
portion ruled the house, and any man who disobeyed orders might be 
forced to retreat to his own clan or to leave and start a new matrimonial 
alliance elsewhere. Among the Crees, when a man marries he resides 
with his wife’s parents, who treat him as a stranger till the birth of his 
first child. 

Matrilocy is also a feature of the Pueblo Indians of New Mexico. It 
has been suggested that, as these are the most advanced in culture of 
North American Indians, matriarchal society is not primitive but a 
product of advanced development. However, the matriarchal organiza- 
tion is also found in an even more absolute form in the rudest and most 
uncultured tribe in the whole North American race, namely the Seri 
of the Californian gulf. To say that they are in the Stone Age is scarcely 
accurate, for they do not even fashion stones but merely pick up a cobble 
for crushing bones or severing sinews. When provided with knives, 
they do not know how to use them. No other human tribe is so devoid 
of material devices. They have no form of agriculture, they do not cook 
their food, and, in eating a heavy joint, so rotten that the flesh could 
easily be scraped off with a knife, they lift the whole thing to the mouth 
and gnaw it. So fierce is their hostility that it has not been possible to 
observe them as fully as is desirable ; they have murdered many would-be 
observers. 

The most noticeable feature of their organization is the prominence 
of the females. The social unit is the maternal clan, determined by 
descent from a common line of mothers. The clan is headed by a clan- 
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The indigenous name of the tribe is ‘kunkak’, which means Womanhood 
or Motherhood. Their rude dwellings are erected by the women with- 
out help from the men, and belong exclusively to the matrons. It was 
often difficult to identify the husband, partly because he was often in- 
congruously younger than the mistress, and partly because of his lack 
of authority. The females have no term for father, and there is some 
question as to whether the Seri recognize paternity. The women are the 
only real workers ; the men tacitly accept the decisions of the mother. 
Though male chiefs are elected, mainly for leadership in war, all magi- 
cal powers are considered to reside in the women, and the election of a 
chief depends largely on the magical powers of his wife. A man generally 
marries all the sisters of one family and there are indications that for- 
merly, when the men were numerous, all the brothers of a family were 
conjugally bound to all the sisters of another. The prospective bride- 
groom is subjected to a series of elaborate tests before acceptance by 
the mothers. 

Matrilocal marriage is also widespread among the Caribbean races, 
and was practised in Mexico by the tribes of Yucatan, as also in Peru 
under the Inca monarchy. Old missionaries noted it with astonishment 
among the Mozcos of New Granada and among various tribes of the 
Orinoco. It is reported of the Gran Chaco tribes, of several tribes of 
Southern Argentina and those of Tierra del Fuego. 

In Africa, the matrilocal rule is strictly observed both among such 
primitive tribes as the now almost extinct Bushmen, the Basuto, the 
Barolong and all other Bechuana tribes. The practice is very general in 
East Africa, chiefly among the Marotse, the Yahos, the Anyanga, the 
Tumbuka, the Wakamba, the Mosuto, as well as among the primitive 
pygmies of the Congo forest. 

The social constitution appears to have been characteristically matri- 
archal throughout the vast region which extends south of the Sahara, 
from the Atlantic to the Nile, property being transmitted by a man to 
the children of his sister, and matrilocal marriage being general ; thus 
among the Kona, the Fulani, the Kilba, the Kulangas, the Madi, the 
Buduma and Baele of Lake Chad, the Nuer of the Upper Nile, the 
Barabra of Nubia and many others. Special interest attaches to the white 
races of Northern Africa who now inhabit the Sahara region, for, accord- 
ing to a common view, these populations are direct representatives of 
the race which laid the foundations of Western civilisation on the islands 
and shores of the Mediterranean. These people are now matriarchal and 
there are strong grounds for thinking that these early invaders were also 
pronouncedly matriarchal in character. All the peoples of Northern 
Africa west of Egypt belong to the Berber race (which the Greeks 
called Libyans), a white race scarcely different from the inhabitants of 
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Southern Europe, some being so fair they might pass for Irishmen or 
Scotsmen. The Berbers of Algeria and Tunisia are now largely Muslim 
and thoroughly patriarchal, but those which withdrew to the interior 
rather than yield to a foreign invasion — the Tuareg — have preserved 
both their ancient language and their matriarchal constitution. Descent 
among them is reckoned in the female line, and property descends 
from a man to his sister’s children. Though there is an Eve in their myth 
there is no Adam. Their ancestors in Roman times, the Numidians, 
had the same customs, and were named after their mothers. Ibn Batuta 
was the first modern traveller to describe them. He says: ‘The women 
... are not timid in the presence of men, nor do they cover their faces 
with the veil. . . . The women do not follow their husbands, and should 
any of them wish to do so, her relatives would prevent it.’ 

Every traveller has commented on the independence of the women 
among the Berber races of the Sahara, such as the Tibbu. ‘In all matters 
their word is law.’ The culture of the Tuareg is almost exclusively 
confined to the women (the men are entirely illiterate); and it is they 
alone who preserved knowledge of the ancient Libyan tongue and 
script, which appears to resemble that of Minoan Crete. 

The Malay race which has spread over the whole Indonesian region, 
sending off-shoots as far as Madagascar and China, has for centuries 
been under the influence of Hindu and Islamic religions, but they always 
distinguish between the customs of their adopted religion and their 
traditional law known as adat , and cling persistently to the latter. Many 
Malays prefer the older form of matrilocal marriage to the new patrilocal 
form introduced by Islam. Chinese travellers of the time of the Ming 
Dynasty (1368-1643) noted the Malays of Sumatra were matrilocal. 
Pistorius describes how the Malays of Negri Sembilan live in barrack-like 
rows of dwellings, forming a Sa-mandei or Motherhood, consisting of a 
house-mother and her descendants in the female line. He was much 
amused to see the husbands walking across at dusk from their own homes 
to join the wives; if a man has several wives, he visits each in turn. 
(This practice is also true of many other matrilocal tribes where polygamy 
is practised.) The husband has no obligation to maintain his wife; this 
falls on the maternal family, and the head of the family is usually the 
brother of the mother. The property of a Malay passes on his death, 
not to his wife and her children, but to his brothers and sisters and to 
his sisters’ children; that is, to his maternal family. 

An unmodified matriarchal organization is found in Northern Su- 
matra, among the Orang Mamaq, who are divided into strictly exogamous 
clans : husband and wife seldom live together, but if they do the husband 
comes to his wife’s clan. The Sakai tribal organization is strictly matri- 
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neighbouring islands of the Southern Malaccas and in the Celebes. In 
the Northern Malaccas, as in Java, Islamic marriage customs have now 
become universal, but in many of the islands between the Celebes and 
the Philippines matrilocy remains the practice. It is also the rule in 
Borneo among both land and sea Dayaks, and was formerly the general 
native custom in the Philippines. The Spanish conquerors noted that 
the Pintados took sides with their wives’ relations, even against their 
own fathers and mothers, and thought that this indicated that they loved 
their wives very dearly. 

The natives of the Micronesian region — the Carolines (with the 
exception of Yap), the Marshall, Mortlock, Pelew and Gilbert Islands — 
are matriarchal in their social organization. Similarly in the western 
islands of the Torres Straits, where matrilocal marriage is the rule. It 
also appears to be the typical usage in most parts of New Guinea, 
though there are many gaps in our information about that vast island. 
Several regions appear to be in a state of transition from matrilocal to 
patrilocal usages. Thus in some parts of Dutch New Guinea, a man 
may take his wife to his home for a year, after which she returns to hers 
and he visits her. The fundamental matrilocal character of their cus- 
toms is indicated by the fact that no boy can go through puberty 
ceremonies until he has resided for a while with his mother’s family. 

Evidence is also adduced from New Zealand, from the Marquesas, 
the Nicobar Islands, the Ainu of Japan, the Kurile Islands, etc. In 
Northern and Central Asia, the custom that the bridegroom resides 
for a more or less prolonged period with his wife’s family or that the 
bride, after a short residence with her husband, returns home for a 
prolonged period, is widespread. These customs, so similar to the 
practices in New Guinea and Africa, where we know that the culture is 
in a state of transition from matrilocal to patrilocal usages, suggest that 
this is the case in Asia also ; an inference which is confirmed when we 
find, in several cases, that this is indeed occurring. Thus among the 
Buryat, a Mongolic tribe of Southern Siberia, the bride returns home 
after marriage for six months or more, and this visit is several times 
repeated. Buryat tradition states definitely that it was formerly the 
usage for the husband to take up his abode permanently in the home of 
his wife. 

Matriarchal societies are found in several parts of China, among 
aboriginal populations of non-Chinese race. Thus the Nue’kun is said 
to be permanently ruled by a woman, and the tribes in the mountains 
of Kwei-Chow are matrilocal. Matrilocal marriage is characteristic 
among the peoples of Siam, Burma, Indo-China and Tonkin. 

In India, in the hills of Assam, there are various tribes so little dis- 
turbed by change that they still erect large standing stones like the 



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menhirs of Brittany over their dead. The social unit of the Khasi tribe 
is called Mahari, that is ‘Motherhood’, and Sir Charles Lyall says it 
‘presents one of the most perfect examples still surviving of matriarchal 
institutions, carried out in a logical and thorough manner which, to those 
accustomed to regard the status and authority of the father as the foun- 
dation of society, are exceedingly remarkable’. The mother is the only 
owner of real property. Among the Synteg, the husbands only visit 
their wives at night and are known as ‘the Begetters’. A similar organiza- 
tion is found among other tribes of the region, such as the Garos. 

Among other of the aboriginal races of India, where Hindu customs 
have not influenced the original institutions, matrilocal marriage is 
found, as among the Kehal, a tribe of boatmen on the Indus, who are 
now Mohammedans, among the Gonds, the Santals and the Mundas. 

The term ‘the Motherhood’ is also applied to the family group 
among the famous Nayars of Southern India, where the household is 
constituted by the mother and her children, and a Nayar husband may 
not even partake of food in his wife’s home, but must visit after supper. 
At the present day much of the social organization of these Motherhoods 
has disintegrated, but the matrilocal element still remains strong. 

In several of the above instances, marriage is not permanently 
matrilocal, but the woman resides in her own home for a limited period 
after marriage. Sometimes this becomes a mere ceremonial, a period 
of a few days or even simply the wedding night. Perhaps the most 
attentuated form is found among some tribes of Southern India, such 
as the Mappellas, where the bride and bridegroom are locked up for a 
few moments in a room in the bride’s home after the wedding cere- 
mony. The marriage is supposed to be consummated during these 
moments, though, in fact, the custom is purely ritual. In our own society, 
the practice survives in the practice of taking the wedding-lunch at the 
bride’s house. 

In many parts of Africa and among uncultured societies elsewhere, 
even where the wife is brought to her husband’s home, connection with 
her own family remains much closer than is the rule in advanced 
patriarchal societies. Missionaries complain of the way the women tend 
to go back to their mother on the least occasion. 

Such limited matrilocy is sometimes difficult to distinguish from a 
marriage by service in which the bridegroom gives his services for a 
stipulated period, and it is sometimes thought that these practices 
merely represent a commutation of a payment. We shall consider the 
matter more fully later, and it will become clear that, on the contrary, 
making a payment is a commutation of service rather than the reverse. 
Marriage by service is found nowhere except where permanent matri- 
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general. Thus among the tribes of Assam* where complete matriarchal 
organization obtains, we are told that among the Bodo and Dhimal, who 
now pay a ‘bride-price’ on marriage* ‘a youth who has no means of dis- 
charging this sum* must go to the home of his father-in-law-elect and 
literally earn his wife by the sweat of his brow, labouring “more 
judaico”, for up to seven years.’ Indeed* in some instances, instead of 
the service being regarded as a form of payment, the husband himself is 
paid by the wife’s parents in order that he should forgo any claim to 
remove her and her children from their home. 

Missionaries, with the Biblical precedent of Jacob’s marriage in their 
mind, have frequently misreported matrilocal marriage as ‘serving for a 
bride’. But in many of their accounts it is clear that this is a misunder- 
standing based on the fact that, after the end of the service period, 
frequently on the birth of a child, the relationship is terminated, not 
confirmed. In some cases, the fact that the husband erects his own wig- 
wam, because of the limited accommodation in the wigwam of the 
wife’s parents, has been taken to be the termination of his residence with 
the family, but it is clear that this is not a taking-back of the woman to 
the husband’s clan. Indeed, the marriage of Jacob which causes this 
misunderstanding is itself not an example of the commutation of services 
by a payment, for the Bible expressly tells us that Jacob’s father-in-law 
denied that he had any right to remove his wife even after twenty years 
(Genesis xxxi. 26, 43). 

As we have seen, the fact that the female, not the male, determines the 
dwelling-place arises from the biological fact that it is the female of the 
species who chooses a suitable lair. (All animals may be said, in so far as 
they form sexual associations, to be matrilocal in habit, and it is natural 
to infer that habits of primitive humanity were similar.) The validity of 
this inference is proved by a social fact to which there are no exceptions. 
Whenever the man removes the wife from her home and brings her to 
his own, the procedure invariably involves a transaction whereby the 
woman’s family sanctions this removal. In all but the highest cultures 
this sanction involves the payment of a compensation. 1 Among the 
Alfurs of Ceram, a man has the option of marrying his wife without 
payment and taking up residence in her village, or of paying a bride- 
price and removing her; but if he marries a woman of the same village, 
there is no question of payment. The same is true among the Alfurs of 
Buru and in the Kei Islands. Hence there is no alternative but to con- 
clude that the practice of matrilocal marriage was the original form of 
marriage union and is coeval with the origin of humanity. 

1 A woman might, it is true, be removed from home by abduction, but, as we 
shall see, it is impossible that this was ever the usual and general mode of 
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This conclusion is confirmed by ethnological documents, for though 
there are numerous societies where matrilocy clearly prevailed at a 
former date, there is no single case where it appears that patrilocy 
preceded matrilocy. 

The usage most frequently associated with matrilocy is matriliny, or 
the reckoning of descent from the mother and not from the father. 
When Herodotus noted it among the Lykians in Asia Minor, he thought 
it singular, but we now know it to be the rule with about half the people 
of the world below the most highly developed stages of culture. With 
most of those who reckon descent in the paternal line, clear evidence 
exists that the opposite was formerly the case. 

It is sometimes thought that matriliny is the most distinctive feature 
of matriarchal society, but, in point of fact, matriliny is compatible with 
a very depressed status for women, as for example, among the majority 
of Australian tribes. On the other hand, matrilocy inevitably gives a 
woman a high status, for she remains among her blood relations while 
the husband is more or less a stranger. As Dr Kroeber says of the Zuni : 
‘Upon her permanent occupancy of her house rests the matrilinear 
custom of the tribe.’ The husband is economically destitute, for all the 
property is owned by the wife. Matrilocy necessarily implies a matri- 
archal form of society. 

The Status of Women in Uncultured Societies 

It used to be asserted that the more civilized a society the higher the 
status of the women in it. It was held that in uncivilized societies their 
position was one of outrageous oppression. If this were true, the Red- 
skins and the Papuan cannibals would have to be accounted more civi- 
lized than the Chinese and the ancient Greeks. In point of fact, the exact 
reverse is the case. In the great majority of uncultured societies, women 
enjoy a position of independence and of equality with the men, and 
exercise an influence which would appear startling even in the most 
feministic of modern societies. 

It is true that there are a few primitive societies where women are 
subjected to the despotism of brute force. Thus among the Australian 
aborigines the condition of the women is utterly degraded, and they are 
treated with ‘about the same consideration as the dogs’. A girl of seven 
to ten is handed over to a man old enough to be her grandfather. For 
the slightest offence she is beaten with a yam-stick and not infrequently 
speared. Government records in Adelaide furnish numerous cases of 
Blacks murdering their Lubras. In times of scarcity, she is the last to be 
fed. ‘Few women’, says Eyre, ‘will be found upon examination to be 
free from frightful scars upon the head or the marks of spear wounds 
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woman with scarcely a single hair to be seen, from the frequent strokes 
which have descended upon her unfortunate pericranium.’ Any female, 
whether old or young, if found unprotected, is invariably ravished and, 
in most instances, killed afterwards. Queensland natives chastise their 
wives by rubbing hot coals over their stomach. 

A similar state of things is found in most Melanesian islands. ‘The 
New Caledonians take no more account of a woman than of a pig.’ A 
New Caledonian chief, having acquired an old flintlock, practised 
shooting, using women set up in rows as targets. Another native, who 
was converted by a missionary, asked to be received into the Church, 
but was told that he could not be admitted as he had two wives. He 
returned next morning saying that all was in order, as he had now eaten 
the superfluous wife. 

In some parts of Africa things arc as bad. The Bangala of the Congo 
quite commonly eat their wives. In 1887, a Bangala chief informed a 
missionary that he had eaten seven of his wives, and had invited their 
relatives to the feast, in order that there should be no family unpleasant- 
ness. Among the Somalis, as among the Sifan of Tibet, the bride begins 
married life by receiving a sound flogging from her husband. 

In low phases of culture where man is dominant such a state of affairs 
tends to come about. No innate scruples and no external compelling 
force restrain primitive man from using his power ruthlessly towards the 
women whom he regards as his property. 

Yet there arc numerous exceptions universally distributed; a few have 
already been noted. Among the Eskimo, ‘the women appear to stand 
upon a footing of perfect equality with the men’. Among the North 
American tribes, the position of the women is one of complete indepen- 
dence. As the missionary Lafitau said: ‘Nothing is more real than the 
superiority of the women.’ The importance of the counsels of the women 
among the Iroquois confederation is shown by the fact that the deeds of 
land-transfer of the colonial government nearly all bear the signatures of 
women. The compensation due for the murder of a woman was double 
that for the murder of a man. Similar data may be adduced for Pre- 
Columbian Central America, Western Peru, New Britain and many 
parts of Melanesia. In Dutch New Guinea, a traveller saw a man sub- 
jected to a sound drubbing from his wife because he had brought some 
trinket to the boats for barter. Throughout the Malay archipelago 
women are treated with uniform consideration, and in all parts of 
Micronesia the position of women is notably exalted. As one missionary 
reported: ‘The women in this country have arrogated to themselves 
those rights which everywhere else are claimed by the husband. The 
wife absolutely rules the house: she is the master and the husband is 
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she maltreats him or quits him altogether. Throughout Polynesia, the 
position of women, though theoretically subordinate, is invariably one 
of great independence and influence. Similar data can be adduced from 
many African tribes, including the Bagisu, the Ekoi, the Bega, the 
Bantus and many others. It has already been noted that similar condi- 
tions obtain among the Tuareg. 

In Asia, while among the most highly civilized races, such as the 
Hindus and the Chinese, women occupy a position of great subordina- 
tion, among the most primitive and secluded races their status is high. 
In Kamchatka, for instance, ‘husbands are under the iron rule of their 
wives’. Among the primitive Ainu, ‘the wives dictate to their husbands 
and make them fetch and carry’. Of the Giak of Sakhalin, a Japanese 
traveller writes : ‘In this country it is the custom that the women should 
rule over the men; they treat these like servants and make them do all 
the work.’ Among the Moi, the most primitive race of Indo-China, 
‘nowhere does woman enjoy more consideration and esteem.’ 

One writer asks how women could possibly have gained such ascen- 
dancy over the men. In fact, there is no conceivable process whereby 
this could have happened. Not only is the savage strong, but woman is 
immeasurably orthodox ; revolt is alien to her nature. 

In judging these matters, many writers have been misled by the hard 
work done by women to suppose that their status was one of slavery and 
oppression. But, in fact, the toil with which they were burdened was 
freely and eagerly accepted by them. Generally speaking, it is in those 
societies where they toil most that their status is most independent. 
Where they are idle, they are as a rule little more than sexual slaves. As 
Roscoe says of the Baganda, no woman would remain with a man who 
did not give her a garden and a hoe to dig with ; she would return to her 
relations to complain of her treatment. Seri women do all the labour of 
the community. The toil which woman performs is regarded by her as a 
functional division of labour. Indeed, the Australian women are much 
attached to the husbands who beat them so brutally, and even the custom 
of suttee is nowise resented by women, who often compete among 
themselves for the honour of being burned on the funeral pyre. Hero- 
dotus tells us that the same competitive eagerness for the honour of 
being immolated was the rule among Scythian women, and similar data 
can be found among the Maori of New Zealand, the Natchez of North 
America and elsewhere. 

How then did the revolution take place ? Bachofen, the first to draw 
attention to some of the evidence for former female dominance, sug- 
gested that the women rebelled in disgust at the promiscuity imposed 
by the males. Nothing could be more fantastically impossible. There is 
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her environment, and it is a delusion that she in any way resents poly- 
gamy, as many missionaries have noted with surprise. One writes : ‘A 
woman would infinitely prefer to be one of a dozen wives of a respect- 
able man than to be the sole representative of a man who had not the 
force of character to raise himself above the one-woman level.’ And 
Miss Kingsley says she knows men, who would rather have had one wife, 
driven to polygamy by the women . 1 

Similarly women accept promiscuity and sexual freedom where that 
is the rule. As the daughters of an African chief said to an explorer: 
‘Why do you disdain us ? Are the women of your country prettier . . . ? 
We are the daughters of a chief and will not submit to being insulted.’ 
Similar indignation, when a guest has refused a like offer, is expressed 
by Eskimo, Chinook and other women. 

The Establishment of Male Domination 

Some writers have supposed that the high status of women in certain 
communities is the outcome of special economic conditions, such as 
their having acquired land or property, and thus that this is a late 
development; but the fact that matriarchal organizations exist in 
societies which have the barest minimum of economic development, 
such as those of the Seri Indians, disposes of this explanation. 

Furthermore, there is no evidence of a transition from patriarchal to 
matriarchal customs anywhere. On the other hand, in every society, 
uncultured or not, where patriarchal usages obtain at the present day, 
indications are to be found of a previous higher status of women or of 
an actual matriarchal organization . 2 

Among matriarchal primitive races, the change to patriarchy is every- 
where taking place before our eyes, under the influence of European 
contacts. The North American Indians who have adopted paternal 
descent, have probably done so within the period of European occupa- 
tion. In the islands of Torres Straits the social organization is now 
patriarchal, but the guardian of the children at their initiation is not 
their father but their maternal uncle. In Nigeria, as among the Malays, 
two forms of marriage are found. In one, the children belong to their 
father’s clan; in the other, to the mother’s. It is curious that in the island 
of Yap, which alone among the Caroline and Marshall groups transmits 
property in the male line, matrilocal marriage nevertheless persists, due 
to local conditions which do not permit the clans to be sufficiently 
segregated. 

1 For further examples, sec pp. 210 n. 

2 Certain Kwakiutl Indians reckon descent in the male line, but are in the 
habit of adopting the crest or totem of their mother’s father. This may be due 
to the influence of neighbour clans who reckon descent in the female line. 

t.m. — 3* 



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Sir Edward Tylor compared the two forms of marriage residence 
with the custom of mother-in-law avoidance. He found a greater cor- 
relation between matrilocy and avoidance than would develop by chance. 
Certain tribes, however, display the curious anomaly that, though the 
husband takes the wife home to his own tribe, yet mother-in-law 
avoidance is carried to a ridiculous extreme, and Tylor concludes that 
matrilocal residence must have formerly been customary, adding in 
support that, when a native kills game certain parts of the meat are 
allotted to the wife’s parents — the duty of supplying game to the wife’s 
household is, of course, a well-marked feature of matriarchal law. I 
therefore wrote to Mr Howitt, the leading authority on Australian 
anthropology, suggesting that inquiry would probably disclose further 
evidence of a maternal stage in Australian society. Mr Howitt, after 
investigating, replied that this surmise was correct — for instance, in the 
event of a war expedition, a daughter’s husband fights on behalf of his 
wife’s family and even against his own blood relations. In fact, there can 
be no doubt that the patriarchal character of Australian society and the 
low status of women are features of comparatively late origin . 1 

After Australia, Melanesia is perhaps the area in which the low status 
of women is most pronounced. Yet here, too, social organization presents 
countless typical matriarchal features, such as the system of maternal 
clans, the strict observance of mother-in-law tabus and the special 
position of the maternal uncle. Thus, among the natives of the Gazelle 
Peninsula of New Britain, though women are dominated by the men 
and excluded from religious functions, yet the society is organized 
throughout on purely matriarchal principles, descent being matrilinear. 
From similar arguments, it would seem that the people of Ticrra del 
Fuego were also formerly matriarchal. One of their chief traditions is 
that ‘formerly the women exercised supreme domination over the men’, 
maintaining this by a system of terrifying apparitions of supposed ghosts, 
and the tradition adds that this was terminated by a sort of revolution 
in which many of the women were killed. Hence it seems that the change 
from matriarchy to patriarchy, which so often does not occur until a late 
phase of culture, may also take place at the rudest levels. The low status 
of women is such tribes is probably connected with their cultural isola- 
tion, for among less-isolated uncultured races the status of women is 
generally high. 

1 Spencer and Gillen, though they found no instance of matrilocy, also noted 
the practice of giving game to the wife’s relations, and concluded that it indicated 
a former state in which a man owed allegiance to his wife’s group; in Western 
Australia, where the condition of women is particularly degraded, it is neverthe- 
less traditional that certain elderly females are invested with the status of 
moyram, or grandmother, after which they can no longer be carried off for a 
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On the other hand, those peoples of whom we speak as civilized, such 
as the inhabitants of Europe, the so-called Aryan races of India, the 
Chinese, the Semitic races of Arabia and their descendants, together 
with those who have been converted to their religious systems, are 
normally patriarchal, and this association suggests that this is not a 
racial peculiarity of certain peoples but the outcome of conditions con- 
nected with their state of civilization. It is reasonable to suppose that, 
in an earlier stage, these societies too were matriarchal in organization, 
or at least less pronouncedly patriarchal than they have been during 
historical times, and, when their records are examined, strong evidence 
of this is invariably found, as the next chapter will show. 



CHAPTER 7 


The Matriarchal Phase in 
Civilized Societies 


The Indian Aryans 

Among the Hindus the subordinate position of woman was even more 
pronounced than in patriarchal Rome. The laws of Manu assert that 
‘in her childhood a girl should be under the will of her father; in her 
youth under that of her husband; her husband being dead, under the 
will of her sons. A woman should never enjoy her own will. . . .” Her 
husband must be worshipped ‘like a god’. 

But the oldest Indian records reveal a very different position. ‘Let 
a wife’, a Vedic hymn declares, ‘be absolute mistress over her fathers- 
in-law, absolute mistress over her mother-in-law; let her be mistress 
over her husband’s sisters, let her be mistress over her husband’s 
brothers.’ Writers of the epic period were aware of the change. Thus, 
Pandy in the Mahabharata says : ‘Women were not formerly immured 
in houses and dependent upon husbands and relatives. They used to 
go about freely, enjoying themselves as best they pleased. . . . They 
did not then adhere to their husbands faithfully ; and yet, O beauteous 
one, they were not regarded as sinful, for that was the sanctioned usage 
of the times. . . . The present practice of women being confined to one 
husband for life hath been established but lately.’ 

Most significantly, while in the historic and epic periods women were 
excluded from religious functions, in the Vedas, on the other hand, they 
were present and were even ‘the orderers of the sacrifice’. In the most 
solemn function of Vedic religion, the Sacrifice of the Horse, the part they 
played was even more essential. 1 At least one of the Vedic hymns was com- 
posed by a woman. The erudite Princess Gargi Vakaknavi was renowned 
for disputations with the sage Yajnavalkya. 

The society depicted in the Vedas is clearly not in a primitive condi- 
tion: it appears to be essentially patriarchal, as might be expected of a 
pastoral society; it is marked by private ownership of cattle and horses, 
by well-defined aristocratic classes of warriors and priests, and a highly- 
developed religious cult and literature. It is fantastic to speak, as some 

1 See p. 379. 



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writers used to do, of the Vedas as ‘the most ancient literature of which 
we possess written records’. The Vedas do not, in all probability, go 
back much farther than the first millcnium B.C., if indeed as far. The 
‘Aryan’ tribes of Hindustan also retained a matriarchal type of social 
organization, as is clear from Chinese accounts . 1 Of the people between 
the Oxus and the Jaxartes we learn: ‘They hold their women in high 
honour, for whatever a woman says her husband invariably agrees to 
it” Of the Hu tribe of the Great Get-ti, the historian Hu-Han-Shu 
writes : ‘They also take their personal name after their father, but they 
take their family name after their mother.’ Thus it would appear that 
some of those Aryan tribes had retained a considerable degree of matri- 
archal organization. In ancient Indian society itself there are several 
indications of the previous existence of matriarchy. Thus, in the Mahab- 
harata we are told that a man should avoid marrying a girl of the same 
family as his mother, a prohibition still emphasized in Hindu law.The 
Pandava dynasty traced its descent from a divine foundress, Pandaia. 
In Vedic India the guardian of a woman is her brother. The Rajputs, 
the purest representatives of the ancient Aryan conquerors of India, 
retain many of the archaic rules which have disappeared among the 
Hindus. Thus a woman may only marry into a clan equal to or more 
noble than her own, while the first step in any proposal of marriage 
must come from the woman or from her family, a characteristic matri- 
archal usage. Reverence for women, and especially for a man’s mother, 
is a trait of Rajput manners. In Hindu custom, a bride is not at once 
permanently transferred to her husband’s family, but at the end of a 
month her parents come and take her home, and for five years or until 
she has children she lives alternatively in her parents’ or her husband’s 
home. 


China and Japan 

China is the country where patriarchal principles are more strongly 
emphasized and women more completely subjugated than anywhere, 
and it is generally considered that indications of a former matriarchal 

1 Whether or not there was ever, strictly speaking, an Aryan race is a specula- 
tive matter. We know, however, that the Medes, the original inhabitants of 
Persia, and a neighbouring Scythic tribe in what is now Turkestan, called them- 
selves thus. The Medes called themselves Ariyas, and the eastern portion of 
Persia was called Ariana — Iran is probably a variant of it. The peoples included 
under the denomination Scyths were an Iranian race, and spoke Iranian languages 
and had similar religious conceptions. In India the term ‘Arya’ was used with 
reference to the three upper castes rather than as an ethnic designation. With 
one important exception, no Hindus called themselves Aryas. The tribes which 
the Romans called the Great Gctae inhabited the deserts of Scythia, and seem 
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state are completely lacking. The early social history of China is obscure, 
but nevertheless there are indications that China is actually no excep- 
tion. Thus, while emphatically patriarchal, the Chinese are exogamic. 
A man is strictly forbidden to marry a woman bearing the same clan- 
name as himself. The names of these clans are made up of the signs 
meaning ‘woman’ and ‘birth’, and their combination thus means ‘born 
of the same woman’ or ‘one woman’s brood’. Chinese marriage customs 
are essentially identical with those of the Mongol and nomadic Tartar 
populations of Central Asia, except for the more emphatic consolidation 
of marital power. The continuity of evolution between the ruder tribes 
and the Chinese can be clearly traced. Thus, among the Mongols and 
Tartars, as in China, the bride is purchased. Nevertheless, the bride is 
obliged to supply the house itself, which, as Robertson Smith pointed 
out, is a survival of the time when it was in the wife’s house that the 
husband took up his abode. The relationship between this rule and the 
matriarchal order of society has been noted by the Chinese. As one 
writer says : ‘The girl’s dwelling and trousseau all come from her own 
family; hence the custom of counting genealogies from the female 
side.’ 

It follows that such usages must have been preceded by a stage in 
which marriage was matrilocal, a conclusion supported by the fact that, 
at the present day, it is only after living several days in the house of his 
parents-in-law that the bridegroom takes his bride to his own home. 
Throughout China it was once customary with the aristocratic classes 
that the wife, after a short residence in her husband’s home, should 
return to her own house for several months. Moreover, complete matri- 
local marriage is still sometimes practised at the present day, and 
Chinese law provides for the case of a husband who takes up residence 
in the home of his wife. Such a husband generally assumes the wife’s 
family name instead of her taking his. It appears from the language of 
Li Ki that such marriages are a very ancient practice which has only 
recently become rare. In many districts there are anti-marrying leagues 
among the girls, who refuse to accept the complete effacement which is 
the lot of a Chinese wife. In Lung Kong they refuse to marry except 
on the condition that the husband go to the wife’s home to live. In 
Yunnan the women appear to retain a degree of independence, and as 
a preliminary to marriage the bridegroom comes to the girl’s house and 
knocks. His intended then asks who is there and, on hearing his name, 
asks if he wishes to come to her house and stop with her. The children 
take the wife’s family name. 

Such facts cannot be interpreted as indicating an evolution from 
patrilocal towards matrilocal usages. According to a Chinese tradition, 
the present form of marriage was instituted by Fu Hi, the legendary 



THE MATRIARCHAL PHASE IN CIVILIZED SOCIETIES 79 

founder of Chinese civilization, previous to which children did not know 
their fathers and sexual relations were promiscuous, which is the usual 
expression used by patriarchal peoples when referring to matriarchal 
marriage. Fu Hi himself had no father, and the same is true of all the 
legendary and of many later Chinese emperors. Early Chinese history 
offers many examples of powerful and masterful empresses who either 
ruled as regent or forcibly seized the reins of government. Famous 
among them are Lu-Kao-Heu (187 bc), Sing-Zche (ad 1) and Hou- 
Zche (ad 15). The position of the women of the royal family, where 
archaic usages survived, constitute an exception to the rule concerning 
the position of women in China. When a minor was emperor, the 
dowager empress ruled for him. She selected the empress — his chief 
wife — his eight queens, and also his ministers, generally appointing her 
own brothers. Though, in later times, only the Son of Heaven could 
perform the sacrifice to Sanf-Tien, and scandal was caused when the 
adventuress, Hou, arrogated to herself this privilege, yet one of the 
earliest references to that sacrifice reads: ‘The Empress Kiang-Yun, 
together with the Emperor, offered a sacrifice to Shang-Ti.’ It is clear, 
therefore, that the status of women in religious matters must have 
undergone a transformation. As late as the third century of our era, 
women could hold office and exercise administrative functions, a right 
which did not completely disappear until the eighth century. 

Turning to Japan, it might seem, at first sight, that the position was 
identical with that in China. Until recently the position of the Japanese 
upper-class wife was quite as servile as that of the Chinese wife. Yet, 
it is clear even from existing customs that such usages were mere 
imitations of the Chinese conception. For instance, instead of marriage 
being regarded as a solemn contract which even death cannot dissolve, 
there is complete liberty of divorce for both parties : 33 per cent of 
Japanese marriages are said to end in divorce, and both parties usually 
marry again without delay. When a daughter is the sole heiress, she 
continues to live in her parent’s house, instead of going to her husband’s, 
and her husband assumes her name and becomes an adopted son of her 
parents. 

The features of marital relations which resemble those of China are 
much more pronounced among the upper-class than among the com- 
mon people. Among the latter the wife is treated with deference, and 
exercises her right to dismiss the husband on the slenderest grounds. 
This, together with the matrilocal custom, suggests that the Chinese 
usages are recent adoptions. Patrilocal marriage did not, in fact, come 
into use in Japan until the fourteenth century. Previously, the husband 
merely paid occasional visits to his wife, who remained in her parental 
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the name of the mother. A ceremonial survival still exists in the obliga- 
tion of a newly-married couple to spend a night or two in the bride’s 
home. Still older records represent an even more pronounced degree 
of the same condition of things. There was, properly speaking, no 
marriage — that is to say, no contract. Sexual cohabitation constituted 
marriage, and in older Japanese literature it is not possible to distin- 
guish the relations of a wife from that of a mistress or concubine. 
Powerful chiefs are described as having a wife in every island and on 
every headland. 

The Semites 

The patriarchal clans of the Hebrews have always stood for the very 
type of patriarchal organization, yet it was from a study of their customs 
that Robertson- Smith illustrated the transition from matriarchal to 
patriarchal institutions. Semitic kinship terms refer, as among most 
peoples, to maternal rather than to paternal descent, and the clan or 
tribe to which a man belongs is frequently spoken of as his ‘mother’. 
The Arab genealogists of the time of the rise of Islam, when patriarchy 
was strongly established, were at pains to exhibit Semitic descent as 
patriarchal, but they were often compelled to recognize that the older 
clans were metronymic. Among the Hebrews who had left the penin- 
sula many centuries before the Arabs, the same situation had arisen 
long before, and they endeavoured also to interpret their genealogies 
in terms of a male descent. Yet the Jewish rabbis themselves, at a com- 
paratively late date, acknowledged that the ‘four Matriarchs’, Sarah, 
Rebecca, Rachel and Leah, had occupied a more important position 
than the ‘three Patriarchs’, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. According to 
Robertson- Smith, the tribe of Levi was originally metronymous, being 
the tribe of Leah for whom the husband Levi had to be invented. 
Israel itself, the tribe which gave its name to the whole nation, was 
originally the tribe of Sarah, Israel being her son. Even in patriarchal 
times, women built cities, i.e. founded families. Sherah ‘built Beth- 
Horon the nether, and the upper, and Uzzen-Sherah.’ (i Chronicles 
vii. 24) 1 . With the early Hebrews the regular practice was for the man to 
‘leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife’; that is, to take up 
his abode with his wife’s clan. Isaac takes it for granted that Jacob, 
when he marries, will dwell with his wife’s people. In fact, Jacob lives 
twenty years in the home of his wives and, when he departs by stealth, 
Laban pursues him and tells him that he has no right to take them, or 
even his own children, away, and claims them as belonging to their 
mother’s father. Samson’s wife remains with her own people. Joseph’s 

1 The Jewish practice of marrying a father’s daughter or his sister (Genesis xi. 
29; Exodus vi. 20; Ezekiel xxiii. 11) also points to former matrilocal usages. 



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children by his Egyptian wife have to be adopted before they can be 
regarded as belonging to his tribe. 

Matrilocal marriage passed away when the Jews settled in Canaan* 
but survives to this day among the Bedawi of Arabia. To the true 
Bedawi, marriage is almost always matrilocal. ‘The wild men’* says 
Burton, ‘do not refuse their daughters to a stranger, but the son-in- 
law would be forced to settle amongst them . 5 Even after the introduction 
of patrilocal marriage, contracts were sometimes drawn up stipulating 
that the wife should remain with her own people. 

Ammianus Marcellinus noted that in his day the common marriage 
ceremony among the Arabs consisted in the woman's presenting to the 
man a spear and a tent. The tent has always been regarded by the Arabs 
as the property of the woman and, indeed, as a synonym for the woman. 
An Arab author mentions that the women of Jahiliya could dismiss 
their husbands by merely turning their tent round, a custom which still 
persists. Among the Bedawi of Mesopotamia a special tent called ‘hofah 5 
is erected for the newly married couple. The ordinary expression for 
‘to get married 5 in Jewry was to ‘go into the “huppah 55 5 , i.e. the tent. 
The marriage was not concluded until this had been done. When the 
practice of the husband visiting his wife in her tent gave place to patri- 
local marriage, he did not bring his bride immediately into his own 
house, but a special tent, presented by the bride’s family, was erected 
to represent the woman’s home. ‘Huppah 5 is still the ordinary term for 
the marriage ceremony among the Jews and, until quite lately, was 
represented in every Jewish marriage by a canopy under which the bride 
proceeded to the synagogue. 

As we should expect from the former existence of matrilocy, there 
are indications that formerly the position of women, both among the 
Jews and in Arabia, was high. The oldest existing fragment of Hebrew 
literature represents the Hebrew tribes as led by a woman (Judges 
iv-v). Among the Arabs likewise many of the judges were chieftainesses. 
Queens, from the Queen of Sheba to Zenobia, occupy a prominent 
place in Arab history. In every one of the references to Arabian king- 
doms in the historical inscriptions of Assyria, it is with a queen that we 
have to do. The position of those queens appears to have been exalted. 
Their husbands were merely their consorts. ‘The female sex rules 
among the Sabians , 5 says Claudian, ‘and a large proportion of the bar- 
barians is under the armed domination of queens . 5 Women in ancient 
Arabia were commonly the owners of wealth, possessing large flocks 
and herds; their husband commonly acted as herdsman. Mohammed 
himself was able to carry out his mission thanks only to the wealth which 
he acquired from his first wife. In early and pre-Islamic literature we 
come upon women like Mawia bint Afzar, who changed her husband 



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whenever she pleased ; but, though courted by the most famous warriors 
and poets of the age, her choice was never frivolously determined. There 
is nowhere to be found a nobler type of dignified yet unfettered, free yet 
self-respecting, womanhood than the women of ancient Arabia up to 
the time of ancient Saracenic civilization. The women were always close 
behind the warriors in battle, and more than once rallied them to 
victory. Many an Arab woman personally led the men to battle. As late 
as the time of Rashid, Arab maidens fought on horseback and com- 
manded troops, and royal princesses clad in mail fought under Mansur 
against the Byzantines. Yet those proud Amazons were not barbaric 
viragoes, but cultivated beauty, grace and elegance and all the accom- 
plishments of their age. The record of their sentiments is contained in 
their own impassioned poems, which form a considerable proportion of 
pre-Islamic poetry. The tent of many an Arab woman was the scene of 
tournaments of song. Like archaic Greece, ancient Arabia had its seven 
sages, but they were women. 

Ancient Egypt 

The conservative society of Egypt never lost its essential matriarchal 
character, though continuous progress towards patriarchal institutions 
is clearly traceable through the various phases of Egypt’s four-thousand- 
year career. We shall have to consider elsewhere the rules of succession 
to the throne of the Pharaohs, and we shall see that the functions of 
royalty were transmitted in the female line. While every Egyptian prin- 
cess was born a queen and bore the titles of the office from the day of 
her birth, a man only acquired them at his coronation, and could do so 
only by becoming the consort of a royal princess. It was in the queen 
that mystic or divine virtue resided. 

Such features are substantially identical with those obtaining in all 
other African kingdoms. Royal families naturally tend to preserve a 
more archaic constitution than the families of ordinary people, and 
these matriarchal features would not in themselves be sufficient ground 
for inferring the matriarchal character of Egyptian society as a whole. 
Nevertheless, scanty as our information is we have enough to see that 
Egyptian social life generally was in the highest degree matriarchal. 
Dr H. R. Hall says that the constitution of Egyptian society was 
characterized by ‘a distinct preservation of matriarchy, the prominent 
position of women and a comparative promiscuity in sexual relations’ . 
Professor Mitteis confirms that Egypt was immemorially a land of 
matrilinear descent, a usage which continued in Christian times until 
the seventh century. ‘The maternal uncle is often named as important. 
The father of the mother was more important than the man’s own father.’ 
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born out of wedlock enjoying the same rights as one born in marriage. 
All children belonged to the mother. The Nomes, or primitive totemic 
clans, of which the nation was formed, were maternal clans or mother- 
hoods, and their headship was transmitted through women. 

Flinders Petrie observes : ‘The family in Egypt was based on a matri- 
archal system. . . . The house and property went with the women and 
daughters.’ Sir Gaston Maspero says: ‘The Egyptian woman of the 
lower and middle class was more respected, more independent, than 
any other woman in the world.’ The husband had no power as head of 
the household, and the word ‘husband’ is only found in marriage con- 
tracts after the reign of Philopator. Marriage was matrilocal, and where 
there were two wives each remained in her own house, the husband 
visiting them in turn. ‘As late as the XIXth Dynasty, there was still 
surviving the idea that a man was only a boarder in a woman’s home.’ 
All landed and house property was in the hands of the women, and if a 
man built a house it passed immediately to his wife. 

Marriage does not appear to have been associated with any religious 
ceremony, but was essentially an economic transaction and was made 
the subject of a written contract. We possess hundreds of these contracts 
dating from the Ptolemaic period. In them the woman imposes her 
conditions on the man. Thus : ‘If I leave thee as husband because I have 
come to hate thee, or because I love another man, I shall give thee two 
and a half measures of silver, and return to thee . . . the bride-gift.’ In 
a love poem of the period of Rameses II, addressed by the lady to her 
beloved, she opens her heart thus : ‘O my beautiful friend ! My desire is 
to become as thy wife, the mistress of all thy possessions !’ The eagerness 
which Egyptian husbands seem to have shown in making over their 
property to their wives was probably due in part to the fact that, accord- 
ing to matriarchal usage, it would otherwise have passed not to their 
own but to their sisters’ children. Thus, by a curious paradox, the anxiety 
to secure patriarchal succession contributed to accentuate the economic 
power of women. To the same desire to combine inheritance in the male 
line with the matriarchal organization of the family was also doubtless 
due the practice of marrying sisters, which appears to have been more 
prevalent in Egypt than among any other people of which we know. The 
majority of marriages were between brothers and sisters as late as the 
second century ad in some districts. 

Generations of Egyptologists have treated with contempt the state- 
ment of Diodorus Siculus that under the marriage agreement the hus- 
band appertains to the wife and must obey her, but this is now known to 
be strictly accurate, and obedience is urged on the husband as a duty in 
‘the oldest book in the world’, the ‘Maxims of Ptah-Hotep’, dating from 
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further than does Diodorus ; the tone of servility which pervades them is 
almost incredible. 'I acknowledge thy rights as wife/ says one of them, 
‘from this day forward I shall never by any word oppose thy claims. I 
shall acknowledge thee before anyone as my wife, but I have no power 
to say to thee: “Thou art my wife.” It is I who am the man who is thy 
husband. From the day that I become thy husband I cannot oppose 
thee, in whatsoever place thou maycst please to go. I cede the . . . [here 
follows a list of possessions], that are in thy dwelling. I have no power to 
interfere in any transaction made by thee, from this day. Every docu- 
ment made in my favour by any person is now placed among thy deeds, 
and is also at the disposal of thy father or of any relatives acting for thee. 
Thou shalt hold me bound to honour any such deed.’ 

Can we wonder at the gibes of the Greeks at the ‘topsy-turvy world’ 
of Egypt and its hen-pecked husbands ? It is not surprising therefore 
that the position of women in society was equally prominent. Whether 
married or single, from the earliest age a girl had the fullest legal rights 
and could enter legally into any transaction. Guardians were entirely 
unknown in Egypt. ‘No people, ancient or modern/ says Max Miller, 
‘has given women so high a legal status as did the inhabitants of the 
Nile valley.’ Herodotus declares that, ‘the women go in the market- 
place, transact affairs and occupy themselves with business, while the 
husbands stay at home and weave’. Even the role of priestess was open 
to a woman. We have full details of the career of a woman who, begin- 
ning as a clerk in her father’s office, was promoted to various adminis- 
trative posts, and became governess of the Fayum, and, what appears 
more remarkable, commandcr-in-chief of the western military district. 
To this was added later the governorship and the military command of 
Kynopolis and the eastern frontier, and she became one of the most 
important and wealthiest personages in the realm. 

The continuous restriction of these privileges can be traced. During 
the first dynasties the number of women exercising the function of 
priestesses arc numerous, but there is not a single example after the 
Xllth Dynasty. Thus it would appear that, as in many primitive tribes, 
the first step in the limitation of the status of women is to take over from 
them the monopoly of religious and magic functions. By Ptolemaic times, 
it is the husband not the wife who claims complete freedom of divorce, 
and husbands are found administering the estate of the wives. 

The JEgean and Greece 

The marvellous remains of Krete provide eloquent testimony to the 
matriarchal character of Kretan society. The enormous predominance 
of female over male figures is without parallel. Kretan divinities are 
almost exclusively feminine, as are the innumerable votive figures. 



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Women alone figure as priestesses in religious ceremonies. These 
characteristics arc equally marked from ancient Neolithic times to the 
height of Minoan culture. ‘It may be admitted without reserve’, 
remarks Dr Mosso, ‘that at this epoch, that is to say, about 1500 bc, 
Minoan religion had preserved its matriarchal character. The supre- 
macy of women in religion was thus maintained until Mykenean times.* 
Secular art also speaks for the predominance of women. There are 
numerous representations of men in Minoan art, but they are all en- 
gaged in subordinate occupations : cup-bearers, pages, musicians, 
harvesters, soldiers and sailors. Not once does it depict a king, prince or 
hero, or show a man in a position of domination. The female figures, on 
the other hand, invariably exhibit an attitude of self-possessed indepen- 
dence. Minoan women are seen mixing freely with men at festivals, 
riding in chariots driven by female charioteers. ‘It is certain’, remarks 
Dr Hall, ‘that they must have lived on a footing of greater equality with 
the men than in any other ancient civilization.’ That the state was 
governed by women is suggested by Klidemos, who tells us that after 
the death of Deukalion the throne passed to Ariadne, who concluded a 
treaty of peace with Athens. 

Marriage in Krete was matrilocal, as appears from Strabo, and from 
the laws inscribed on the walls of the temple of Gortyna, which contain 
many traces of older matriarchal usages. Thus the mother’s brother 
occupies an important position and is responsible for the bringing up of 
the children. A woman, on marriage, retained full control of her pro- 
perty and, like the husband, had the right of divorce at pleasure. A man’s 
property passed to his children, but in the absence of children his sister’s 
children might be heirs. 

Krete was the most brilliant focus of a culture which, at that time, 
was common to all the peoples of the Aegean. The various peoples of 
the Aegean were culturally, linguistically and doubtless ethnically one. 
Lykians, Karians and Lydians are all one race, and what we know of 
them confirms their matriarchal character. Thus Nicholas of Damascus 
tells us that ‘amongst the Lykians the women are more honoured than 
the men’, and that not only kinship but property was transmitted in the 
maternal line. Of the Lydians we are told : ‘The men are subject to 
female domination. The throne went with the queen and not with the 
king.’ 

Probably the same race that peopled the Aegean also peopled the 
greater part of the Mediterranean coast. Every advance in our know- 
ledge tends to confirm the view that the Neolithic race of the Mediter- 
ranean came from Africa at a time when land-bridges still spanned the 
inland sea. The Berbers and Tuareg would thus be the surviving 
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the similarity of the scripts of Minoan Krete with the archaic script 
preserved by Tuareg women seems to confirm this. 

Female figures are equally predominant in the Neolithic art of the 
whole Mediterranean region ; there is not a single male idol to be found 
before the Bronze Age. Dr Rodenwalt says that the prominence of 
women is even more pronounced in continental Greece than in Krete, 
and points out that, whereas in Kretan frescoes women are assisted by 
men, in the Mykenan palaces of the Peloponnesus ‘we see, everywhere, 
women and women only taking part in religious cult’. At the opposite 
end of the Mediterranean the evidence of matriarchy is even more 
emphatic. ‘Among the Cantaberians’, says Strabo, ‘the men bring 
dowries to the women. With them the daughters alone inherit property. 
Brothers are given away in marriage by their sisters. In all their usages, 
their social condition is one of gynaecocracy.’ Until quite recently the 
custom lingered in the Pyrenees that all property passed to the eldest 
child, son or daughter, and, if the latter, the husband took up his resi- 
dence at the house of his wife, but acquired no rights over her property. 

It has frequently been suggested that, while the aboriginal or Pelas- 
gian populations of the Aegean were matriarchal in their social organiza- 
tion, the invaders, or Hellenes, brought with them ‘as a precious posses- 
sion, the patriarchal system’. It is extremely doubtful, however, whether 
there exists any fundamental ethnical difference between the autoch- 
thonous inhabitants and the invaders. The Dorians, whom alone 
Herodotus calls ‘Hellenes’, came from the north, but there is no evi- 
dence that their habitat was any farther than the southern shores of the 
Danube, a region where we find the Neolithic culture of Butmir iden- 
tical with that of Krete . 1 

Be that as it may, the Spartans appear to many ‘the embodiment of 
the specially Hellenic elements in Hellenism’. Their social organization 
was purely matriarchal. Their customs were so similar to those of Krete 
that it was believed at the time that they had been borrowed from the 
Kretans. Spartan women were entirely unrestricted in their social and 
sexual relations. Virginity was not demanded of a bride. Children born 
out of wedlock were called ‘virgin born’, and were regarded as equal to 
those bom in wedlock. At the time of Argesilaos, the number of them 
exceeded those born in regular wedlock. The Spartans practised fraternal 
polyandry, and their marriage was matrilocal. In the Spartan version of 
the story of Penelope, when she follows Odysseus home, she is repre- 
sented as breaking the custom. Plutarch says that the Spartan women 

1 The assumption that the Greeks, or ‘Achseans’, were a separate race from 
the Aegeans is based upon the Aryan theory, a speculation which has now 
crumbled to pieces. It is not without significance that Dorian invasion was 
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were ‘the only women in Greece who ruled over their men’. They were 
commonly consulted on political questions, and could inherit and bestow 
property, nearly all the property in Sparta being in their hands. 

The Lokrian colony of Cape Zcphiros was also regarded as having 
preserved more archaic usages than other Hellenic states. Of them we 
are told : ‘All fame and honour attaching to descent is derived through 
the women, not through the men.’ Ritual sexual licence, quite opposed 
to the sentiments of most Greek communities in historical times, sur- 
vived among them until a late date. The view that the Greeks were 
originally matriarchal is confirmed by traditions of the historical period, 
when it was held that the status of women in the form of marriage had, 
in primitive times, been entirely different. It was said that in primitive 
Athens ‘at one time, because of the general promiscuity, men did not 
know their own fathers’. Marriage was said to have been instituted by 
Kekrops, who was therefore named ‘diphues’ — ‘of a double nature’ — 
for before him children had a mother but no father. Aeschylus in his 
Eumenides represents the change from the ancient law to that of the new 
gods as chiefly manifested in the way of viewing maternal and paternal 
kinship. The tradition of the contest between the old and the new gods 
to which the Eumenides referred, gives an account of the changes in the 
status of the women. The famous contest between Athene and Poseidon 
for the possession of the city was decided by the votes of the Athenian 
citizens. The women voted for Athene, the men for Poseidon. When the 
victory went to Athene, Poseidon vented his anger by flooding the land, 
and in order to pacify him, it was ruled that the women should be dis- 
franchised, that no child should receive the name of its mother and that 
women should no longer be regarded as Athenian citizens. 

While such traditions are of course mythical, no mythologist nowa- 
days doubts that such myths indicate an actual conflict between native 
and foreign cults. It would be difficult to imagine why a strictly patri- 
archal people should devise a theory of their primitive matriarchy. A 
considerable body of evidence confirms these traditions. As we shall see 
elsewhere, in primitive Greece the religious functions connected with 
agriculture were exercised chiefly if not exclusively by the women. The 
chief civic function in this connection continued in historical Athens to 
be exercised, not by the male magistrate or ‘archon’, but by a special 
female functionary, the ‘queen archon’, assisted by a council of matrons. 
Gods and heroes are commonly referred to in Greek genealogies by the 
names of their mothers, as ‘Apollo, the son of Leto’, ‘Dionysos, the son 
of Semele’, and so on. Such gods and heroes were in fact, ‘virgin-bom’; 
that is, they were in the same case as the Athenians are reported to have 
been before Kekrops instituted marriage. Jason is expressly asserted to 
be ‘virgin-born’. The Argonauts, or Minyans as they are commonly 



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called, all trace their descent through women to a common ancestress, 
Minya, or to Klymenes, mother of Jason. Early Greek genealogies are, 
in fact, little else than catalogues of women. The relationship between 
Theseus and Herakles, to which so much importance was attached in 
archaic tradition, was traced through women. In primitive Greece the 
women gave their names, not only to their children but to their clans 
and tribes. Thus, the Athenians claimed to be descended from Atthis, 
the daughter of Kranaos ; the Spartans from Sparta, the daughter of 
Eurotas, and so forth. The grammatical ending of Greek family and 
tribal names in ‘-ida’, is a purely feminine form. Later traditions sub- 
stituted obscure male eponyms for the original eponymae. Thus the 
Ionians were supposed to be called after a certain Ion, but their true 
eponym is revealed by the fact that the Ionian sea was understood to 
be named after Io. Similarly the Dorians were more probably derived 
from the lunar goddess Doris than from an obscure Doras, a son of 
Helen. Both Ionians and Dorians traced their descent from Helen, the 
daughter of the Moon, and there can be, I think, little doubt that she 
was the true ancestress of the Hellenes. 

Greek thinkers in the classical age held that the mother had little 
or no share in the process of procreation, that the seed proceeded from 
the father, and the mother’s womb was but a suitable receptacle to 
protect it. The mother, it was said, was little more than a nurse; the 
father was, strictly speaking, the sole progenitor. This view contrasts 
not only with older usages but with the very structure of Greek speech 
and legal customs. In Homer a sharp distinction was drawn between 
a uterine brother, ofioyaorQioq, and a brother on the father’s side, 
onaxQoc , , and the former relationship is invariably emphasized as more 
important. Moreover, in contradiction to this ingenious patriarchal 
theory of procreation, the ordinary appellation for brother continued 
to be ‘adelphos’, which means ‘from the womb’, and is therefore a relic 
of the time when the relationship of a brother was reckoned on the 
mother’s side only. The distinction persisted in the most concrete 
manner in historical times, for, according to Athenian law, a man was at 
liberty to marry his half-sister on his father’s side, but was forbidden 
to form an incestuous union with his half-sister on the mother’s side. 

In princely houses, of which alone traditional records have reached us, 
it is the women who transmit both titles and property. They remain in 
the maternal homes, and the sons regularly depart to marry in some other 
town princesses whose titles they share. This is the form of marriage 
which Alkinoos proposes to Odysseus. T should wish’, he says, ‘that 
so goodly a man as thou . . . would take my daughter to wife and be 
called my son and abide with me.’ Gilbert Murray thus briefly sums the 
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to the woman, and descended from mother to daughter. The father 
did not count — at least not primarily — in the reckoning of relationship. 
He did count for something, since exogamy, not endogamy, was the 
rule. The sons went off to foreign villages to serve and marry women in 
possession of the land there. Their sisters, we have reason to believe, 
generally provided them with dowries.’ 

In Athens, in historical times, it was the custom that after an Athen- 
ian husband had removed his wife to his own home and spent the wed- 
ding night there, the couple should return on the following night to 
the bride’s home and sleep there — a custom observed by many peoples 
who formerly practised matrilocal marriage; for instance, the Baila of 
Rhodesia. In fact, Athenian marriage never became thoroughly patrilocal. 
The Athenian wife, though she removed to her husband’s home, never 
became legally regarded as a member of his family. Her father could, at 
any time, take her away and bring her home or marry her to another 
man. If she had no father, her next-of-kin or legal guardian could do 
the same. A wife had no claim on any of her husband’s property except 
her dowry, and when he died the widow returned to her own people. 
It is, I suggest, impossible to conceive such laws as having developed 
in a state of society where the tradition was for the husband to transfer 
the wife to his household, and to become the founder of a patriarchal 
society. 

In the islands of Greece, little touched by the passage of events, the 
traveller often comes upon scenes that answer in every detail descrip- 
tions in the Iliad and the Odyssey. In the island of Kythnos, at the 
present day, it is the invariable custom for a husband to take up his 
abode after marriage with the family of his wife. 

The adaptation of the laws of matriarchal society to patriarchal ideas 
is no less clearly exhibited by the legislation concerning inheritance; 
Athenian law in this respect being very similar to the Kretan law. An 
heiress must marry her nearest male kinsman, except in the forbidden 
degrees, starting with her father’s brother, if any. This is clearly a pro- 
vision to ensure that property shall remain with the male members of 
the family without going so far as to make it transmissible in the male 
line only. Athenian law was very similar but even stricter, for if the 
woman was already married at the time she inherited, the male heir 
had a right to take her away from her husband, whose marriage became 
null, and to marry her. Professor Ridgeway feels that this points ‘to a 
time when all property descended through women’. 

No contrast could be more glaring than that presented by the position 
of women in the Homeric poems and that found in historical Greece, 
which, as will be noted later, was beyond all comparison degraded. 
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the men. Wherever Odysseus goes, he comes upon a queen or queen- 
goddess ruling the land alone, or with a subordinate consort. The royal 
office is transmitted by dynastic incest. He recites catalogues of women, 
giving the female genealogies of the Minyan and Aiolian houses. So 
marked is this that Richard Bentley, the scholar, declared that the 
Odyssey had been specially composed for women, and Samuel Butler 
had the whimsical idea that it must have been written by a woman . 1 
The Odyssey recalls a society in which women held a great place . 2 
Klytemnestra, Alcestis, Kassandra, Medea, Polyxena, Hermione, 
Antigone differ completely from the sequestered Greek wife, artificially 
stunted in mind, who was not even permitted to witness the represen- 
tations of her ancestresses on the stage. 

The Teutons 

Passing to the barbaric nations of Europe, everyone is familiar with the 
account given by Tacitus of the influence wielded by women among the 
Teutons. In the oldest Nordic and Germanic documents persons are 
often referred to by the names of their mother without mention of the 
father. The Lombard nation traced its descent from a woman, Gambara, 
the father not being mentioned. Tacitus notes that ‘the sons of a sister 
have the same position as regards their uncle as with their father. Some 
even consider the former as the stronger tie\ Down to a late date the 
uterine relationship was regarded as more important than the paternal. 
In the time of Tacitus the organization of the Teutons was patriarchal, 
for a man transmitted his property to his own children. This was com- 
bined with purely matriarchal juridic usages. Thus, according to the 
laws of the Thuringians, if a man died without children his property 

1 Note that the lines in which Alkinoos and Arete are unambiguously stated 
to be brother and sister are immediately followed by a genealogy which repre- 
sents them as uncle and niece — a concrete illustration of the adaptation of 
matriarchal to patriarchal ideas. 

2 It must be concluded that the Iliad and the Odyssey , in their present general 
form, were composed not earlier than the eighth century b.c., and probably in 
the seventh by the remodelling of much older material. Thus, they cannot be 
regarded as affording a contemporary picture of the world they depict. In many 
respects, they represented the world they depict about as accurately as Shake- 
speare’s Hamlet represents fourth-century Denmark. Thus, among Homeric 
heroes iron is not only in general use, but its use is so familiar that it has passed 
into proverbial expressions ; whereas Mykenean Greece belonged to the Bronze 
Age and iron was completely absent, except in the form of very rare finger- 
rings. Again, Homeric heroes are cremated. Mykenean Greece invariably buried 
its dead. And so on. Homer seems deliberately to have archaized his material; 
he carefully avoids, save in one ambiguous instance, mentioning writing, 
although writing had been in use in the Aegean from time immemorial. At the 
same time, he adapts myths such as that of Penelope to suit the moral notions 
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passed to his sister, or failing her, his mother. Similarly, in Burgundy 
a man’s property, in the absence of children, went to his sister and, fail- 
ing her, to his brother. Of the famous Salic laws, there are ten somewhat 
different redactions. In the four oldest a man’s heirs, after his son, are 
his mother, his brother, his sister and his mother’s sisters. In none is the 
father mentioned; in one only is the father’s sister named, and she owes 
precedence to the mother’s sister. The later redactions show Roman 
influence, and a gloss informs us that ‘the laws which were observed in 
pagan times are no longer valid, for according to them many persons 
were deprived of their rights’. It was not until the end of the sixthTcen- 
tury that the legal equality of the father’s and of the mother’s relations 
became fully established. Ample evidence confirms that property and 
titles, at least in royal houses, were transmitted through the women. 
Saxon aspirants to the throne did not consider that they had fully estab- 
lished their claim until they had married the queen. 

Thus Hermigisil, King of the Varini, on his deathbed, begs his son 
Radger to be sure and marry his stepmother in accordance with their 
ancestral custom. Edbald, King of Kent, does likewise; as does Ethel- 
bald, King of the West Saxons, who marries the widow of his father 
Ethelwulf. The West Saxon Queen Seaxburg, however, preferred to 
retain the kingdom for herself. Similarly, Canute the Dane, after having 
overthrown Ethelred, sends for the queen, an old woman who was 
then living in Normandy, and does not regard his usurpation as com- 
plete until he has married her. Hamlet’s uncle, Feng, obtains the 
Danish crown in the same manner; and Wiglet killed Hamlet in order 
to obtain possession of Hamlet’s wife and of the kingdom. Similarly 
among the Scandinavians the kingdom passed to the daughters and to 
their husbands as late as the eighth century; and it is usual in Nordic 
records for the kingdom to be inherited through a man’s mother, or by 
marrying the queen or a royal princess. 

We have no express information as to whether marriage was patri- 
local or matrilocal among commoners, but we know from Procopius 
that the Gothic tribes were familiar with matrilocal marriage. 

The Celts 

Though we have no systematic account of the Celts as a whole, we know 
a great deal about the Irish Celts, and there appears to have been great 
uniformity in the usages of all Celtic peoples, whether they dwelt in 
Ireland or on the banks of the Po or the Tagus. Irish traditional narra- 
tives show that marriage was essentially matrilocal. Even Cuchulainn, 
mightiest of all the heroes, was constrained to go and live with the fairy 
queen, Fand, who had wooed him. Throughout, the mistress or wife 
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Herself she offers freely but she abandons not her liberty/ Irish and 
Welsh heroic groups are named after the mother and, especially in the 
older strata of tradition, heroes are commonly metronymous. Ireland 
and Scotland derive their names froiri eponymae, Erin and Scota, and 
the earliest settlers in Ireland are represented as having been women. 
The queens and princesses of Irish traditional history are pictured as 
viragoes, of whom their husbands generally stood in dread. 

Among the Piets, property was transmitted exclusively matrilineally, a 
man’s estate passing to his sister’s children. ‘It is in the right of mothers 
they succeed to sovereignty and all other successions’. Accounts of early 
Scottish history confirm what we should expect from this. Women did 
not leave home on marriage, a usage of which traces survive in the High- 
lands even today. Tt is a practice among the better sort in these days 
for the bride to remain with her parents for some weeks.’ The accounts 
of the Book of Leinster and other documents state that matriarchal 
organization was imposed upon the Piets by the Irish Gaels after a 
victory. This, of course, is unlikely, but implies that the Irish themselves 
had the same social customs, for they would hardly impose upon other 
peoples usages foreign to themselves. Throughout the literature of the 
Irish and British Celts heroes are represented, as in the archaic Greek 
sagas, as leaving their homes to seek in some foreign tribe an heiress 
whom they will marry and with whom they will share dominion over 
her estates. The ancient laws of Ireland and of Wales lay down that 
when a daughter is married to a stranger her son shall inherit the estate, 
and the principal personage after the chieftain is invariably his sister’s 
son, not his own. There can be no doubt that matriarchal succession 
was the immemorial rule with all Celtic-speaking peoples. 

Ancient graves of the Bronze Age in Britain show that women were 
buried with at least as much pomp as the men, and Tacitus reports 
with surprise that Britons, brought before the Emperor Claudius to 
make their obeisance, went straight to the Empress Agrippina and did 
homage to her. 

The little that we know of pre-Roman Gaul is also consistent with 
the matriarchal interpretation. Several accounts testify to the influence 
of women, who took part in a tribal council. Almost the only account 
of their marriage customs we have is one given by a Greek merchant 
who witnessed a wedding. He was surprised to be invited to a banquet 
to which a large number of marriageable young men had been invited. 
After it the bride entered and surveyed the assembly, then signified 
her choice by presenting a cup to the man she had selected as husband. 
Similar matriarchal usages are found in various parts of the world; 
matrilocal marriage is found nowadays in some secluded mountain 
districts of Savoy and is known as ‘goat marriage’, an allusion to the 



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practice of bringing the he-goat to the female* while cows and ewes are 
taken to the male. 

Rome 

Rome stands for the very type of the patriarchal organization of society* 
and* in large measure* it is from her that our own patriarchal organiza- 
tion has been derived. Modern jurists and historians have analysed 
the Roman tradition as it is embodied in the interpretations of Roman 
jurists* and have derived from it the patriarchal theory of society, which 
has been worked out with great learning, notably by Sir Henry Maine. 
It assumes that the patriarchal family as we know it is not only the 
unit of human society but the primitive and original form of the human 
social group* and that all other groups* such as the clan or gens* the tribe 
and, finally, the city and state* have been formed by the aggregation of 
patriarchal families and ‘organized as a collection of patriarchally 
governed families’. Apart from the biological and comparative ethno- 
logical reasons for rejecting such a conception, it leads to a tangle of 
difficulties and inconsistencies within the domain of Roman and Greek 
archaeology itself. Sir Henry Maine candidly admits that the origin of 
the patriarchal family itself is a complete mystery. One of the most 
distinguished of classical social students* M. Fustel de Coulanges* 
working purely from the classical point of view, felt obliged by Ins 
difficulties to break away from current theories, and to regard the origi- 
nal unit, not as a family, but as a gens or clan. I have already given some 
reasons for thinking that such a group could not have rested upon 
patriarchal principles. 

In the light of present knowledge, the evidence that Roman society 
was preceded by a matriarchal constitution is no less conclusive than 
in regard to other people. The primitive Romans were divided into 
tribes* and those tribes into curiae, which, as Livy reveals, were named 
after each of the Sabine women: that is, they were named after the 
mothers and not the fathers of the clan. Thus, the primitive organiza- 
tion of the Romans consisted of motherhoods. The Latin people as a 
whole derived their name from a tribal ancestress, for the first king of 
the Latins was, according to tradition* Satumus and his wife* Latia. 
Furthermore, the land upon which Rome itself was built was tradition- 
ally inherited from women. Acca Larentia, who is curiously described 
as ‘a most noble prostitute’ married a wealthy Etruscan ‘whose home 
she ruled,’ and left the land to the Roman people when she died. 
Moreover* succession was not in the male line. If a male of the royal 
family had a claim to the throne, it was through his mother, and he did 
not succeed his father, but his uncle. When Tarquin the Proud caused 
one of his nephews to be murdered in the hope of securing the succes- 



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sion for his own son, the other nephew feigned insanity; and it was upon 
him, in accordance with matriarchal law, that the duty of blood-revenge 
evolved, when his niece Lucretia was assaulted. As in all patriarchal 
society, the distinction between paternal and maternal uncles was 
clearly drawn, the former being called ‘patruus’, the latter ‘avunculus’, a 
diminutive of avus ; that is, ancestor. Thus our word ‘uncle’, a corrup- 
tion of avunculus, preserves a trace of the matriarchal order of succes- 
sion. 

The Etruscans, the most important of the Italian populations, and 
probably the actual founders of Rome, are known to have been defin- 
itely matriarchal. There is no instance of an Etruscan agnomen — that 
is, of a name derived from the father — and on funeral monumenta the 
deceased is usually designated by his metronymic. 

In bilingual inscriptions, the father’s name is inserted in the Latin 
version only, while the mother’s name, always given in Etruscan, is 
sometimes omitted in the Latin. Etruscan girls were unrestricted before 
marriage and were said to earn their dowry by prostitution. Their free- 
dom after marriage was scarcely less. ‘It is a custom instituted by law 
among the Etruscans’, says Theopompos, ‘that wives should be in 
common.’ In their frequent feasts the married women lay on couches 
with any man they chose and had freedom of intercourse with him. 
Paternity, we are told, was unknown. No word for father has yet been 
detected in the inscriptions. The words denoting husband and wife 
are also somewhat doubtful. 

It is difficult to imagine how in primitive times two populations so 
closely intermingled as were the Etruscans and the local Italic tribes 
could have maintained a separate and totally different form of constitu- 
tion, one matriarchal and the other patriarchal. In the bilingual sepul- 
chral inscriptions special devices were adopted to render the matri- 
archal nomenclature in accordance with later Latin usage. The word 
‘agnomen’, the correct term for a patronymic, derived from the paternal 
relatives, was only introduced in the fourth century. Theopompos 
uses the same language in speaking of the Roman plebs as he does of 
the Etruscans: they were said not to know their fathers. But originally 
the nobility were in the same case, as Virgil discloses. The most emi- 
nent of the Latin nobles, Drances, ‘was proud of the nobility derived 
from his mother; as to his father he was uncertain’. This uncertainty 
was shared by the kings of Rome themselves — Romulus, Ancus Martius 
and Servius Tullius. 

The patriarchal principle of transmission of property to the son was 
evidently an innovation of the patricians, the owners of property. We 
find, in other parts of the world, the propertied classes adopting identi- 
cal measures to transmit it in the male line. Thus, the wealthy of the 



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Tlinkits of Alaska are patriarchal while the poorer classes are matrilin- 
ear. The same is true in Dahomey. 

The contest between plebeians and patricians which occupies so great 
a place in early Roman history is not merely part of the conflict between 
the poor and the rich, but also a conflict between two forms of social 
organization. The transition from one to the other appears to have taken 
place almost within historical times. The elder Cato refers in pretty clear 
terms to the event. ‘Our fathers have willed that women should be in the 
power of their fathers, of their brothers, of their husbands.’ Plutarch 
represents Roman senators as scandalized at the notion of a woman 
raising her voice in the Senate, yet in the age of Romulus women 
commonly delivered orations in the Senate. Tacitus notes as a peculi- 
arity of the Germans that they insisted upon female hostages, but 
Porsenna did exactly the same thing with regard to the archaic Romans. 
Much in Roman cult survives from an earlier time. In the temple of 
Ceres, for instance, the names of male relatives were never pronounced, 
and in the rites of Mater Matuta it was the custom for Roman women 
to pray first for their sisters’ children; that is, for the children of the 
maternal clan. The Romans, observed one historian, ‘had a most remark- 
able predilection for ascribing to women the most important events in 
their history.’ Virgil describes the Italic tribes as being led against the 
invader by an unwedded queen, Camilla, high-priestess of Diana, who, 
though she has a brother living, reigns over the Volsci in her own right. 
He pictures the Latin queen, Amata, claiming the right to choose a 
husband for her daughter, that is, an heir to the throne, and inciting 
the Latin women to resist her husband’s nominee, as their ‘maternal 
right’. 

It is owing to its original matriarchal character that, in spite of the 
‘patria potestas’, women nevertheless retained in that society their 
dignity and privileges, which contrast with their position in Greece. As 
wc shall see later, their status in Rome was marked by a strange com- 
bination of patriarchal institutions and matriarchal sentiment. 

To conclude, we see that even in those countries which are now 
regarded as strongholds of patriarchy, the former status of women was 
higher and more independent than in later times. Possibly the only 
exceptions to this rule are the Australian aboriginals and the Melanesian 
savages. 



CHAPTER 8 


Division of Labour 


The difficulty which many experience in recognizing the matriarchal 
character of primitive societies arises, I believe, from a fundamental mis- 
conception. It is assumed that in a matriarchal society the women 
dominate the men in a way similar to that in which men dominate 
women in a patriarchal society, the difference merely being in the sex 
which exercises power. But in fact the relationship is quite different, for in 
advanced patriarchal societies men’s power depends upon the fact that 
they are producers, whereas women are economically dependent. In primi- 
tive society, however, where private property scarcely exists, no such re- 
lationship is possible and the conception of authority is not understood. 

It is the development of private property and the desire of the male to 
possess it which is the commonest cause of the change from matriarchy 
to patriarchy, the other frequent motive being the desire for a monopoly 
of certain magical powers. The term ‘mother-right’, which is so often 
employed in speaking of matriarchies, therefore contains a misleading 
implication, for it assumes the notion of established claims, which are 
in fact peculiar to patriarchal societies. The primitive ascendancy of 
women is founded not on economic power but on the constitution of 
the social group. The primitive human group is matriarchal for the same 
reasons that the animal group is matriarchal. The group subserves the 
maternal instincts and is governed by them, but this fact does not im- 
pose a female domination on the male. 

Where the matriarchal order exists after the development of private 
property, and such wealth continues to remain in the hands of the 
women, the result is indeed a female economic domination, similar to 
that of men in patriarchies. This state of affairs may be called a gynaeco- 
cracy, as distinct from primitive matriarchy. 

This does not mean that there are not distinctive economic relations 
in the primitive group. The sole form of wealth and power at such levels 
consists in power to produce, and the advantage in such power is in 
favour of the women, for in primitive society women are the chief 
producers. This power is associated with agriculture, which appertains 
to women, for the productiveness of the hunter can never go beyond 
hand-to-mouth subsistence. 



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Women's Labour 

It is precisely because the women sustain the main burden of labour 
that they are in a position of independence, and it is a fallacy to suppose 
that the hard work which they do is an indication of inferiority. No 
labour in primitive society is other than voluntary. Numerous accounts 
exist of the slavery and oppression of North American squaws ; they rest 
upon complete misunderstanding. ‘The work is not only voluntarily but 
cheerfully performed’, Father Theodat observes. ‘It is perfectly volun- 
tary labour. All labour with Indians is voluntary’, says Schoolcraft. 
Furthermore, though the women work hard, the work of the men is 
generally far more strenuous and dangerous. The women themselves 
say that they have no hardship, for while their labour in the fields em- 
ploys them, at most, for six weeks in the year, the men work the whole 
year. A single man may have to find food for as many as fifteen people, 
lie may have to walk twenty-five or thirty miles over rough ground, 
fasting, in order to find game and may have to drag home an 150 lb. deer. 

Some travellers have noted that, when savage people make a journey, 
the women bear the burdens while the men only carry weapons: but 
such an arrangement is essential both for safety and to free the men to 
take advantage of any game which may be encountered. 

What is true of North American Indian society is true of almost all 
primitive societies. Even where women are roughly handled, as in 
Australia or Melanesia, this treatment is not used to compel them to do 
tasks against their will. The state of such women is by no means so 
oppressed as one might imagine. Thus a missionary writes of the Zulus: 
‘Whoever has observed the happy appearance of the women at their 
work, their gaiety and chatter, their laughter and song . . . let him com- 
pare them with the bearing of our own working women.’ And as Shep- 
stone says : ‘The labour performed by the women bears no comparison 
to what is performed by the women of the lower classes in England. . . . 
As a rule, women only work during these eight weeks in the year.’ 

How did this division of labour between the sexes arise ? Among 
mammals there is no economic division of labour except in so far as the 
mothers of the young carnivora assist them in procuring food. The same 
is true of the higher primates ; in a band of gorillas each animal, male or 
female, forages for itself. No doubt, primitive humanity was also mainly 
frugivorous, and in those conditions very little division of labour could 
take place. As we shall presently see, in primitive society there is very 
incomplete division of labour. Women hunted equally with men and 
fishing was done more commonly by the women than the men. It was 
the development of hunting which finally established the primitive 
division of labour between the sexes. 



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This division of labour was not chiefly determined by the respective 
aptitudes of the sexes, nor by any physical inferiority in women, but by 
woman’s need to care for her offspring, which prevented her from under- 
taking pursuits entailing prolonged absence. This handicap is much 
greater in mankind than in any animal species, because of the much 
longer duration of infancy. An Iroquois myth recognizes this, represent- 
ing early men and women as hunting together in the forest, whereas 
when children were born there were so many things for the wife to do 
that she stayed at home. 

Physical Difference between the Sexes 

The disparities between men and women in physical power, enterprise 
and capacity for endurance, observed in civilized societies, are often 
regarded as due to organic differences, but they are much less marked 
among primitive men and women. Such differences are often assumed to 
be the cause of the division of labour, but seem to be largely a result of it. 

Throughout most of the animal kingdom the females are larger and 
more powerful than the males. This is true, for instance, of all spiders, 
all teleosteous fishes, all snakes, most lizards and many birds, as well as 
invertebrates generally. But among mammals the male is almost in- 
variably larger. It would appear that there is some correlation between 
the physiological development of motherhood, prolonged pregnancy, 
etc., and the reduced size of females among mammals. But, though the 
mammalian female is generally smaller, there is no sign of physical 
inferiority. On the contrary, female carnivores are more formidable than 
the males. ‘A lioness’, says Mr Rainsford, ‘is, I think I am safe in saying, 
a hundred per cent more dangerous than a lion.’ 

While women are generally smaller than the men of the same race, 
even this is not invariably true. Thus among the Bushmen the women 
are, on an average, about four centimetres taller than the men, and 
among the Adombies of the Congo the women are reportedly stronger 
and better-developed than the men, as also among the Ashira, the 
Bashilanga, the Wateita and others. In Dahomey ‘the women are gener- 
ally tall, muscular and broad, and the men smooth, full-breasted, round- 
limbed and effeminate-looking’. A Kikuyu man is quite unequal to 
carrying a load that his women think nothing of. The same is true of the 
Manyema women of the Congo, the Krus, the Iyashi of Nigeria, the 
Lala tribes and others. Similar reports come from Patagonia, Tierra del 
Fuego, Tibet, the Khasi women of Assam, the Gond tribes of Central 
India, the Chinwan of Formosa, the Dayaks and others. In Butan, the 
women carry the men on their backs when travelling. 

Speaking generally, the physical differences between the sexes are 
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prehistoric skeletons, the determination of sex is often difficult, since 
the bones are as massive in the female as in the male, while the muscular 
attachments are nearly as pronounced. Among the Bushmen, it is often 
difficult to distinguish the sexes in life, even where the individuals are 
almost naked. (The breasts constitute no distinction. They are so 
developed in the males that these are sometimes able to suckle.) Similar 
difficulties are reported by Phillips of the Lower Congo races, and of the 
Eskimo and other peoples. 

Women as Hunters and Fishers and as Warriors 

That men took on the labour of hunting was not due to incapacity on the 
part of the women. In British Columbia the women used to hunt ; the 
women of New Spain and of Nicaragua hunted regularly; the same is 
reported from Tierra del Fuego, Tibet, West Africa, Tasmania and else- 
where. Procopius mentions certain barbarians of Thule among whom 
men and women hunted together. 

Fishing is often exclusively a women’s occupation (as for instance 
among the Bambala, the Tasmanians, the Fuegians), and in some seasons 
the women provide the whole food supply of a tribe. 

In short, the primitive division of labour has become established more 
by a spirit of professional exclusiveness than by a difference in aptitude. 

Similarly the tendency of the man to take on the role of warrior and 
fighter is also due to economic necessity, rather than to any constitutional 
incapacity of women. In New Guinea, Malaya and many parts of the 
Pacific, including New Zealand and Hawaii, women were accustomed 
to fight alongside the men, and in the Ladrones they fought under 
female leaders. As late as 1900, when punitive expeditions were sent 
against an inland tribe in Papua, the police found that the houses were 
garrisoned by as many women as men. Women frequently accompanied 
the men to war among the North American Indians; the title of ‘Be- 
loved’ was bestowed upon those who had distinguished themselves by 
warlike deeds. During their expedition on the Klamath in 1854, the 
us troops frequently saw women fighting or found them dead. ‘One day 
the savages came suddenly upon them . . . filling the air with a perfect 
shower of arrows. But not a male barbarian was in sight. Before them, 
in serried line of battle, their women were moving to the charge, while 
the warriors slunk behind them, discharging their arrows between the 
women.’ In the province of Cartagena the Spaniards found that ‘the 
women fight as well as the men’. Columbus and his companions were 
attacked by female archers. 

In many Arab countries the women fight with the men; the Sultan of 
Zanzibar had an army of six thousand female soldiers. These were 
certainly not ornamental. In the case of the famous corps of Amazons 



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of Dahomey, to whom King Gueso owed his safety, the women alone 
stood their ground, in spite of appalling losses, while the rest of the 
army scattered. Their strenuous training involves taking fortified posi- 
tions by assault, charging through obstacles formed by cactus and spikes 
and, as they march past after these sham fights, their bodies stream with 
blood and the skin hangs in shreds from their torn limbs. 

The Tartar and Mongol women of Central Asia have long been noted 
for their war-like qualities; Matthew Paris, describing the Mongol 
hordes of Jinghis Khan, refers to the fierceness of their wives who 
‘fight like the men’. The kings of Siam used to keep an Amazonian 
guard, as did the Nizam of Hyderabad; the kings of Kandy kept a body- 
guard of female archers, as did the Persian kings. Of the ancient Scyth- 
ians, Diodorus reports that ‘the women fight like the men and are in no 
wise inferior to them in bravery’. There is therefore no reason to dismiss 
the Greek accounts of their battles with Asiatic Amazons. 

Celtic women regularly followed their male relatives in war, and such 
military service was not abolished until 590. Irish literature abounds 
with references to war-like women. Tradition preserves the memory of 
chieftainesses such as Geraldine Desmond who ‘was of a fierce and 
restless character’, and led her clansmen constantly into frays, killing 
all who opposed her. 

When the Romans had their first terrible encounter with the over- 
flowing barbarian tide at Aquae Sextiae, ‘the fight had been no less 
fierce with the women than with the men themselves’. When the bar- 
barian onslaught broke, the women erected barricades and fought 
fiercely amidst the mountains of dead ; when summoned to surrender, 
they killed their children, slaughtered one another and hanged them- 
selves on trees. Among the slain Marcomanni and Quadi, the Romans 
found the bodies of women in full armour. Several of the Gothic war- 
riors taken prisoner turned out to be women, and the same was ob- 
served by the Byzantines when they were attacked by the Varangians. 
Queen Boudicca boasted that British women were quite as good war- 
riors as the men. 

Of the endurance and courage of primitive women, an even more 
general test is constituted by their behaviour in childbirth. Though child- 
birth appears to be, as a rule, easier with primitive than with civilized 
women, nevertheless their endurance is remarkable, and in many 
tribes if a woman uttered a cry during labour she would be disgraced. 

Primitive Industry 

Thus it is clear that the differentiation of men as hunters was not due 
to the more limited powers of endurance of women. At the same time, 
the industrial occupations which give rise to material culture belong in 



DIVISION OF LABOUR IOI 

the rudest societies almost exclusively to the women. All industries 
were at first home industries, and developed therefore in the hands of 
the women. 

The preparation of skin as apparel was a function of women, and was 
carried to high levels of skill. The scrapers used by Eskimo women 
today for preparing skins are identical with those found in the drift 
gravels of the Ice Age, and in South Africa the country is strewn with 
scrapers, manufactured by the women of the Bush tribes, which are 
identical with those of Palaeolithic Europe. The flint arrow-heads of the 
Seri Indians, which are identical in type with those of Palaeolithic 
Europe, are said to be manufactured by the women. 

The decorations on a fur robe and the combination of various furs 
may be so elaborate that it may take a whole year to complete a single 
garment. The sewing and ornamenting of robes even form the chief 
purpose of a kind of 'secret society’ among North American Indians; 
a society from which men were excluded. 

A similar development occurs in those areas where women concen- 
trate on weaving or plaiting. Thus in New Zealand, where there are at 
least twelve different styles of mats differing in the fashion of plaiting, 
each is the speciality of the women of a particular tribe. Initiation into 
the art was conducted as a religious ceremony; a consecrated workshop 
was reserved for the purpose, and if a man entered the precincts all 
work was stopped and put aside. Similarly, among the Manipur tribes, 
cloth in ten different patterns is produced in certain villages only, this 
industry being carried on by the women alone. 

Pottery 

The art of pottery is likewise found in the hands of women among all 
primitive peoples. Only under the influence of advanced culture does 
it become a man’s occupation. Thus, out of seventy-eight tribes investi- 
gated by the ethnologists attached to the Belgian Congo Museum, 
‘the men had no hand whatever in the making of pottery in sixty-seven’; 
the others ‘are exceptions arising from special circumstances which in 
almost every instance it is easy to trace’. If we follow the course of the 
Nile we find a complete series, from Nubia where, at the present day, 
the pottery is made exclusively by the women, through Upper Egypt, 
where the head-potter is a man with women working under him, to 
Lower Egypt where the pottery is made by the men. And there is no 
reasonable doubt that prehistoric pottery was the work of women. 
Remains found in the lacustrine dwellings of Switzerland bear numer- 
ous imprints of thumbs and fingers ; undoubtedly those of women. 

In this field, too, the art becomes a mystery, the secrets being trans- 
mitted in the female line. Every Samoki woman must be proficient in 



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the art, but she is forbidden to practise it if she marries in another 
district. The same thing is noted in Ceram and among the Massims 
of New Guinea. Pottery is unknown in most parts of Melanesia, but 
in those where it exists it is likewise a monopoly handed down from 
mother to daughter. In East Africa, among the Nandi, no man may 
go near the hut where women are engaged in making pottery, and if a 
man should take a woman’s pot he would be sure to die. In Manipur if a 
man approaches while a woman is making pots they will crack in the 
firing; as also in Brazil among the Tupis. 

The Greek tradition that the first ‘patera’ w r as moulded on the breast 
of Helen is illustrated by the practice of the Zuhi women who, as of 
old, make their pitchers in the shape of a female breast. The nipple is 
left open to the last and the sealing of it is performed with the solemnity 
of a religious rite. The vessel is thus assimilated to the woman herself, 
for unless this ritual were observed that woman might be barren. Such 
an assimilation is widespread. In the earliest Egyptian hieroglyphics 
the pot is the symbol of womanhood, and vases used among the archaic 
populations of the ALgean were frequently in the shape of a woman. 
In Greece the pot was an emblem of fecundity. In Cyprus, at Lithro- 
donto, a potter of today puts two little dabs of moist clay on the right 
and left side of the rounded surface, slightly above the middle, little 
knowing why he does so. But vases disinterred by archaeologists from 
tombs 2,500 years old display numerous specimens with the same 
finishing touch — the two dabs representing two breasts. ‘The Mother 
Pot is really a fundamental conception in all religions,’ observes Dr 
Elliott Smith, ‘and is almost world-wide in its distribution.’ 

The sacred vessels used in religious cults often retain their archaic 
character. Thus the pots used by the Roman vestals were, even in the 
height of Roman splendour, made in the coarsest fashion without the 
use of a wheel, and were spoken of as ‘Numa’s crockery’. There can be 
little doubt that in early times the potters were the vestals themselves. 
In the same manner the vestals of Peru served their God in very coarse 
vessels of clay, until the Incas, shocked at this, had them replaced by 
vessels of gold. The Zuhi women, with an aesthetic sense that would 
have rejoiced Ruskin, scorn the wheel — a comparatively late develop- 
ment — as giving a machine-made appearance to the products, and trust 
entirely to the eye. 1 

Thus we may conclude that the art of pottery was a feminine in- 
vention. 

1 The patterns with which the clay is ornamented are commonly derived from 
the braiding of basket-work, and early pots were no doubt shaped in or upon 
baskets. Much contemporary pottery preserves these patterns, and the ‘Greek 
fret’ need be no more than a basketry version of a ‘loop-coil’ meander. 



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Building 

We are not accustomed to think of architecture as a feminine occupation. 
Yet, just as the animal builds its nest or burrow, so also primitive 
woman was the actual home-builder. The huts of the Australian, of 
the Andaman islanders, of the Patagonians, of the Botocudos, the rough 
shelters of the Seri, the skin lodges and wigwams of the American Indian, 
the black camel-hair tent of the Bedouin, the ‘yurts’ of the nomads of 
Central Asia, arc all the exclusive work of women. But even the most 
elaborate buildings of the uncultured world were fashioned by women. 
The earth-lodges of the Omahas were built entirely by them, as were 
the elaborate pueblos of New Mexico and Arizona, with their court- 
yards and piazzas. Among the Zuni today the men assist with the 
heavier work of timbering; but among the Hopis the work is still done 
entirely by the women. When the first Spanish priests settled among the 
Pueblo Indians, no man had ever set his hand to the erection of a house. 
In the building of the larger and more substantial timber houses most 
of the heavy work is generally undertaken by the men, but the tradition 
of the primitive division of labour survives in the fact that the men are 
invariably assisted by the women. In Samoa, for instance, the women do 
the thatching, though the men erect the framework. In Egypt even in 
the present day the building is done by the women, and the assistants 
of the master builder arc invariably girls. 

It is a significant detail that, in most parts of the uncultured world, 
the maximum of care is bestowed on buildings in which food is stored, 
and which therefore belong to the province of women. Sir Charles 
Fellows was one of the first to remark that the food stores in Lykia and 
other parts of Asia Minor at the present day are the exact counterpart 
of the ancient tombs and temples. 

The primitive temples of Greece were built of wood. The earliest 
temple of Delphi was a thatched hut. In Lydia, the dwelling-houses, as 
Herodotus mentions, were mostly built of reeds and mud. There can 
be little doubt that, like the African kraals which they resembled, they 
were built by the women. The most imposing monument in the country, 
the heroon of Alyattes, bore on one of its columns an inscription stating 
that, for the most part, it had been built by women. 

Primitive Trade 

Since all surplus production belongs to the women, both as cultivators 
of the soil and as keepers of the food store, it is theirs to dispose of. In 
all early culture, the barter and traffic is in the hands of the women. 
This is true throughout Africa, where trade is almost exclusively 
carried on by the women. Formerly the North American fur trade was 



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in the hands of the women who prepared the skins. In Nicaragua ‘a 
man may not enter the market or even see the proceedings, at the risk 
of a beating’. Throughout Central Asia trading is entirely in the hands 
of the women, as Marco Polo also reported. This is also true of Tibet, 
Burma and many parts of the Pacific. 

Medicine and Surgery 

The search of women for edible vegetables acquainted them with the 
properties of herbs and made them the first doctors. The word ‘medi- 
cine’, and the name Medea, the medical herbalist witch, come from the 
same root— a root meaning knowledge or wisdom. 

Primitive medicine is of course for the most part a department of 
magic, and women, as we shall see, were the primitive practitioners of 
this art. In addition, in many areas the women arc the surgeons and treat 
all injuries received in warfare. Thus, throughout the primitive popu- 
lations of Indonesia, the treatment of the sick is almost exclusively in 
the hands of medicine-women. Among the Land Dayaks, while there 
are both male and female doctors, the service of women is regarded 
as more valuable and is more highly remunerated. Among many North 
American tribes, as also among the Eskimos, the profession is practised 
solely by the old women. The same is true in Patagonia, Chile, Mexico 
and elsewhere. 

In early Arabia and down to the Middle Ages the treatment of wounds 
and the practice of medicine were recognized occupations of women, 
and even at the present day this tradition survives in the more secluded 
Muslim countries. Among the ancient Germans, Scandinavians and 
the inhabitants of Gaul, women were regarded as especially qualified 
in medicine. 

In short, to a far greater extent than is generally realized, the sexual 
differences between men and women are products of social develop- 
ment. Primitive woman is anything but ‘effeminate’, and is as capable 
as the man of providing for herself, if she is not indeed his superior. 

It is commonly supposed that the facts of primitive matriarchy favour 
the doctrine of feminism — that is, the view that women are fitted for 
all the pursuits which in our society are regarded as masculine. This 
view, whether correct or not, docs not follow from the respective 
capacities of men and women in primitive society. The predominance 
of women in primitive society, which appears to some so paradoxical, 
would be largely restored in our own society if culture were limited to 
the range of activities of the primitive household. 

In the spheres which are important at this cultural level, intellectual 
advantage is with the female. She is more wary and ingenious than the 
male, and it is little wonder that the savage habitually goes to his women- 



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folk for advice. In many societies it has been remarked that the women 
are mentally higher than the men, and they are far more self-possessed. 
For instance, according to Mr Landor, ‘the Tibetan woman is far 
superior to the Tibetan man. She possesses a better heart, more pluck 
and a finer character than he does. Time after time, when the male, 
timid beyond description, ran away at our approach, the women re- 
mained in charge of the tents and, although by no means cool and 
collected, they very rarely failed to meet us without a show of dignity.’ 
The same thing may be observed in the ruder strata of western society : 
the French peasant woman, for instance, is a more intelligent, alert and 
less awkward person than her man. 

Position of Chiefs 

It has sometimes been thought that the fact that in matriarchal societies 
the headman or chief is commonly a man is an argument against the 
view that primitive society was essentially matriarchal. This is due to a 
misunderstanding: the position of the headman in primitive societies 
entailed nothing of authority, for there is no such authority in truly 
primitive societies. Those whom the whites call headmen are usually 
little more than spokesmen, put forward to voice the views of the group 
and without any power to act on their own initiative. In Northern 
Melanesia, the transacting of any business with the natives is ‘rendered 
very difficult by the fact that they have no chiefs’, while in New Cale- 
donia the chiefs have ‘absolutely no political power’. Among the tribes 
of Assam, ‘each village is a small republic and each man as good as his 
neighbour; indeed, it would be hard to find anywhere else more 
thoroughly democratic communities. Headmen do exist, but their 
authority is very small.’ 

Such tribes have often found the necessity of appointing a leader for 
hunting or war. Thus a missionary reports of the Indians of Brazil, that 
‘they know neither princes nor kings; each family regards itself as 
absolutely free ; every Indian looks upon himself as independent. As the 
continual wars which they have to wage against their neighbours place 
that liberty in danger, they have learnt the necessity of forming a sort of 
society, and they choose a chief who is called “cacique”. But in choosing 
him, their intention is not to give themselves a master but a protector 
and father under whose guidance they desire to place themselves.’ 
Similarly, among the Iroquois, the chiefs are nothing more than the 
most respected among their equals in rank. Their principal duty is to 
conduct negotiations, and if they make a mistake they are reprimanded 
or dismissed. 

Among the Arabs, the chief is merely ‘influential’, and is obliged at 
every turn to consult the tribal council. Even in Africa, the land of 

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despots, the chiefs are not always what the European assumes. Often 
they are no more than war-leaders. Thus Dundas states, of a number of 
tribes of East Africa : ‘After the most careful inquiry ... I feel convinced 
that these tribes have no heads or leaders who could be dignified with 
the names of chiefs.’ 

Thus the existence of male chiefs in primitive social groups, far from 
constituting a difficulty as regards their matriarchal nature, appears, on 
the contrary, to prove the impossibility that such groups could ever have 
been formed in the first instance around the authority of a dominant 
male. Such domination is incompatible with the equalitarian character 
of primitive societies. 

The desire to dominate takes different forms in men and women. 
Woman’s ambition is not to exercise physical compulsion, but to bend 
the will of others to her desire, to overcome not physical but psychical 
resistances. Her object is to have her way. The man, however, delights 
in the display of power, is flattered by hostile envy and desires his power 
to be felt and known. Thus it is that, where tribes have conquered other 
peoples, the war-leader has acquired absolute authority over them. 

The point is further emphasized by the fact that, in matriarchal 
communities, the authority of the male headman is even more insigni- 
ficant than in other primitive communities. Thus among the Seri the 
chief appears to do little more than communicate the decisions of the 
matrons to the men ; he is not chosen with regard to his own qualifications 
but to those of his wife. In Khyrim, the chieftainship is limited to the 
male relatives of the high -priestess. Among the Pelew Islanders the 
authority of male chiefs is exercised over the men only ; women do not 
even salute them, and they can take no action without consulting the 
council of matrons. 

But even when the theory of male rule has become fully developed, the 
authority of the woman is completely recognized within the home and 
the economy of the family. The primitive division of functions has some- 
times left its trace in comparatively advanced communities. In Hawaii 
the administration of all internal affairs was under the control of the 
queen, the king being concerned with foreign politics only. 

Position of the Woman? s Brother 

In his character of warrior, the man is defender of the home, and in 
him is vested the executive power of action in the relation between the 
home and a hostile environment. But the male to whom a woman looks 
for this protection is not her sexual mate but her brother. The word 
brother, in Sanskrit ‘bhratr’, comes from the root ‘bhr’, to support. 

The position of the eldest brother of the woman is so well-known a 
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frequently survived the original constitution. Thus, in North America 
the relationship of uncles is, in several particulars, more important than 
any other. In every part of the African continent the mother’s brother is 
responsible for his sister’s children. For instance, on the Gold Coast a 
man may chastise or even sell his sister’s children, but in no circum- 
stances may he do so with his own, since they do not belong to his 
family but to the mother’s. Among the Adiokru of the Ivory Coast 
province, legitimate children are under the care of their father, illegiti- 
mate children (who suffer no social disability) under the care of their 
mother’s brother — the matriarchal and patriarchal customs thus existing 
side by side. Among the natives of Timorlaut, although the social organ- 
ization is now essentially patriarchal, the mother’s brother occupies a 
fundamental position and performs most of the parental functions. 

We have already noticed this relationship among the ancient Germans, 
and we have found distinct traces of it in primitive Rome. Among the 
Christian Ossetes of the Caucasus, before a man can marry he must 
present a horse to the bride’s maternal uncle. Today no social organiza- 
tion is more definitely patriarchal than theirs. In Krete, in the seventh 
century bc, when patriarchal usages had become well-established, a 
woman’s illegitimate children were brought up by her brother. 

The brother is also the partner in the economic association which 
constitutes the primitive group. Moreover, the main object of a woman’s 
affection is her brother rather than her sexual mate. If we have grasped 
the fact that the extension of affection towards the male has the sole 
object of enlisting his co-operation, we shall have no difficulty in under- 
standing why a woman’s affection for her brother may be as lively as 
that for her husband — if not indeed more real, for sexual love always 
contains a hidden element of opposition. In primitive societies, the 
bonds between brother and sister are generally stronger than those 
between husband and wife, and the existence of the latter is often 
doubted. Thus among the Hovas of Madagascar, where love between 
husband and wife is said to be ‘not even thought of’, there is ‘no lack of 
affection between brothers and sisters’. The closest relation existed 
between brother and sister among the North American Indians: if a 
young warrior captured a horse it was to his sister that he presented it; 
it was invariably his sister who advanced to meet him when he returned 
from battle. Even where traditional usages of avoidance place a barrier 
between brother and sister, as in New Caledonia, they remain extremely 
fond of each other. In Samoa, the relationship is regarded as ‘semi- 
sacred’. 

In Sophocles’ Antigone , the heroine sacrifices herself not for her lover, 
who plays a subordinate part in the drama, but for her brother, and 
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horrified Goethe, but exactly the same sentiments are expressed in the 
oldest Teutonic literature. Herodotus also relates how the wife of Inta- 
phernes, when Darius gave her the boon of asking for the life of one of 
her kinsmen, chose her brother, and this so pleased Darius that he gave 
her the life of her eldest son also. 

A widely current Arab proverb reproduces this reasoning. ‘A husband 
can be found, a son can be borne, but a brother cannot be replaced.’ 

The Marital Group Family 

Prescientific theorists have generally regarded the family as the original 
unit of primitive society, for as an eighteenth-century writer elegantly 
puts it: ‘The husband and the wife of his bosom, whom love unites by 
the silken ties of matrimony, form the first society; this union is first 
founded on the call of nature, in mutual assistance, and the sweet hopes 
of seeing themselves reproduced in numerous offspring.’ The facts of 
ethnology do not accord with this dogma. Primitive social organization, 
on the contrary, is based on common blood and on derivation from the 
same womb — the so-called uterine family. Thus among the Fanti, each 
family includes members of the mother’s side only ; the mother and all 
her children, male and female belong to her family, as do her mother 
and maternal uncles and aunts, but her father and all his relatives are 
nothing to her nor are her husband nor any of his relatives. 

In many primitive societies there is no word for the concept of family, 
though there may be a word which indicates marriage. Thus Mr Joel- 
son says, speaking of the natives of East Africa generally: ‘For want of a 
better word, I must needs refer to the Negro “family”, but my readers 
will realise that the term in this connection is used to convey an idea 
essentially different from the construction put upon it in modern society.’ 
Of the ‘family’ in West Africa, Clozel said: ‘Although apparently it 
resembles that of European societies with father, mother and children, 
the father’s authority scarcely exists and from the civil point of view he 
is not the parent of his children. The true family among the Alladian 
only takes account of the uterine parentage’. Among the Wyandots, says 
Mr Powell, ‘the family household is not a unit, as two gentes are repre- 
sented in each, the father must belong to one gens, the mother and her 
children to another’. ‘The Indians consider their wives as strangers’, says 
an old missionary. ‘It is a common saying among them, “My wife is 
not my friend”, that is “she is not related to me and I need not care for 
her”.’ 

The husband was isolated; plans and secrets existed among the mem- 
bers of the gens rather than between husband and wife. The children 
do not regard their father as a relative by blood; if he requires assistance 
they consider that ‘his people’ should look after him. In disputes, the 



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children and the father in primitive society fought on opposite sides. 
Among the Haidas ‘it appears as if marriage were an alliance between 
opposite tribes, a man begetting offspring rather for his wife than for 
himself, and being inclined to see his real descendants rather in his 
sister’s children than in his own. Husbands and wives did not hesitate 
to betray each other to death in the interests of their own families’. 
Among the Goajiros, we are told again in so many words, ‘what we call 
the family does not exist’. Numerous other cases can be instanced. 

Not only docs the family not exist as a juridic or social unit, it fre- 
quently does not even comprise a physical association. It is common in 
primitive society for husband and wife to live apart. In New Caledonia 
‘domestic life does not exist’. Men and women are seldom seen talking 
or sitting together. The men generally associate with other men and live 
in their club-house. The Nayar husband is not even permitted to take 
food in his wife’s house; indeed, it is a universal rule in India that men 
and women do not eat together. There is no common life between hus- 
band and wife in China ; the house is divided into two and the sexes live 
in separate compartments. In Korea ‘family life as we have it is quite 
unknown’. The same is true of the Eskimo. There was scarcely any 
intercourse between men and women in any of the North American 
tribes; a man did not take his meals with his wife, and rarely spoke to 
her in public. So fundamental was the custom that it was kept up by the 
completely Christianized and semi-Europeanized Indians living on the 
outskirts of Quebec. Similar customs can be found among the Pueblo 
Indians, the Caribbean tribes, the Carajas of Brazil and in many parts of 
Africa. 

Even more extraordinary in our eyes is the fact that the husband is 
commonly a clandestine and surreptitious visitor to his wife. One of the 
Japanese words for marriage is ‘yome-iri’, which may be interpreted 
‘to slip by night into the house’, and this is the common mode of con- 
nubial intercourse among many primitive peoples. Among the Khasis 
‘the husband came to his mother-in-law’s home only after dark, and he 
did not eat, smoke, or even take betel-nut there’. Among the Tipperah, 
the Takut, the Samoyeds, the Kurils, the Tartars and other tribes, the 
husband slips surreptitiously to his wife’s room after dark and leaves 
before dawn. If a Tartar is seen leaving, he receives a sound drubbing 
from his wife’s relatives. In Khorassan, it was the rule for the mother of 
the bride to introduce the bridegroom secretly into the house by the back 
door, and he had to depart before dawn. Among the Cherkiss the hus- 
band gets in through the window; much the same is true throughout 
the Caucasus. 

The same practice was found in the primitive community of Sparta. 
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America, the Caribs of the West Indies and many tribes of New Guinea, 
as well as those of Fiji and elsewhere. 

The idea that this behaviour was due to some innate sense of delicacy, 
though met with in apologetic literature, cannot be taken seriously, for 
those natives who would be filled with confusion if seen approaching 
the hut of their wife have at the same time no scruple against indulging 
in promiscuity, and even incest, coram populo. There is good reason to 
suppose that the relations between husband and wife were attended 
with real danger. The beating which the Tartar husband incurs, if 
detected, is more than a ritual ; and similarly in Kamchatka it is ‘beyond 
a joke’. A Russian story describes how a suitor, when he finally obtained 
his bride, was unfortunately rendered impotent by the barbarous treat- 
ment he received. Among the Mongols not only the bridegroom but all 
his male friends were thrashed by the dowagers of the bride’s family. 
The same sort of thing, it would appear, happened in ancient Arabia. 
Among certain Germanic tribes patrilocal wedding appears to have 
been somewhat risky; the ancient laws of Frisia provided for the bride- 
groom being murdered during the ceremony — the bride was instructed 
to follow his corpse home if she wished to claim her share of the inheri- 
tance. Many of the customs which have been described as survivals of 
‘marriage by capture’ are in reality manifestations of this general hos- 
tility between the wives’ and husbands’ group, especially when it is 
required that the woman should leave her group and join her husband’s 
tribe. Swanton goes so far as to say that among the Haidas the members 
of the two clans regarded each other as downright enemies. 

Accordingly it is difficult to believe that the family as we know it was 
the germ of social organization, and that society was formed by the 
aggregation of family groups. Indeed, it is dear that the patriarchal 
family group is actually in direct conflict with the instincts which have 
determined human association. The basic group which the patriarchal 
group has superseded is the Motherhood — that is, the mother and her 
offspring. It follows that the primitive social instincts of society are not 
the sexual instincts but the maternal instincts and the ties of kinship 
that derive from them. To these forces sexual instincts are secondary. 
‘Love of the clan’, says an old Arab poet, ‘is greater than the love 
between husband and wife.’ 



CHAPTER 9 


The Institution of Marriage 


What is the origin of marriage ? It is sometimes said that the purpose 
of marriage is the procreation of children, but evidently marriage is not 
essential to procreation. Among animals, mating is far rarer than is 
supposed. There is no evidence of it among the anthropoid apes, and 
among those mammals which do mate it usually takes the form of an 
association which nearly all human races would regard as incestuous. 
Although certain birds and mammals gain economic advantages by 
associating, this is not so in maternal clans, where these advantages are 
already secured by the female’s association with brothers or with other 
males of the group who are not sexual partners. 

In some communities only a small minority of the people enter into 
marriage, even though the marriage institutions are themselves fairly 
elaborate. For example, among the Line Islanders marriage is a method 
for conveying landed property, and only the property-owning class 
marries. In the Society Islands marriage seems to have been confined to 
the higher class of chiefs; while in the Pageh Islands marriage is some- 
times contracted by elderly men who wish to provide a home for their 
old age. 

Even those who seriously believe that husband and wife constitute 
the primary social unit recognize that marriage is a social institution and 
not an instinctive necessity. Most peoples in all stages of culture have 
held this view. The Roman jurists were quite clear on the point. They 
made a basic distinction between natural and social or juridic facts. 
Natural law, they said, is what nature has taught all animals; it is not a 
law peculiar to the human race. The maternal relation, they considered, 
was a natural fact, but the paternal relationship belonged to the sphere 
of juridic institutions. Again, matrimony is the name of a natural fact, 
for it derives from the relation of motherhood; marriage, however, is 
the name of a civil institution. 

In many traditions, marriage is stated to be a relatively late institution. 
The Greeks believed that marriage had been instituted by Kekrops, and 
that previously promiscuous cohabitation had been the custom. The 
Chinese thought similarly, substituting Fu-Hi for Kekrops, while the 
Peruvians attributed the establishment of marriage to Manco-Capac. 



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Even such uncultured people as the Lapps, the Wogul and the Austra- 
lian savages attribute the invention of marriage to some traditional 
legislator. 

If there were really any ‘mating instinct’ which determined marriage, 
such an instinct should, in primitive society at least, take precedence 
over all other considerations. The personal desire of a man and woman 
to enter into a fundamental association should be the basis of the social 
order ; but in point of fact the exact reverse is the case. It is regarded 
almost everywhere as irregular that a man and a woman should spon- 
taneously form such an association on their own initiative. Such a thing 
would have shocked our own grandmothers ; and the Australian Black- 
fellows, like most other savages, would have shared their feelings. 
Marriage, on the contrary, is a matter arranged by the families : among 
the Hidatsa Indians a marriage not so arranged is scarcely looked upon 
as deserving the name of marriage ; indeed, they do not call it a marriage, 
but have a special term for so disreputable a relationship. The same is 
true among the Haidas ; a West African negro explained in court that a 
certain person would hardly be regarded as better than a bastard since 
‘his parents married for love’. Among the Malays of the Patini States, a 
runaway match is not regarded as legal. This is, in fact, almost univers- 
ally true in primitive society. Even in England, where personal freedom 
in such matters has always been greater than in most other countries, 
up to the eighteenth century a marriage without parental consent was 
null and void when one of the parties was under the age of twenty-one, 
and the position is similar in most other European countries today. 

In Russia, ‘among the upper classes the bride and bridegroom never 
saw each other before the wedding; among the people they saw each 
other but never dared to speak about marriage, that being a thing which 
did not depend upon themselves’. Among the Romans marriage was 
purely a family contract, and in ancient Athens, ‘we have not a single 
instance of a man having loved a free-born woman and marrying her 
from affection’. The Spartans, who represent a more primitive state of 
Greek society, ‘considered marriage not as a private relation . . . but as a 
public institution’. The same views obtained among the barbarians of 
Northern Europe. The laws of the Aryas expressly condemn as immoral 
‘the voluntary union of a maid and her lover’. Such unions are ‘blame- 
able marriages’. 

In China the most fundamental principle of the elaborate marriage 
institution is that marriage is an alliance between two families, and that 
the bride and bridegroom have no concern in it — so much so that it is 
not uncommon for two families to be united by matrimonial alliance, 
even though one, or both, of the parties concerned is dead. Further- 
more, the negotiations must be conducted by a professional go-between. 



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and the young people first make each other’s acquaintance when the 
transaction is completed. Any infringement of this rule is looked upon as 
profoundly immoral. ‘When children do not await the decision of their 
fathers and mothers and the words of the go-betweens, but bore holes 
in walls in order to see each other, leap over walls in order to meet, their 
fathers and mothers and all the people of the realm despise and con- 
demn them.’ 

Marriages negotiated by Go-betweens 

Go-betweens are, indeed, used widely; in Australia, for example; in 
Borneo, among the Dayaks; in the Ladrones, the Banks and Loyalty 
Islands ; in Africa among the Basutos and Bambara, as well as a number 
of other African peoples. They are an indispensable institution among 
the Arabs, as well as among many South American tribes. Among the 
North American Indians, ‘courtship is always begun by proxy’. Go- 
betweens are found in much the same forms in Tibet, upper Burma and 
among the Tamil populations of Ceylon, as in Cambodia, Cochin- 
China, Siam, Java, Formosa and the Philippines. In Europe the same 
is true among the Poles, the various Slav races and the Finns. 

In many societies the marriage is arranged when the parties con- 
cerned are still infants, a practice by no means confined to sophisticated 
aristocracies. The allotting of girls at birth, or before, is the universal 
rule among the Australian aborigines . 1 The usage is prevalent, though 
not universal, throughout Melanesia, and was common in the case of 
men of distinction among the Polynesians . 2 3 It is general in New Guinea, 
and the children arc commonly married and cohabit when hardly able 
to toddle. :i It is found in every part of Micronesia and the Philippines, 
although there it is an occasional means of cementing an alliance be- 
tween families and not a general practice. It is common in Indonesia, it 
is very prevalent among all the peoples of Northern Asia, and appears 
to be almost universal among the Turkic populations. As is well-known, 
it is an obligatory practice among the Hindus, and appears to be an 
original usage with the Tamil populations. It is the rule among the 
primitive forest tribes of Malaya; and in Africa, where marriage by 
purchase has reached its highest development, that purchasing power is 
extensively used to secure girls in infancy. Though prevalent among the 
Eskimo and Alaskan tribes, it is comparatively rare among the North 
American races of the eastern regions and the plains. Infant betrothal is 
also general in South America. 

1 A bibliography of forty-two titles is appended in support of these and the 
following assertions in the unabridged edition. 

2 A bibliography of forty- three titles is appended. 

3 A bibliography of fifteen titles is appended. 



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Where patriarchy is the rule, it is almost invariably the father who 
has the right to dispose of his daughters, as for example among the 
Kaffirs of South Africa. Among the Papuans of Geelvink Bay, the father 
obtains a wife for his son while the latter is still an infant. Sometimes 
the selection of a wife is left to a chief or king, as among the Bantu. In 
matriarchal societies and those which have preserved matriarchal tradi- 
tions, the duty often devolves upon the maternal uncle, and it is his 
consent which is essential among the North American Indians. This 
idea is so inherent in Indian thought that a current proverb asks: ‘If a 
girl is not given in marriage by her mother’s brother, then who will give 
her ?’ We have already noticed the same fact in many parts of Africa. 
Elsewhere, however, it is the mothers of the respective families who 
arrange the marriages, as among the Western Eskimo. Among the 
North American Indians, ‘the first proceedings must be initiated by the 
matrons’. (Though it is the father who gives his consent.) 

Personal Inclinations 

Some writers think this custom tyrannous; others note that the personal 
wishes of the parties are often deferred to. These opposed points of 
view rest upon a misconception — upon the fallacy of attributing to 
primitive humanity sentiments which are really peculiar to advanced 
cultures. The majority of those concerned have no personal preferences 
in the selection of partners and, in general, there is no objection to the 
selection made by the authorities. Where objection is made it is often 
deferred to, and frequently the objection is only to the partner being 
too old, not an objection to his particular personality. The selection of a 
wife is often undertaken by the authorities at the young man’s request ; 
it is a wife he wants, not a particular young woman. Thus among the 
Basutos, when a young man wishes to marry, all he does is to drive the 
cows out of the kraal and let the calves be suckled by their mothers. This 
conventional sign is understood, and the young man’s parents immedi- 
ately set about procuring a wife for him. A Catholic missionary among 
the Dene relates how the Indians often consulted him about a proposed 
match, and he at first endeavoured to give them his best advice as to the 
pros and cons of the alliance. He soon discovered that what they wanted 
was not advice but a peremptory order to marry. Often, too, he would 
be told by those whose marriage had turned out unhappy that they were 
perfectly aware when they married that they could not agree, but they 
were told to marry and therefore had no option. Similarly, among the 
Bataks of Sumatra girls readily refuse suitors possessing every attrac- 
tion in order to marry the young man to whom they are assigned by 
custom. If questioned, they say: ‘It is the custom. What else is one to 
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So universal a practice could not have arisen or have been maintained 
in equalitarian primitive societies had there been any real antagonism 
between such actions and the individual desires of each member. It is 
easy to show that in such contracts the wishes of individuals are very 
seldom set aside. In West Africa, for example, should a girl refuse to 
fulfil the contract, ‘the tendency is not to bring compulsion to bear on 
the woman but to enforce restitution of the dowry paid to the girl’s 
father’. Indeed, the deference paid to the personal objections of the 
young man or woman is much more marked in primitive societies than 
in most civilized communities where prearranged marriages are the rule. 
The individualistic interests aroused by the profitable disposal of mar- 
riageable daughters may, on the other hand, lead to the use of coercion, 
and an incompatibility which did not originally exist between the wishes 
of the individual and the authority of the group thus develops. The 
objections then raised are a sign of the decay of old customs. In the state 
of society in which such customs originated, there was no conflict 
between the individual and the tribal will. 

Marriages Celebrated among all Members of Two Groups 

The authority in such matters derives not from the father but from the 
group, and defiance of the group’s authority is the most heinous of 
crimes; it is usually punishable by death. But in its original form the 
group’s control refers not to unions between individuals but between 
groups of individuals. A person is bound to marry 7 within a certain 
group, but within the group freedom of choice is, as a rule, not inter- 
fered with. For primitive legislation takes little account of private 
affairs, and concerns itself exclusively with matters which affect the 
whole group. Thus, among the Arawak a man is bound to marry — and 
is, in fact, allotted at birth to — a certain group of females. To marry 
outside that group would be inconceivably impious, but within it he is 
free to choose as he pleases. Thus it is that stringent determinism may 
be combined with the greatest freedom of personal inclination. Count- 
less primitive peoples are in the same situation. Thus among the Gonds, 
if a brother and a sister have respectively a son and a daughter, it is 
compulsory for these to marry, but if a girl has several cousins she has 
the right to choose among them. 

In those societies where the father, maternal uncle or mother dispose 
of the young person, they do so not in their personal capacity but as 
representatives of the family; it is true that, especially in patriarchal 
society, this may develop into a personal despotism, but this is a later 
abuse. The will of the head of the group is rarely exercised without 
consultation with all its members. Thus when the Malaiali father sets 
out to find a bride for his son he is accompanied by his relatives, and the 



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first person he approaches is neither the intended bride or her parents 
but the headman of a neighbouring village. A Kadir young man must 
work in some village for a year, and then generally has an opportunity 
of selecting a bride — but before he can enter into any negotiations, he 
must return home and inform the villagers of his intention and obtain 
their sanction. The practice of referring a marriage to a tribal council 
or a whole group is widespread. In New Zealand when a young man 
married a girl of different tribe, failure to obtain the permission of both 
might lead to war. Among the Hurons of North America ‘proposals 
made to the girl’s mother were submitted by her to the women’s coun- 
cil, whose decision was final’ ; while among the Pawnees a marriage was 
discussed in a solemn assembly by all the relatives of both parties. In 
Western Australia the consent of the whole tribe is necessary to the con- 
clusion of a marriage, while in the Gilbert Islands all the males of the 
clan must signify their consent, as also with the natives of San Cristobal 
in the Solomons. 

The presents which it is customary to exchange on the occasion of a 
marriage, or the bride-price which is paid, are in many of the most 
primitive groups supplied by all the relatives of the one group, and 
distributed among all the members of the other group. Thus among the 
North American Indians such presents are collected from the husband’s 
kindred and are equally distributed among the members of the wife’s 
family. Among the Araucanians all the relatives share the bride-price. 
Among the Yakut there are two distinct bride-prices, one payable to the 
bride’s parents and the other to the whole of her clan. In Samoa, the 
immediate relatives of the bridegroom ‘had to go on begging expeditions 
to all who were connected with them, and collect from them large 
quantities of property’, and the family of the bride did the same. Similar 
procedures are widespread in every part of Africa. The whole tribe 
contributes towards the payment among the natives of Central Ceram 
and the Toradjas of the Central Celebes. 

Furthermore, a marriage is commonly celebrated not by the happy 
couple but by the two families; indeed, the bride and bridegroom are 
sometimes absent from the ceremony. They do not appear at the wed- 
ding celebration among the Kirghis, the Yurok or the Buryat; while 
among the Pathans the one person who is conspicuous by his absence 
in the wedding procession is the bridegroom. The wedding banquet 
might, at first sight, appear to be an institution calling for no explana- 
tion beyond the natural one that it serves as an occasion for conviviality. 
But closer examination suggests that there is more to it. Among many 
peoples the eating of food together by the bride and bridegroom is the 
essence of the marriage ceremony, and often it is the only occasion on 
which they take a meal together. It seems possible that it is this rite 



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which actually joins together the peoples in matrimony, 1 and this 
conjecture is strengthened by the forms which the banquets sometimes 
assumed. Thus among the Yakut the bride and bridegroom do not take 
part in the banquet, but sit with their faces towards the wall. The 
relatives exchange pieces of meat, symbolizing the union of the families 
which henceforth are to be ‘flesh of one flesh, and bone of one bone’. 
Among various tribes of British Central Africa, unless the parents of 
both parties cat the food cooked by the bride’s parents, the marriage 
is neither legal nor binding. Similarly among the Rajbansis of Purnea, 
in Bengal, a man who is too poor to afford such a meal may marry a 
woman with elaborate religious ceremonies, but until he has saved up 
enough money to provide a wedding meal he is regarded as living in a 
state of concubinage. The Chuhra of the Punjab do not admit the other 
party to family privileges until after the ceremonial meal. The wedding 
cake is, of course, an essential constituent of such banquets. Among the 
Kolarian tribes portions of the cake are presented to the totems of the 
respective parties. Certain clans which have trees for their totems offer 
wedding cake to the sacred trees; others of the cobra-totem deposit 
pieces of wedding cake in cobra holes, and so on. Certain Basors, who 
express their religious emotion by violent dancing, partake of the wed- 
ding cake while performing somersaults. It is of course obligatory for 
all guests to eat some of the wedding cake, but among the Kols it 
would be highly improper for any persons who are forbidden by law 
to intermarry to do so, for they would thus be married and hence 
become guilty of incest. 

Elsewhere it is necessary to eat the wedding banquet hastily. Among 
the Karubas of Southern India, should anyone choke during the pro- 
ceedings or afterwards be seized with flatulence or indigestion, this is a 
bad omen. Among the Yurok, a Samoyed tribe of Siberia, the wedding 
guests must not only eat as hastily as possible but must depart immedi- 
ately the last mouthful has been swallowed. It would therefore seem 
that the banquet does not really have the character of a convivial 
gathering, as we so generally assume, but rather echoes other ritual 
meals of which we know, which are a means of effecting a communion 
of flesh between the participants. In short, it would seem that such 
banquets arc intended to unite, not only the bride and bridegroom but 
their respective families. 

Another common marriage rite is the marking of the bride and bride- 
groom with blood, the contract being assimilated to the blood-bond 
by which a person becomes adopted into the tribe. Now, in some 
instances, not only are the bride and bridegroom thus marked but all 
their relatives also, as in Cambodia and among the Papuan savages of 

1 See also p. 262 . 



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the western coast of New Guinea. In some parts of Polynesia, it is not 
the parties concerned who mingle their blood but their respective 
mothers. 

Reasons for Marriage between Groups 

Marriage, then, is almost universally regarded as a contract not between 
a man and a woman but between the groups to which they belong. No 
feature is more marked and more general, and it is even more pronounced 
in the most primitive phases of society. The Blackfellows of Australia, 
the wild Seri of Tiburon, are one with the Chinese and the French 
nobility in viewing marriage as a matter primarily concerning two con- 
tracting groups. Evidently, a contract between two groups must, in the 
conditions of primitive society, have been a matter of far greater im- 
portance than any possible individual relationship. These elaborate 
negotiations can be better understood if we remember that, under the 
rules against incest, a man must, if he marries, marry someone from 
another group ; but in primitive societies there is very little intercourse 
between groups, and this may be a very difficult task. The members of 
one’s own group are, in primitive society, ‘our people’, all others are 
enemies. Mr Mathew remarks: ‘When a Blackfellow crosses the boun- 
dary lines of his own territories, he takes his life in his hands.’ Further- 
more, clandestine visiting is even more difficult than open intercourse, 
for almost all savages are restrained by superstitious fears from going 
out of their camp after sunset. Unless there exists some friendly 
understanding between the two groups, it is impossible to do so during 
the daytime. For example, among the Bakyiga, a tribe inhabiting the 
shores of Lake Edward, a man must, by the laws of exogamy, procure 
a wife from one of the neighbouring clans, but, since all the clans are 
in a perpetual state of deadly war, it is quite impossible for him to visit 
another clan without a virtual certainty of being murdered. Negotia- 
tions for marriages arc accordingly conducted by women only, and when 
the bride comes to join her husband, she is brought by female relatives 
only. There is, in fact, but one way in which such difficulties can be 
overcome while observing the prohibition of incest; that is, by some 
pact between the two groups, such as that which the sons of Hamor 
proposed to the sons of Jacob: ‘Then will we give our daughters unto 
you, and we will take your daughters unto us.’ 

This is what in fact takes place in primitive societies. The elaborate 
tribal conferences and conciliatory exchanges of presents which have 
been noted in Australia and Melanesia or Polynesia, do not, of course, 
take place on the occasion of every marriage, but only when a marriage 
takes place between members of two different tribes between whom no 
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place refer only incidentally to the individuals. Primarily they concern 
the relationship between the two groups. 

Thus it is that the original character and purpose of the juridic trans- 
action of marriage is not to legalize the sexual relations of individuals 
nor to safeguard the claims of individual possession; it is a contract about 
the relationship of groups, rendered necessary by the rules against 
incest. 

The Marriage of Cross- cousins 

Such an agreement between the two groups implies that every member 
of each group shall marry into the other group. This relationship, if 
continued long enough, results in an institution known as cross-cousin 
marriage. Let us suppose, for the sake of example, that in each of two 
primitive groups which we will call ‘Bears’ and ‘Wolves’, consisting of two 
generations only , all the Bear men will be married to Wolf women, and 
all the Bear women married to Wolf men. Then, if children are regarded 
as belonging to their mother's clan, since the eldest male Wolf will be 
married to a Bear woman, the father of every Bear will be a Wolf, and 
similarly the father of every Wolf will be a Bear. The wives of the 
younger Bear men will be Wolf women — that is, they will be the 
daughters of their father’s sister, and they will also be the daughters of 
their mother’s brother. In short, every Bear man and every Wolf man 
will marry a daughter of his mother’s brother, and every Bear woman 
and Wolf woman will marry a son of her mother’s brother. In other 
words, all unions in the two groups will be between cross-cousins. (In 
our own language we make no distinction between a father’s brother’s 
child or a mother’s sister’s child, calling both first-cousins, but among 
the vast majority of peoples a distinction is drawn between the two, 
the first kind being known as cross-cousins, the latter as ortho- 
cousins.) 

Furthermore, among many peoples, while marriage between cross- 
cousins is allowed, marriage between ortho-cousins is prohibited as 
incestuous, those relatives being regarded as brothers and sisters. The 
reason for this distinction is manifest: daughters of a father’s brother 
or of a mother’s sister were members of the same group, or clan-sisters. 
Nor is this all. Not only are marriages between cross-cousins encouraged, 
but what is regarded as being a peculiarly desirable union is to marry 
a girl who is at the same time the daughter of one’s mother’s brother and 
of one’s father’s sister. 

In Melanesia this system is the foundation of social organization. 
Thus in New Britain a man is expected to marry the daughter of his 
mother’s brother, but may on no account marry the daughter of his 
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of the Malay Archipelago, to marry a cross-cousin is regarded as a moral 
obligation, and failure to do so is visited with a heavy fine. The fine is 
similar to that imposed on anyone who has incestuous relations (as 
they are considered) with his father’s brother’s or his mother’s sister’s 
daughter. The same customs obtain in the various islands of the 
Southern Moluccas and also in Ceram. 

Cross-cousin marriage is a fundamental social law with a large 
proportion of the aboriginal races of India. It appears to be widespread 
among the primitive populations of Northern and Central Asia, al- 
though owing to the ambiguity of our terms of kinship, the reports of 
explorers do not always make it clear whether cross-cousins are meant. 
The Aleuts, according to Father Veniaminoff, ‘marry by preference 
the daughter of their uncle’. A similar preference is shown by the Ainu, 
the Kamchadals, the Chukchi, the Koryaks and others. This view 
obtains in several parts of Africa, for example among the Bakongo, the 
Herero and others, while among the Bechuana the practice is so 
common that it must almost be considered the general practice of the 
tribe. These rules appear to have been common to all the Caribbean 
races of Central America. ‘Marriage among the totem-societies of 
Australia, America and India is both exogamous and endogamous; a 
man is forbidden to marry either within his own clan or outside a 
certain kinship group.’ 

As Dr Codrington very lucidly explains when speaking of the Melanes- 
ians: ‘In the native view of mankind . . . nothing seems more funda- 
mental than the division of the people into two or more classes which are 
exogamous, and in which descent is counted through the mother. This 
seems to stand foremost as the native looks out upon his fellow men; 
the knowledge of it forms probably the first social conception which 
shapes itself in the mind of the young Melanesian of either sex, and it 
is not too much to say that this division is the foundation on which the 
fabric of native society is built up.’ Sometimes a clan is divided into 
two groups, the members of any one group being prohibited under 
pain of death from intermarrying and being obliged to draw their 
sexual partners from the other group. Or instead of two exogamous 
groups, there may be four or even eight. Totemic considerations may 
also apply, so that the restrictions become very complicated. Since 
marriage between members of the same village is regarded as incest, it 
often happens that, as among the Zayeins, the unmarried males and 
females dwell separately in two large houses at the opposite ends of the 
village, and so afraid are they of incurring suspicion that any amatory 
relations exist that they are careful to lower their eyes discreetly should 
they happen to meet. If such a crime comes to light the culprits are 
made to dig their own graves, then they are pushed in and buried alive. 



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It can cause no surprise to learn that the Zayeins are steadily diminishing 
in numbers. 

The custom of cross-cousin marriage is now well enough understood 
for it to be unnecessary to adduce further evidence here. As Dr Rivers 
remarks: ‘It would seem impossible to find any direct psychological 
explanation in motive of any kind, whether religious, ethical or magical. 
They [the customs] seem to be meaningless except as a vestige of an old 
social order, while when considered from that point of view they be- 
come at once intelligible and natural.’ It has been suggested that cross- 
cousin marriage may be explained by the economic advantage of keeping 
family property undivided. This cannot apply to the savages of Australia, 
Melanesia or the Caribbeans, who transmit no family property. More- 
over, it is patriarchal societies which care most about property, and yet 
few such societies practice ortho-cousin marriage; it is virtually con- 
fined to the Arabs and some other Muhammadan peoples of Egypt, 
the Sudan, Morocco and India, and in each of these cases it is said to 
be adopted precisely with the object of keeping property in the family. 
The ancient Greek ‘laws of Gortyna’ make the matter very clear: ‘An 
heiress shall be married to the brother of her father, to the eldest of 
such brothers as there may be. If there be several heiresses and several 
brothers let each of the younger ones be married to one of the brothers 
in the order of their ages. If there be no brothers of her father . . . then 
let the heiress marry the son of the eldest brother.’ Inheritance through 
the daughters is here adapted to patriarchal aims, not by cross-cousin 
marriage but by ortho-cousin marriage. It is, in fact, unlikely that a 
custom devised to keep the property of a matriarchal family undivided 
should be preserved under a patriarchal system — the chief purpose of 
which is to abolish such a mode of succession. 

Bakongo society offers a striking illustration of the essentially matri- 
archal character of clan organization and the patriarchal character of 
the family group. The exogamous clans are reckoned to have sprung 
from the offspring of a common ancestress, and descent is reckoned 
in the uterine line, yet the father is the absolute head of the family and 
the property is transmitted in the male line. Nevertheless, the Bakongo 
strictly observe cross-cousin marriage. A similar paradox is found 
among the Rabhas of Assam. Often economic advantage is set aside, as 
among the Bataks of Sumatra, a severely patriarchal people who never- 
theless set advantageous alliances aside in order to make cross-cousin 
marriages. 

Westermarck makes it a principle that customs should be explained 
by existing conditions and not as survivals of hypothetical past condi- 
tions. Quite to the contrary, a sounder rule would be: whenever a usage 
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different cultural levels, the explanation of its origin is to be found in 
interpretations which apply to the least-advanced of these peoples. 
Westermarck’s principle leads to error since plausible current reasons 
can always be found — for instance, the explanation of the rule of ex- 
ogamy as a provision against the injurious effects of inbreeding. On 
this principle, we should have to interpret the observance of sabbath 
days as due to the advisability of regular rest intervals, whereas we 
know the explanation to be quite different . 1 Similarly, we might think 
mourning customs prompted by respect for the dead when in fact they 
are prompted by dread of the spirit of the departed. In modern society 
no one supposes that such customs as raising one’s hat to a magpie are 
to be explained by reference to existing conditions. 

The Change from Clan-kinship to Family kinship 

Once the primitive maternal clan organization has broken down and 
kinship comes to be viewed in relation with another form of group, i.e. 
the family, both ortho- and cross-cousins are regarded as equally close 
relatives, and marriage of either may be seen as incestuous. Thus many 
societies condemn marriage of first cousins of either sort and even of 
second, third, fourth and more remote ones, so that the very relation- 
ship which is prescribed under one system is condemned under the 
other. The transition is clearly seen in India where among some tribes 
and castes the one form of marriage is an obligation, in other commend- 
able, in others permissible, while yet others condemn it. Sir Denzil 
Ibbetson writes of the Punjab: ‘The people are beginning to add the 
mother’s mother’s clan to those in which a man is forbidden to marry 
or even to substitute it for the father’s mother’s clan, and this is appar- 
ently the last stage in the change from relationship through women to 
relationship through men.’ 

The clan-group organization tends to break down in time into family- 
group organization. Since exogamous clans or classes are general 
throughout Australia, Melanesia and primitive Indonesia, there can be 
little doubt that they were once general in Polynesia, but they have 
vanished. Again, the Yakut were once so strictly exogamous that blind- 
ness was thought to be visited upon the trespasser, but today a man 
marries any woman outside his own family. Similarly with the Iroquois. 
Moreover, even where, as in Fiji, the clan organization has fallen into 
complete decay, cross-cousin marriage may persist. 

Primitive Kinship and Group-motherhood 

We must dismiss the idea that while the family is a group depending 
upon reproductive and economic relations, the clan is a group resting 
1 See below, p. 250 ff. 



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upon some other principle of a social or political character. Primitive 
humanity is innocent of political organization, and organization through 
the authority of a chief is a late phenomenon. ‘Cohesion in a community’, 
remarks Mr Mathew, in speaking of the Australians, ‘depends entirely 
upon consanguinity, and derives no strength at all from governmental 
authority.’ Primitive kinship terms support this idea; all male members 
of the clan of about the same age, including those we should call cousins, 
are reckoned as brothers, and all females as sisters; the older male 
members are called by a term which includes both ‘father’ and ‘uncle’; 
the older female members by a term including both ‘mother’ and ‘aunt’. 
The younger members of the corresponding marriage class are called 
‘wives’ and ‘husbands’, i.e. a wife’s sisters or a husband’s brothers. This 
is the so-called classificatory system, as against the system which obtains 
in our own society which is known as the descriptive system. This label 
assumes that our own system is somehow natural. We tend to think that 
when the term ‘mother’ is applied to all women of the same generation 
as the actual mother that this is a convention but, as Mr Thomas ex- 
plains, when we find that the term which is translated ‘son’ is applied 
not only by the biological mother but by all the other women of the 
group to a particular boy, we ‘may discard the hypothesis that “wife” 
means wife, “husband” husband, and conclude that if there was a period 
of group marriage there was also a period of group motherhood. This 
interesting fact may be commended to the attention of zoologists.’ 

But zoologists would tell him that there is an absence of any relation- 
ship between the operation of the maternal instinct and actual con- 
sanguinity among animals — as we know from the case of the cuckoo and 
many others. Thus filial and fraternal instincts operate in accordance 
with the classificatory and not with the descriptive system of relationship, 
and it is the former which is, in the biological sense, natural. The idea 
that a system of relationship must rest upon the biological fact of genera- 
tion arises from the fallacy of ascribing to primitive ideas an intellectual 
character which is foreign to them. This fallacy is embodied in the very 
word ‘system’ — it is assumed that the reckoning of kinship is based on a 
deliberately devised and intellectually sound scheme. That this is 
equally true of humans is shown, for instance, by the reply of an Iro- 
quois to Father Lejeune when he asked him how he could be so fond 
of children of whose parentage he could not be sure. The Indian looked 
at him contemptuously and replied: ‘You Frenchmen love only your 
own children, we love all the children of the tribe.’ Wives who attend 
to their own children and to those of other women without distinction 
are widely found among primitive races, and it is an ‘almost universal 
custom that a child should be suckled not only by its mother but also by 
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relationship systems are maintained and children are interchanged. In 
the Hindu Kush these foster relationships are regarded as so close that 
marriage between foster relations would be looked upon as incestuous. 
If a man is suspected of adultery, any further misconduct is insured 
against by obliging him to put his lips against the woman’s breast — she is 
henceforth regarded as his foster-mother, and no other relationship but 
that of mother and son can exist between them. These fostering usages 
are common in India, are prevalent in primitive Indonesia, especially 
among the Dayaks, and are found in Polynesia and Melanesia. In the 
Gilbert Islands the persons who pass for a man’s or woman’s parents 
are never the real parents, for every child is adopted at birth by foster- 
parents, as soon as suckling is terminated. The children are so com- 
pletely assimilated as to be unconscious of their relationship to their 
real family. Similar customs are found in West Africa, as well as among 
such tribes as the Aleuts and the Cheyennes. 

Yet Dr Westcrmarck exclaims: ‘Where in the world has a society 
been found in which it is the custom for infants to be taken away from 
their mothers when weaned, or for mothers to desert their infants ?’ His 
inquiry is all the more remarkable inasmuch as the usage is found 
among some of the peoples of Morocco, a country about which he 
claims a special knowledge. 

To summarize, the aspect of the clan which is foremost in the primi- 
tive mind is the sexual aspect; all primitive marriage regulations are 
dominated by the desire to avoid incest. To the Australian, the Melanes- 
ian and the North American Indian the primary purpose of clan divi- 
sions is to indicate who may marry whom. 

Primitive Marriage Relationship 

These inter-marriage rules refer exclusively to the relations between 
groups, and are not designed to safeguard claims to individual sexual 
possession — which we regard as the main purpose of marriage laws and 
morality. The relationship of individual marriage is denoted by no 
specific term in primitive nomenclature. A wife’s sisters and a husband’s 
brothers are not merely called wives and husbands, but act and are 
treated as such, as we shall see in the following chapters. In most cases 
such usages are associated with some form of individual marriage, i.e. 
the continuous cohabitation of one man with one or more women. But 
this association does not necessarily exclude collective sex-relations. 
The sexual and economic aspects of association are, in fact, quite inde- 
pendent. Individual marriage rests upon the economic relation, for a 
man may contribute the products of his hunting or his services as a 
warrior to the whole group, but the economic value of a woman lies in 
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individual marriage in most primitive communities. Jealousy among 
most primitive races refers not to exclusive sexual possession but to 
economic loss, and claims to exclusive sexual possession have developed 
out of this. 

In the societies which have preserved their primitive organization, 
freedom of access between any male of the one group and any female of 
the other is the rule rather than the exception. Where individual sexual 
rights exist, penalties for infringing them, i.e. for adultery, are usually 
much less severe when the infringer belongs to the same group as the 
husband than when he does not. Indeed, in the former case there may 
be no penalty : a temporary loan or exchange of wives between members 
of the same marriage group is quite common. 

Nevertheless, complete promiscuity is nowhere found as an accepted 
social pattern. Though sexual relations are, in primitive societies, often 
loose and casual they are by no means unregulated, for the incest pro- 
hibitions both exclude certain relationships within the group and 
necessitate an agreement with some other group. To assess this early 
form of the marriage institution by current standards of sexual morals 
and to regard it as approaching promiscuity — as many missionaries 
have done — is unscientific and inaccurate. People always feel that sys- 
tems different from their own are barbarous. Thus the polygamous 
Singhalese spoke of the wild Veddahs, who had only one wife, as being 
‘like monkeys’, while in South Africa coastal natives who have given up 
such practices speak of the inland tribes as ‘no better than dogs’, in this 
respect. The Jews looked upon the marriages of Christians as wholly 
invalid. 

Far from being unregulated, Australian and Melanesian sexual rela- 
tions are subject to much more elaborate regulations than our own, and 
these may make the choice of a wife much more restricted than in 
modern society, or may even make it impossible. These rules may 
become, as among the Zayeins of Burma, an intolerable tyranny. As a 
matter of fact, if we seek for the nearest approach to promiscuity we find 
it in societies which arc formally ‘monogamous’, such as some forest 
tribes of Brazil and Malaya. 

To recapitulate: marriage originated in a contract between two kin- 
ship groups, and only later became a contract between individuals, 
when clan kinship broke down into family kinship. In the next two 
chapters let us pursue this novel idea further, examining every quarter 
of the world for evidence of group marriage. 



CHAPTER 10 


Group Marriage (i) 


Sororal Polygyny 

I T is a widespread principle in uncultured societies that when a man 
marries a woman he thereby acquires marital rights over all her sisters. 
Thus, among the Kurnai of South-east Australia, when a man elopes 
with a woman from another tribe, her parents, after their anger has 
blown over and the matter has been amicably settled, hand over her 
sister also. Among the tribes of Gippsland the men cannot be made to 
understand the distinction between a wife and a sister-in-law ; the latter, 
they insist, are just as much their wives as the former. So also in the 
western islands of the Torres Straits before conversion of the natives to 
Christianity, a man’s wives were all sisters or cousins, and even today 
there is little doubt that husbands normally have marital relations with 
the wives’ sisters. This principle, like the rule of cross-cousin marriage, 
is a translation into terms of family relationships of the sexual claim of 
a man to all the women in the group with which his own group has 
entered into a marriage agreement. 

This arrangement, which is called sororal polygyny, was almost uni- 
versal among the North American tribes, and appears to have been 
equally general in Central and South America, where it is found from 
the Canebo of the Upper Amazon to the inhabitants of Tierra del 
Fuego. It is very common in Africa (e.g. among the Zulus and Kaffirs), 
especially among the primitive races, being a matter of course among 
the Upper Congo tribes. 

It is also usual among the primitive races of Siberia, and is old-estab- 
lished among the Mongols and Chinese. Jinghis Khan married two 
sisters, and the practice was taken for granted among his warriors and 
khans. We read of the Emperor Yao bestowing both his daughters on the 
Chinese prince Sheunn. Among the ancient Japanese, ‘to wed two or 
more sisters at the same time was a recognized practice*. We also find it 
in Tibet, Cambodia, Siam, among the Malays of the Patani States, and 
among the tribes of Upper Burma and Manipur. It was in vogue among 
the ancient Indo-Aryans, and is common in the Punjab, as well as 
among various native tribes of Central India, and is prevalent in Mysore 
and Southern India. We know from the account of the marriage of 
Jacob that it was a recognized usage among the ancient Jews. 



GROUP MARRIAGE (i) I2J 

In the Pacific area, similar evidence comes from the Philippine 
Islands, the Marshalls, the Gilberts, the Mortlocks and elsewhere. 

In practice, sororal polygyny is limited by the factor which limits 
every kind of polygamy — the financial strain of marrying a whole family. 
This difficulty is often relieved by the fact that, since in primitive 
society girls usually marry at puberty, the younger sisters are not yet 
marriageable when their elder sister marries. By the time they are 
eligible the man’s circumstances may have improved, enabling him to 
maintain a larger family. Hence the rule, observed in most parts of the 
world, that the younger sister shall not marry before her older sister — a 
rule on which Laban insisted when he gave his daughter to Jacob, and 
one which has left traces even in England and Scotland. 

If a husband does not wish to exercise his claim on his wife’s sisters, 
he may allow them to marry other men and, in some cases, may receive 
the bride-price instead of the girl’s relatives. An additional sister is 
given as a matter of course if the first sister proves barren. Among the 
Tartars, if the wife dies before the payment of the bride-price is com- 
pleted, the sum already paid goes towards the acquisition of her sister, 
but if there is no sister to take her place, the deposit is lost. In other 
instances, the bridegroom may demand a refund of the bride-price. 

Among the Flatheads and other Oregon tribes, when a man’s wife 
dies, if her sister is already married to another man she is obliged to 
leave him and marry the widower. Among the Wabemba of the Congo 
in a similar situation, the husband of one of the deceased wife’s sisters 
must allow his wife to cohabit for one or mo nights with the widower. 
Unless this is done, the latter cannot remarry. If the sister is still an 
infant, she is nevertheless handed over to the widower, but a slave-girl 
is sent with her to act as a substitute until she is of marriageable age. 
Similarly among the Baholoholo, who observe the same rule, if the 
surviving sister is a mere infant the widower goes through the form of 
imitating the sexual act with her. (We shall see that similar ritual sur- 
vivals are associated with the corresponding custom of fraternal succes- 
sion.) 

Marriage with the deceased wife’s sister is sometimes regarded as a 
moral obligation rather than as a claim or privilege. Among the Shuswap 
of British Columbia, the widower was actually kept prisoner by his 
deceased wife’s family, and was released only on condition that he 
married the sister. The notion that it is reprehensible to marry one’s 
deceased wife’s sister is an anthropological curiosity which appears to 
be found only among the natives of New Britain, some Chinese tribes 
and some natives of Ashanti. Nevertheless, the people who observe this 
rule but who have given up sororal polygyny do not admit that they 
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give some specious explanation. In the same way, certain anthropo- 
logical writers to whom the application of the theory of evolution to the 
human race is repugnant have no hesitation in declaring that they can- 
not ‘find any reason for the assumption that the custom of marrying a 
deceased wife’s sister is derived from the custom of marrying her other 
sisters in her lifetime ’. 1 

The favourite explanation given by travellers and missionaries who 
last observed the custom is that it is desirable in a polygynous family 
that the wives should be sisters because sisters are more likely to live 
together in harmony. In fact, where polygyny obtains, the women are 
the most persistent advocates of the practice, and there is nothing to 
indicate that the wives in polygynous families are more prone to quarrel 
among themselves than other persons who live together. Indeed, 
according to La Potherie, among the North American Indians sisters are 
particularly quarrelsome and sometimes attack one another with knives; 
while the Ostyak, who have immemorially practised sororal polygyny, 
state that the arrangement is unsatisfactory since sisters are particularly 
liable to disagree in such marriages. 

Actually it may be doubted whether Melanesian savages are much 
concerned about the amicable nature of the relationships between their 
wives, about respect for their deceased wives, or the proper qualifications 
in the nurses of their children — to name some supposed reasons for the 
practice. In any case, none of these alleged benefits account for a man 
having to marry his wife’s sisters against his will, or for his collecting 
the bride-price when they marry other men, or for his having to wait 
with a slave-girl as a substitute when those sisters are still infants-in-arms. 

Like cross-cousin marriage, sororal polygyny is a translation in terms 
of family relationship of the wider conceptions of clan relationship. 
From the point of view of the clan-group, the term ‘wife’ includes all 
women of the corresponding marriage-group, and all those women are 
sisters. Dr Codrington, speaking of the Melanesians, declares that, ‘to 
a Melanesian man, all women, of his own generation at least, are either 
sisters or wives’ [actual or potential], and that ‘all women who may 
become wives by marriage and are not yet appropriated, are to a certain 
extent looked upon by those who may be their husbands as open to 
more or less legitimate intercourse. In fact, appropriation of particular 
women to their husbands, though established by every sanction of native 
custom, has by no means so strong a hold in native society, nor in all 
probability so deep a foundation in the history of the people, as the 
severance of either sex by divisions which most strictly limit the inter- 
course of men and women to those of the section or sections to which 
they do not themselves belong . 5 

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The complement of the rule of sororal polygyny is that of fraternal 
polyandry; i.e. that when a woman contracts a marriage with a member 
of another family she marries all the marriageable males of that family. 
The simultaneous observance of both these rules constitutes a marriage 
between the two groups, irrespective of the relations between the 
members composing them. However, the one-sided observance of 
sororal polygyny, and perhaps also of fraternal polyandry, are much 
more common today than the combination of the two practices as 
complete group-marriage. The reason for this is plain. The combination 
of the two practices is an unstable arrangement, and can only operate in 
a modified form where sexual relations do not entail permanent co- 
habitation. As soon as marriage involves economic interdependence 
the arrangement becomes impracticable, for economic association can 
only take place when the labour of the woman or women is in some 
degree specially allotted to the husband, and it necessarily breaks up 
into one or another of its aspects — that is, into sororal polygyny or 
fraternal polyandry. But since the development of individualism and 
individual property has taken place in the hands of the men, it is natural 
that when it breaks up it does so in the form of sororal polygyny. In 
point of fact, fraternal polyandry, though geographically widespread, 
is considerably less common than sororal polygyny, being rarer than 
is generally supposed. Many of the customs usually described as 
fraternal polyandry turn out, on inquiry, to be associated with sororal 
polygyny and thus to represent, in reality, group-marriage. We shall 
now survey the two subjects together. 

Northern Asia 

The confusion to be found in many early anthropological reports is 
well illustrated by the Gilyak. As the careful investigation by Dr 
Sternberg has shown, they are strictly organized into exogamic classes, 
and every member of each marries into his allotted class on the basis 
of cross-cousin marriage. Individual ‘marriage’ takes place in the sense 
that a woman becomes the particular economic associate of a man but 
her economic husband possesses no sexual rights over her. 1 Earlier 
reports misunderstood the position. An old Japanese traveller says 
that Gilyak women had several husbands, while another traveller reports 
that their sexual relations are indiscriminate. 

Of the Chukchi of extreme North-east Asia a Russian traveller 
mentions that ‘among other customs they have the usage of contracting 
so-called “exchange-marriages”. Two or more men enter into an agree- 

1 Among the Western Gilyak all tribal brothers have marital rights over the 
wives of each other indifferently, but among the Eastern Gilyak the older 
brothers have no right to the wives of the younger brothers. 

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ment whereby they have mutual rights to each other’s wives. This right 
is exercised whenever the contracting parties come together, as for 
instance on the occasion of a visit.’ However, the elaborate monograph 
of Mr Bogoras makes clear that the Chukchi are commonly betrothed in 
their infancy to their first-cousins, and that they observe sororal poly- 
gyny. In this instance we have clear testimony that licentiousness has 
nothing to do with the institution. The Chukchi are indeed described 
as a sensual race, but their group-marriage organization is not exploited 
for licentious purposes. They arc careful not to form such an alliance 
with persons dwelling in the same village, and in general avoid exercis- 
ing the rights it confers on them. Sometimes cousins exchange wives 
for several months, for years or permanently. So seriously is the 
arrangement regarded that children in the same marriage-group are 
regarded as brothers and sisters, and are not allowed to marry among 
themselves. It appears that, although the group-marriage of the Chukchis 
is to a certain extent artificial, since it depends upon an individual 
compact, it nevertheless is a derivative of established marriage-rights 
between two marrying classes or groups, modified by the necessities 
imposed by their isolated and scattered way of life. 

This view is confirmed by the position among the Aleuts, where 
thorough investigation has been made by Mr Jochelson, who says: 
‘To participate in group-marriage is the duty of cousins.’ Here, again, 
earlier reports described the system as consisting of loose polyandrous 
unions. 

Sexual Hospitality 

Let us pause for a moment to consider how it is that participation in 
group-marriage, which we tend to regard as a form of licence, should 
be regarded not only as a right and a privilege but as a moral obligation. 
Community of wives was originally regarded as essential to the relation- 
ship of tribal brotherhood. To primitive man all men are either tribal 
brothers or strangers, and the latter term is equivalent to ‘enemy’. If 
a man, not being by birth a tribal brother, is admitted into a community 
and is regarded with good-will — in short, if he is not an enemy — he 
must needs be a tribal brother. Hence the sacredness of hospitality in 
all primitive sentiment. If a man has touched the tent-rope of an Arab’s 
tent, his life must be defended against all enemies. The hospitality of 
savages knows no bounds. If they are on the verge of starvation, they 
will give what little they have to the stranger who has been admitted to 
their midst. The first thought of the savage, when the stranger to whom 
he feels himself attracted is in his company, is to take the necessary 
steps to make him a tribal brother. In Australia, if the member of a 
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poured down his throat. Among the Koryak the guest is obliged to 
undergo a somewhat strange rite of brotherhood with his host’s wife 
before he can avail himself of her hospitality. ‘Elle lache son urine en 
presence de l’etranger et lui en offre une jatte pour s’en rincer la bouche.’ 
It follows that the host’s lending his guest his wife is not misguided 
benevolence but a necessary pledge of friendship. For the guest to 
refuse this so-called ‘hospitality prostitution’ is the equivalent to 
repudiating the assumed brotherhood and is thus tantamount to a 
declaration of war. The sedentary Koryak ‘look upon it as the truest 
mark of friendship when they entertain a friend to put him to bed with 
their wife or daughter; and a refusal of this civility they consider as the 
greatest affront, and are capable of even murdering a man for such 
contempt. That happened to several Cossacks before they were acquain- 
ted with the customs of the people.’ The same is reported of the Chuk- 
chi. In Madagascar a missionary closely escaped being murdered 
because he refused the proffered hospitality. The custom is very general 
in all primitive societies . 1 

Thus it is that the existence of clan-brotherhood is, or was, formerly 
considered to imply sexual communism. Naturally the practice of sexual 
hospitality has tended to become modified in the same way that sexual 
communism has become modified by the development of individual 
marriage. All manner of transitional forms are found. Thus, the Mis- 
souri Indians were so averse from intercourse with members of another 
tribe that they never offered their wives or daughters to strangers. 
Nevertheless, they regarded themselves as under the obligation of 
offering sexual hospitality to a guest, and accordingly provided him with 
a captive from another tribe. It may safely be concluded that this was a 
compromise between their endogamic tribal principles and their equally 
strong conviction that a clan-brother was entitled to access to his 
host’s women. Again, among the Krumir Berbers a stranger visiting 
the tribe is lodged by one of the tribesmen, and is invited to spend the 
night in the company of his host’s wife. The host mounts guard outside 
the tent, and should he hear any suspicious movement would have no 
hesitation in instantly shooting his guest. So-called ‘hospitality prosti- 
tution’ has here dwindled to an empty ceremonial. Similarly, since the 
Arabs attach great importance to hospitality and clan-brotherhood, we 
may infer that at some previous period sexual communism among clan- 
brothers was customary. And in fact the learned Arab jurist, Ata 
ibn-Abi Rabah, states that the custom of offering one’s wife to a guest 
was of old a universally-sanctioned custom of the Arabs. In some 
Arab tribes this has survived down to the present, or quite recent, times. 
Thus the clan organization of a people whose notions of individual 
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marriage are today even severer than our own nevertheless entailed the 
same conceptions as among the most primitive savages. 

Collective Sexual Relations in America 

There can be little doubt that the practice of exchanging wives tempor- 
arily, universal with all sections of the Eskimo race, is a survival of 
tribal sexual communism, which has become disintegrated by the dis- 
persion of these small communities. In Repulse Bay, ‘it is the usual 
thing among friends to exchange wives for a week or two about every 
two months’; and Dr Murdoch was informed that ‘at certain times 
there is a general exchange of wives throughout the village, each woman 
passing from man to man until she has been through the hands of all’. 
In Northern Greenland, as Dr Bessels delicately puts it, ‘somewhat 
communistic tendencies seriously interfere with the sanctity of mar- 
riage’. The most important race of the extreme north-western region 
of America are the Tlinkit. They are divided into a number of totemic 
clans grouped into two large exogamic marriage classes. Polygamy is 
very general, a man of distinction having as many as forty wives; the 
Tlinkit are also polyandrous. Here again we see the deceptive manner 
in which such an organization is apt to be reported. Some writers report 
that their customs allow ‘great looseness in sexual relations’. Count 
Langsdorf, on the contrary, says that their decent and orderly behaviour 
and the modesty of their women stand in striking contrast with the 
manners of neighbouring races. Adultery is severely punished, but it is 
only a serious offence if the seducer belongs to a clan other than the 
husband’s. The rules governing their sexual organization seem fairly 
clear, but the Russian bishop, Father Veniaminoff, feels it necessary to 
go to Sicily for a parallel; many ethnological writers have taken the 
hint and term these arrangements ‘cicisbeism’. It does not appear that 
the customs of the Tlinkit bear any resemblance to the practices of 
eighteenth-century Italian society, of which the relations between 
Nelson and Sir William and Lady Hamilton are a famous instance; 
they resemble far more closely group-marriage. It should be noted that 
their marriages were matrilocal. 

Making due allowance for the difficulty of observation, it would 
appear that, from Manchuria on the Asiatic side to British Columbia 
on the American, the principles governing sexual relations are substan- 
tially identical among all tribes, and with the large majority, reciprocal 
sexual rights between all the males and all the females, through inter- 
marrying groups, are recognized, or were so until quite recently. The 
general prevalence of those customs among the peoples of the ruder 
north and west suggest that they may also have obtained among the 
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teristics, such as the existence of the classificatory system of clan 
relationship, and the practice of sororal polygyny which, as we have 
seen, is universal among the North American Indians. In conjunction 
with it, levirate marriage is a rite and an obligation . 1 Father Charlevoix 
adds that, among the Senecas, who practise sororal polygyny, there is ‘a 
far greater disorder, namely a plurality of husbands’. Thus there is 
ample evidence to confirm the presumption that the marriage customs 
of North American Indians were the result of decay of clan organization 
under the influence of individual economic marriage. 

Similar principles appear to have been widely current in South 
America, and are reported of the natives of New Granada, the tribes 
of Brazil, the Zaparos of Ecuador and many others. In Guiana, at the 
present day, polyandry is common, and when a missionary endeavoured 
to persuade an Indian to give up polygyny by asking him what he 
would think of a woman having several husbands, he replied that both 
customs were equally honoured in his tribe. 

Collective Marriage in Tibet 

Although Tibetan polyandry is constantly referred to and was used by 
McLellan as the type of fraternal polyandry, the polygyny which goes 
with Tibetan polyandry is overlooked by most writers. However, Mr 
Savage Landor, who had exceptional opportunities of obtaining first- 
hand information, gives us the most definite account. ‘A Tibetan girl 
on marrying does not enter into a nuptial tie with an individual, but 
with all his family. ... If an eldest son marries an eldest sister all the 
sisters of the bride become his wives. ... At the same time, when the 
bridegroom has brothers they are all regarded as their brother’s wife’s 
husbands, and they one and all cohabit with her as well as with her 
sisters if she has any.’ Tibetan marriage is, therefore, not simple poly- 
andry but a complete group-marriage. 

On the current assumption that polygyny and polyandry are different 
and opposite forms of marriage, the mistake has occurred of describing 
Tibetan group-marriage sometimes as polyandry and sometimes as 
polygyny. But all reports agree to the existence of both these customs 
in Tibetan-speaking countries . 2 Mr Landor was surprised by the rule 
of seniority, by which, if an elder son marries the second sister, then 

1 See pp. 153-6, for an account of the ‘lcvirate’. 

2 For reasons presently to be noted, limitation of the number of wives appears 
on the whole to be more common in the higher uplands, while plurality of wives 
is more prevalent in the lower valleys ; and in one and the same valley polyandry 
is stated to obtain in the upper portion and polygyny in the lower. It seems clear, 
however, that the polygyny of the lower valley is, in reality, part of the same 
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only the sisters from the second down become his property; but this is, 
in fact, a characteristic feature of group marriage. It is understandable 
when we realize that when an elder brother marries he does so as the 
representative of a whole group of brothers. The younger brothers can 
make no valid contract except through the medium of their elder. The 
elder brother inherits the father’s property, and is under the obligation 
of supporting his brothers. Since, on the marriage of an elder brother 
his younger brothers have rights over his wives, it follows that any 
marriage contracted by a younger brother independently would be 
supererogatory. It would, in the Tibetan view, be bigamous. 

Similarly among the Brahmans of Travancore and Malabar, when an 
elder brother marries all the younger brothers arc debarred from con- 
tracting any regular marriage within their own caste. The same prin- 
ciple is observed in that residue of fraternal polyandry known as the 
levirate, the right to marry a deceased brother’s wife. But while a younger 
brother has this right as regards the widow of his elder brother, there is 
no converse right of an elder brother to the widow of his younger 
brother. The same is true of other tribes such as the Zulus and the 
Thonga of Mozambique. On the same principle it is considered wrong 
for a younger brother to marry before his elder brother. In China any 
infraction of this rule is atoned for by carrying in the bridal procession a 
pair of trousers, representing the elder brother, and laying them on the 
chair of the bride. 

Since there is every reason to believe that group-marriage derives 
from an organization in which the marrying groups were originally clans, 
or in later stages marrying classes, it is interesting that traces of these 
classes have not completely disappeared in Tibet. Father Desideri, a 
Jesuit, who visited the country at the beginning of the eighteenth cen- 
tury, reports that there are two different kinds of kinship in Tibet, 
kinsmen £ of the same bone’, and kinsmen ‘of the same flesh’. The first 
kind comprising all individuals issued from the same stem, whether 
begotten in the direct line or belonging to side branches however 
remote. Those, on the other hand, designated as kindred of the same 
flesh are matrimonial allies. The first type of kinship is regarded as 
absolutely inviolable. This implies that the proper wife of a young 
Tibetan is his cousin, which is confirmed by the fact that no marriage 
can be concluded without the authority of the bride’s maternal uncle — 
who would normally be the father of the bridegroom. Thus Tibetan 
society, although essentially patriarchal at present, is not far removed 
from a matriarchal phase. Formerly it was under a complete system of 
gynaecocracy. The high position occupied by Tibetan women, in marked 
contrast to the women in India or China, has already been noted. By a 
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today, the patriarchal family has no name, and children are named after 
their mother, not their father, whose name indeed must not even be 
mentioned. In some districts polyandrous Tibetan marriages are also 
matrilocal. Marriage is not regarded by the Tibetans as a sexual but as 
a social and economic relation, the two aspects being kept distinct. 
Marriage is regarded rather as a sacrifice in the interests of the family 
group. Perhaps this is what Captain Turner meant when he wrote that 
‘marriage amongst them seems to be considered rather as an odium and 
a heavy burden, the weight and obloquy of which a whole family are 
disposed to lessen by sharing it among them.’ (The question about which 
Warren Hastings was curious to obtain information — namely, to which 
of the fathers the children were supposed to belong — is entirely irrele- 
vant.) It has several times been stated by older writers that polyandry is 
peculiar to the poorer classes and is not practised among the well-to-do. 
This is quite untrue. 1 

The polyandrous organization of Tibetan marriage is not imposed 
upon the women, who are staunch supporters of the system. 

It is worth noting that the degree of sexual promiscuity is small, 
except where group-marriage organization has been undermined by 
individual marriage. Frequently, the several husbands arc absent from 
home for long periods, and in practice a woman seldom cohabits with 
more than one man at a time. Group-marriage is indissoluble, and the 
easy dissolution of marriage owes its introduction to the infiltration of 
marriage customs of the plains. Dr Westermarck takes occasion to 
remark that — ‘in decay, polyandry is modified in directions tending 
towards monogamy’. But, in point of fact, it is not towards monogamy 
but towards the highest degree of polygamy that group-marriages 
actually lead. The Marquis Cortanzc, impressed by the high moral 
character of the Tibetans, remarked: ‘There does not exist in the whole 
province of Ladakh ... a single Tibetan woman who is a prostitute;’ 
whereas the lowlands, where Tibetan customs have decayed, swarm 
with them. 

In Tibet there is no tradition of any origin of group-marriage, which 
is regarded as ‘indefinitely old’, and these institutions have no connec- 
tion with the Lamaistic Buddhism which was introduced at a com- 
paratively late date. Mr Wilson reports that polyandry is almost uni- 
versal all through Chinese Tibet and in almost all Tibetan-speaking 

3 No importance can be attached to the various theories put forward ‘to explain 
the origin 5 of so-called Tibetan polyandry. For instance, it has been said that it 
is due to the disproportion between the sexes, though there is no evidence of 
such disproportion. Mr Rockhill and other writers are of the opinion that ‘the 
numbers of women and men are probably equal’, while in Lahul, where poly- 
andry is extensive, the censuses of 1881 and 1891 show that women actually out- 
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provinces. It is probably the common marriage custom of at least thirty 
million people in this area. 

Polyandry is found throughout the Himalayan region in various stages 
of decay and obsolescence. It is general in Saraj, the Simla hills and the 
valleys of the western Himalayas. The gradual decay of polyandrous 
institutions in the lower Himalayan valleys appears to be due, not to 
changes in ethical conceptions but to the disintegration of the old social 
organization. It is bound up with the communal undivided economic 
household, in that all brothers remain in one family and share alike. 
With the rise of individual economic interests, the polyandrous marriage 
is necessarily broken up also. The highland regions of the Himalayas are 
but a cultural island preserving social customs which once were far more 
extensively distributed. Biddulph considers that polyandrous marriage 
was once general in Hindu-Kush and Chitral, a view substantiated by the 
eleventh-century Arab traveller, Al-Biruni. In Turkestan, according to 
a thirteenth-century Chinese geographer, polyandry was obligatory. It 
is curious that in the exogamic clans of China the same terms are used 
as in Tibet to indicate distinction between kinsmen of the same flesh 
and of the same bone; and sororal polygyny was once as customary in 
China as with the ruder Mongol tribes of Central Asia. Today, to marry 
the widow of one’s brother is so criminal an act that the guilty man is 
condemned to be strangled. Nevertheless, it was at one time an estab- 
lished usage among the Chinese. 

Polyandry in North India 

Polyandrous institutions were common in many parts of India, and 
attracted the attention of the English when they colonized the mouth of 
the Ganges. These people ‘stretch the Levitical law so that a brother 
not only raises up seed to another after his decease, but even during his 
absence on service, so that no married woman lies fallow.’ The writer 
was probably referring to the Khonds — the most important of the non- 
Aryan tribes in India. Similarly amongst the Santals, also representatives 
of the aboriginal race, man has right of access to all the younger sisters 
of his wife, and so have his younger brothers. In other words, there is 
complete group-marriage. In addition, a Santal uncle ‘is permitted a 
good deal of freedom of intercourse with his wife’s nieces’, a feature 
which derives from the age-grade organization. 

Attempts have been made to ‘explain’ polyandry by suggesting that it 
is caused by mental abnormality. Thus Mr Wilson says that Tibetans 
are peculiarly cold-blooded. On the other hand, Father Desideri says 
they are of lively temperament. Many travellers assert an absence of 
jealousy to explain it, among them Westermarck. ‘Jealousy’, he tells us, 
‘is a passion of very great intensity . . . belonging to the nature of man.’ 



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So that ‘promiscuity is to be explained by the absence of that part of 
human nature’. Westermarck has not thought it worth including in the 
instances he cites the Santals who, far from possessing ‘an abnormally 
feeble disposition to jealousy’ arc ‘usually frantically jealous’. Their 
jealousy, however, assumes a peculiar form; they ‘often complain that 
their husband’s younger brothers are carrying on intrigues with other 
girls when they can get all they want at home’. 

Polyandry among the ‘ Aryan ’ Hindus 

It would be a mistake to suppose that the disappearance of polyandry 
among the Dravidian and Mongoloid races of India was due to the 
influence of the conquering ‘Indo- Aryan’ race, for the latter had the 
same polyandrous institutions as the races they conquered. The ‘Aryans’ 
established themselves first in the Punjab, and it is there, if anywhere, 
that their existing representatives are to be found — the Rajputs and the 
Jats. Among them fraternal polyandry persists to the present day, 
particularly in the district of Dehra Dhun, one of the chief cradles of 
Hindu civilization, where the fair-skinned Rajputs and Jats predomin- 
ate. Polyandry was reported as on the decline there in 1827, but m l %74 
it was still described as ‘unquestionably common to this very day’ ; the 
writer adding that, if a woman dies leaving an infant son, her daughter- 
in-law is bound to rear the boy and marry him herself. Rajput polyandry 
is strictly fraternal, only sons of the same mother by the same set of 
fathers being permitted to enter into collective marriage relations ; and 
it is associated with polygyny, although elsewhere other kin, including 
first cousins, are admitted. The women enjoy the highest status and 
freedom, being at liberty to leave their husbands and remarry provided 
that the new husbands refund the wedding expenses of the old. 

Among the Jats, of whom the Rajputs are the aristocratic class, the 
custom appears to be universally recognized, though not always openly 
acknowledged owing to Brahmanical influence. Thus of the Kanaur 
district Sir Denzil Ibbetson says : ‘Polyandry is practised without dis- 
grace by both Kanets and Jats; it is the rule, not the exception, for the 
wife to cohabit with all the brothers.’ Among the eastern Jats it is ‘a 
common thing, when women quarrel, for one to say to the other: ‘You 
are so careless of your duties as not to admit your husband’s brothers to 
your embraces.’ Much other evidence can be adduced ; for instance, in 
the Sikh regiments of the Indian Army in the middle of the last century 
it was the recognized plea for leave of absence for Rajputs and Jats that 
their brothers were away from home and their wife left alone. Moham- 
medan historians record that before embracing Islam many infidels of 
the Punjab observed polyandry. 

It has also been suggested that die Indo- Aryans adopted polyandry 

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from the aboriginal inhabitants or from neighbouring peoples; this is 
intrinsically improbable, since individualistic marriage usages rarely 
give way to communal ones, and still more because polyandry among 
the Indo- Aryans of the Punjab is associated with survivals of an archaic 
order of society culturally identical with that of the polyandrous 
peoples of the Hindu-Kush, whence the invaders came. 

As we have seen, polyandry was obligatory among the peoples of 
Turkestan — that is, the ancient Baktria and Sogdiana — the main habitat 
of the Indo-Aryans. Chinese annals of both the earlier and the later 
Han dynasties refer repeatedly to the same customs among the Great 
Get-ti, or Ye-tha. These are the same customs to which Herodotus 
refers in speaking of the Massa-Getae: ‘Each man marries a woman, but 
all wives are in common ; for this is the custom of the Massagetac, and 
not, as the Greeks think, of the Scythians. And when a Massagetae 
desires to have company with a woman, he hangs up his quiver in front 
of the chariot and has intercourse with her openly/ 

The ancient literature of the Indo-Aryans refers everywhere to their 
polyandrous institutions. In the sacred laws of the Aryans it is laid down 
that ‘a bride is given to the family of the husband and not to the husband 
alone’, although ‘a husband shall not make over his wife, who occupies 
the position of a clanswoman, to other than to his own clansmen in order 
to cause a child to be begot for himself.’ 

The two great national epics of the invading race, the ‘Ramayana’ 
and the ‘Mahabharata’ depict the marriage of the heroes as a group- 
marriage. These two epics derive from sagas of the two main groups 
into which the Aryan invaders appear to have been divided. Thus in the 
marriage of the five sons (or brothers) of Pandu, which forms the theme 
of the first book of the Mahabharata, the princes declare ‘Thy daughter, 
O King, shall be the common wife of us all’, and the daughter dwells 
with each of them for two days at a time. The sage Ydhishthira, in com- 
mending this marriage, says: ‘Let us follow in the way that has been 
traced by the illustrious of former ages ; this practice hath been estab- 
lished, it is to be regarded as old and eternal.’ Similarly in the ‘Rama- 
yana’. The full force of the evidence cannot be appreciated without a 
survey of the entire literature. 3 

The sage’s assertion that the practice is an ancient one is amply borne 
out by the Vedic hymns, which refer repeatedly to plurality of husbands. 
The Vedic family was constituted in the same manner as other polyan- 
drous families; that is, the brothers continued to live together even after 
the death of their fathers, and the eldest brother acted in all things for 
the others, an arrangement almost invariably associated with polyandry. 

1 The Mahabharata contains some passages expressing disapproval of group 
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The converse rule that a man would have right of access to his wife’s 
sisters is also explicitly referred to . 1 

Finally it must be noted that nowhere in the Vedas or in the Sutras is 
there a word of condemnation of the practice, although they are meticu- 
lous indeed in their moralizing. This fact negatives the argument that 
polyandry was a later adoption. 

It was Brahmanism which lead to the gradual suppression of primitive 
marriage customs among the Hindus. The Brahmanical system was 
individualistic; it was not an organization comparable with the Church of 
Rome, but a collection of sacred individuals acknowledging no authority. 
Hence it caused a change from a clan system to a caste system, and the 
clan to which the individualistic priest belonged was of no significance 
to him. The caste organization, based on the exclusive priestly caste, 
broke up the clan organization based on group kinship. To treat, as is 
often done, Brahmanical ideas as being ‘primitive Aryan’ usages is to 
ignore the whole course of Indian history. Indeed in southern India, 
remote from the contest with the aristocratic clans, the Brahmans them- 
selves retained the constitution of the undivided family — the elder 
brother alone being permitted to marry and his children being accounted 
the offspring of the entire family. As a seventeenth-century traveller 
noted: ‘It is a law with the Brahmans that one son only takes a wife, who 
is common to all the brothers but to no one else.’ The learned Hindu 
judge Sir T. Muttusami Aiyar comments that ‘the personal law of these 
Nambudiri Brahmans’ was not the modern Hindu law but ‘the ancient 
Hindu law as it is probably understood and followed about the com- 
mencement of the Christian era’. 

Polyandrous Marriage amongst other ‘ Aryan ’ Peoples 

One way of dissociating ourselves from customs different from our own 
is to suppose that the latter arc a peculiarity of an imaginary ‘Aryan’ or 
Indo-German race. (Actually the term ‘Aryan’ — as Mueller, who popu- 
larized it, stressed — applies solely to language.) It has been a point of 
honour, especially with German scholars, to depict in the most exalted 
terms the moral standards and social institutions of the supposed first- 
cousins of the progenitors of their race; and in their zeal for the prin- 
ciples of the Hindus of three milleniums ago they have often appeared 

1 European commentators have attempted to explain such references away. 
Thus Professor Hillebrandt claims that the sister dwelling with her father must 
mean with her forefathers, i.e. dead. Some have even asserted flatly that ‘poly- 
andry is not Vedic’. Dr Keith finds this too much, and rejects the suggestion 
that the reason that the word for ‘wife’ usually occurs in the plural is that it may 
refer to ‘hetairai*, as unlikely, since the Rig- Veda uses the phrase meaning ‘wife- 
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to lose all concern for intellectual honesty. In point of fact, the sexual 
standards of inhabitants of the Hindu-Kush and the Punjab are remoter 
from modern conceptions than those of any comparable people. The 
only Aryans known to history, as we have seen, were the Medes, and the 
Central Asiatic offshoots of the same race, to which the early invaders of 
India belonged. These Aryans were polyandrous, as Strabo tells us. To 
have fewer than five wives or five husbands was accounted a misfortune. 

There is no reason to suppose that the conceptions of peoples speak- 
ing languages related to Sanskrit have passed through phases different 
from those passed through by other ethnic groups. The differences 
between advanced and primitive peoples in this respect are due not to 
racial characteristics but to the extent of their social evolution. Everything 
goes to show that Western races have passed through the same phases as 
primitive people of other races. 

Evidence of sexual communism and polyandry are by no means 
unknown among the peoples from whom European civilization has 
derived, whether or not culturally or racially related to the Aryans. Thus 
in Sparta, the community which preserved most faithfully the primitive 
organization of the Hellenes, fraternal polyandry was legal. Tn Sparta’, 
says Polybius, ‘several brothers had often one wife between them and 
the children were brought up in common.’ It was the custom to ex- 
change wives and to offer them to strangers, and, during the absence of 
their spouses, Spartan women might take ‘secondary husbands’. Cir- 
cumstances, such as the rituals of sexual promiscuity practised in some 
Greek communities, confirm the inference that the Spartan institution 
was a survival from a phase through which the Greek race as a whole had 
passed . 1 

The Etruscans, according to Theopompos, held their wives in com- 
mon. We have already indicated that the institutions of Rome were once 
very different. Those primitive Latin princes who did not know their 
fathers can scarcely have been monandrous. From the most brilliant 
epoch of the Roman Republic, Plutarch reports an incident which 
divorced from this background, would appear utterly inexplicable. Quintus 
Hortensius, a man of exalted character and a friend and admirer of the 
second Cato, expressed a desire ‘to be more than a mere associate and 
companion of Cato and in some manner to bring his whole family and 
blood into community of kinship with him’. To this end he proposed 
that Cato’s daughter, already married to Bibulus, should be lent to him 
‘as noble soil for the production of children’. Lest Bibulus be averse 
from the proposition, he promised to give him back his wife as soon as 

1 Sexual promiscuity, of course, does not constitute collective sexual organiza- 
tion ; nevertheless, it rarely survives in a society where individual sexual claims 
are fully established. 



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she had borne a child. Cato was far from being offended, but refused the 
request on the grounds that Bibulus would be unwilling. Hortensius 
then suggested that Cato should lend him his own wife. To this Cato 
could see no objection, but thought it only fair to talk the matter over 
with his wife’s father. The latter entirely concurred, and Cato accordingly 
lent his wife to Hortensius. Plutarch reports this with obvious embarrass- 
ment, but Strabo saw the incident in its proper perspective. He refers 
to it after mentioning the polyandrous customs of the Medes, adding: 
‘In the same manner in our own day Cato lent his wife to Hortensius, 
upon the latter’s request, following in this an ancient custom of the 
Romans.’ 

Among the barbarians of Northern Europe, it was not unusual for 
men to exchange wives. In Germany, until quite late in the Middle 
Ages, it was legal for the husband, if his marriage proved without issue, 
to introduce a friend to his wife, a usage which is said to have lingered 
almost to our own time in some of the remoter districts. In Nordic 
mythology the goddess Frigga, when her husband Odin goes on a 
journey, cohabits with his brothers, like a Tlinkit lady. 

Caesar states that the ancient Britons practised community of wives — 
groups of ten or twelve, especially brothers, having their wives in com- 
mon. Dio Cassius makes Queen Boudicca say: ‘It is over Britons that I 
rule, men . . . who have even their wives and their children in common.’ 
Similar usages are reported of the Caledonians and border tribes : ‘They 
live in tents, naked and barefooted, having wives in common and rearing 
the whole progeny.’ Strabo was told that the Irish had free access to one 
another’s wives and did not even bar incest. St Jerome, with theological 
exaggeration, says of the northern Britons: ‘The nation of the Scots 
have no individual wives, and, as if they had been reading Plato’s Republic 
or wished to imitate the example of Cato, a man amongst them has no 
wife of his own . . .’ 

There appears to be no reason to question, as has been done, the 
accuracy of these statements. That they do not appear in Celtic literature 
is to be expected, since all this literature has been set down in Christian 
times by Christian priests. Nevertheless, the ‘Ulster Saga’ mentions 
that the princess Clothru married three brothers and that her son had 
thus three fathers. Multiple fatherhood is also referred to in mytho- 
logical texts. In the Celtic family property was indivisible, and, unless a 
son went to seek his fortune, brothers continued together, forming one 
common household. The name of that household was not the house but, 
significantly enough, ‘the bed’, and the Celtic family was called ‘the 
common bed’. In short, there is no indication of a monogamic tradition 
or disposition among the peoples who have been called ‘Aryan’, whether 
in Europe or in Asia. 



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Collective Marriage in Southern India 

In southern Hindustan the survivals of collective sexual organization are 
so general as to leave little doubt that this once constituted the usual 
form of marriage. Group-marriage is in full force at the present day 
among the tribes of the Nilgiri Hills, especially among the Todas. It has 
been described as simple polyandry, but, as Gait’s account makes clear, 
it is actually sororal-fraternal group-marriage. Not only are the brothers 
of one family co-partners in the group-marriage of that family with 
another, but tribal brothers are also admitted to the connubial group. 
‘Notwithstanding these singular family arrangements’, says Major Ross 
King, ‘the greatest harmony appears to prevail among all parties — 
husbands, wives and lovers. The children live happily with their puta- 
tive parents, equally well treated on every side.’ 

According to Dr Rivers, there is reason to believe that the Todas 
migrated to their present habitat from the coasts of Malabar at the time 
of the Aryan invasion. Hence they must be regarded as representing the 
original form of organization of all the native races of Malabar and 
Travancore — a conclusion supported by the reports of the older 
travellers and by what we know of the usages of the populations of that 
country at the present day. Thus fraternal polyandry is reported of the 
Krisnavakkakars of Travancore. The Kanisans admit that fraternal 
polyandry was formerly common among them. Today in Malabar 
polyandry is most prevalent among the poorer classes. In former days 
it existed among the noblest and wealthiest aboriginal caste of the land. 
Concerning the marriage system of the Nayars, we have a considerable 
number of accounts dating from the time of the first landing of the 
Portuguese in India to the present day. Apart from a few misconceptions, 
the numerous accounts are remarkably consistent and, in the light of 
present knowledge, accurate. 

As already noted, the social organization of the Nayars is one of the 
purest examples of unmodified matriarchal organization, the mother- 
hood, or ‘tarwad’, being composed of all the descendants of a common 
ancestress in the female line and constituting the only unit of Nayar 
society. These tarwads, of which there are a hundred, are classified in 
order of nobility, and the strictest rule is that no Nayar woman may 
associate with a man in a caste lower than her own. Apart from this 
limitation, either sex is free to make whatever associations it wishes; 
there is no permanent cohabitation or economic association between men 
and women and no initiatory ceremony. As one Nayar says : ‘Marriage 
among the Nayars is indeed pure and simple and unmixed with con- 
siderations of civil rights of property — a marriage for the sake of 
marriage alone. It is not an institution intended, as in more advanced 



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Hindu societies, for the perpetuation of the family, but a social arrange- 
ment intended for the peaceful satisfaction of the “blindest appetite” of 
man.’ The association can be dissolved with the will of either party 
without further ceremony. Mr Gopal Panikkar says: ‘There are two 
sides to a marriage, a legal and a religious. Now, in the case of our 
marriage both elements are wanting. . . . There is, in fact, no fixed rule 
or custom as to marriages in Malabar. They arc terminable at the will of 
either party and the law takes no notice of them/ 

While Nayar associations are limited by the law prohibiting the woman 
to associate with an inferior caste, caste organization is not an aboriginal 
institution and this must have been borrowed from the Aryans. Prob- 
ably relations were originally confined by tribal law to certain inter- 
marrying tarwads, a suggestion confirmed by the fact that today a Nayar 
is supposed to marry his cross-cousin ; that is to say, in the same tarwad 
as the other members of his own tarwad. 

McLennan regarded Nayar polyandry as the type of non-fraternal 
polyandry, in contrast with the Tibetan form, and the impression that 
it was non-fraternal has continued among ethnological writers to the 
present day. But there is every reason for thinking that this is an error. 
Non-fraternal polyandry, as a traditionally established institution, is 
extremely rare, if it exists at all. Instances, such as the collective mar- 
riages of the Chukchi, or the polyandry still surviving in the Darjeeling 
district, which are described as non-fraternal polyandry, are seen on 
examination to be but degenerate forms of collective relations, in which 
the husbands were originally brothers, own or tribal. The organization 
of Nayar marriage has been obscured by the fact that Nambutiri 
Brahmans were admitted to ‘marriage’ with Nayar women; and in the 
lower castes, and wherever polyandry still survives among Nayar castes 
at the present day, it is confined to the fraternal form. 

Gemelli-Careri expressly states that the husbands in Nayar marriage 
were brothers; ‘when one brother marries a woman,’ he states, ‘she is 
common to all the others’. Other travellers, misled by the part played 
by Brahmans in such unions, and also by the fact that in the Nayar social 
system there were no ‘actual’ but only ‘tribal’ brothers (that is, members 
of the same ‘tarwad’) have described Nayar polyandry as non-fraternal. 
Since there was no ‘family’, there were no brothers in the family sense, 
but only in the clan sense. That Nayar polyandry was fraternal follows 
from the obligation to marry in certain ‘tarwads’ only, and seemingly 
in that into which a man’s mother’s brothers have married. At the 
present day, cultured Nayars, who are extremely reluctant to admit any 
survival of the polyandrous customs of their ancestors, acknowledge 
that a trace of it is retained in the relations between brothers. ‘The wife 
of a brother’, says Mr K. M. Panikkar, ‘is looked upon as a person to 



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whom one could openly, though not legitimately, pay court, and any 
favour short of sexual relationship which she confers upon them is 
allowed by public opinion. ... All brothers treat her half as a sister and 
half as a wife.’ 

Nayar marriage was, in fact, identical with all the other institutions 
of fraternal sororal polygamy, and differed only from the modern 
Tibetan form in being of a more primitive type, the marrying groups 
being unmodified matriarchal clans and not, as in Tibet, semi-patri- 
archal families. It is significant that no instance of non-fraternal poly- 
andry, as a general custom of spontaneous and independent origin, is 
definitely known; and that, where such a practice is found, it appears 
invariably to be derived from fraternal group-marriage. For if, as some 
have supposed, polyandry were simply the outcome of various local and 
accidental conditions, such, for instance as scarcity of women, there 
would be no apparent reason why it should not commonly take the form 
of a deliberate partnership between persons not necessarily related. But 
no instance is known of polyandry having become customary except as a 
modification of already existing fraternal group-marriage. 

The connubial relations of Nayar women were preceded by a cere- 
mony, the tying of the ‘tali’, which was performed on Nayar girls before 
the age of eleven. The ‘tali’ is a small gold leaf through which a hole is 
bored with the finger, and which is tied round the neck of the girl. (This 
rite is general among Dravidian races.) It is often performed on batches 
of girls, including infants. In one form of the usage there were as many 
ritual bridegrooms as marriageable girls, and it is thus possible that the 
ceremonial marriage constituted in those instances the actual marriage 
of a group of girls to a group of bridegrooms . 1 

The marriage customs of the Nayars have now become almost, though 
not entirely, obliterated, but polyandry is, according to Mr Gopal 
Panikkar, observed at the present day by the barber caste of Nayars. 
Strange as it may seem, the group-marriage of the Nayars has been 
strenuously denied in toro. Such repudiations are inevitable wherever 
new moral values have been adopted and old usages abandoned. The 
Parsee scholars attempt to repudiate the existence of the well-known 
law of next-of-kin marriage, or ‘xvaetvadatha 5 , of Mazdanean religion, 
an institution laid down in their Sacred Books, the practice of which for 
centuries is a matter of history. The Todas indignantly repudiate the 
practice of female infanticide, although it is well known that they 

1 Nayars, to defend themselves against the sort of ethnical persecution to 
which they have been subjected, have sometimes adduced the ‘talikettu* cere- 
mony, but Sir T. Muttusami Ayer, the chairman of the Malabar Marriage 
Commission, concludes in his report that ‘in relation to marriage it has no 
significance save that no girl is at liberty to contract it before she goes through 
the “tali-kettu” ceremony \ 



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practise it at the present day. In Africa, tribes mutually accuse one 
another of cannibalism, while each denies the impeachment. 

In conclusion it may be added that the institutions which were 
general among the aboriginal races of India were, as might be expected, 
common to the peoples of the same race in Ceylon. Among the Singha- 
lese, fraternal polyandry was an established institution and was recog- 
nized by law until the year 1859 ; it continued to be practised much later 
in the interior. 

Evidence of Polyandry among the Ancient Semites 

Polyandrous marriage was a familiar institution among the ancient 
Semites. As we know from the Arab philosopher Al-Biruni and others, 
‘all the kindred have their property in common, the eldest being lord; 
all have one wife, and the first that comes has access to her\ This 
account is confirmed from the inscriptions of southern Arabia, which 
commonly refer to a man’s ‘fathers’. These have sometimes been inter- 
preted as referring to the person’s father, grandfather and great-grand- 
father, but this interpretation is excluded by some inscriptions in which 
the fathers are described as brothers. In one, a whole genealogy is given 
in which brothers twice appear as the common fathers of their descen- 
dants. 

Early Babylonian records refer also to polyandrous marriage; the 
important part played by the institution of levirate marriage which, in 
Mosaic legislation, is expressly connected with the custom of brothers 
living together in an undivided household, indicates the former preva- 
lence of similar usages amongst the Hebrews. 1 


1 Levirate marriage is described on pp. 153 6. 



CHAPTER 11 


Group Marriage (n) 


I n Africa, owing to the extensive development of private property and 
consequently of individualism, marriage has tended to assume the form 
of personal economic, and even purely commercial, transactions. 
Nevertheless, the continent presents examples of collective sexual rela- 
tions. Thus, among the Banyoro of Uganda it was legitimate for a man 
to have relations with the wives of the men he called brothers, i.e. his 
clan fellows. A man might use his influence with his wife to make her 
refrain from such action, but he could not accuse her of unfaithfulness 
for so doing. A woman, however, was restricted to men of her husband’s 
clan. Similarly among the Banyankole or Bahima — except that the 
restriction to clan-brothers is not insisted on for cither sex. Much the 
same is true of the Akamba, a Bantu tribe, but here limited to members 
of the same clan or occasionally to intimate friends of another clan. 
Half-brothers have a recognized right of habitual access to the wives of 
their half-brothers of a corresponding age. 

Among the Masai and other kindred tribes there is right of access 
among members of the same marriage class, such classes being based on 
age-groups of the men who passed through puberty ceremonies at the 
same time. Individual marriage docs not take place until comparatively 
late in life, prior to which the young men live in separate kraals and the 
unmarried girls of corresponding age with them. But when individual 
marriage takes place, the members of the age-grade claim priority of 
intercourse with the bride. After marriage, temporary exchange of wives 
is usual between members of the same age-grade. So also among the 
Nandi and elsewhere. 

The Herero, the great western branch of the southern Bantu, have an 
elaborate institution of sexual communism which presents interesting 
features. Owing to their isolation, they have preserved customs of more 
primitive character than have the majority of Bantu. They are divided 
into totemic clans, some strictly matriarchal, others patriarchal, and 
appear to be in a state of transition from matriarchy to patriarchy. 
Cross-cousin marriage is strictly observed. Sororal polygyny and the 
levirate are customary. Speaking of the Ovaherero in particular, Dr 
Hahn says that every man and every woman stands towards certain other 
men and women in a particular relation called ‘upanga’, a word origin- 



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ally meaning ‘companion*. Every man can claim access to tne wives of 
his ‘upanga’ at any time, and conversely for women. These customs are 
observed in all the neighbouring tribes. According to Dr Dannert, 
actual brothers and all persons closely related by blood are prohibited 
from entering into the relationship of ‘upanga*, though this does not 
apply to the women. Though other writers contradict this, if Dr Dan- 
nert is correct the sexual communism of the Herero presents a remark- 
able anomaly. But this might have come about easily enough in relation 
to the development of private property. The Herero are great pastor- 
alists : and communism tends to be abolished wherever property becomes 
of great value. It is noticeable that the prohibition regarding relatives 
applies only to the men. Among the Bantu the women are never owners 
of cattle; it therefore appears to refer to the economic consequences 
of the relationship rather than the relationship itself. 

In every part of Madagascar relations are permitted between a man 
and the sisters and female cousins of his wife, and with the wives of his 
brothers and cousins; conversely for women, The only forbidden rela- 
tions are those between a married woman and a slave, or a stranger who 
is not the guest of her husband. 

Sexual Communism in New Guinea and Oceania 

Sexual communism is found in northern Papua, among the Kai, and 
among the southern Massims of British New Guinea. Similar institu- 
tions flourish in Polynesia. Thus in Tahiti and in the Friendly Islands 
the aristocratic classes were united in a brotherhood known as ‘areoi*. 
A wife might sleep with fellow-members of her husband’s ‘areoi’, but 
relations with non-members were accounted adulterous. Sexual promis- 
cuity was practised at periodic feasts. 

The Marquesan group long escaped civilizing influences, and Dr 
Tautain, the French administrator there, found fraternal sororal poly- 
gamy derived from an originally wider form of tribal sexual communism, 
as shown by the fact that it was obligatory for the bride to be placed at 
the disposal of all the tribal brothers of the husband before marriage. 
Similar customs are found at the other extremity of the area inhabited 
by the Polynesian race, in Hawaii, which was probably the first Poly- 
nesian settlement in the Pacific. Although they are not definitely 
reported from the intermediate parts, there are indications that they 
were not local peculiarities of Hawaii and the Marquesas. For example, 
the word ‘punalua*, now translated as ‘intimate companion’, is in 
general use throughout Polynesia and its exact meaning is ‘a multi- 
plicity of spouses’. Very much the same customs obtained throughout 
Micronesia, polyandry being reported as common among the upper 
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Collective Marriage in Australia 

As we have seen, the collective sexual organization varies; the group of 
husbands may consist of actual or half-brothers or may include other 
near relatives; sometimes the eldest brother is paramount; sometimes 
the group consists of a limited number of clan members, or of all clan 
members, or of all members of a given marriage class or age-group. And 
we have seen that in organizations of the fraternal type there are signs 
that they were formally associated with an organization into clans or 
marriage-classes. If, as we concluded, the earliest pattern was an under- 
standing between two primitive groups or clans and had no reference to 
individual marriage, then the most primitive form of marriage would 
consist of sexual communism between clan brothers — that is, the right 
of access of all members of one group to all those of opposite sex in the 
corresponding group. 

Special interest therefore attaches to Australian clan organization 
since there the primitive pattern has remained substantially unchanged. 
Their material culture has, of course, undergone important changes, 
and, as we have seen, male domination has attained its most despotic 
form. Australian society exhibits several different principles of organiza- 
tion which have become combined and have modified one another. 
There are three basic principles of organization — totem groups, terri- 
torial classifications (members of the same camping-ground) and mar- 
riage classes. Each varies from one tribe to another: thus in one case the 
totem is transmitted through the mother, in another through the father 
and in a third the community decides to which totem a particular child 
shall belong. Sometimes change of residence transfers an individual 
from one territorial group to another. 

This complexity of organization means a corresponding complexity 
in the rules governing sexual relations, and indeed this is the sole pur- 
pose of all this organization. It is therefore inappropriate to speak of 
promiscuity, and these rules may properly be described as concerned 
with morality, although so different from the moral rules of civilized 
communities. The Australian rules are not concerned with safeguarding 
the claims of individual marriage but with the prevention of incest. To 
marry within the prohibited degrees would have dire consequences for 
the whole tribe. Among the Dieri, the elders in their leisure lecture the 
young people on the heinousness of incest, the penalty for which is 
usually death. Even in cases of rape, the victim is first asked by her 
assailant to what class she belongs. The totemic system is regarded as 
having been instituted solely in order to distinguish between those who 
may and may not have sexual relations. 

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present day, but is regarded simply as due to economic necessity. But 
while it establishes the rights of the husband to the company, obedience 
and labour of the woman, it does not regulate sexual relations. Group 
marriage between members of corresponding marriage classes has long 
been widespread, and was accurately described for the first time in 1832 
by Scott Nind, who noted that men did not marry until after thirty, as a 
rule, but that they often courted a wife while her husband was still 
living. Exchange of wives among tribal brothers is ‘extremely frequent’ 
in Western Australia, and, as one cleric observes, ‘it may be said that 
they have their wives in common’. Among the Dieri, when two brothers 
are married to two sisters they probably live together in a group mar- 
riage of four. In the Kunandaburi tribe intercourse constantly takes place 
between ‘a group of men who are own or tribal brothers and a group of 
women who are own or tribal sisters’. Among the northern tribes 
fraternal polyandry is so much a matter of course that it is usually not 
the husband but one of his brothers who chastises a woman guilty of 
adultery. 

However, Australian sexual organization differs in some respects from 
the examples of fraternal polyandry earlier considered, and represents a 
more primitive form. Thus it is not an organized marriage of the whole 
fraternal family group, as is the marriage of the Tibetans or the Todas. 
Indeed there is no such thing as a juridically-recognized family group 
in Australian social organization. 

Missionaries have often been misled by these institutions to suppose 
them licentious aberrations. Any promiscuity which exists is a rigidly 
defined group promiscuity. Thus among the four clans of the Aldolinga 
tribe, a Beltare man can cohabit with any Kumare woman and a Burule 
with any of the Bunanke women. 

Spencer and Gillen have described some aspects of sexual relations 
among the Dieri and the Urabunna tribes of Central Australia; among 
the Dieri, at the great tribal gatherings in connection with puberty, a 
special ceremony known as ‘Kandri’ is performed at which the names 
of various couples are solemnly read out by the head of the totem group. 
The various persons thus allotted to one another are not consulted, and 
they are expected to cohabit immediately. These pairs are known as 
‘pirrauru’, a term which appears to mean ‘moon spouses’. (In the 
Warramunga tribe, it is the moon god which is supposed to have estab- 
lished the marriage classes and sexual rules.) All the marriageable and 
married people, even those who are already ‘pirraurus’, are allotted in 
batches, and once a ‘pirrauru’ always a ‘pirrauru’. These relationships 
are independent of the individual economic marriage known as ‘tippa- 
malku’, and are attended with special solemnities. Every man, married 
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have a number of ‘pirrauru’ husbands in addition to her ‘tippa-malku* 
partner. A man exercises marital rights over his ‘pirrauru* with the 
formal assent of the ‘tippa-malku’ husband if the latter is present, and 
as a matter of course if he is not. Similarly among the Urabunna tribe the 
normal marital pairs are called ‘nupa’, but in addition each man has 
certain ‘nupa’ women with whom he stands in the relation of ‘piraun- 
garu\ Conversely a woman is the ‘piraungaru’ of certain other men 
while being the ‘nupa’ of one particular man. In this tribe individual 
marriage does not exist even in name, as far as sexual rights are con- 
cerned. 

The marriage organization of the Australian aborigines suggested to 
Fison and Howitt the view that collective group relations must have 
preceded any form of individual marriage, a view which has been 
endorsed by most eminent authorities, though not by Dr Westermarck, 
who is severely criticized by Spencer and Gillen for his scepticism. 

The existence of group-marriage is not at issue ; the questions which 
are in dispute are: (1) whether the individual association was anterior or 
posterior to the sexual communism, and (2) whether sexual communism 
does or did extend to the whole of the intcr-marriage classes. Dr Wester- 
marck founds his hypothesis that individual marriage came first on 
nothing more than the supposition that such ideas are innate in human 
nature ; but, as we shall show in more detail later this rests upon a mis- 
conception. What is spoken of as jealousy in primitive societies does not 
refer to sexual possession. The Rev. J. Mathew bases his objection on the 
ground that this would ‘reduce mankind to a state of degradation lower 
than the brutes’; adding ‘if gorillas have the decency to pair off, why 
may not primitive man have done the same ?’ He doubtless derives the 
notion that gorillas pair from Dr Westermarck, who gave considerable 
currency to that piece of misinformation at one time. 

To suppose that individual marriage was replaced by sexual com- 
munism is difficult, for such a trend is of course unknown in any sphere 
of social development. The whole of history proves the difficulties of 
checking individualistic tendencies once they have developed. Wester- 
marck remarks that polygyny and polyandry are prone to be modified 
towards monogamy, but elsewhere claims that the Urabunna custom 
may have developed from ordinary individual marriage. It is hardly 
possible for both views to be correct. 

The existence of sexual communism has usually been assigned to the 
difficulty of obtaining wives when there is a scarcity of women, and to 
the benevolence of the older married men in remedying the distress of 
the younger members by allowing them access to their own wives. 
Unfortunately almost every account tells us that the scarcity is caused 
chiefly by the older men monopolizing the women, and that, far from 



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attempting to remedy the situation, they go out of their way to make 
matters more difficult. 

The bulk of the criticisms have been directed against Dr Howitt’s 
account of the customs of the Dieri, but it seems to me that the ‘pir- 
rauru’ institution constitutes but a small part of the evidence pointing 
to the fundamentally collective character of aboriginal social organiza- 
tion. Certain inconsistencies due to misinformation or misunderstanding 
have been made much of, and it is easy to draw up a list of points 
concerning the institutions of this tribe which still remain obscure, but 
there are many points which are clear. For example, while a man may 
have several ‘tippa-malkus’, a woman can have but one; and, in general, 
the system is more beneficial for the male, as one would expect in a state 
characterized by male supremacy. Mr Thomas argues that, since the 
‘pirrauru’ relationship comes after a ‘tippa-malku’ marriage in the case 
of the woman, it must be evolutionarily later; but since both forms of 
marriage are preceded by free love, he should therefore infer that this 
was the earliest state of humanity. He claims that the ‘pirrauru’ relation 
cannot be a survival of unregulated relations, since it is regulated ; but, 
in fact, throughout the world many forms of promiscuity arc subject to 
a certain regulation, from the Nanga gatherings of Fiji to the Baby- 
lonian rites of Mylitta. 

It is recognized that ritual licence, which often has a semi-religious or 
magical character, cannot be adduced as evidence of normal social 
relations, but in practice it is often difficult to draw a hard-and-fast line 
between the two phenomena. In Australian tribes, which are fragmented 
into small camps which only meet at periodic gatherings, promiscuity 
can never be other than ceremonial. The fact that the husband’s con- 
sent must be requested, if he is present, before a ‘pirrauru’ relationship 
is consummated has been thought to indicate the vested right of the 
husband to dispose of the woman at his pleasure, and thus to make the 
whole thing merely an instance of husbandly authority. But it is clear 
that the husband never refuses his consent, and the object of asking it is 
to assure him that his wife will not be permanently taken from him. 
Again, the fact that a man who has access to a man’s wife offers the 
latter some present has been taken as indicating that the transaction 
has the character of a prostitution. Actually, so little mercenary is the 
custom that the presents are commonly given away again by the hus- 
band. 

Turning to the second controversial aspect: though it is true that own 
brothers frequently have connubial rights, nothing in Australian institu- 
tions resembles the fundamentally fraternal polyandrous organizations 
of the Tibetans or of the Todas. The circumstance that own brothers 
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Australian sexual collectivism. There is no sign of any evolution from 
fraternal to some wider group ; on the contrary, the fraternal group and 
the family itself remain an unrecognized, and indeed nameless, accretion 
within the collective marriage-class organization. 

The relations between members of corresponding marriage-classes 
are entirely different from those between other men and women. They 
are called ‘spouses’ (husband or wife) — the word ‘noa’ means spouse or 
partner — but the term ‘noa,’ and corresponding terms such as ‘nupa’ 
among theUrabunna, apply equally to all members of the opposite sex in 
corresponding marriage-classes. They are therefore frequently inter- 
preted in English by the term ‘potential wife’ or ‘potential husband’. 
Many of the controversies on this topic have arisen from the misconcep- 
tion created by this misleading expression. Thus in England almost all 
unmarried women, except the few within the prohibited degrees, are 
potential wives of any unmarried man, yet for an Englishman to ravish 
an unmarried girl is a serious offence. In Australia the relationship of 
‘noa’ gives him the right to do this with impunity. Furthermore, a 
European woman ceases to be a potential wife when she marries, but in 
Australia she does not. In Australia, this relationship gives a native a 
claim to sexual access to a woman, whether he contemplates marrying 
her or not and whether she is married or not. A better term would be 
‘facultative’ wife. When the Rev. J. Bulmer pointed out to a native of 
unusual independence of mind what he called ‘the absurdity of the 
native classificatory system’, the native replied that it was the Euro- 
pean system which was absurd. ‘Why should I be so foolish’, he said, 
‘as to call my wife’s sister ‘sister’ ? She is not my sister and she is my 
wife.’ 

To sum up: of actual group-marriage relations, in the sense of regu- 
lar, recognized and habitual sexual cohabitation, we have evidence only 
in the ‘pirrauru’ and similar institutions and in the collective sexual 
communism prevalent among Australian tribes in every part of the 
continent. But Australian social organizations are not founded on any 
system of fraternal-sororal polygamy, and their especial significance lies 
in * e fact that they cannot have developed out of a system of individual 
mai iage, but must, from the first, have been collective and polyandrous. 
Hence there is no alternative but to conclude that the collective marriage 
groups were originally co-extensive with the present intermarriage 
classes, for there is a total absence of groups or relationships of any other 
kind, apart from individual marriage. Dr Westermarck argues that, even 
if group marriage was once common in Australia, this would not prove 
that it was once common among mankind at large; and he adds that the 
existence of kangaroos in Australia does not prove that there were once 
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different species of marsupial mammals have been found in the Oligo- 
cene desposits of the south of England and northern France. To the 
truly scientific mind the discovery of marsupials in Australia would 
certainly suggest that mammals of the present day might not be un- 
related. Similarly if we turn to the first account ever published of the 
married usages of the British, we find Caesar remarking: ‘In their 
domestic life they practise a form of community of wives, ten or twelve 
men combining in groups, especially brothers with brothers and fathers 
with sons/ 

This lengthy survey shows that, however rare collective sexual 
organizations may be today, they are not as rare as supposed, and that 
there is scarcely anywhere in the world where evidence of their recent 
existence or actual existence is not to be found. The remarkable fact is 
not that they are rare, but that they have survived at all down to the 
present time. The only favouring factor common to these cases is the 
comparative isolation of the peoples among whom they survive. They 
are chiefly found among mountain populations, and it is not among such 
populations we should look for aberrations, innovations or eccentricities. 
Taken with the fact that the stranger who is made a tribal brother is 
commonly regarded as entitled to sexual hospitality, these facts all con- 
firm the conclusion already reached on other grounds that the regula- 
tion of collective sexual relations has everywhere preceded the regula- 
tion of such relations between individuals. 

The Levirate 

The custom that a man should marry his deceased brother’s widow, 
known as the ‘levirate’, is well-nigh universal in distribution, and it is 
invariably continuous with fraternal polyandry. 1 If it is, in fact, a sur- 
vival of it, additional evidence is provided of the universality of the 
principles which we have been discussing. 

The levirate is observed with particular rigour among just those 
people among whom fraternal or clan polyandry also obtains, such as the 
Australian aborigines, the Tibetans, the Eskimo, the Tlinkit and others. 
Moreover, just as when a man marries his wife’s sister no new ceremony 
is necessary, so also when the deceased man’s brother takes his wife no 
ceremony is necessary. In Ladakh, however, the woman can be relieved 
from the obligation of marrying her deceased husband’s brother if she 
goes through a ceremony of divorce with her deceased husband’s 
corpse. 

Again, the rule that younger brothers have sexual rights over the 
wives of their elder brothers, but that the latter have no rights over the 
wives of younger brothers, is also true of the levirate. On the other hand, 
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in a purely tribal society the widow may go indifferently to an older or a 
younger brother. Among the Shuswap the widow is kept a prisoner until 
she marries her husband’s brother, in the same way that a man is kept 
under lock and key until he marries his deceased wife’s sister. Frequently 
these two customs co-exist. In fact, among those who observe the 
levirate, it would be difficult to find many instances in wffiich the custom 
is not associated either with actual sororal polygyny or with its residual 
form, the right or obligation to marry a deceased wife’s sister. 

Nevertheless, one fundamental difference between the two situations 
exists: in certain phases of society women tend to be regarded by the 
men as acquired possessions, and are in fact ‘purchased’; whereas, with 
rare exceptions, men are not ‘purchased’ by women. The woman ac- 
quired by a family or clan is commonly regarded as permanently 
acquired. As an educated Yoruba explained: ‘Women are never really 
married twice. . . . Once married, they are attached for ever to the house 
and family of the deceased husband; hence it is more usual for widows 
to choose another husband from the same family.’ But the view that the 
woman is acquired property, in which the whole family has an interest, is 
so closely allied with the view which regards the brothers as having a 
claim on the woman even during the first husband’s lifetime as to be 
indistinguishable. As Dr Lindblom said of the Akamba, fraternal 
succession is with them a sequel to the recognized rights of access during 
the husband’s lifetime. 

Juridic notions of property and of its transmission by inheritance are 
of comparatively late emergence. Unless, therefore, we suppose that the 
levirate did not come into use until such ideas had developed, we must 
look for some prior social cause. The practice is found among peoples, 
such as the Australians, who have no juridic idea of property. Even if 
the wife is assimilated to property, such property must be regarded as 
having been originally communal, like all other clan property. The 
North American Indians, among whom the levirate was general, not 
only have no conception of individual property but do not acquire 
wives either by exchange of goods or of another female. Moreover, even 
where the custom of the levirate appears to be interpreted as an inheri- 
tance of property, it is found that the laws governing it are different 
from those governing property. This is true even in Africa, where the 
assimilation of the wife to property has been carried farthest. Thus 
among the Koro of Northern Nigeria a man’s property passes to his son, 
but his widow’s goes to his younger brothers. It is a very general usage 
among the advanced African tribes for a man to inherit his father’s 
wives, with the exception of his actual mother. Thus here the law of 
inheritance, instead of enforcing the levirate, has the effect of abolishing 
it. Again, we find rules regarding the disposal of widows which have no 



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reference to juridic property. Thus among the Banyankole, if a man has 
as many wives as he can keep, he may decline to take on his deceased 
brother’s widows, and permit them to marry whomever they choose; 
but he, nevertheless, retains his right of sexual access to them, and is, 
in fact, expected to visit them as husband now and again. Similarly 
among the Gwari, a widow is at liberty to return to her own people and 
to marry whom she likes, but is under the obligation of cohabiting, if 
only for three days, with the brother of her deceased husband, and any 
children resulting are his. A similar custom is found among the Baluba 
in the Congo and the natives of Theraka in East Africa. 

Another interpretation put upon the levirate is that of the ancient 
Hebrews, who regarded it as an obligation to raise seed to the brother, 
or to build up his house, an interpretation also given by other people, 
both savage and cultured. Among the Ossetes, while a widow is obliged 
to remain unmarried if her deceased husband has left no father or 
brother, yet she is not prohibited from living with other men; however, 
any children which may result are considered the legitimate offspring of 
her first marriage. A boy born in this way will succeed to the property at 
the expense of daughters born in wedlock. The Ossetes display the 
unusual but not unique feature that the widow passes, as often as not, to 
the father of the deceased rather than to his brother. Thus the Ossete 
father not only raises seed unto his son after the latter’s decease but 
during his lifetime also. A father sometimes purchases a wife for his son 
and cohabits with her until the son reaches the age of puberty. He may 
even purchase a wife for the son which he has by this girl and cohabit 
with her in turn. 

The Ossetes are the same people whom the Romans called Alani, a 
tribe of the Massagetae, among whom the fraternal household is the 
foundation of the social order; thus, the levirate custom is traceable, 
both in the economic and the Hebraic interpretation, to its original 
source in fraternal sexual communism or polyandry. 

Among the Dinkas the theory of raising seed is carried out even more 
thoroughly, for if the widow is past child-bearing age it is incumbent 
upon her to furnish a young girl to the brother or the nearest relative of 
the deceased, and if there is no such relative she must also provide a man 
to act as husband to the girl, the children still being accounted as the 
offspring of the deceased husband, who with luck may go on procreating 
a family in this way for more than fifty years after his death. 

However, the view that the function of the levirate is to raise seed to 
the husband is manifestly an interpretation subsequently invented to 
explain an immemorial usage. And many who practise the levirate have no 
notion of such a theory. Furthermore, it is obviously not a need to raise 
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wait, if her late husband’s brother is still an infant, for the latter to grow 
up. Again, when a man inherits his father’s wives, the sons which he has 
by them are not called his sons but his brothers. Similarly the sons of a 
man by his brother’s widow do not call him father, but uncle. 

In some parts of Africa, the levirate is viewed as a sort of purificatory 
rite, designed to avert the anger of the deceased’s ghost. Interpretations 
of the levirate cannot be seen as anything but variations of the usage of 
succession to the wives of the fraternal group. This is the only explana- 
tion which is applicable in all cases. It is highly improbable that a usage 
so universal in distribution and so deeply rooted should owe its rise in 
the first instance to the adventitious operation of a multiplicity of 
diverse local causes. 



CHAPTER 12 


Promiscuity and Individual 
Marriage 


Whereas the regulation of relations between intermarriage groups is 
sexual, individual marriage has its foundations in economics. In the vast 
majority of uncultured societies marriage is regarded in an almost 
exclusively economic light, and the changes which it has undergone had 
economic causes. 

In modern Europe, the sexual and economic aspects of marriage are 
combined, and the former is conventionally regarded as the primary one. 
This convention has been maintained even where, as in marriages of 
convenience, the motive for the association is primarily economic and 
social. 

The origin and development of marriage have hence been discussed 
by social historians almost exclusively in terms of the operation of the 
sexual instinct — the exercise of personal choice, of jealousy and of 
romantic love. Actually these are the products of the association rather 
than its causes. To be sure, individual economic association between 
sexual partners has inevitably tended to establish individual sexual 
claims. These claims have brought about new restrictions on sexual 
relations : the married woman tends to become prohibited to all but her 
individual associate. In comparatively advanced stages of development, 
infant betrothal has led, especially in the aristocratic classes, the restric- 
tion on women’s sexual freedom to operate retrospectively, and so to the 
demand that a bride should be a virgin. 

Such restrictions did not become fully established until quite late in 
the growth of advanced societies, and have contributed to the European 
identification of the economic with the sexual aspect of marriage. With 
us, marriage is, in theory and to a large extent in practice, the only licit 
sexual relation. But in primitive society it is nothing of the sort. Far 
from being a means of satisfying the sexual instincts, it is one of the chief 
restrictions imposed upon them. Without a single exception, unmarried 
females outside the prohibited degrees are accessible to all males. 1 If 
ever a case were found where chastity was obligatory on unmarried 

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females other than as a result of the influence of some more highly 
developed culture, the fact would be momentous, for it would be an 
example of the appearance in mankind of a sentiment entirely absent in 
animals. It would thus jeopardize the whole evolutionary conception 
of human development. 

Until the theory of evolution was propounded, men and animals were 
regarded as having had separate origins. The accepted view was that the 
primitive state of mankind was one of primal virtue — that is to say, it 
accorded with the moral standards recognized in European societies, 
and these sexual codes were supposed to represent the innate endow- 
ments of primitive humanity; any variations were regarded as aberra- 
tions due to corruption. When travellers first began to report the cus- 
toms of uncultured races, they were found interesting chiefly because it 
was believed that they would corroborate this theory. The science of 
comparative social anthropology owes its origin largely to the interest 
of the Jesuit Fathers. Father Lafitau’s Manners of the American Savages 
compared with those of the Earliest Times was the first systematic book 
on the subject. It was intended to uphold the theory of a primitive 
moral revelation. The good Father scorns those authors who, like 
Athenaeus, believed that ‘the men of the earliest times observed no 
solemnity in their marriages, mixing indifferently like animals, until the 
time of Kekrops, who laid down the laws of matrimony’. He attributes 
this to the error in which men were sunk in the last days of paganism. 
Tt appears to me evident, on the contrary, that marriage has always been 
regarded by all peoples as a thing sacred and solemn, the rights of which 
have been respected by even the most barbarous nations. . . . We have 
seen that virginity has been honoured from the most ancient times, 
consecrated in persons specially appointed to the cult of the gods and 
held in regard among barbarians. That virtue could not be extended to 
all persons for all the days of their life on account of the necessity of 
procreating the human species; but, mankind being in that necessity, 
conjugal faith has been respected, and marriage, shameful in its use, has 
been subject to laws of propriety, modesty, pudicity and continence, 
which are inspired by nature, upheld by reason and which the institu- 
tion has preserved in the midst of barbarism.’ And he adds: T admit, of 
course, that among some peoples, depravity and grossness of maimers 
have at various times and in diverse places introduced abuses and even 
shameful customs in this respect.’ 

The doctrine of organic evolution completely changed the premises 
of social anthropology, and a galaxy of brilliant scholars soon placed the 
social history of the human race upon a scientific basis by showing that 
the organization and conceptions of primitive society differed pro- 
foundly from those of modem Europe. However, the views of Father 



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Lafitau have been recently revived by a Finnish writer, Edward Wester- 
marck, who, taking little note of anthropological discoveries, ‘boldly 
challenged the conclusions of our most esteemed writers’, and ‘arrived 
at different, and sometimes diametrically opposite, conclusions ’. 1 Sup- 
ported by unparalleled bibliographical industry, his views have exercised 
enormous influence. If his views were substantiated, we should be 
compelled to abandon scientific methods in studying the social develop- 
ment of humanity. For Dr Westermarck, though he has endeavoured to 
trace the institution of marriage to the apes, has not offered any examples 
of regard for chastity among monkeys. Hence, there would be no alter- 
native but to account for such sentiments by supposing a special revela- 
tion. The hope that we may continue to employ the methods of science, 
however, is strongly supported by many thousands of accounts and 
statements referring to the sexual habits of uncultured races, derived 
from all sorts and conditions of witnesses, many of them entirely devoid 
of scientific notions, and many zealously anxious to represent the Euro- 
pean conceptions of morality as universal. 

As Dr Westermarck has most industriously collected such statements 
as seem to support the moral theory of the last century, we cannot do 
better than to examine the examples he cites. 

Alleged Instances of Primitive Pre-marital Chastity 

Some of Dr Westermarck’s instances refer to highly patriarchal peoples; 
others to tribes which have long been Christianized. With these we are 
not here concerned. 

In other cases, however, he asserts pre-nuptial chastity to have been 
a general usage when in reality it w^as confined to the ruling classes and 
to chiefs. Thus he asserts it to have been general among the Yoruba, the 
Ewe and the peoples of the Gold Coast, and, still more unwarrantably, 
among the Tongans, Samoans and other Polynesians. This is pro- 
foundly inaccurate. Similarly, he cites several Californian tribes in 
which the wealthy class required a high bride-price for their daughters, 
and therefore prevented access to them. The Californian Indians were, 
however, ‘a grossly licentious race’. Among some peoples, where boys 
and girls are mated as soon as they attain the age of puberty, while there 
cannot be said to exist either pre-nuptial chastity or unchastity, neither 
can it be said that any account is taken of purity. Again, it is no evidence 
of pre-nuptial chastity to report that the married women are chaste. For 
example, Comanche girls made ample use of their pre-marital freedom, 
but were strictly faithful as wives. There are numerous other examples. 

Again, statements to the effect that unmarried girls are chaste and 

1 A. R. Wallace (who introduced Westermarck to the English public) in his 
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are strictly guarded often refer only to their attitude towards strangers, 
and Europeans in particular. Many North American tribes would not 
even permit their women to become the legitimate wives of Europeans, 
although intercourse was almost promiscuous with members of the 
tribe. This was also true of many Caribbean races of the Mosquito 
Coast. Although sexual relations were entirely unrestricted within the 
tribe, a girl who had intercourse with a white man was killed by being 
slowly whipped to death. In Benin, not even prostitutes were permitted 
to consort with Europeans. In other cases, while no girl is expected to 
observe chastity, neither is she expected to suffer violence, and she may 
be guarded for this reason, for the dangers of such violence are very real. 
In East Africa, among many tribes, a man will not pass a solitary un- 
married girl without entering into sexual relations with her; if she 
refused, he would probably kill her. Among the Siouan tribes of North 
America, ‘a man has as little control over his passions as any wild beast’. 
Among the Pima Indians, the young men actually used lassoes to catch 
any stray female they might find. Among the Plains tribes, unmarried 
girls, when they went out to dance, tied a rope around their thighs in 
such a way as to prevent any violence on the part of the men. Such 
precautions in no way prevented their liberty to have as many lovers as 
they pleased. 

Dr Westermarck cites the Rev. Owen Dorsey as saying that extra- 
matrimonial intercourse is only practised among the Omaha by prosti- 
tutes, but at the time Dorsey described the Omahas they were Christian 
farmers sending their children to Sunday-school, and he warns us that 
their customs were formerly quite different. 

A retiring attitude in the bearing of girls is commonly regarded as 
evidence of chastity by superficial observers, who imagine that women 
ignorant of European moral restrictions must necessarily behave like 
European prostitutes. In fact, the combination of modesty of manners 
and unchastity is common. Thus, Dr Finsch says that the girls of the 
Caroline Islands (who were entirely unrestrained in their sexual rela- 
tions) were remarkably modest in their demeanour; and also in New 
Zealand and elsewhere. 

Many of Westermarck’s examples consist of statements to the effect 
that it is rare to come upon pre-nuptial children, or even that a girl is 
blamed or punished for having such a child. But it is an ethnological 
commonplace that, in many uncultured peoples, though sexual relations 
are unrestricted before marriage, pregnancy must be avoided or the 
resulting children killed at birth. This rule is stringently enforced 
among peoples with whom pre-nuptial intercourse is not merely per- 
mitted but is obligatory, such as the Masai. Similarly of the Banyoro, 
‘there was no idea of sexual union being wrong so long as there was no 



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conception, and the only risk run by the girl lay in her being discovered 
to be with child/ The disposal of pre-nuptial children by infanticide or 
abortion, which was very general in uncultured societies, is apt to sug- 
gest to us that shame and dishonour attach to pre-nuptial motherhood ; 
but infanticide is not regarded as a criminal act in the lower stages of 
culture, but simply as a measure of expediency. The Australian abori- 
gines destroyed most of their offspring simply because the babies were 
‘too much trouble to look after’. In seasons of drought, the tribes near 
Adelaide killed all new-born children and ate them. Among the Queens- 
land tribes a girl’s first child was almost invariably killed. Among the 
Veddahs a man is not allowed to have more than three children; all 
above that number are killed, as also in the Marshall Islands. A young 
married man in the Island of Rook, being asked if he had any children, 
replied that he had killed them all; he was still too young, he modestly 
explained, to have a family. Failure to exercise such moderation is 
regarded as unpardonable improvidence. In Papua the custom was to 
despise the mother of a numerous family. Among the Tshi-speaking 
peoples of West Africa a woman cannot have more than nine children. 
When the tenth is born, it is buried alive and the husband and wife 
separate. Among the Lala of Nigeria it is customary for the father of the 
bridegroom to have the use of the bride until she has conceived three 
times, abortion being procured by means of a compression bandage 
around the lower part of the abdomen. Children born in wedlock are 
disposed of as commonly as those bom out of it. Among many North 
Indian tribes a young woman’s chances of marriage were augmented by 
her having had many lovers, but the unmarried women destroyed their 
offspring in order to prolong their period of sexual freedom. No evi- 
dence could therefore be more irrelevant as regards pre-nuptial chastity. 

When all such invalid instances are eliminated, Westermarck’s 
enumeration of statements concerning peoples said to enforce pre- 
nuptial chastity is reduced to very moderate dimensions. In several of 
these remaining instances there can be no doubt the facts are quite the 
reverse of what he suggests. In others, the authorities he cites do not say 
what he ascribes to them, and sometimes they say the exact opposite. Thus 
he cites from Petroff a statement, ascribed to Father Veniaminoff, in 
which it is asserted that, among the Aleutians, girls ‘who gave birth to 
illegitimate children were to be killed for shame and hidden’. But what 
Father Veniaminoff actually says is just the reverse. After stressing that 
irregular relations were common, that guests shared the marital rights 
of the husband, and that prior to 1825 scarcely a virgin was to be 
found above the age of twelve, he adds, ‘infanticide was indeed very 
rare. For down to the present day the belief is prevalent that if a girl, in 
order to hide her shame, should kill her child before or after birth, 

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countless misfortunes would be brought down upon the whole village/ 
All other testimonies as to the morality of the Aleutians are in agree- 
ment, and they do not differ from the other Eskimo races. Yet Dr 
Westermarck cites the latter also in support of his case. 

He gives a list of references concerning North American tribes, 
asserting that in the passages indicated ‘we read that the girls were chaste 
and carefully guarded’. In the majority we read nothing of the sort, and 
in some we read the exact opposite. Thus, Father Morice is accused by 
Dr Westermarck of reporting this of the various D£ne tribes. What 
Father Morice actually said on the subject was that the Dene had no 
word for a virgin — a deficiency which becomes intelligible when we 
learn that the Dene regarded sexual intercourse before puberty with 
strangers as absolutely imperative. They believe that menstruation can- 
not occur without it, and when missions were established amongst them 
nothing astonished them more than the discovery that a virgin can 
menstruate. Father Morice also refers to the account of McLean who 
says that 'the lewdness of the women could not possibly be carried to a 
greater excess; they are addicted to the most abominable practices, 
abandoning themselves in early youth to the free indulgence of their 
passions. They never marry until satiated with indulgence.’ 

Father Chrestien Le Clercq represented the Canadian Indians not 
only as chaste but as ascetic. Men and girls resorted at night-time to one 
another’s couches without any impropriety, and even preserved their 
chastity for a year after marriage. This was not the view taken by other 
missionaries, who untiringly denounced the usage: when one of them 
preached against the custom a young Indian accused the Fathers of 
desiring to gain possession of their mistresses for themselves. Father 
Theodat describes the usage thus: ‘The young men have licence to 
addict themselves to evil as soon as they are able, and the young girls 
prostitute themselves as soon as they are capable of doing so. Even 
fathers and mothers commonly act as pimps to their daughters. At 
night the young women and girls run from one hut to another, and the 
young men do the same, and take their pleasure where they like, without, 
however, using any violence, for they rely entirely upon the will of the 
woman. The husband does the same with regard to his nearest female 
neighbour, and the wife with regard to her nearest male neighbour; nor 
does any jealousy appear amongst them on that account, and they incur 
no shame or dishonour.’ Westermarck refers to Le Clercq’s story on 
the authority of Father Charlevoix, who in fact comments that ‘it 
appears quite improbable.’ (He also refers to Heriot’s account which is 
merely a transcription from Charlevoix and Lafitau.) 

The statements adduced by Dr Westermarck in reference to the 
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and misleading, as questionable as the foregoing. We are informed, for 
instance, that in the Madai or Moru tribe the girls are carefully looked 
after. But Emin Pasha, a most accurate observer, stated that the un- 
married Madi girls slept in special huts for the express purpose of 
allowing the young men to have access to them. Major Stigand reported 
that a man is allowed to pass the night with an unmarried Madi girl if 
he gives her a present of five arrows. Dr Westermarck refers to the 
Dinka of the Upper Nile, concerning whom we have Captain O’Sulli- 
van’s detailed study. He tells us that ‘simple seduction is not a grave 
offence among the Northern Dinka’. Among the ancient inhabitants of 
the Canary Islands, we are told that a woman who lost her virtue was 
ostracized for life. We are, however, only told this on the authority of 
the grossly inaccurate Father Abreu de Galindo, whose reports are 
uniformly contradicted by every contemporary testimony. It was, on the 
contrary, obligatory for every Guanche girl to lose her virtue before she 
could be married. 

Dr Westermarck is no happier in India where, for example, he reports, 
on the authority of the Rev. Sydney Endle, that among the Kacharis, 
Rabhas and Hajongs ‘sexual intercourse before marriage is rare . . .’. A 
different view is taken by the authors of the last Government Report on 
those tribes. Concerning the Sayeins, Westermarck reports that the 
young people of both sexes are domiciled in two long houses at opposite 
ends of the village, and when they may have occasion to pass each other, 
they avert their gaze so that they may not see each other’s faces’. In fact, 
this tribe is rigorously exogamic, none being allowed to marry except his 
cousin in another village. The scrupulous avoidance rules are therefore 
not directed against unchastity, but against what, by their tribal law, is 
incest. When a meeting takes place between two intermarrying villages, 
as on the occasion of a wedding, orgies marked by unrestrained promis- 
cuity take place. 

Our knowledge of the wild tribes of the Malay forests is defective, 
and various edifying accounts have been circulated. Father Bourien 
denies them, saying: ‘A long sojourn among erratic tribes has taught me 
that from among carnal sins they only exclude one, viz. rape.’ A Russian 
traveller has described the sex-relations of the Jakun as a ‘round of 
temporary cohabitations regulated by chance and inclination’. Mr R. J. 
Wilkinson says that the Sakai ‘leave everything to sexual passion’. These 
tribes are included by Dr Westermarck in his list of peoples who show 
an innate regard for chastity. 

Though he has not been able to discover any example of primitive 
chastity in Micronesia, he finds one in the Philippine Islands to which 
he appears to attach much importance, and makes it part of the main 
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extremely lewd, and even encourage their daughters to a life of un- 
chastity’, Dr Westermarck cites from the German poet Chamisso, who 
spent nearly a week at Manila, the statement that ‘some of the indepen- 
dent tribes of the Philippines held chastity in great honour . . 

The extreme licence notoriously prevalent in every part of Polynesia 
is alluded to by Dr Westermarck with the characteristic concession that 
‘there is said to be, or to have been, the greatest freedom before mar- 
riage’. However, he gives prominence to statements calculated to convey 
the impression that the ritual virginity required of the brides of chiefs in 
Tonga and Samoa represented general customs. In fact, these were 
exceptions. In Samoa, there was exactly one virgin per village. 

In support of his assertion that ‘among many uncivilized peoples both 
sexes enjoy perfect freedom previous to marriage . . . the same can 
certainly not be said of the Australian aborigines while in their native 
state’, he adduces a statement from Pastor Strehlow; this invests the 
Aruntas with a fanatical ascetism which has escaped the notice of every 
other observer, including Sir W. B. Spencer and Mr Gillen, who spent 
some four years amongst them. Mr Collins, after referring to the habi- 
tual practice of rape, says : ‘Even children make it a game or exercise, 
and I have often, on hearing the cries of the girls with whom they were 
playing, run out of my house thinking some murder was committed, 
but have found the w r hole party laughing at my mistake.’ 

Dr Westermarck has frequently lectured or admonished Australian 
scientists who have spent their lives in the study of the native races, and 
has passed unfavourable judgments upon their critical standards. Had 
any of them made inferences concerning the past upon such slight 
evidence as Dr Westermarck produces about the present, the reproofs 
which he has bestowed upon them would not be impertinent. 

Effects of Contact with Europeans 

The glaring discrepancy between moral theory and observed fact was 
accounted for by the Jesuit Fathers by assuming that the primal inno- 
cence of unsophisticated savages had been corrupted by contact with 
civilization. General Denys, the Governor of New France, was per- 
suaded that the morality of the Canadian Indians was due to European 
contact; as an instance, he mentions that a girl found a husband more 
readily if she had already borne a child, because he was then assured 
that she was not barren — a preference which seems difficult to trace to 
the corrupting influence of European ideas! He adds that the men do 
not repudiate their wives as readily as formerly, and that polygamy is 
disappearing — changes which are to be regarded, apparently, as the 
effects of European corruption. Dr Currier, after a full review of the 
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has the influence of education and Christianity been more positive and 
noteworthy than in the improvement which has taken place in some 
localities with regard to marriage and the sexual relations’. 

This somewhat puerile theory has been revived by Dr Westermarck 
who assimilates the absence of extra-connubial restrictions in primitive 
societies to prostitution, and suggests that this absence is due to corrupt- 
ing influence. European society has, among other things, introduced 
venality and prostitution for profit, which in fact does not exist in 
primitive societies in the form known to us. In Australia, wherever 
white men were settled near the aborigines, wholesale prostitution of 
the native women took place, but this cannot be ascribed solely or even 
chiefly to the whites. Natives who are favourably disposed towards any 
white man may place their women at his disposal; while many of the 
women were attracted by the knowledge that the white men would 
treat them with kindness. 

In Polynesia, while girls freely offered themselves to the crews of the 
first European ships, far from this being for profit the natives over- 
whelmed their guests with presents as well. 

In India, wherever premarital sexual freedom is recognized within a 
tribe, it is punished when exercised with members of another tribe, in 
almost every case. Among the tribes of the Chittagong Hills who prac- 
tise it most uniformly, it is precisely the most inaccessible tribes which 
do so most generally, and it is becoming discouraged among those in 
contact with European civilization. Hence, as Mr Gait says. Dr Wester- 
marck’s theory (of the contaminating effect of civilization) ‘is not in 
accordance with our experience of India’. 

With regard to Africa, Mr Dudley Kidd uses stronger language, say- 
ing that those who believe that the Kaffir races guarded female purity 
and were subsequently corrupted by Europeans, must ‘be either fools or 
knaves’. 

Difficulty of Distinguishing between Marriage and Other Sexual Relations 

The primary purpose of marriage could not have been the satisfaction 
of sexual impulses, since sexual relations (within the prescribed limits) 
were freer before marriage than after. So much so that of the Angami 
Nagas it is said that ‘chastity begins with marriage’, and among the 
tribes of Upper Burma ‘it is claimed that unchastity after marriage does 
not exist owing to their freedom of experiment before marriage’. 

It has been represented that such freedom may be a crude way of 
affording young people an opportunity of choosing permanent partners. 
However, among many primitive peoples there is no relation between 
the two. Among the Bhuiya ‘intimacy between boys and girls of the 
same village does not commonly end in marriage, for which a partner 



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should be sought from another village 5 . While, among the Kumbi, if 
young people have had intercourse with one another they are forbidden 
to marry. 

As we shall see, primitives commonly undertake more permanent 
relations in mature age only, usually for economic reasons and quite 
irrespective of the sexual relations of their younger years. Among the 
Masai the risk that pre-nuptial freedom might lead to marriage alliances 
was strictly guarded against by tribal law. 

Among other peoples indiscriminate unions may develop into more 
stable ones, and the husband may be chosen from among pre-nuptial 
lovers, as among the Trobriand Islanders. And sometimes, as among the 
Igorots, when a girl has become pregnant she commonly marries the 
father of the child. Among the Lolo of Upper Tonkin, an experimental 
marriage is contracted by a girl spending a night with a suitor at his 
house. She then returns home, and continues to live a life of sexual 
freedom as before. If, after a while, she goes back to her suitor pregnant, 
she is received as his wife, although he knows that he is unlikely to be 
the father of the child. If she does not, the engagement lapses. In 
Cambodia the parents absolutely refuse to entertain propositions from a 
suitor for the hand of their daughter unless he has first seduced her; 
should he suggest marriage before this, he is scorned as a fool. Similar 
freedom of experiment is common among many peoples without the 
fact of pregnancy constituting an obligation to marry; for instance, 
among the natives of the lower Congo. As Father Merolla said : ‘These 
people were accustomed to commerce with their wives for some time 
before they married them, to try if they could like them; and after the 
same manner the wives were to experiment their husbands . 5 Among the 
Munshi of northern Nigeria ‘a boy may live with a virgin as his wife if 
he gives her mother ten cloths and a pig, on the understanding that the 
girl’s offspring belong to her family, and that, unless he can presently 
make an equivalent exchange, he must give her up 5 . 

Many Central and South American races advocated child marriage, 
among them the ancient Peruvians. The agreement was binding for one 
year. Previous cohabitation was regarded as so essential a preliminary 
that a woman who had married without such preparation was not 
regarded as respectably wedded, and was liable to have the fact thrown in 
her face if the marriage turned out unsuccessfully. In spite of the efforts 
of the Church and severe decrees issued by the Spanish authorities, such 
customs are still regularly observed among the Catholic Indians of 
Bolivia; the Arawak races of Guiana also have the same usages. Among 
the ancient Egyptians a trial year was so ingrained a conception that it 
persisted into Christian times and even after the Arab conquest. 

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relations wholly unconnected with prospective marriage, the right of 
experiment or trial marriage, and recognized freedom of relations be- 
tween prospective spouses. It is difficult to draw a line between such 
customs. Among many peoples such customs have become less free and 
open as a result of contact with higher cultures or the development of 
individual proprietory claims ; they have often survived as a right to trial 
marriage. But it is equally difficult to draw a line between trial marriages 
and true marriages, for with many primitive peoples the latter are 
scarcely more stable. 

In point of fact, it is impossible to frame a definition of marriage which 
will apply to all forms of the relation as found in uncultured societies, 
while excluding the most casual sexual congress — as we must do if 
marriage be regarded as essentially a sexual relation in accordance with 
the usual European sentiments. Dr Westermarck has proposed, as a 
definition, to regard marriage as ‘a more or less durable connection 
between male and female, lasting beyond the mere act of propagation 
till after the birth of the offspring’. But where the whole distinction, as 
we conceive it, between sex relations which are, and those which are not, 
marital turns precisely upon their degree of permanency, the use of such 
a phrase as ‘more or less’ vitiates the definition — as we have seen with 
regard to the North American Indians whose associations were in widely 
varying degrees ‘more or less durable’. Among all the tribes it was 
customary for a young man, when he went on a prolonged hunting 
expedition, to arrange for a young woman to accompany him, both as a 
sexual companion and to assist him with carrying, cooking, etc. The 
woman received a liberal share of the profits, and the transaction was on 
a business footing. Similarly, young men with no female relatives to 
look after them would engage some young woman to perform the duties 
of a wife, though both of them would remain free to visit their other 
mistresses or lovers from time to time. But the relationship spoken of as 
marriage among the Indians was not much more durable than these 
associations. ‘The Delawares and Iroquois’, says Loskiel, ‘have seldom 
marriages of long continuance, especially if there are no children 
soon. . . . The family connections of Indians are commonly very exten- 
sive on account of their frequently changing wives.’ The Cherokee 
Iroquois ‘commonly change wives three or four times a year. . . . Mar- 
riage is accounted only a temporary convenience.’ Separation takes 
place without any formality. ‘Those savages are not even able to imagine 
that there could be any difficulty about the matter.’ They ‘laugh at 
Europeans for having only one wife, and that for life; as they consider 
that the Good Spirit formed them to be happy, and not to continue 
together unless their tempers and dispositions were congenial’. As will 
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is spoken of as “marriage” amongst the North American Indians would, 
in Europe, be spoken of as a criminal connection’. 

How can we distinguish irregular intercourse and marriage in such 
cases? There was no ceremony or solemnization of any kind. The 
associations which turned out more permanent were not distinguished 
from the more transient ones by any special contract. No distinction 
can be drawn on economic grounds, for economic contributions from 
both parties took place whether the association lasted a hunting-trip or 
a lifetime. Lieutenant Timberlake says of the Iroquois: ‘Courtship and 
all is concluded in half an hour without any other celebration, and it is as 
little binding as ceremonious.’ In the union of the most permanently 
married and confirmed old couple, the man acquired no more rights 
over the children than the casual lover had. The children in either case 
were part of the mother’s family. Father Le Jeune remarked: ‘The bond 
so strong, which holds man and wife under one yoke, will be very hard 
to fasten upon these savages.’ 

The same difficulty in drawing a distinction between marriage and 
other sexual relations is found in many parts of the world. For instance, 
among the Dayaks of Borneo, in the Nicobar Islands and elsewhere. 
Among the aboriginal tribes of Malaya, ‘it is nothing rare to meet 
individuals who have been married forty or fifty times’. Of the natives 
of the Maidive Islands, we learn that it very often happens that a man 
would marry and divorce the same woman three or four times in the 
course of his life. Among the Ainu, as formerly among the Japanese, 
there was no clear distinction in language or in usage between transient 
and more durable unions. Similar reports come from such northern 
tribes as the Samoyeds and Aleutians, throughout Central Asia and 
from many parts of India. Sir Henry Yule says of the Khasis, ‘their 
unions can hardly be honoured with the name of marriage’. Almost 
identical words are used by African travellers about the Bushmen and 
many others. Turning to South America, we learn that the lives of the 
Guaycurus are ‘a quick succession of marriages, separations and re- 
marriages, in the course of which everyone mates with everyone else, 
and the same couples come together several times’. Such examples 
might be greatly multiplied. As Dr Westermarck quaintly puts it : ‘There 
are unions which, though legally recognized as marriages, do not 
endure long enough to deserve to be so-called in the natural history 
sense of the term.’ Most writers in speaking of them are, on the con- 
trary, reminded of the natural history of animals. 

However, there is one thing which has a consolidating effect upon 
individual unions: the birth of offspring. Indeed, it is considered by 
most uncultured people as constituting the consummation and estab- 
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as a marriage until children are actually born. Among the Todas the 
expression for 'to be married’ is 'to have a son’. Among the Baila of 
Rhodesia the marriage ceremony is not completed until after the birth 
of the first child ; while in other cases the topic is not broached until this 
stage. A woman who has not borne a child is usually treated in primitive 
societies as an unmarried girl, and is called a virgin. Sometimes, and this 
is true even of advanced societies, a man does not contribute to the 
maintenance of his wife until she has borne a child, until when expenses 
are defrayed by the bride’s father. Such usages pass imperceptibly into 
the almost universal rule that the barrenness of the wife is a legitimate 
ground for divorce, and for the refunding of the bride-price, if any. 
Thus among the Bade of the Sahara, after the bride-price is paid, the 
father builds a house by the side of his own for the couple ; if, after a 
reasonable time, no child is born, the payment made is refunded and the 
husband departs. 

Since the association is recognized by the woman’s family only after 
the birth of offspring, it tends to acquire a more durable character after 
that event. But it would be incorrect to suppose that this is a general 
rule. Indeed, in some cases the birth of children, far from consolidating 
the association, causes its dissolution. Among the Iroquois, 'sometimes 
an Indian forsakes his wife because she has a child to suckle, and marries 
another whom he forsakes in her turn for the same reason’. Separation 
after the birth of children was, we saw, the rule among all North 
American Indians. In many parts of the world, married couples separate 
if they do not get on happily together, the woman usually taking the 
children with her, and sometimes she settles down with her progeny and 
a new husband on the very day on which she leaves the old. 

The Juridic Conception of Marriage 

Even though the native tends to distinguish marriage from other 
sexual associations by the fact of a child being born, nevertheless we 
cannot make the formation of a permanent association the grounds of 
the distinction, for little or no greater notion of permanency attaches to 
unions held to constitute marriage than to others. Moreover, in all 
societies which preserve their matriarchal character the birth of off- 
spring does not necessitate the continued association of the parents, for 
the mother’s family and not the child’s father are responsible for the 
maintenance of the child. Nor does any new grouping, or family, result 
from the birth of children; the father may or may not live with the 
mother, and if separation takes place, he has no claim or liability in 
regard to the children. Only in more advanced social phases, as a result 
of somewhat elaborate transactions and indemnities, does he acquire 
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In short, individual marriage cannot be based upon the formation of 
a family group, since none is formed. What the birth of offspring does 
is to establish, not a new group but a relationship between the husband 
and the wife’s family. Thus among the Cree Indians the young husband 
coming to live with his wife’s parents is treated as a stranger until his 
first child is bom, whereupon he takes its name and is attached thereby 
to his parents-in-law rather than to his own parents. Such usages are 
very widespread, especially among peoples who have preserved a matri- 
archal organization, but they still subsist among many who have long 
since adopted patriarchal usages — for instance, among the Arabs, where 
the custom is firmly established. 

The relation thus established between a man and his wife’s family 
remains unaffected when actual relations between the two are severed. 
However transitory the association, this cannot in any way alter the 
relation of the father to his child’s maternal family once it has been 
established. 

These circumstances have confused observers more concerned with 
stretching primitive conceptions on the Procrustes’ bed of European 
ideas than with understanding them, and have led them to strange 
inconsistencies. Thus the writer who describes the utterly transient 
nature of marriage among the Guaycurus of Brazil, nevertheless states 
that, if a woman has a male child, she does not separate from her hus- 
band until death. Yet he mentions at the same time that a woman having 
a son by one husband is commonly married to another, while the father 
of the boy marries another woman. The writer who makes such contra- 
dictory statements obviously confuses the ‘indissoluble’ character of the 
relation established between the father and the mother’s clan — the 
tribes are strictly exogamous — with the supposed indissolubility of the 
association between them. Perrot makes the same kind of statement 
concerning North American Indians. In Samoa young men belonging 
to a chief’s family used to form temporary unions with young women of 
good family. The union was celebrated by exchanges of valuable 
presents, and they were regarded as the most honourable unions into 
which any Samoan girl could enter. After their termination the women 
were debarred from contracting other alliances, and devoted themselves 
to the entertainment of visitors, their function of public prostitutes in no 
way detracting from their enhanced respectability. In the island of 
Engano, so indissoluble is the connection established between the 
husband and the wife’s family that if a man marries after his wife’s 
death he must pay compensation to her family. 

Of some peoples it is said that they draw no distinction between 
marriage and cohabitation, or that cohabitation constitutes marriage. 
But with the majority of even the most primitive peoples a distinction is 



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indeed drawn, as with ourselves, between the two relations, and the 
distinctive character of marriage, with them, as with us, lies in the 
establishment of a social and juridical relationship, although the nature 
of that juridic foundation necessarily varies with social and cultural 
conditions. Thus among the Australian aborigines, who usually give a 
sister or some other female in exchange for a wife, a woman for whom 
no other female has thus been given is not regarded as being ‘properly 
married’. Elsewhere a woman is not regarded as legally married if the 
bride-price has not been duly paid. In every instance, the sanction of 
her family or immediate guardian, and sometimes of all her relatives, is 
regarded as essential. In the later phases of civilization other sanctions 
of a religious or moral nature may be added to these, and the perfor- 
mance of the ceremony may come to be regarded as essential. For in- 
stance, where a feast is regarded as essential, the man who has been 
unable to afford such entertainment is regarded as not being married, 
even if he cohabits with the woman for many years and has a numerous 
family by her. 

The distinction drawn between individual marriage and other sexual 
relations is thus essentially the same in primitive societies as in our own. 
In England, at the present day, a man and woman may cohabit in the 
most devoted manner for fifty years and rear a family, yet, unless the 
union has been legally registered, they are not married and their children 
are bastards ; whereas the most transient association, or even one without 
any cohabitation, constitutes, if legally established, a true and valid 
marriage. The distinction does not rest upon the association or its per- 
manency, or even upon the formation of a family group, but solely upon 
the juridic and legal transaction. In short, in its origin individual 
marriage is not rooted in any form of association between sexual part- 
ners, or in any group or family resulting from such association, but even 
in its most primitive and rudimentary forms it is distinguished as a 
juridic relation irrespective of its stability. There is, however, a differ- 
ence between the primitive and the advanced view of the distinction, 
since in the latter all other relations between the sexes have come to be 
regarded as illegal, or illegitimate, and subject to censure. Far from this 
being the case among the North American Indians and others, the 
young women freely employed abortion and infanticide in order to 
avoid establishing a relationship which would have constituted a legal 
bond. Again among the Line islanders and the Hawaiians, juridic 
marriage served certain specialized economic purposes in the trans- 
mission of landed property, and was not entered into by the majority of 
the people, who had no interest in such transactions. But there is no 
ground for supposing that the one sort of union was more durable than 
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distinction lay purely in the juridic conditions attending the union. 

A tendency must inevitably develop for a juridically-established rela- 
tion to cause a depreciation in the esteem in which relations not so 
established are held; the correlative of the sanctioned and legitimate 
union comes in time to be an unsanctioned and illegitimate one — 
though, as we shall sec, several other factors have contributed to giving 
marriage the character of being the sole recognized form of sexual 
association. 



CHAPTER 13 


Primitive Jealousy and Love 


Masculine Jealousy 

It has been supposed that exclusive personal claims over women 
originally arose in consequence of masculine jealousy. Dr Westermarck 
considers that the force of jealousy affords the strongest argument 
against ancient promiscuity. However, even a cursory inquiry shows 
clearly that, although instincts of sexual jealousy may be as strong in 
primitive as in civilized societies, or even stronger, the claims to which 
they refer differ completely from those which inspire the jealousy 
of a romantic lover — so completely as to make this argument irrele- 
vant. 

The almost universal assumption that the sentiment corresponding 
to jealousy exists in animals has already, I think, been shown to be a 
misconception. Male animals will battle with rivals for the opportunity 
of satisfying their sexual instincts in the same manner as they will battle 
with competitors for food, but when their hunger, nutritional or sexual, 
is satisfied they are indifferent. The w r ord ‘jealousy’, as usually employed, 
denotes the choice of a particular individual; animal jealousy has no 
reference to individual mating, but is, on the contrary, conspicuous 
where such mating is absent. The natural outcome of such an attitude 
to sexual satisfaction would be, in human conditions, sexual communism 
and not individual association. The ‘jealousy’ manifested by men in the 
lower stages of society is identical with the ‘jealousy’ exhibited by male 
animals. Statements that the men of a given race of savages are ‘extremely 
jealous’ are very common, but are of little value and give rise to absurd 
contradictions. Thus Mr Curr asserts that among the Australian abori- 
gines a husband is ‘very jealous’, yet on the next page tells us that he will 
often prostitute his wife. Morenhout reports that the men of Radak, in 
the Carolines, were ‘extremely jealous’; pre-nuptial licence, exchange of 
wives and extreme licentiousness were, however, habitual amongst 
them. Dr Westermarck informs us that jealousy is a characteristic of 
the Tlinkit, the Aleuts, the Hawaiians and the Nukahivans, all these 
being peoples whose sexual customs are collective. He also instances the 
Eskimo. An Eskimo once told Captain Rasmussen that the only cause of 
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receiving other men. ‘She would/ he complained, ‘have nothing to do 
with anyone but him — that was her only failing. 5 It is obvious that the 
use of the same term to denote these sentiments and the passion of an 
Othello arises from an unscientific confusion. 

Dr Westermarck defines jealousy as ‘an angry feeling aroused by the 
loss, or the fear of the loss, of the exclusive possession of an individual 
who is the object of one’s sexual desire 5 . This is just what jealousy 
among primitive human races is not. What the savage fears is not loss of 
sexual possession but the actual loss of the woman in her sexual and, 
still more, her economic aspect. The offences commonly appearing in 
reports as adultery consist generally of abduction, and the anger of the 
husband is completely allayed by his being presented with another 
woman. Captain Tench tells us of a jovial Australian native who was 
fond of expatiating upon the merits of his wife, to whom he appeared 
deeply attached. Some time later, Captain Tench asked him how his 
wife was getting on. ‘Oh! 5 replied the Australian, ‘she has become the 
wife of Cotbee. But 5 , he added with an air of triumph, ‘I have got two 
big women to compensate for her loss! 5 He was obviously the gainer. 
In Northern New Guinea, if a woman runs away with a lover, her hus- 
band applies to her family, who either refund the bride-price or supply 
another woman. In New Britain, the men, who are stated to be ‘fiercely 
jealous 5 , never have any hesitation in parting with their wives to anyone 
who is prepared to refund the expenses incurred. In Samoa the abduc- 
tion of a wife, we are told, was frequently the cause of tribal wars, but 
mere seduction was thought very little of. Gilyak husbands take little 
notice of their wives 5 infidelities, but if a woman leaves home with a 
lover it is quite a different matter. Similar attitudes are found among the 
Tartars, the Mishmis of Bengal and in many African tribes such as the 
Kuku, the Warega of the Congo and others. The general rule is that a 
woman is free to leave her husband for her lover if the bride-price is 
duly refunded. No additional compensation is claimed and no grudge 
borne. Among the Medge of the Congo, the seducer of the wife of a 
chief is liable to be mutilated and put to death; but if he supplies two 
new wives, he is neither blamed nor punished. These principles, uni- 
versal in uncultured societies, obtained among our Anglo-Saxon fore- 
fathers within Christian times. A law of King Aethelbert (ad 560-616) 
provides: ‘If a freeman he with a freeman’s wife, let him pay for it with 
his “wer-geld” and provide another wife with his own money and bring 
her to the other. 5 

The abduction of women, even from tribal brothers, is extremely 
common in primitive societies, especially where patrilocal marriage 
obtains. One of the reasons which the Australian aborigines give for their 
polygamy is that an ample reserve of wives is an indispensable provision 



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against the constant liability to the loss of one or two. In more matri- 
archal societies the woman is free to leave her husband. On the other 
hand, the sanction of the husband pledges a tribal brother or guest not 
to abuse the privilege by abducting the woman. Father Charlevoix 
asserts that the Iroquois were extremely jealous, although they them- 
selves ‘utterly denied that they were given to such eccentricity’. What 
they claimed, as Hunter reports, was ‘the sole disposal of their wives ; 
and although in many instances they devote them to the sensual grati- 
fication of their friends without ascribing the least impropriety to the 
transaction, yet they regard a voluntary indulgence of passion on their 
part as an unpardonable offence’. Many North American Indians were 
wont to cut or bite off the nose of a woman convicted of actually running 
away, but freely lent their wives to fellow-clansmen or strangers. How- 
ever, if a stranger, after having knowledge of a woman by consent of the 
husband, were to repeat this without the husband making the offer a 
second time, he would be killed. 

Many primitive tribes are described as extremely jealous because on 
the approach of strangers they hide their women. The reason is that they 
are afraid lest the women should be taken away, as would certainly be 
the case if the strangers were from a hostile tribe. Thus the natives of 
Easter Island, when visited by Captain Cook, hid most of their women ; 
but, having learned that the white men had no desire to remove them, 
when visited a few years later, pressed their women upon the visitors 
with annoying persistence. The wild Veddahs of Ceylon guard their 
women so watchfully that it is difficult for a European, and much more 
for a Sinhalese, to catch a glimpse of them. But M. Moszkowski suc- 
ceeded in inducing them to let him see their women after he had pro- 
duced a photograph and assured them that he possessed a wife of his 
own. They are even more ‘jealous’ regarding their dogs. 

Jealousy is also ascribed to Australian aborigines with as little reason. 
At night, when the old men are sitting round the fire, says Mr Oldfield, 
the whole neighbourhood of the camp resounds with the low whistles 
which are the recognized signals of invitation of the younger men to the 
women to come and join them. The older men, perfectly well aware of 
the meaning of these signals, do not interrupt their conversation, and 
take little notice of their wives’ irregularities. 

Indifference Concerning Connubial Fidelity 

Widespread evidence that little notice is taken of adultery can be ad- 
duced. Throughout British Central Africa, says Sir Harry Johnston, 
infidelity is treated with indifference. Referring to Brazil, Father 
d’ Anchieta says that, although adultery is habitual, he never heard of an 
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absolutely indifferent to the conduct of their wives. Similar reports 
come of the Conebo tribes of the upper Amazon, the Tocantin tribes of 
the Maranhao region, the Guarani tribes and others. 

The Aleuts, the Kamchadals, the Gilyak, the Samoyeds, as well as the 
Mongol tribes of Central Asia, follow the same pattern. Among the 
Kafirs of Hindu-Kush ‘cases of infidelity are extremely common’. 
‘When a woman is discovered in an intrigue a great outcry is made, and 
the neighbours rush to the scene with much laughter. A goat is sent for 
on the spot for a peace-making feast between the gallant and the hus- 
band. Of course, the neighbours also partake of the feast; the husband 
and wife both look very happy and so does everyone else.’ Among the 
Jats of Baluchistan it is a common saying that a tribesman who puts his 
camel to graze with a Jat becomes thereby the master of the Jat’s wife. 
If a stranger casts his eye on the wife, the husband disappears discreetly. 
A similar attitude is found among the Aheriya of the North-western 
Province, the Chamars of Bengal, the Todas of the Nilgiri Hills, who 
can hardly ‘conceal their scorn for European ideas on the subject’, the 
Kunnuvans of the extreme south of India and many others. Similarly 
in the Pacific: jealousy is not displayed in the Marshall Islands, the 
Pelews or Tahiti. Among the Maori, who took a much more serious view 
of adultery than most Polynesians, ‘in general the offence can easily be 
compounded for’. 

Primitive Duels 

In some primitive societies contests occur between the males, but they 
are institutionalised and do not go very far. Thus, among the Eskimo, 
if a husband and a lover quarrel they may only settle the trouble with 
their fists or by wrestling, the victor taking the woman. The Comanches, 
when fighting such duels, have their left arms tied together. The Slave 
Indians fight their duels by pulling one another’s hair. The fight takes 
place in the presence of the assembled tribe, and the belligerents take 
care not to give a mortal blow. It is customary to request the opponent 
to strike first. All such duels are, in fact, staged under arranged rules, 
and are more in the nature of trials of strength than of mortal combat. 
These regulated contests bear no resemblance to the combats of animals 
for the possession of a female. (The abduction of women is a common 
cause of intertribal wars, but that is an entirely different thing.) 

Primitive society is characterized by every form of communistic 
adjustment in regard to sexual relations, and the member of a group 
who is unable to procure a female companion is assisted in every way by 
other members, just as they provide him with food if he cannot obtain 
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Variable Manifestations of Jealousy 

Where sharing of a woman is involved, reciprocity is the essence of the 
transaction. Among the Yao of Nyasaland the uneasiness caused to a 
husband by his wife’s repeated misconduct is set at rest by the offender 
lending his own wife to the injured husband for an equal number of 
nights, or sometimes by an amicable understanding whereby they agree 
to share the wife, and possibly the household expenses. In New Zealand 
such a dispute is sometimes settled by both men becoming the woman’s 
recognized co-husbands. Dr Hartland has shown by numerous examples 
that jealousy, as we use the word, does not exist in primitive society. 

In the most highly developed societies, the lover’s jealousy is aroused 
even by a thought or feeling in the beloved inconsistent with the exclusive 
attachment which he looks for. Indeed, even actual infidelity may lose its 
sting when it is clear there was no loss of sentimental attachment. Such 
sentiments arc devoid of meaning in the lower phases of human culture. 
No such mental possession is either looked for or imagined. Of the Austra- 
lian aborigines, Spencer and Gillen remark that ‘for a man to have unlawful 
intercourse with any woman arouses a feeling which is due not so much to 
jealousy as to the fact that the delinquent has infringed a tribal custom’. 

There are many instances of tribes with widely different attitudes 
regarding the seclusion of women. Thus, for example, the nomad 
Koryak are extreme puritans. ‘Contrary to the custom of all neighbour- 
ing tribes, Koryak girls must have no sexual intercourse before mar- 
riage.’ Sororal polygyny is forbidden. (Mythology and traditional tales 
show that these ideas are of comparatively late development.) They are 
so jealous that on a mere suspicion a man will kill his wife, and on any 
solid ground for suspecting her disembowels both her and the lover. 
After marriage the women are obliged to dress in rags and refrain from 
combing their hair or washing their faces. But the maritime branch of 
the same nation go to the opposite extreme. Their customs regarding 
the exchange of wives are similar to those among allied races and ‘the 
caresses bestowed upon their wives are a source of gratification to the 
husbands’. They are said to be in the habit of positively pestering 
Russian officials, such as the postman, to lie with their wives. 

In those relatively advanced societies where personal despotism has 
become established, infringement of sexual claims is often revenged 
with a severity which bears no relation to the sentiments with which a 
woman is personally regarded. In Africa, seduction of the wife of a king 
or chief, and even the mere fact of accidentally touching her person, is 
sometimes punished with death. A king of Angola had a man executed 
for giving a leaf of tobacco to one of the royal wives, although he had 
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The punishments inflicted by despots for the adultery, or suspected 
adultery, of their wives are often atrocious. The ancient Peruvians 
provided that a man guilty of adultery with the wives or concubines of 
the Inca, or even of attempting such a crime, should be burnt alive, 
together with the woman. In addition, £ his parents, sons, brothers and all 
other near relatives were to be killed, and even his flocks slaughtered; his 
native town or village was to be depopulated and sown with salt; the trees 
were to be cut down and all the houses destroyed’. African kings gouged 
out the eyes of the guilty parties and also of their relatives, and cut off the 
breasts of the women; the victims were sometimes compelled to eat their 
own amputated members. Such penalties are punishments for lese-majeste 
rather than for adultery. Among the Niam-Niam, seduction of the wife 
of a chief is punished with horrible mutilations, but among the ordinary 
people a present of cloth or of beads salves the feelings of the husband. 

Conceptions of what will satisfy the honour of chiefs vary curiously. 
In New Caledonia a woman who has once been the bride of a chief is 
debarred from ever marrying any other man, but is at liberty to have as 
many lovers as she pleases, and in fact becomes what we should call a 
prostitute. The same rule for the protection of the honour of chiefs 
formerly obtained in the Caroline Islands and in Samoa. 

The damage to the honour of a cuckold or husband constitutes an 
enormous part of barbaric jealousy : it is not infidelity as such, but the 
loss of reputation which is the grounds of complaint. As Father Dubois 
remarks of the Brahmans, so long as the adultery is kept secret it is 
regarded as a matter of small importance. ‘It is the publicity which is the 
sin.’ According to an old Chinese writer, if anybody reported to a 
Tungus the infidelity of his wife, the injured husband killed not only the 
wife’s lover but also the informant, whom he regarded as the chief 
offender. As Burckhardt remarked of the Italians, not only the husband 
but the woman’s brother and her father considered themselves bound 
to avenge their honour. ‘Jealousy has therefore nothing to do with those 
acts; moral feeling little; and the wish to avoid ridicule is the chief 
factor.’ The Statute of Tivoli excused the killing of a lover not only 
when found in unlawful intercourse with a man’s wife, but also with the 
offended relative’s daughter, his mother, his sister, or his daughter-in- 
law. The same conception obtains in several Eastern peoples, e.g. among 
the Druses of the Lebanon. But among the Moi of Indo-China, if a 
woman commits adultery, while she and her paramour incur no punish- 
ment, a heavy fine is imposed on the husband. 

Penalties for Adultery 

‘The prevalence of jealousy in the human race’, says Dr Westermarck, 
‘is best shown by the punishments inflicted for adultery.’ Consideration 



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of such punishments gives little support to the hypothesis that indi- 
vidual marriage is the oldest social institution of the human race, and 
that it arose from masculine claims to proprietory rights over females. 
If adultery were an offence against such a primary relation we should 
expect the offence to be universally regarded with more horror 
than any other social transgression. So far is this from being the case that, 
even in English law, adultery is not an indictable offence. If severity of 
reprobation is to be an indication of the antiquity of the institution, 
then the clan must be accounted more fundamental than the family, for 
breach of the law of clan exogamy — that is, the crime of incest — is 
regarded with infinitely greater horror and punished more severely than 
adultery. 

Where adultery is not regarded with indifference, it may lead to brief 
outbursts of temper, followed by an amicable settlement. On the spur of 
the moment the angered husband may commit some impulsive act, such 
as disfiguring the woman, but such acts are subject to social restraints. 
Among the Afghan frontier tribes resort is made to European surgeons 
to remedy the disfigurement produced in the fit of temper. (An Afghan 
warrior, inquiring of an English surgeon the price of equipping his wife 
with a new nose, was informed that it would be thirty rupees. There was 
a silence, during which he was obviously weighing the situation. He 
pointed out that for fifty rupees he could obtain a brand-new wife.) 

In such a fit of anger a man may kill his wife or her lover. Such an act 
is sometimes excused, but generally tribal law discourages leniency. In 
most societies in the lower stages of culture, the man who commits 
such a murder is exposed to the blood-revenge of the relatives of the 
victim, as for any other murder. In more developed societies, homicide 
in such a case is excused only when it can be clearly shown to have been 
unpremeditated. (Among the Pasema natives, the seducer of a married 
woman might be killed by the husband if found within the house, but 
not outside. Similarly, in Burmese law, if a man is found in the bedroom 
he may be struck, but not after he has left the bed.) 

The statement that adultery is, or was at some former time, punished 
with death can only be accepted with the greatest caution. There is no 
well-authenticated instance in any lower culture of death being the 
ordinary legal penalty for adultery, except as an act of despotism on the 
part of an autocrat. In societies which have not advanced so far as to 
delegate judicial authority to a ruler or council, adultery and homicide 
are regarded as private torts concerning the individuals and families 
affected, and not punishable by collective action. The statement there- 
fore can mean nothing more than that homicide under the circumstances 
is regarded as excusable; but since homicide itself is a private concern, 
it is difficult to see that the statement means anything. Speaking of the 



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East African Bantu, the Hon. C. Dundas says, ‘I am convinced that the 
killing of an adulterer was not permitted under any circumstances/ As 
a matter of fact, the recognized penalty for adultery among them is a 
payment of ten goats. The Tuareg, when asked what they would do in 
the case of their wife’s adultery, said that they would kill the culprits; 
but when pressed as to whether any such incident was known to have 
occurred they had nothing to say. Western ignorance has long supposed 
that the Turks, upon whom it has fastened a fantastic reputation for 
jealousy, punish with death the adultery of their wives. But ‘the old 
story about the sacks filled with such degenerate beauties being sunk 
into the river where it is deepest are the illusions of the romanticist’. 
As a matter of fact, adultery among Turkish women, which is nearly as 
frequent as among Western women, is usually dealt with by the obvious 
prodecure of divorce. Although statements that the penalty for adultery 
is death abound, there are few instances. The statement is most fre- 
quently met with reference to Africa but, in point of fact, adultery 
throughout Africa is usually compensated for by a fine, and often a 
trifling one. Among the Ewe of Togo the penalty is two cowrie shells, 
value sixpence. In Abyssinia, it is slightly cheaper: fivepence sterling. 

The claim for compensation for the breach of matrimonial rights may 
easily degenerate into a means of exploitation. Frequently husband and 
wife entice victims into adultery, or concoct false charges and share the 
proceeds. This is particularly common on the Guinea coast. The hus- 
bands ‘make great gain of their wives and ’tis with this view that they 
marry many, who are so faithful that when they have admitted a spark, 
they immediately acquaint their husband, who directly fleeces him. 
Some pretend to be unmarried and so impose on the stranger, who, as 
soon as the affair is over, is undeceived by the appearance of the hus- 
band, in the same manner claiming his wife as the bullies in Europe do.’ 
Among the Wataveta the husbands are ‘affectionate and kindly in their 
family relations’, and love their wives dearly. All they ask is that if the 
wife has lovers, the fine should be faithfully paid to them. Among the 
Bashamma of Nigeria it is customary to pay the fine in advance. The 
business details being thus disposed of, the co-respondent is free to 
commit misconduct. Other offences on the part of the wife are frequently 
regarded as more serious than adultery. A woman may be divorced for 
witchcraft, stealing, being a bad cook or a fool, but not if she commits 
adultery. 

Tribal law is far from supporting claims to exclusive possession. 
Among the patriarchal Australians a man who has no wife has a right 
to challenge a man who has several and compel him, if he can, to sur- 
render one of them. Among the Gilyak, if a woman absconds with a 
lover and the husband does not succeed in bringing her back within a 



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year, his claim lapses. And among the Sakai of Sumatra the husband 
must achieve the return within seven days. 

Far from lending countenance to seventeenth-century religious doc- 
trines, as Westermarck supposes, primitive sentiments rule the theory 
of basic jealousy out of court. For if a desire for individual possession of 
females was really the chief factor in human society, how could indiffer- 
ence to such claims be so general in lower cultures ? 

Sexual Emotion 

Since the eighteenth century opinions have differed much as to the 
emotional forms which sexual attraction may take in primitive humanity 
and as to whether savages are capable of romantic passion. Such contro- 
versies could hardly have arisen had more care been devoted to elucidat- 
ing the psychological nature of those emotions. 

The character of such sentiments varies enormously in different 
countries and periods. M. Kostylelf points out that the romantic emo- 
tions depicted by Stendhal are today extremely rare, if not impossible. 
Many people find it inconceivable that sentiments which play so funda- 
mental a part in human life can be subject in any degree to cultural 
influences. But they overlook the fact that the form which they assume 
in cultured humanity is due to the fact that they are repressed. It is 
precisely because they are so fundamental that they are ready to avail 
themselves of any outlet offered and to assume any form which the 
culture may impart. The sexual instincts are the most malleable of any 
instincts. Let them be repressed, let their direct aim be denied them, 
and they will soon assume unrecognizable forms, from the depths of vice 
to the highest exaltations of art and religion. M. Kostyleff attributes the 
noticeable decay of romantic emotion today as compared with the mid- 
Victorian era to the greater physical activity of contemporary life, and in 
particular to the development of sport, which serves as an outlet for 
energy diverted from the sexual channel. But the chief cause of the 
change appears to be the greater freedom of intercourse between the 
sexes. Young men and women, brought up in seclusion from the 
opposite sex, who never met except under the primmest rules, were fore- 
doomed to fall into the extremes of sentimental emotion. 

In European societies the sexual instincts are repressed and denied 
their direct outlet at the very time when their operation is most insistent, 
namely puberty. This results in various forms of nervous disturbance, 
in romantic passion, in religious phenomena, in masturbation, in vice: 
manifestations which are, for the most part, unknown in primitive 
societies where no such repression exists. We are not concerned here 
with judging such effects. They include some of the most deplorable 
and some of the most exalted features of our culture. But the latter are 



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no less artificial for being admirable. Psychiatrists describe love in 
pathological terms, such as ‘obsession’, ‘ idee fixe\ and ‘rudimentary 
paranoia.’ Even if one disagrees with psychologists in viewing romantic 
sentiments as pathological, one must regard the forms which those 
sentiments have assumed in European culture as, in a sense, artificial 
and abnormal. The overflowing of the sexual impulse is the outcome of 
the damming of those impulses. Their concentration upon one indi- 
vidual results from these restrictions. The diversity of an advanced 
culture extends the scope of sexual selection while restricting its opera- 
tion. In short, the personal character of sexual attraction is not the cause 
of monogamy but, on the contrary, its product. These conditions are 
absent in primitive societies. The instincts are unrepressed; imagination 
has no power over the mind of the savage. 

The profound differences which exist in the relations between the 
sexes in primitive societies and in our own is illustrated by the fact that 
throughout those societies, the kiss is unknown. Were the fact disputable, 
it would doubtless have been asserted that kissing is part of the nature 
of man, and that it is impossible to believe that there existed a time 
when such a spontaneous form of caress was unknown to human beings; 
for exactly the same forms of reasoning apply here as in regard to the 
sentiments of sexual love or of jealousy as we know them. The reason 
why the kiss is unknown to primitive humanity is that preliminaries to 
sexual relations are unknown. The development of emotional tenderness 
is rendered impossible by the fact that no pre-nuptial state correspond- 
ing to courtship exists in primitive societies. 

It has been noted as remarkable that North American Indians, whose 
eloquence will bear comparison with the oratory of ancient and modern 
Europe, and who possess great gifts of poetic imagination, offer no 
specimen of erotic literature; they have no love-songs. The same is true 
of the Polynesians, who are far from being psychologically primitive, 
and who have a rich and flexible language and a store of imaginative 
myths and songs . 1 There are a couple of Samoan stories referring to 
sexual affection, but it is post-nuptial not pre-nuptial. The Ababuaof the 
Congo also have no love-songs. 

Suicide among Primitive Races 

The fact that a man or woman who is thwarted sometimes commits 
suicide has been adduced as evidence of romantic love in primitive 
races, but suicide for all sorts of frivolous reasons is common among all 

1 A well-known Maori tale, the story of Hine-Moa, appears to be a solitary 
instance of a Polynesian love-story ; it contains little that can be interpreted in 
terms of our notions of romantic love, and would seem to illustrate rather the 
‘swayamvara’ usage, of which we find traces among the Maori, than romantic 
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primitive peoples. Perhaps this is because primitive man, like a child, 
lives almost entirely in the present. The impulse of the moment, how- 
ever trifling in itself the object may be, determines action, uncounter- 
acted by any far-reaching consideration. When Jesuit missionaries re- 
buked the North American Indians for not correcting their children, 
they replied that if they were to do so they would probably kill them- 
selves. An old Dakota woman committed suicide because her grand- 
daughter had received a thrashing from her father. American squaws 
kill themselves if spoken to crossly. In the Trobriands, a young man has 
been known to commit suicide because his wife had smoked all his 
tobacco. A native of the Gilbert Islands hanged himself because he had 
been scolded by his wife. Among the Banyoro a woman will hang 
herself if her husband finds fault with the dinner. 

In every part of the uncultured world there is a curious disposition to 
commit suicide to cause annoyance to the survivors. Of the natives of 
Savage Island it is said that ‘like angry children, they are tempted to 
avenge themselves by picturing the trouble that they will bring upon the 
friends who have offended them 5 . Married women often kill themselves 
to avenge themselves upon their husbands. Among the Goajiros, if a 
man quarrels with his wife, the latter often hangs herself from revenge, 
for the husband is obliged in such a case to pay for her a second time, 
and the woman exults in the trick which she is playing on her spouse. 
Among the negroes of the French Sudan, men commonly commit 
suicide ‘to spite their wives’, a practice also prevalent on the Gold 
Coast, where if a person commits suicide and, before doing so, attri- 
butes the act to the conduct of another person, the latter is required to 
undergo a like fate. 

Often a Chuvash goes and hangs himself over his enemy’s front door, 
a method of venting one’s spite not uncommon in India also. Colonel 
Tod relates how four astute Brahmans committed suicide to evade the 
payment of their taxes. Thereafter the tax oflicial was universally looked 
upon by the population as a murderer. Suicide is often connected with the 
belief that the ghost of the deceased person can plague survivors. Mr 
Manning reported of the Maori that no more marked change in habit 
has taken place than the decrease in suicide, which in the first years of 
his residence was an almost daily occurrence. He knew a man who cut 
his throat with a very blunt razor as a cure for toothache. 

It would manifestly be difficult to infer from such frivolous acts of 
suicide an intensity of sexual attachment. Mr Gibbs mentions that 
among the western tribes of America many instances occur of young 
women destroying themselves at the death of their lovers, but he is 
nevertheless emphatic that there is little real affection. Herr Detzner 
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184 

caused by the natural or violent death of wife or husband, the complete 
lack of energy to take up the battle of life singly, alone induce those re- 
sourceless people to take the step, and love for the deceased, which in 
our sense of the word is unknown to them, lends no higher hallowing 
significance to the wretched deed 5 . 

In short, the anecdotes collected by several writers to demonstrate the 
existence of romantic sentiments among primitive peoples show just the 
opposite. Most of the instances put forward turn out to be suicides 
because the woman was compelled to marry an old and objectionable 
suitor and not because of unrequited love. 

The existence of ‘elopement’ is sometimes cited as evidence of 
romantic attachment among uncultured people. Such elopements are in 
fact abductions; abductions are common among all Australian abori- 
ginal tribes and are the customary mode of obtaining a wife among some 
of them. The procedure is hardly romantic ; in describing it Dr Howitt 
has recourse to the decent disguise of Latin ; before bringing home the 
bride it was the custom to perform a ceremony in which the companions 
of the Romeo were the chief actors : ‘Postridie in loco quodam idoneo, a 
castris remoto, juvenes delecti a gente cjus abductam seriatim stupra- 
verunt. Postea autem abductoris primi femina omnino habebatur.’ 

We shall return to the subject of elopement in considering the means 
of obtaining wives in patrilocal marriage. When not a mere form or a 
means of obtaining better terms from the relatives, such elopements are, 
like suicide, far more often the result of the young woman’s dislike for 
an elderly or repugnant suitor than a personal attachment to a particular 
youth. 

Primitive Love 

Many testimonies to the lack of strong sexual attachment among primi- 
tive people can be cited. 1 That, in uncultured societies above the lowest 
levels, personal preference, and an emotional state analogous to ‘falling 
in love’, do occasionally exist appears probable. But such sentiments 
appear to have no depth or stability. Thwarting of individual desires 
may occasionally lead to impulsive acts of suicide, but appears in general 
to inflict little disappointment. Thus, speaking of the Sauteux Indians, 
Grant reports : ‘They are not insensible to the charms of love, though 
indeed not so subject to its empire as Europeans are in general. Here the 
disappointed lover can bear the indifference of his mistress with the 
calmest fortitude.’ 

This does not imply that primitive man is incapable of affection or 
attachment. Quite the contrary. Other things being equal, there is 
probably a greater disposition to whole-hearted if perhaps less deep and 

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constant, affection in primitive than in civilized man. The whole struc- 
ture of primitive society rests upon such sentiments. ‘Affection with a 
savage’, justly remarks Miss Kingsley, ‘is not so deeply linked with sex; 
but the love between mother and child, man and man, brother and 
sister, woman and woman is deep, pure and true.’ The savage can at 
once become devotedly attached to an individual in whom he feels he 
can confide. The admixture of such child-like affection with the sexual 
impulse in man is one of the elements in sexual love; it is the manifesta- 
tion of transferred paternal instincts and the true basis of the mating 
instinct. But this affection is entirely distinct from erotic sentiment, and 
only related to it by artificial combination. Not being associated with 
the repression of sexual instincts, such affectionate attachment does not, 
as with us, have the opportunity of becoming blended with it, but 
remains distinct, as with those savages who are tenderly affectionate to 
their wives and yet share them with any lover. The post-nuptial affec- 
tion which grows out of companionship is a different sentiment from 
sexual love, and not being linked with sex is compatible with the ab- 
sence of jealousy. Such affection is a conspicuous feature of polyandrous 
families. Tibetan families are noted for the devotion which exists 
between brothers and wives, and the greatest harmony is apparent in 
Toda families. Primitive man is as prone as civilized man to sensual 
desire. He is equally capable of tender affection; what is unknown to 
him is the intimate combination of the two. Speaking of the Arabs, an 
observer as sympathetic as Burckhardt remarks : ‘The passion of love is 
indeed much talked about by the inhabitants of towns, but I doubt 
whether anything is meant by them more than the grossest animal 
desire. 5 No Arabian love-poetry takes account of any other aspect. 
Throughout the East sexual attraction is looked upon as purely physical. 
Our fiction and our drama, the association of love with marriage, are 
unintelligible to the Japanese. 

Late Marriage 

Although sexual life begins extremely early with savages the resulting 
associations are transient. The decay of sexual life takes place corre- 
spondingly early, and a man of thirty may be regarded as past his prime. 
It is usually when the sexual instincts are thus on the wane that sexual 
associations acquire greater stability and that true attachment may mani- 
fest itself. In the lower stages of culture love in its most genuine form is 
an attribute, not of youth but of age. As the Eskimo say: ‘Affection 
comes as a result of living together. 5 

The individual marriages of the Australian aborigines are an institu- 
tion of advanced life. In some districts it is rare to find a married man 
under forty, and one is scarcely found anywhere under thirty. The same 



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is true elsewhere. According to a missionary, the natives of Formosa 
seldom married before the age of fifty. Tne same is true among all the 
Dravidian races of Northern India. Among the northern barbarians of 
Europe ‘the men did not as a rule marry until they had reached mature 
age and the restless period of youth had passed’. In America, among the 
Natchez, Iroquois, Hurons and Siouan tribes the usual marriage age 
was from twenty-five to thirty, but there were many who finally suc- 
cumbed to importunity only at forty or fifty. 

The Kaffirs of South Africa did not usually marry before the age of 
thirty or thirty-five, and frequently had to be pressed by the women. 
The Tuareg begin to think about marriage when they are about forty. 
Similar habits were general in South America. 

Standards of Feminine Beauty 

Primitive man’s choice of a bride is scarcely ever determined by sexual 
attraction. He prefers to marry ‘the weather-beaten and hardy women 
of the tribe, who are capable and hard workers’. An Indian chief, 
questioned as to his notions of female charm, ‘seemed not to have made 
a study of them. Their faces’, he said, ‘might be more or less handsome, 
but in other respects women were all the same.’ His further remarks 
are not reported, as they are said (though this is difficult to believe) to 
have caused a Canadian trader to blush. In the savage, discrimination as 
regards female charm is virtually confined to a preference for youth and 
plumpness over emaciation and age. Monteiro says of the African Bantu 
‘they are quite satisfied and content with any woman possessing even 
the greatest amount of the hideous ugliness with which nature has so 
bountifully supplied them’. Among the natives of Sunday Island, the 
young women are utterly neglected, the older women being much sought 
after, whether as wives or as concubines. In some parts of the Solomons, 
the men prefer an old to a young woman, as being more experienced. 
Among the Akikuyu, young boys are known to assault old and withered 
hags. Among the Fuegians, in about half the unions, the women are ten 
to twelve years older than the men. Among the Iroquois often a young 
warrior of twenty-five is married to a woman of forty, and Eskimos 
sometimes marry women old enough to be their mothers. 

The primitive, indifferent to aesthetic standards, looks for purely 
utilitarian qualities which may seem to our taste coarse or repulsive. In 
Africa since the women are viewed as useful workers, the nearest 
approximation to the male type is regarded as desirable, instead of the 
accentuation of what we regard as femininity. ‘All Negro races that I 
know’, says Reichard, ‘account a woman beautiful who is not constricted 
at the waist, and when her body from the armpits to the hips is about the 
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pendulous abdomen is accounted attractive, and an umbilical hernia is 
regarded as a specially charming trait. 

The chief aesthetic character which the primitive values is adiposity. 
A female who is unable to rise from a sitting position without help is 
generally regarded as the ideal. In Nigeria, ‘corpulence and beauty seem 
to be terms nearly synonymous. A woman of even modest pretensions 
must be one who cannot walk without a slave under each arm to support 
her, and a perfect beauty is a load for a camel.’ Accordingly, girls in 
many parts of Africa and elsewhere (for instance, the Sahara and the 
Sudan) are subjected before marriage to a fattening process, and are 
severely punished if they do not co-operate. Among the Tuareg, girls 
of good family are entrusted at six or seven to energetic slaves who 
compel them to swallow large quantities of milk-foods and flour. The 
victims weep and implore to be allowed to remain ugly. In the evenings 
they are rolled and vigorously massaged in order to distribute the 
acquired fat uniformly and to suppress all angles and concavities. Thanks 
to this regimen and to complete idleness, they are towards the age of 
eighteen monstrously beautiful, being unable to rise or displace them- 
selves without the aid of two vigorous slaves, and all the warriors vie for 
their favours. 

Such ideals seem to be general among all uncultured races. The same 
fattening process is carried out for the bride of a Polynesian chief and 
by the Guanches of the Canary Islands. The Patagonians, the Eskimos 
and the Kirghis Tartars also appreciate corpulence. The Kaffirs justify 
their admiration for obesity on the grounds that a fat woman stands a 
much better chance of weathering a season of famine than a thin one. 
The countless figures of hugely obese women found in deposits through- 
out Mediterranean countries, which include the most ancient specimens 
of plastic art, show that the same idea of beauty obtained among the 
founders of European culture. It has been said that they indicate the 
former widespread existence in Europe of a race akin to the Hottentots. 
But this is unlikely since stcatopygous women are an artificial product, 
and admiration for such forms is a universal primitive characteristic. 

Most savages approve what we should regard as unsightly, namely 
long, hanging breasts, which permit the women to suckle the child 
which she carries on her back by throwing the breast over her shoulder. 
This feature is accordingly cultivated by means of manipulations from 
earliest puberty, and by use of bands to compress the base of the breast and 
elongate it. Firm, upright breasts are disliked as an indication of sterility. 

Economic Grounds of Sexual Selection 

The marriages of the most primitive peoples are governed by the same 
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of aristocratic families in feudal Europe. The Australian aborigine, asked 
why he wants a wife, replies : To fetch me wood and water and prepare 
my food.’ Similar evidence can be adduced from many societies. In the 
Loyalty Islands, the choice of a wife is chiefly determined by her skill as 
a gardener. Among the Ainu of Japan, laziness on the part of the wife 
and failure to obtain good crops are recognized as grounds for divorce. 
A Singhalese, lectured on the sacredness of the marriage tie and the 
wickedness of divorce, asked what he should do if, having married a 
woman, it turned out that she was unskilled in cultivating rice. In the 
Ao tribe of the Naga Hills, if a marriage is arranged before concluding 
the alliance the couple start on a trading expedition. If the commercial 
venture turns out profitable, the marriage is proceeded with. If not, it is 
broken off. An Eskimo ‘marries because he requires a woman’s help to 
prepare his skins, make his clothes and so forth.’ Among the North 
American Indians, ‘industry and capacity for work are above all valued, 
and next, fertility’. In Brazil the chief qualities valued in a wife are that 
she should understand gardening and be able to brew good beer. Among 
the Banyoro, ‘Marriages are . . . entered into for utilitarian and eco- 
nomic reasons.’ 

Today economic conditions in Uganda, as in many other parts of 
Africa, have entirely changed, and the men earn good wages in factories 
and on Government contracts. The result is that, although much 
wealthier, they tend to avoid marriage to an extent which is causing 
concern to the authorities. Marriage has fallen into disuse, not because 
the men cannot afford it, but because they can afford to do without it. 
The economic motive for individual marriage having disappeared, there 
is none other left. 

To sum up: The origins'of marriage cannot be found in a'personal 
claim over particular women, arising from an innate masculine jealousy. 
We must therefore look elsewhere for such origins. 



CHAPTER 14 


Selecting a Husband and 
Acquiring a Wife 


Marriage Proposals by Women 

In primitive society, it is commoner for women to choose individual 
men than for men to choose individual women. Thus among the tribes of 
Queensland, ‘it is never usual, it appears, for the young man to make the 
first advances to a young woman of his own tribe. The “gin” has the 
acknowledged right of showing her partiality for a particular person. 
We could not learn that the poor fellow had any right to refuse.’ In the 
Torres Straits young men arc lectured on the impropriety of proposing 
marriage to a girl. Even when the man has other wives, it is the woman 
who proposes. And even after the girl has declared her affection ‘any 
forward conduct on the part of the young man would have been regarded 
as bad form’. Indeed, it was proper to ignore such proposals until they 
had been repeated several times, to avoid doubt as to the lady’s inten- 
tions. 

Female initiative in selection is reported from Papua to India, from 
northern Melanesia to South America. Similar usages appear to have 
existed among the Slavs and ancient Irish, while love-letters from an- 
cient Egypt tell the same tale. Where, as among the North American 
Indians, it was customary for marriages to be negotiated among the 
respective mothers, it was normally from the girl’s mother, not the 
man’s, that the first move came. Among the Radeh, a primitive people 
of South Indo-China, the young lady who has taken a fancy to a youth, 
after inquiries as to whether her suit will be welcome, establishes herself 
in the youth’s house and attempts to seduce him. Should she become 
pregnant within a year, she can remove her conquest to her own home 
without further formality — but if not, she must pay a bridegroom-price 
in cloth or cattle. 

Such usages are far too widely distributed to be regarded as exceptions 
or aberrations. They are, as we might expect, observed in ummodifiedly 
matriarchal and matrilocal societies. Where male domination and a 
patriarchal social order have become fully established, the men naturally 
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the woman’s wishes. For a woman to make any advances comes to be 
regarded as immodest. Thus in Australia, it is from Queensland, where 
the position of the women is distinctly less debased than is the rule with 
the aborigines, and where matrilocal marriage usages appear to have 
survived later, that feminine initiative in courting has been reported, as 
also from the Kurnai tribes, which have preserved an unusually primi- 
tive form of marriage organization. 

Likewise in Melanesia courting by the woman is found in the New 
Britain and New Ireland groups, as also among the Melanesians of New 
Guinea, whereas it would be out of the question in the Solomons, in 
New Caledonia or in Fiji, where brutal male domination is established. 
Where the usage is found in a patriarchally organized community, it is 
probably a survival from times when women had a right of choice; 
while the deference which is often paid to the inclination of the young 
women, and the right of refusal which they often possess where marriage 
negotiations are conducted by parents or go-between, is probably also a 
legacy from such earlier times. 

The reason for the woman’s original right of choice is clear. In the 
conditions of primitive matriarchal societies the woman is far more 
interested in marrying than is the man. The economic value of a woman’s 
labour is confined to the household in which she works; the man can 
take advantage of it only if he removes her to a household of his own. 
But if all marriage associations were originally matrilocal and a woman 
never left her group, she would be devoid of economic value to her mate. 
The product of a man’s labour, on the other hand, especially when it 
consists chiefly of game, can be equally well distributed to his own 
household group or to that of his sexual mate. In such conditions, 
therefore, the economic inducement to association between sexual 
partners operates on the woman alone; it is she, and the group to which 
she belongs, who are gainers by the accession of a new provider of food 
and a new protector. 

It is biologically irrelevant to adduce the ‘passive’ character of female 
germ-cells and the ‘active’ character of male germ-cells in support of a 
general social law that the male instincts must be the more active factor 
in bringing about a mating association. The relevant biological fact is 
that wherever animal mating takes place and there is a more-or-less 
prolonged association of the sexes, it invariably does so in relation to the 
requirements of the female and not to those of the male. 

Love of Adornment greater in Primitive Males than in Females 

Darwin’s theory rested upon biological facts which everywhere show 
the selection of males by the females, not the reverse. In the animal 
kingdom it is the male which displays colours and ornaments; the 



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female is invariably inconspicuous. Similarly in most primitive societies : 
the coquetry and love of adornment commonly assumed to be innate in 
all ‘daughters of Eve 5 appear to be absent or rudimentary in primitive 
womankind. Thus in Australia, ‘adornments are almost entirely mono- 
polized by the men: females are content with their natural charms’. In 
the Gambier Islands the women not only ‘have no ornaments of any 
kind’, but they ‘appeared quite indifferent to the beads and trinkets 
which we offered them’. 

Throughout the American continent the same difference is conspicu- 
ous. With all the tribes of the South American continent ‘the use of 
ornaments and trinkets is almost confined to the men’. Thus among the 
Muras the men display a wealth of ornaments, while the women are 
absolutely naked. Young Choroti men spend hours over their toilet 
before going to a dance, while the young women trust to their natural 
charms. Fuegian men have their hair dressed and brushed by the women ; 
similarly among the Andamanese islanders. 

In the Congo ‘toilet and luxuries of dress are the attribute of the 
stronger sex, and the costume of the women is generally more simple’. 
The same is true in East Africa; the men affect the most elaborate 
fashions in hairdressing. The Mashukulumba have cone-shaped, taper- 
ing headdresses, sometimes a yard long; the women shave off their hair, 
and present their future husbands with their own locks to serve as 
padding for their extravagant coiffures. The Syrian traveller, Barde- 
sanes, observed the same among the natives of Central Asia near 
Baktria. ‘The Gelan women’, he wrote, ‘neither perfume themselves nor 
wear dyed garments, but are all barefooted, although the Gelan men 
adorn themselves with soft clothing and various colours, and wear gold 
ornaments and perfume themselves, and this not from any effeminacy in 
other respects, for they are brave and very warlike, and much given to 
hunting.’ 

Women 9 s Choice determined by Economic Considerations 

Primitive woman’s choice of mate is determined by practical considera- 
tions. Thus, among the Sea Dayaks the women ‘generally regard mar- 
riage as a means of obtaining a man to work for them’ and a ‘woman will 
often separate from her husband simply because he is lazy’. ‘They cling 
to us’, said an Eskimo, ‘because we give them food and clothing.’ When 
a hunter is sick, his wife goes to another man. Amongst all the North 
American tribes skill in hunting and prowess in war is the chief recom- 
mendation in a prospective husband. Similar reports come from all over 
the world. Among the tribes of Brazil, a warrior who has distinguished 
himself is overwhelmed with marriage offers. Among the Nilotic negroes 
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all the girls in the district, whereas a youth who cannot shoot straight 
will find difficulty in getting a wife at all 5 . Of several communities it is 
expressly stated that a marriage lasts only so long as the man continues 
to provide adequately. 

In the higher stages of culture, where economic pressure is less, other 
factors may operate. Tuareg ladies, who besides owning most of the 
property are superior in education and refinement to the majority of the 
men, are said to show a preference for somewhat effeminate men and 
beaux raconteurs. But such tastes are not to be found in primitive 
societies. 

To demonstrate ability to support a wife is accordingly the indispens- 
able preliminary to marriage. In the lower stages of culture, a man 
invariably pays court by presenting specimens of his efficiency as a 
hunter or proofs of his prowess as a warrior. Among the North American 
Indians, ‘when a young man wishes to marry a squaw, he sends her a 
quarter of venison with the message : ‘I can furnish you at all times with 
the game necessary for your food 5 . Similar usages appear to have been 
at one time customary in Scotland: the Caledonian hero Duchomar 
approaches the lady of his choice by sending her some venison. In 
hunting communities no youth may contemplate matrimony unless he 
has killed some animal. Among the Koyukuhotana of Alaska a youth 
who has not killed a deer is thought to be incapable of begetting children. 

In warlike tribes it is usually a condition of marriage that a man 
should have proved his value by killing an enemy. Among the Yoruba 
‘whether the killing was done in fair fight or in the form of a murder did 
not matter . 5 The rules of hospitality were conscientiously observed, but 
a guest, after he had left the house, was often waylaid and his throat cut, 
thus enabling his host, as a fully qualified murderer, to enter the 
honourable state of matrimony. Among the wild tribes of Formosa a 
man was not allowed to marry until he had murdered a Chinaman. Of 
the Dayaks of the West Coast of Borneo Heer Francis writes : ‘He who 
succeeded in bringing back a head, no matter how obtained, was 
immediately received as a distinguished member of the community and 
had a free choice of all the girls of his village . 5 With them, as also with 
the Alfurs of Ceram, of Minahassa, and of Sumatra, marriage was not 
possible unless such a trophy was forthcoming. So also among the Naga 
tribes of Assam, the Guaycurus and some tribes of the Amazon. 

Tests of Endurance at Initiation and Marriage Ceremonies 

In nearly all primitive communities, before a youth can contemplate 
marriage, he must take part in certain ceremonies, generally referred to 
as ‘rites of initiation 5 or ‘puberty 5 ceremonies. These rites vary in differ- 
ent parts of the world, and generally contain magical or quasi-religious 



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elements. But they agree substantially in one respect: the candidates are 
subjected to ordeals in which their valour and powers of endurance are 
tested, affording an opportunity to judge their qualifications as hunters 
and warriors. 

Such tests are commonly of the utmost severity. Thus in the Pueblo 
tribes the candidates were repeatedly flagellated with bundles of yucca, 
or ‘Spanish bayonet’. Among the tribes of British Columbia the would- 
be warriors ran long distances over rough ground until their feet bled ; 
dug large pits to test their arm strength ; cut one another’s chests, arms 
and legs with knives, and had the tips of their fingers slit open. Dry 
iir-needles were placed on their hands, arms, legs and chest, set alight 
and allowed to burn to ash. Anyone who could not endure the pain was 
ridiculed. 

The refinements of torture endured by all candidates among the tribes 
of the Plains surpassed in ingenuity anything devised by Spanish 
Inquisitors. After a four days’ fast and abstinence from drink, the young 
fellows had the muscles of their shoulders or breast transfixed with 
scalping knives jagged to a saw-edge in order to render the operation 
more painful; wooden skewers were then inserted through the wounds 
and ropes fastened to them, by which candidates were hoisted to the 
ceiling. Other skewers were similarly inserted in their arms and legs, with 
shields, buffalo skulls and other weights suspended from them. The 
victims were then twisted round and round so as to wind up the ropes 
and cause them to whirl rapidly as the ropes untwisted. This was but 
the first part of the ordeal. As soon as they had sufficiently recovered, 
they ran races before the assembled tribe, dragging after them heavy 
weights fastened by skewers to their bodies. All this had to be borne 
without showing any sign of pain; and the young fanatics frequently 
devised fresh refinements of torture of their own accord. 

The famous ‘huskanaw’ ordeal to which boys were subjected at 
puberty among the tribes of Virginia was, like some other rites of initia- 
tion, calculated to promote the subjection of the youth to the authority 
and power of the old men; but it was declared that the test ‘hardens 
them ever after to the fatigues of war, hunting and all manner of hard- 
ships to which their way of living exposes them.’ Death sometimes 
resulted. 

Among the Carib races of South America ferocious ants are often 
employed to test the powers of endurance of candidates. Thus among 
the Macusi of Guiana, the young men, besides thorough flagellation and 
the infliction of deep wounds on their persons, have receptacles con- 
taining ants applied to various parts of their body, or are sewn up in a 
hammock filled with them. If the candidate utters a cry, he is not 
permitted to marry. In addition, he must clear a space of forest, and 
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bring as much game and fish as possible to show that he is able to sup- 
port a family. 

A peculiar trial to which the Mura lads were subjected was that they 
were compelled to drink an enormous quantity of fermented liquor; the 
women next administered voluminous enemas until their intestines were 
so distended that the abdomens were as tight as drums. They then had 
to perform violent exercises. Many succumbed to the test, and are said 
to have burst like a shell in the middle of the assembly. 

In Africa, among the Kaffirs and Bechuanas, the candidates are 
prevented from sleeping and are compelled to take violent exercise, 
running and dancing till they drop from exhaustion. They are scourged 
mercilessly, and bear the marks all their lives. In the old days many of 
the boys died. If they want meat, they must steal it, and should a thief 
be discovered, he is beaten unmercifully for his clumsiness. The young 
Spartans, it will be remembered, were treated in exactly the same man- 
ner at the time of the manhood ordeals. 

Circumcision is an indispensable preliminary to marriage, and is said 
by the Congo tribes to make the boys strong. The manner in which they 
bear the operation is a test of the boy’s quality. Among the Orang Balik 
Papan of Eastern Borneo circumcision is performed immediately before 
marriage, as also among the Arabs of Djezan, where it is done in a 
particularly brutal manner, in the presence of the young man’s intended 
bride ‘If he betrays by any groan or gesture, or by the least contraction 
of the muscles of the face, the horrible pain which he feels, the bride 
declares that she does not wish to have a girl for a husband.’ 

The Australian initiation ceremonies consist of cutting with knives, 
hitting with the ‘nullah-nullah’, tearing the hair, burning the flesh, 
fighting with warriors and, wonderful to relate, delivering orations. If a 
candidate has the good fortune to kill or seriously wound an enemy, his 
claims are at once recognized and he is admitted as a warrior. 

In some parts of Nyasaland and of East Africa dances are the only 
initiation ceremonials, and are at the same time the usual avenue to 
marriage. The same is true of Melanesian New Guinea, though it would 
appear that the obtaining of a human head was formerly requisite. The 
dances are, however, extremely strenuous. Speaking of the Gualola of 
California, Mr Powers remarks : ‘The amount of dancing which they can 
endure for ten or fifteen days together, day and night, is astonishing, 
when we remember that the manner of dancing practised by the men is 
terribly hard work.’ 

In Polynesia, where exogamous clans and marriage-classes have dis- 
appeared, the conditions of life are exceptionally easy; elaborate man- 
hood ceremonies no longer exist, but are represented by the operation 
of tattooing. The operation is extremely painful and protracted; the 



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victim is held down by four or five young women, who sing to encourage 
him. When the tattoo is healed a great dance is held, ‘when the admira- 
tion of the fair sex is unsparingly displayed’. In more primitive societies 
and among warrior tribes, the tattooing was but a certificate of prowess. 
Thus among the Natchez and other Mississippi tribes the youths are 
‘tattooed on the nose only until they have killed some enemy and have 
brought back his scalp when they have the right to have themselves 
tattooed elsewhere’. 

Manifestly in their practical aspects the ‘manhood ceremonies’ of 
uncultured peoples are designed to afford a test of the strength, courage 
and endurance of young men, and of their efficiency as hunters and 
warriors. It might be supposed that these tests are imposed primarily in 
view of the community’s interest in the quality of its hunters and its 
warriors, but this does not fit the facts. For, if so, one would expect that 
uncultured peoples would also seek to produce efficient hunters and 
warriors by a regular course of training, but there is usually very little 
such training, and what there is often follows, instead of preceding, 
the tests. 

There is one institution only for which successful performance of 
initiation rites is indispensable — marriage is absolutely forbidden to a 
youth before he has been duly certified as having attained to the status of 
hunter or warrior. Indeed, the ceremony itself is sometimes spoken of as 
‘marriage’. Sometimes one and the same ceremony constitutes both the 
‘initiation’ and the marriage. 

Sometimes the initiation tests are applied individually as part of the 
marriage preliminaries or of the marriage ceremony itself. As we have 
seen, in many countries the bridegroom is soundly thrashed by the 
relatives of the bride. This is part of the rituals of violence which mark 
many marriage ceremonies ; but it appears in many cases to constitute a 
test or ordeal in addition. Among the higher Hindu castes of the Punjab 
the bridegroom, in his progress towards the bride’s home, passes 
between a double row of damsels and women armed with reeds, who 
strike him as he passes; the blows are quite harmless, but the ritual is 
doubtless a relic of a severer ordeal. 

Frequently, such tests of endurance are applied in the presence of the 
proposed bride, or even by the women themselves. In Dongola it is the 
girl herself who tests the mettle of her suitors. She sits down between 
two of them, holding long knives in each hand, and slowly presses them 
into their thighs. The man who bears the torture best is chosen as her 
husband. In other instances, the women are excluded from such cere- 
monies, but there is reason to believe that this was not originally the 
case. Although women are, in general, quite willing to defer to the 
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the judges. The procedure thus bears a close resemblance to the way in 
which, in ancient India, girls of noble birth selected a husband. Relics 
of these ‘swayamvara’ customs are still to be found among the Rajputs. 
Such marriage competitions were also much in vogue in archaic Greece, 
where, as in India, the bride was allotted to the victor in an archery 
competition, a foot-race or perhaps a bullfight. So also in mediaeval 
Europe. As late as the eighteenth century in County Derry, Ireland, it 
was the custom for the suitor of a marriageable maiden to compete for 
her hand in sports, which were generally arranged by the authorities as 
a Sunday entertainment. 

Similar contests were widespread in South and Central America. 
Thus among the Chavantcs ‘he who can carry a heavy log over the 
longest distance, or excel in running, or cast a spear farthest, bears the 
bride home’. 

Such organized contests are found among the rudest as among the 
most highly cultured tribes of the American continent. ‘The most com- 
mon gateway to sexual intercourse east of the Rockies’, says Father 
Morice, ‘was wrestling. Two young men would publicly wrestle for the 
possession of a maiden, and the same took place in connection with any 
married women as well.’ 

The Zulus, like most tribes of warriors, affect great contempt for 
women, but there are indications that things were once otherwise. 
Although women are now ‘purchased’, if there are a number of com- 
peting suitors, the right of choice lies with the women. In practice, the 
observance is now mostly formal. Each suitor, dressed in his best dancing 
attire, comes up for inspection, squatting in front of the lady’s hut. If she 
is satisfied, he is instructed to come again the next morning and exhibit 
his paces in the cattle-fold before a large concourse of people. 

Among the Chukchi at the present day, women sometimes choose as 
their husband the victor in an athletic contest or a foot-race in the same 
manner as did the daughters of Anaetus and of Danaus. Among all the 
Turki and Mongol peoples of Central Asia the bride-race takes place on 
horseback. Among the tribes of the Malay Peninsula ‘the bride-elect 
darts off, au galop , into the forest. . . .’ A chase ensues, during which, 
should her inamorato return unsuccessful, he is met with jeers, and the 
match is declared off. Sometimes the bride-race takes place in canoes. 
The Aieta, a negrito race of the Philippines, have a similar custom. If 
the suitor finds the bride and returns with her before sunset, the couple 
is considered legally married. 

Marriage by Service 

The view that the primary function of such tests and ceremonies was 
originally to enable women to choose the ablest husband is confirmed by 



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the fact that the same element of testing is present in ‘marriage by 
service’. 

In primitive matriarchal societies where no personal property exists, 
the sole economic contribution a man can make is to contribute his 
services. In comparatively advanced societies, the man may, in consider- 
ation of his devoting his labour for a period to the service of his wife’s 
family, be permitted subsequently to remove her to a home of his own. 
But this period of service is far from being simply a contribution which 
may be commuted by some other form of payment. Thus, among the 
Tupi tribes of Brazil, whose marriages were in any case permanently 
matrilocal, the period of ‘service’, or probation, commonly took a com- 
petitive form. When a girl had a number of suitors, all would ‘serve’ for 
her for two or three years. They would work for her father, dig his garden, 
cut wood for him, fish, hunt and supply the household. The most 
effective provider was chosen as the husband. 

That such service is not merely a form of payment is evidenced by 
the persistence of the usage even where the man is in a position to make, 
or actually makes, such a payment. Thus among the Awok of northern 
Nigeria a man pays a bride-price for his bride but, in addition, he must 
work for a time on the farm of his prospective father-in-law. Among the 
Koryak personal service cannot be commuted; even a wealthy suitor, 
the owner of large flocks, must serve many years as herdsman to his 
father-in-law. The way in which he is treated reveals the object of this. 
He is not treated as w r ell as an ordinary servant, but is subjected to 
indignities, and unproductive labours are imposed on him. Mr Jocbel- 
son remarks : ‘The principal thought is not his usefulness, but the hard 
and humilating trials to which he is subjected.’ The Chukchi suitor 
likewise, no matter how wealthy, is compelled to serve for his first bride 
— but probations are not required in respect of her sisters, even if he has 
begotten children during his probation. He carries burdens, hauls heavy 
sledges, mends broken utensils. He must please the girl’s father, her 
elder brother and other male members of the family. 

If the Koryak or Chukchi suitor does not come up to the standard 
required, he may be dismissed without reward or explanation, even 
after serving five or ten years. Among the Yukaghir, according to their 
own account, ‘the period of service is intended only to test the young 
man’s ability to work. The bridegroom is required to be a good hunter 
and fisherman, and capable of doing everything necessary in the house- 
hold.’ In fact, an able suitor is permitted to take his bride after a 
reduced period, his qualifications having been sufficiently demonstrated. 
The tests imposed upon him have often no direct economic value. Thus 
the prospective father-in-law will go into the woods and fell a huge 
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South American Indians. He usually ends by dropping the tree-trunk 
on the top of his father-in-law’s ‘yurta’, and the delighted old gentleman 
exclaims, as his home comes tumbling down about his ears : ‘This is a 
good man, he will be able to support us.’ 

All matrilocal marriage is ‘marriage by service’, and the evidence is, 
I believe, conclusive that this has everywhere been the most ancient 
form of individual marriage contract. For wherever the two usages exist 
conjointly, matrilocal marriage is either known to have formerly been 
the general practice, or is definitely preferred by the family of the 
woman, or is required in the form of a period of probation, whether or 
not a payment is made. Where the custom of acquiring a wife by the 
payment of a bride-price has come into general use, marriage by service 
may persist as an alternative to such payment, and it then appears to be 
a substitute for it. But it is, I think, clear in all such instances that the 
payment has come into use as a commutation of such service and not 
the reverse. 

Marriage by Purchase 

‘Marriage by purchase’ is by far the most widespread mode of 
acquiring a wife, and is found both in barbaric and advanced cultures. 
The ancient Semites called the bride ‘she who has been paid for’. 
Hosea tells us that he paid fifty shekels for one of his wives. Wife- 
purchase was the universal rule in Vedic India, among the Tartars and 
Mongols and among the archaic Greeks. Among European peoples in 
Christian times the payment of a bride-price was normal. The essential 
features survive to the present day in southern Spain, where the bride- 
groom on betrothal deposits all his savings with the bride’s family, who 
use the money to buy equipment for the new home — the bed and linen, 
however, being provided by the bride’s parents. 

Nevertheless, only in comparatively few barbaric societies does the 
transaction have the character which the phrase suggests to our ears. 
Such transactions obviously cannot be assimilated to a commercial 
traffic where commerce does not exist. There is no notion of barter in 
native Australia; materials and objects unprocurable locally are ob- 
tained by exchange of gifts, without any conception of exacting equiva- 
lent values or of getting the better of the bargain. Throughout North 
and South America the notion of traffic was equally rudimentary. (In 
European days shell-money, or ‘wampun’, and beaver skins became a 
standardized basis of exchange, but it is more than doubtful whether 
‘wampun’ was so used in pre-Columbian times.) In New Zealand, as 
throughout Polynesia, ‘buying and selling for a price as practised by us 
was unknown’. 

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universal rule that if a thing is desired it is asked for and accepted with- 
out any sense of obligation, and given, even if valued, without any 
expectation of adequate return. At their tribal meetings the Australian 
aborigines exchange gifts; they do so, as they say, in order, ‘to make 
friends’. In the very lowest phases of culture it is customary for a man 
to present gifts to the relatives of the woman whom he wishes to marry ; 
thus, for example, among the Hill Damaras the bride-gift consists of a 
bunch of onions and some striped mice. The Caroline Islanders give the 
girl’s father some bananas or some fish. 

In pre-Columbian days there was no ‘marriage by purchase’, in the 
proper sense of the term, in any part of the American continent. The 
Pacific tribes of California and British Columbia held that a substantial 
marriage-gift was essential ; a system of aristocratic castes exists in those 
tribes, and the object of the bride-gift was to serve as a guarantee of the 
rank and wealth of the bridegroom, whose family must make a return 
present of at least equal value. Where the presenting of substantial gifts 
by the bridegroom has become customary among other American tribes, 
the same rule is observed; as for example among the tribes of the Ore- 
gon. The Fuegians have been described as ‘buying’ their wives, because 
they present otter skins to her relatives; but the wife, on the other hand, 
brings to her husband a canoe and a set of harpoons, a much more 
valuable contribution. Manifestly, these are not mercenary transactions. 
Far from constituting a sale of the woman, they are a guarantee of the 
social standing of her suitor and of his ability to provide for her. In 
later times, such guarantees may easily have excited the covetousness of 
the girl’s family. Among the Navahos and the Apaches a considerable 
number of horses was required as a bride-price for a young woman ; but 
traffic in horses was not an original habit of these Indians, for they had none. 

Similarly, in Polynesia ‘purchase’ was unknown in regard to marriage 
or any other transaction. Yet very valuable presents were exchanged in 
Samoa between the respective families of persons of noble family. In 
Nakahive the bride’s family was loaded with presents, but they were 
immediately given over to be looted by the people. In Raratonga the 
gifts were redistributed among the givers after the wedding. 

In the most primitive cultural stages, the purchase of a wife is in any 
case impossible because the men possess no fundable property and 
therefore no purchasing power. The primitive hunter who joins the 
social group of his wife or ‘serves’ for her contributes the product of his 
labour, and this may be regarded as a form of payment. In more 
advanced cultural stages he owns possessions which may enable him to 
commute his obligation to serve his wife’s group permanently. ‘Mar- 
riage by purchase’ is thus evolved from the ‘mitigated form of slavery’ 
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Only when a man became an owner of domesticated cattle, his first 
form of real property, was he in a position to commute his service by a 
payment. Marriage by purchase in the proper sense is accordingly not 
found at all in Australia, Melanesia, Polynesia or in America, where no 
domesticated cattle, and consequently no man-owned wealth, existed. 
It is in pastoral societies, or in societies which have passed through 
pastoral stages, in Africa, Asia and Europe, that the purchasing power 
of the bride-gift has developed. 

In the vast majority of instances such a payment is not regarded as 
commercial, nor is it so in fact. The ‘purchased’ wife may be a princess 
and the husband nothing. The princesses of the royal house of Ashanti, 
for example, took a succession of husbands, who ‘purchased’ them. 
They were dismissed after they had been completely depleted of their 
substance. What the complacency of Europeans has represented as the 
‘purchase of women’ is thus not even an indication of female subjection. 
The Greeks were embarrassed by the fact that their ancestors ‘bought’ 
their wives, but the ‘purchased’ wives of the archaic age enjoyed a far 
higher status than the wretched dowried wives of later times. 

Even where ‘marriage by purchase’ has assumed its crudest form, it is 
far from being regarded by the women as an indignity. The sum paid is 
a source of pride; the fact of payment is the criterion of the legitimacy 
of the union. In Australia a woman who has not been exchanged for 
another, or for whom nothing has been given, is socially degraded, and 
is regarded as we should regard a prostitute ; in West Africa and many 
other places likewise. Yakut women do not think European women quite 
respectable, since they can be had for nothing, and even offer a dowry to 
a man as an inducement to marry them. Where, as in South Africa, the 
natives have been Christianized and have consequently been persuaded 
not to pay for their wives, this has brought about an enormous increase 
of immorality and loss of self-respect on the part of the women; con- 
jugal unhappiness and desertion have greatly increased. 

Even in Christian Europe the payment of the bride-price was once 
regarded as the main condition of the legality of the marriage. In the 
early Middle Ages marriages in which the husband had made no pay- 
ment were regarded as illegitimate. We have, for example, a series of 
Merovingian legal documents in which a man goes to great trouble to 
obtain a court order establishing his children as legitimate, although he 
has not paid the proper purchase money for his wife. In Denmark when, 
owing to the influence of Christianity, men were becoming lax in this. 
King Frotho decreed that no one should be permitted to marry a woman 
unless he had paid for her. 

To be sure, the acquisition of a wife by paying for her, although not 
originally an act of purchase, has, by an inevitable abuse, at times 



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assumed that character. Thus in Sumatra, where marriage by purchase 
is a late innovation, a man in some parts of the country may, by paying 
double the usual bride-price, acquire complete rights over the woman, 
and may even resell her, hire her or pawn her. In East Africa, among the 
Mkamba, a wife ‘is bought and sold, and may even be traded as a piece 
of goods’. Similarly, in Chinese Tibet a daughter may be sold over and 
over again; the speculation may thus be repeated as often as ten times. 
The Samoyeds also ‘commerce with their wives’; and Georgi knew a 
Tartar who had disposed of eight successive wives at a profit, with their 
entire concurrence. (This remarkable business-man was at the time 
engaged in courting his ninth bride.) 

Examples of wives being regarded as an article of traffic may be found 
nearer home. ‘It is much to be lamented’, stated Mr Grafton in a peti- 
tion to Queen Elizabeth, ‘that wards are bought and sold as commonly 
as beasts.’ Numerous instances of wife-sale occurred in England in the 
nineteenth century. 

Such mercenary instances are in reality exceptional, considering the 
wide distribution of the usage, and are found chiefly where the social 
organization has long been subverted by the development of slave traffic, 
and where the bride-price has consequently tended to become identified 
with the purchase money paid for a slave. That the people themselves 
are frequently aware that such a mercenary view is an abuse is indicated 
by the efforts which are often made to regulate the bride-price. In 
Uganda a universal rate was fixed as bride-price for all women, whether 
peasant girls or princesses, amounting to thirteen shillings and four- 
pence. 

In Africa, above all, ‘marriage by purchase’ has developed into a 
mercenary bargain, but it is a corruption of comparatively recent origin, 
and the corruption is by no means complete. To take only one example, 
among the Zulus, ‘marriage by purchase’ is perhaps as crude a trans- 
action as anywhere, but they ‘never consider it as a sale’; the term ‘to 
buy’ does not apply to it, and the husband has no right to resell his wife. 
‘The practice of making an express bargain’, says Mr Shooter, ‘can 
hardly be said to have prevailed thirty years ago.’ 

The bride-price is sometimes sentimentally represented as the ‘price 
of virginity’. Primitively it has no reference whatever to the right of 
sexual access to the woman and refers solely to the right to remove her 
and her children from her parental home to her husband’s. In Indonesia, 
where the native custom of matrilocal marriage and the more recently 
introduced usage of ‘marriage by purchase’ commonly exist side by side, 
the latter confers on the husband the right to remove his wife and her 
children; but he is quite at liberty to marry the woman without any 
bride-price if he is content to take up his abode in her home. So also in 

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Tonkin, Cambodia, and many other places. Frequently, when the 
required bride-price is paid in instalments, the wife stays in her own 
home until payment is completed, and her children do not belong to her 
husband’s, but to her parent’s family — as among the Kafirs of Hindu- 
Kush, in Timorlaut, in the New Hebrides, among the Mishmis of 
Assam, and the Wakamba, the Makaranaga, the Kuku and other African 
peoples. 

However, in firmly established matriarchal societies it is sometimes 
no easy matter for the men, even when they possess the power to offer a 
substantial bride-price, to break through the immemorial privilege of 
matrilocal marriage, and they resort to strange devices. Since in matri- 
archal law a man’s property passes to his sister’s children, not to his son, 
the men in several parts of Africa have adopted the plan of purchasing 
slave-girls, and of making over their property to their children by those 
concubines. Thus it comes about that those children whom we should 
call ‘legitimate’ do not inherit from their father, while those whom we 
should call ‘illegitimate’ are the only lawful heirs. 

Marriage by Capture 

One mode of obtaining wives which would apparently ensure female 
subjugation is the capture of women from neighbouring tribes or groups. 
McLennan and Lord Avebury held that this was the original mode of 
obtaining a wife; the former regarded it as the cause of the law of 
exogamy, and thus of the incest prohibition. If that were so, it would 
constitute the source of all marriage regulations. 

Certainly, the forcible capture of women has occurred in every part of 
the world at all epochs in the course of warfare. It prevailed among the 
warlike tribes of central and northern Asia; and among the Germans, 
Scandinavians and Slavs. The archaic Greeks and Semites constantly 
captured women. Nevertheless, there is not, so far as I am aware, any 
clear instance of this being the habitual method of obtaining a wife, any 
more than it was among the Greeks or Hebrews. Such a practice would, 
indeed, involve the tribe concerned in perpetual warfare, for the capture 
of even one of its women is invariably regarded by primitive tribes as a 
casus belli . The resulting mutual extermination must usually check the 
practice ; in fact, we are told that among the Bakyiga, the practice ‘led to 
such fierce fighting that the clan gave up the practice . . . while in 
Australia the tribal elders discouraged such a dangerous practice. 

In South America, the prevalence of the practice is doubtless due to 
the fragmentation of the native races into numerous tribelets which are 
constantly at war, a state brought about by the slave-hunting expedi- 
tions of the Dutch and Portuguese. In Africa, it was prevalent where the 
slave-trade reached its greatest development, as in Nyasaland and 



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British Central Africa — but the slave-trade is of relatively recent deve- 
lopment in Africa. No North American tribe ever made a practice of 
obtaining wives by capture. 

The term ‘marriage by capture* also covers three other practices : the 
abduction of single women against their will; elopement with the 
woman’s connivance, but not the parents’; and cases where the whole 
proceeding is more or less fictitious. Such fictitious abductions are very 
common, and much of the so-called evidence for wife-capture rests 
upon such simulated violence. Thus among the Kurnai, when, at the 
end of an inter-tribal festival, a young man elopes with a woman, her 
relatives make a great show of resentment ; but it is understood that a 
suitable arrangement will be made, and their wrath is merely intended 
to ensure this. The man may have to meet the relatives in a formal com- 
bat, in which care is taken to inflict no serious injury, and which may 
reduce itself to tapping him on the head with a boomerang. Sometimes 
the abduction does not take place until all arrangements with the bride’s 
parents have been completed, though the bride herself may not have 
been consulted. 

Mock fights between the relatives of the bride and those of the bride- 
groom, the former pretending to prevent her removal from her parental 
home, are of almost universal prevalence. They are found in Australia, 
in Melanesia, in New Guinea, in Polynesia, in Indonesia, in India and 
other parts of Asia, and in Africa. Such fictitious combats at weddings 
are even more conspicuous in the higher phases of culture, and are a 
feature of customs among the country people in every part of Europe. 

But there are serious difficulties in the way of interpreting these 
usages as reminiscences of real raids. In the first place, it is not easy to 
imagine why the memory of such supposed abductions and raids should 
have been so generally perpetuated by innumerable peoples as a cere- 
monial observance. The descendants of men who carried off brides in 
victorious raids might well celebrate their ancestors’ deeds of valour, 
but there appears no reason why the defeated parties should be anxious 
to commemorate their humiliation. And in such instances the opposition 
of the bride’s people is, in general, a far more conspicuous feature than 
the assaults of the bridegroom’s friends. Some of the forms which those 
simulated captures assume are quite irreconcilable with the proposed 
interpretation. Thus, among several peoples the ‘capture’ of the bride 
is effected by women; this is the case in Greenland, among the Bedawi 
of the Sinai Peninsula and in the island of Nias. In Kashmir it is not the 
bride’s house which is closed against the bridegroom’s party, but his 
own; his sister barricades the door when the bride is brought home, and 
is only induced to admit her on payment of a compensation for receiving 
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Perhaps the strongest ground for this view is the inadequacy of the 
alternative interpretations offered. Such usages are frequently inter- 
preted as conventional displays of modesty or coyness on the part of the 
bride or of her friends. Thus, when among the Eskimo of Greenland a 
man removes his bride to his own home, it is etiquette for her to offer 
the most violent resistance, and for the man to drag her, screaming and 
struggling, to his dwelling. We are told that this is ‘lest she should lose 
her reputation for modesty*. But since ‘it would be difficult to find a 
people more cynical and more devoid of shame 5 , it is hard to accept this. 
Again, among the Kamchadals, the bridegroom, to establish his right 
to the bride, is obliged to undress her and touch her vulva in spite of 
every obstacle. The woman is dressed for the occasion in many layers 
of leather gowns and pantaloons securely sewn on her and made fast by 
a multitude of straps, so that she looks ‘like a stuffed figure 5 ; moreover, 
the bridegroom’s efforts are violently resisted by the elderly females of 
the family. 

The suggestion that this procedure is inspired by a desire to make a 
display of the chastity and modesty of the bride can scarcely be recon- 
ciled with the fact that the Kamchadal bridegroom has a right to 
reproach the bride’s mother for her negligence should he happen to 
find his bride still a virgin, nor with the circumstance that the ceremony 
is performed after the man and woman have cohabited for several years. 

It has also been suggested that these displays of pretended violence 
are magic intended to avert the malice of evil spirits. To be sure, almost 
every act amongst uncultured peoples contains provisions to avert ‘bad 
luck’ ; but that the desire to avert the malice of spirits should so often 
have taken the form of a simulated conflict between the families of the 
bride and the bridegroom is too much of a coincidence. Still less is it 
intelligible that the necessity for such magical safeguards should cease as 
soon as the due compensation has been paid. 

Among the Banyoro there is no simulated violence in the customary 
wedding usages, but the traditional procedure includes precautions 
against such violence. If simulated violence be supposed to avert the 
wrath of evil spirits, it is difficult to see how precautions against the 
occurrence of such violence can effect the same purpose. Compared with 
such defective interpretations, the explanation that simulated opposition 
is an echo of real opposition is far more satisfactory. The only objection 
to the latter interpretation is that there is no evidence that forcible 
capture ever was the usual and normal mode of obtaining wives among 
any people. 

The bride-price (as distinct from the customary presents out of which 
it developed) acquires its importance only where the woman is removed 
from her home; it is the price of that removal, not merely of access to 



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her. Where marriage remains matrilocal there is no such development 
of the bride-price; there are also no ceremonies of resistance. Both are 
unknown in North America, where matrilocal marriage is the rule. In 
Indonesia, where matrilocal and patrilocal marriage are almost every- 
where found side by side, no bride-price and iro rituals of capture are 
found except where the bride is removed. The Biblical account of the 
marriage of Jacob offers a typical instance of ‘marriage by capture’. 
Jacob runs away with his wives, and is hotly pursued by their incensed 
father and his kinsmen, who bitterly reproach him for the rape. But the 
capturing husband and the captured wives had been formally married 
for over fourteen years and had a family. 

There is an even more potent reason for the display of resistance than 
the desire to obtain as high a bride-price as possible. The removal of the 
bride from her home to that of her husband constitutes a breach, of the 
oldest usages of primitive marriage. Some peoples will not be induced 
by any consideration to allow their daughters to leave home and to 
follow their husbands. The Brazilian Indians, when one of their 
daughters was forcibly taken away by a European, followed her en masse 
and yielded themselves as slaves to the abductor rather than part with 
their women. Every breach of established usage, more especially of 
marriage usages, is humiliating if not actually wicked. Where patrilocal 
marriage customs are supplanting matrilocal marriage, proud aristo- 
cratic families refuse to adopt the change, and insist upon their sons-in- 
law joining their daughters in their own homes. The relatives who have 
been induced by economic considerations to yield to the man’s desire 
to remove the woman, are bound to ‘save their face’ by the fiction that 
they arc submitting to compulsion. 

One of the most familiar usages which have suggested an attenuated 
survival of ‘marriage by capture’ is the widespread practice of lifting 
the bride over the threshold of her husband’s house. It was observed 
by the Romans, and is still found in modern Greece; it obtains in India, 
in China, in Java, in Palestine, in Egypt, in Algeria and in various parts 
of Europe, including England and Scotland. The interpretation of the 
usage has given rise to a good deal of discussion. Plutarch though that 
it recalled a time when husbands, ‘taking their wives by force, brought 
them to their house’, a view which has been followed by many modem 
writers. Others (e.g. Frazer) have sought its explanation in superstitious 
ideas connected with the threshold as a place of particular danger and 
ill-luck, but it is not obvious why a bride should be the only person to be 
protected against such dangers. 

It appears to me that the most natural underlying idea is that the 
entrance of the bride into her husband’s home is the final act in her 
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custom to carry the bride the whole way from the one to the other. 
Among the tribes of British Central Africa and Nyasaland the whole 
wedding ceremony is spoken of as ‘entering the house’. Among the 
Baholoholo of the Congo the bride’s entry into the man’s hut is re- 
garded as constitutinjpjie consummation of the marriage. 

Where patrilocal marriage has supplanted the older matrilocal usage, 
the consummation of the transaction is in fact the crossing of the 
threshold of the husband’s dwelling; it seems quite unnecessary to seek 
in magic or other ideas a more recondite explanation of the usage. 

The view taken here coincides essentially with the most obvious and 
the most general interpretation of those widespread customs which are 
commonly included under the designation of ‘marriage by capture’; but 
the conclusion to which we are led as regards their bearing upon social 
history is the exact opposite. Such usages are not evidence of the former 
prevalence of a custom of procuring wives by capture, but of the uni- 
versal distribution of matrilocal marriage. 

Patrilocal marriage is a violation of the time-honoured order, and 
must be excused by a show of yielding to force. But this change has not, 
in general, been brought about by mere force (save in the rudest stages 
of social evolution), but by economic conditions which women themselves 
have been the chief agents in creating. 



CHAPTER 15 


The Social Evolution of 
Monogamic Marriage 


Let us now consider the question: is it true, as Westermarck and others 
have claimed, that marriage was originally monogamous and that poly- 
gamy represents a decadent form of marriage ? 

The development of agriculture in its higher forms, and the conse- 
quent establishment of a regular food supply was the great turning- 
point in human history. It marks the boundary between civilization and 
uncultured ‘primitive’ states, and decisively affected the sexual constitu- 
tion of human society. For, so long as men possessed no fundable 
wealth, marriage tended to remain matrilocal and the social order matri- 
archal, except where male dominance was established by brute force. It 
was the domestication of animals which first placed economic power in 
the hands of men, since animals appertain to the hunter. This power 
was commonly used to buy off the claims of women, and of their fami- 
lies, to the services of husbands; thus patriarchal society with patrilocal 
marriage became established among pastoral peoples. On the other 
hand, where agriculture, which was the province of women, developed 
on an important scale without any intervening pastoral stage, the matri- 
archal order has often persisted, and has even become accentuated as in 
North America. The matriarchal character of society has also been 
preserved among many African peoples who have remained chiefly 
agricultural, e.g. in Egypt where pastoral property was never very 
important. 

Elsewhere agriculture has reached the highly developed stage only 
after passing through a long pastoral phase, as with the ‘Aryans’ of 
India and the Semites of Western Asia, who were driven by the desicca- 
tion of their pastoral lands towards the great alluvial plains, the granaries 
of the world. Among the Semitic nations of Western Asia women 
retained many relics of their primitive influence — the code of Ham- 
murabi shows countless provisions protecting the status of women; 
women could own property, conduct business and plead in court. Yet 
Babylonian society contrasts sharply with that of Egypt in that ‘the man 
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husband than the wife’. Assyrian pictorial art, unlike that of Egypt, 
scarcely ever represents a woman. It seems that the development of 
agriculture in societies originally pastoral, instead of increasing the 
power of the earth-cultivating woman, accentuate the existing supre- 
macy of the owners’ flocks and gave rise to the most pronounced types 
of patriarchal society. 

In the poorer, more broken lands of Europe there existed neither a 
fully-developed pastoral society nor large-scale agriculture. The men 
never became rich enough to purchase Oriental harems. The land, 
broken up into small holdings, long remained in the hands of the women 
who had formerly tilled it. Hence the man came as a suitor to the woman., 
through whom alone he could enter into possession of the land. 

Where agricultural civilizations evolved without any preceding pastoral 
phase, the matriarchal position of women was enhanced by their tradi- 
tional association with agricultural magic or religion, women retaining 
for a long time the character of priestesses. Nevertheless, this enhanced 
matriarchal influence was unstable and comparatively brief, especially in 
those regions where, as in Mediterranean Europe, the agricultural 
revolution took place amid highly developed cultural contacts and 
material industries. It was tradition rather than existing economic 
conditions which favoured it. Women had long ceased to be the culti- 
vators of the soil; their traditional ownership of it had been reduced to a 
legal fiction. The assured food supply released the men from hunting. 
The male yoked his oxen to the plough, and gradually took over the 
bulk of agricultural labour. The household crafts which had hitherto 
been almost exclusively in women’s hands, passed into those of men. 
The sexual division of labour found in primitive societies was abolished. 
Woman became economically unproductive and dependent. The con- 
trast between the toiling primitive woman and the idle lady of civiliza- 
tion, which has been mistaken for an indication of the enslavement of 
the former and the freedom of the latter, indicates just the opposite. It 
is the primitive toiler who is independent, and the unemployed woman 
who has lost her freedom and is destitute. 

One economic value alone was left to woman — her sex. In uncultured 
societies little sexual competition exists among women, hence the 
absence of ‘love’, i.e. individual preference; sexual selection is purely 
economic. Primitive woman is therefore little disposed to cultivate the 
arts of fascination — arts which have developed in proportion to the 
decrease of her value as a worker. The woman who was no longer 
economically self-supporting became competitive in terms of the only 
value which remained to her, as an instrument of luxury and pleasure. 
The Arabs forbid all manner of work to their daughters, lest their 
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society presents to the biologist a unique anomaly. While the male is 
drab and inconspicuous, on the female’s attire all the resources of art 
and wealth are lavished. To adorn her with the pigments and gloss of 
secondary male sexual characters, birds and mammals the world over 
are exterminated. The biological rule is reversed and so is the primitive 
relation between the sexes — in the substitution of the patriarchal for 
the matriarchal social order. Simultaneously the sexual instincts of the 
man became discriminating. Regard for personal attraction, imaginative 
desire, love, jealousy — all those sentiments which arc often regarded as 
part of masculine sexual instincts — developed in consequence of the 
revolution wrought by the plough. Women became the symbol of the 
non-utilitarian values in which the fighter and the toiler sought refuge 
from the harshness of reality. 

The loss of woman’s economic value as a worker abolished the pur- 
pose for which individual marriage originally arose. In those societies 
which, after passing through a pastoral stage, reached a relatively high 
stage of material culture, the increasing purchasing power of the men 
enabled them to gather large harems of wives and female slaves; mar- 
riage assumed a purely sexual aspect, and became the chief form of 
sexual relation. 

The position is different where, as in Europe, agriculture was not 
preceded by a pastoral stage. Throughout a considerable portion of 
European history the chief object of marriage, as in primitive societies, 
remains economic, but in a somewhat different sense. It is not as a 
worker that a wife is desired but as an heiress. The chief purpose of 
marriage is to gain access to the property, to the lands, which in a matri- 
archal social order were originally in the hands of women. Archaic 
European marriage was thus governed essentially by economic rather 
than sexual considerations. Hence, while polygyny was the Oriental 
ideal, European marriage was of necessity monogamic. 

Monogamic marriage is thus rooted in the special conditions which 
led to European civilization. Religious and ethical conceptions became 
grafted upon the economic institutions, and imparted to the latter a 
religious and moral character. 

In Europe the distinction between polygamy and monogamy has been 
invested with transcendent importance. In the writings of the older 
travellers scarcely any feature of non-European societies excites the same 
zealous denunciations as does polygamy; every vice is traced to poly- 
gamy, the head fount of all sexual immorality. This attitude is under- 
standable, for the distinction goes to the root of the sexual code of 
Christian Europe. 

It was a firm belief in the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries that 
polygamy had been invented by ‘Mahomet’, and its prevalence in Africa 



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and in Asia was set down to the influence of Islam. The discovery that 
polygamy existed in the New World was most unpalatable. Efforts were 
made to suppress or minimise the fact; it was given out that representa- 
tive North American peoples, such as the Iroquois and the Hurons, 
were monogamous, or had been so ‘formerly’. 

None of the European arguments against polygyny has any applica- 
tion in the conditions of uncultured society. Early Christian moralists 
who accounted marriage a necessary evil, favoured monogamy as a 
reduction of that evil to a minimum, but chastity and continence are not 
valued for their own sakes in uncultured societies. Monogamy accords 
with the sentiments of exclusive attachment which are assumed in 
European tradition to be the foundations of the union; but in primitive 
societies such a desire is not understood. Polygamy is thought to imply 
disregard for the feelings of women ; but in uncultured societies women 
are the chief upholders of polygamy. 

Absence of Jealousy amongst Women in Polygamous Families 

Much evidence of the absence among primitives of the sexual jealousy 
which moralists assume to be an inherent human trait might be ad- 
duced, but a few examples will suffice. Among Kaffir wives ‘jealousy’, 
says Delegorgue, ‘is unknown, and, far from dreaming of any sentiment 
of the kind, the first wife of a Kaffir will work doubly hard, and to the 
very limit of her strength, in order to acquire enough wealth to enable 
her husband to buy another wife. This second wife, once acquired, is 
bound to the first by bonds of affection for which we have no word in 
our language. Those women are far more intimate than sisters’. Similar 
denials of jealousy are made for the Ashanti and other African tribes, as 
well as for New Guinea, Australia and the Pacific region, as also the 
Eskimo and others. 

In the accounts of travellers, we occasionally come upon references to 
discord among the women in a polygynous family. But bickerings 
between women who live and work together are liable to take place 
whatever their relation to one another; and the occurrence of such 
quarrels is as strong an argument against a multiplicity of servants or 
shop assistants as against a multiplicity of wives. The disputes seem 
mostly to do with economic matters. Women in West Africa, says Miss 
Kingsley, do not care ‘a tinker’s curse’ about the relations of their 
husbands with other women, provided that he does not waste on them 
the cloth, etc., which they regard as their perquisite. If a man pays too 
assiduous attentions to another woman, his wives insist on his marrying 
her, so that she may share in the work of the household as well as in the 
profits. In Australia a wife will sometimes show indignation if her 
husband proposes to introduce into the household a woman older than 



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herself, who might exercise the authority of age over her, but has no 
objection to a younger woman. An Akikuyu woman, speaking to a lady 
missionary, sent the following message to the women of Europe: ‘Tell 
them two things’, she said; ‘one is that we never marry anyone we do 
not want to, and the other is that we like our husband to have as many 
wives as possible.’ 

Delager, writing of the Eskimo, mentions that he once asked a married 
woman why her husband had taken another wife. ‘I asked him myself’, 
she replied, ‘for I am tired of bearing children.’ The same thing has been 
noted among the Koryak, the Chuckchi, the Omahas, the Kirghis 
Tartars, the Ainu and among others. Hausa women encourage their 
husbands to buy more wives because it adds to the respectability of the 
family. Among the Ababua a wife ‘to prove the great affection which 
she feels for her husband will, during his absence on a journey, buy him 
a young and pretty girl whom she presents to him on his return’. 

Polygyny is condemned chiefly on the grounds that it implies an outrage 
on the feelings of women. Without doubt, were polygyny introduced in 
a European country it would offend feminine feelings. But feminine 
jealousy is a product of social conditions ; it is not a cause, but an effect. 
It expresses the woman’s desire not to lose the male whom she wants as 
an economic assistant and protector. It does not refer to the relations of 
the male with other females, so long as they do not constitute a menace 
to the economic association; and in a polygynous family, in primitive 
and uncultured societies, they do not. On the contrary, since primitive 
women are workers, it promotes the object of marriage. 

No Condemnation of Polygamy outside European Countries 

Biologically, polygyny provides the condition for efficient operation of 
the male sexual function, the object of which is to impregnate as many 
females as possible. Among bisexual plants one male serves for the 
impregnation of numerous females. The male palm-tree stands sur- 
rounded by an enormous harem of female plants. Among animals, 
monogamous pairing is, as we have seen, extremely rare and occurs only 
in special circumstances. 

The European objection to polygamy is incomprehensible to uncul- 
tured peoples and is interpreted as a sign of mental degeneration. In- 
deed, polygyny is widely regarded as a moral virtue ; to support as many 
fellow-creatures as possible is not only a mark of wealth but a form of 
philanthropy. The number of a man’s wives is therefore the measure of 
his respectability, not only in savage society but also in the highest non- 
European cultures, as among Muslims and in China. The son of a 
Sherbro chief, being asked how many wives his father had, displayed 
considerable embarrassment, for his family was in somewhat decayed 



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circumstances. He at last admitted that his father had ‘only twelve 
wives’. Where economic conditions render polygamy difficult to achieve, 
it remains, however, the object of ambition. 

Uncultured races vary considerably in the extent to which polygyny 
is practised, but no case is known, outside Christian nations, of a people 
among whom it is morally reprobated. Before the Christian era, the 
terms ‘monogamy’, ‘bigamy’, ‘polygamy’, in the sense in which we use 
them, were unknown. The ‘prohibition’ of polygyny, which was 
alleged to be ‘natural’ and ‘to be met with among all nations in a state of 
refinement’, was actually promulgated for the first time in any part of 
the world in the code of Justinian in the sixth century. 

Limitations of Polygyny 

Tribal custom is sometimes said to impose a limit on the number of 
wives a man may have. Such statements are often couched in terms 
similar to those in which the existence of polygamy is usually admitted 
it is said to be ‘allowed’, ‘authorized’ or ‘tolerated’, but it is unlikely that 
any uncivilized people ever thought to issue such an ‘authorization’. 
To be sure, where women are difficult to obtain, a monopoly of wives 
by any individual is sometimes resented. In some Australian tribes the 
right of a man who is unable to procure a wife to challenge another who 
has several is recognized. Among the Wasania of British East Africa, for 
instance, men are not permitted to marry more than three wives, ‘as it is 
considered that no man is able to provide food, etc., for more than this 
number’. Elsewhere the figure is four (the number prescribed in Islam), 
six or seven. Kings and chiefs, though privileged, are sometimes subject 
to a limit. The number of wives of the king of Ashanti is said to have 
been fixed at 3,333. Among the Jews, kings appear to have been limited 
to forty-eight wives, although the number was commonly exceeded. 
But neither economic necessity nor the natural objection of the majority 
to the monopolizing of available women, appear to have led anywhere 
to the enforcing of monogyny. 

The term ‘polygyny’ is now employed in preference to ‘polygamy’ to 
denote plurality of wives. The usage draws a useful distinction between 
plurality of wives and plurality of husbands, or polyandry. But many 
writers do not make use of the distinction consistently, for they do not 
employ, in opposition to polygyny, the corresponding term ‘mono- 
gyny’, but speak of limitation of marriage to one wife as ‘monogamy’, 
thus conveying a misleading impression. The word ‘monogamy’ not 
only denotes a practice, but also connotes a moral or legal standard 
which precludes anyone having a multiplicity of wives. Statements that 
a given people are ‘monogamous’, or ‘to a large extent monogamous’, 
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monogamists’ (whatever that may mean), are liable to suggest that a 
principle or law enforcing monogamy is recognized among those 
peoples. But monogamy in this sense is not known outside Christian 
nations. People among whom only one man in a hundred has more than 
one wife are no more ‘monogamous’ than those among whom every 
man has six wives. 

Among primitives, to term a people polygynous or monogynous, 
polygamous or monogamous, conveys little concerning the actual extent 
and character of their sex relations. Even in Europe, it has been said, 
monogyny has never existed. The Romans and the Greeks were mono- 
gamous in their marriage institutions, but scarcely monogynous in their 
sex relations. In Abyssinia, among the Christian Shoa, ‘monogamy, it is 
true, is established by the Church, but concubinage is the habitual and 
general custom, the king and his five hundred wives leading the way’. 
In polygamous countries, where a man cannot afford to keep more than 
one wife at a time, he makes up for the unfortunate circumstance by 
frequent changes. ‘The Muslim of small means, who cannot afford to 
marry two or more wives or to purchase slave-girls,’ observes Dr 
Rohlf with special reference to Morocco, ‘compensates himself by 
marrying one woman after another.’ In Egypt, partners were commonly 
changed as often as twenty or thirty times in a couple of years. A 
Bedawi will marry a young woman merely to enjoy her company for a 
few weeks. A Baghdad dyer, who lived in strict monogamy, when he died 
at eighty-five had had 900 wives ! Frequent changes of partners, where 
polygamy is restricted, is equally conspicuous in the lower phases of 
culture. Thus, the Guaycurus and other tribes of the southern Chaco 
usually married only one woman at a time ; but the connections were so 
transitory as to amount to general sexual promiscuity. As Dr Torres 
observes : ‘ “successive polygyny” would be a more accurate designation 
than “monogamy”.’ Many peoples, theoretically classifiable as mono- 
gynous, because in old age they maintain monogynous marriage for 
economic reasons, are actually totally promiscuous — for instance, the 
Nagas, the Sakai forest tribes of Malaya, and the inhabitants of several 
parts of Indonesia and Micronesia. Such ‘monogamy’, of course, affords 
no sort of support to the view that sexual relations were originally 
monogamous. 

The number of wives which a man is able to support is limited by 
economic conditions. ‘The poor man is a monogamist all the world over’, 
says Weule. Frequently the number of children in a family is likewise 
restricted by poverty. In several primitive societies a man is not considered 
justified in rearing more than two or three children; the rest are killed. 

The limitation of polygyny to the point of virtual monogyny is found 
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forest tribes of the Malay Peninsula, Borneo and South America, for 
life is extremely difficult to support in the interior of forests. Such tribes 
have no agriculture and few household industries; game is difficult to 
pursue. In such conditions a number of women cannot contribute more 
to a man’s needs and comforts than can one woman, and each additional 
wife adds a burden to his resources. The position is radically different 
among the Australian aborigines or the Fuegians, for instance. 

The distribution of polygyny among uncultured races appears to be 
governed by economic conditions exclusively. There is no reliable 
evidence to show that the numerical proportion of the sexes plays any 
important part in determining the extent of polygyny. (Estimates as to 
that proportion among uncultured populations are extremely unreliable.) 
Extensive polygyny is possible even where the number of females is 
considerably smaller than that of the men, since in uncultured societies 
females generally marry far earlier than males. 

Estimates as to the extent of polygyny in a given community are 
equally misleading. In any polygamous society most of the men will 
probably be found at any one time to have only one wife, even though 
all of them will later have two or more. A man who begins by having 
one wife before acquiring three or four is no more a monogamist than an 
unmarried man is a celibate. Hence the statements, so commonly made, 
that ‘many men have only one wife’ or that ‘the majority of the men are 
monogamists’ are quite misleading. 

The expansion of Western civilization has enormously reduced poly- 
gamy in every part of the world and in every phase of culture. Papuan 
savages now have ‘an exaggerated idea of the wickedness of polygamy’; 
and African negroes ‘call the ancestors of the tribe “polygamists” as if it 
were a swear-word’. In India, among wealthy Hindus, in northern 
China and Egypt, monogamy is becoming respectable, and in Turkey 
has been made the rule. This is by no means due solely to the influence 
of European opinion and of missionaries. The complete change in 
economic conditions brought about by European expansion has been an 
even more potent factor. The rise in the cost of living and of luxury has 
rendered impossible the harems of mediaeval pashas. The higher 
uncultured races are no longer dependent upon household industry, but 
on European products paid for with the wages of male labour; and in 
some parts of Africa those conditions have tended to abolish not only 
polygamy but marriage. The most remote tribes, in the lowest phases of 
culture, are no less affected. Their hunting-grounds have shrunk, their 
life has become one of squalor. Among the American tribes of Canada 
polygyny decreased within a few years of the first white settlements. 
Nowhere do the conditions in which native tribes are found by the 
traveller at the present day represent their natural state. 



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Alleged Instances of Primitive Monogamous Institutions 
The extent to which monogynous marriage occurs as a general usage 
amongst uncultured peoples has been greatly exaggerated. Actually no 
uncivilized people is known with certainty to have monogamous institu- 
tions. In view of the prevalent misconceptions on the subject, we shall 
examine a few of the statements on this topic, particularly those of Dr 
Westermarck, which have been very frequently quoted without inquiry . 1 

Thus, among the Guarani tribes, according to Dr Westermarck, 
‘chiefs alone are allowed to have more than one wife’. The statement is 
given on the authority of Father Charlevoix, who actually is specifically 
referring to Christianized Indians. Westermarck adds a reference to 
Father Hernandez. What Father Hernandez actually has to say con- 
cerning the monogamy of the Guarani is as follows: ‘The Guarani 
family, in their state of heathenism, suffered from a fundamental defect, 
for polygyny reigned amongst them, and they thus violated the natural 
law which is the basis of marriage.’ Father Ruiz de Montoya loudly 
laments the unrestricted polygamy of the Guaranis; some of them had 
as many as thirty wives. D’Orbigny says : ‘The customs of the Guaranis 
are almost identical in all sections of the race. ... All of them practice 
polygamy.’ 

Among some of the forest tribes of the upper reaches of the Amazon 
basin, polygamy is reported to be rare or confined to the chiefs. Mr 
Whiffen, to whom Dr Westermarck refers, and who in turn refers to 
Dr Westermarck for theories of primitive monogamy, says that in some 
tribelets south of the Tikie, chiefs have no more than one wife, but adds 
the curious statement that ‘it is extremely hard to distinguish at first 
between wives, concubines, and “attached wives”.’ 

Dr Westermarck mentions by name eleven South American tribes as 
being, without qualification, ‘monogamous’; to wit, the Guaycurus, 
Canellas, Shamboia, Paressi, Chavantes, Curetus, Purupurus, Mun- 
drucus, Otomacos, Ackawoi and Macusi. But in eight of these cases 
travellers have reported polygamous practices. For instance, the poly- 
gamy of the Mundrucus was the chief obstacle met with by the Jesuit 
missionaires ; their converts absolutely refused to give it up. Father 
Ignace says that ‘the Mundrucus had for principle that it was licit to 
have as many wives as their husband was capable of maintaining’. Bates 
found the Mundrucus polygamous. We are therefore justified in regard- 
ing with some reserve Wallace’s repetition of the same statement with 

1 In the revised edition of his work. Dr Westermarck has modified his former 
statements and eliminated several examples formerly adduced as evidence of 
‘primitive monogamy.’ Thus, for example, the Iroquois were formerly 
represented as ‘purely monogamous,’ and were repeatedly appealed to as a 
conspicuous instance, statements now entirely withdrawn. 



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reference to the Curctus and the Purupurus, of whom he says that he 
never saw any and that ‘little is known of their domestic customs’. No 
existing tribe is known by the name of Purupurus. According to Chand- 
less, polygamy is practised by the chiefs among all the tribes of the Purus 
river; among the Ipurinas it is general. Von Spix and Martius did not 
form a high opinion of the sexual customs of the Curetus, who pressed 
their daughters on the travellers. 

Father Gumilla is the source for the assertion that the Otomacs are 
wholly monogamous, but Baron Humboldt, who obtained full informa- 
tion from the missionaries living amongst them, speaks very dis- 
paragingly of Father Gumilla’s account and says that ‘all the Indians 
who will not be baptized live in a state of polygamy’. Father Gilii con- 
firms this. Azara saw one of the last representatives of the Guaycurus : 
he was living with three wives. 

In no instance is the alleged monogamy of any of those South 
American tribes established with anything like certainty. It is striking 
that an authenticated instance of a monogynous tribe should be so 
difficult to find where the aboriginal population has been broken up into 
innumerable warring tribelets and on the verge of starvation and extinc- 
tion, conditions in which we might well expect to find monogyny. 
Many of the poorer tribelets consist of scarcely more than three families. 
When, in such tribelets polygyny is said to be confined to the headman, 
this represents a greater proportion of polygyny than is to be found in 
any Muhammedan country. 

Again the Guanches of the Canary Islands are very generally described 
in modem accounts (including Westermarck’s) as having been mono- 
gamous. The source of those statements is probably the work of Father 
Abreu de Galindo, who wrote towards the middle of the seventeenth 
century, when any surviving remnants of the Guanche race were 
Christians. His account is extremely edifying, but contradicts all the 
older accounts. Friar de Espinosa, who dwelt many years in the Gu- 
anche community of Candelaria, states that the Guanches ‘had as many 
wives as they pleased and could support’. Gomara, Sir Edmund Scory, 
Galvano, Cadamosto and Bemaldez all confirm this. 

The monogamy ascribed to some Berber tribes meagrely offsets the 
polygamy prevalent throughout Africa. Thus the Tuareg have several 
times been stated to be ‘strictly monogamous’. But, if correct, the state- 
ment can apply to some of the north-western tribes only, for in the 
southern and eastern Sahara, the Tuareg ‘usually have from two to four 
wives’. The monogamy of the northern Tuareg has been supposed to be 
a relic of their former Christianity. If so, it was certainly an innovation. 
‘Among the Numidians and the Moors,’ Sallust tells us, ‘each man 
marries according to his means as many wives as he can; some two, 



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others more, and the kings many more.’ The nomadic Tuareg commonly 
have establishments in the various villages which they visit; hence the 
appearance of monogamous households which has so often deceived 
travellers ; in any case, they keep concubines in addition. Many do not 
marry at all, and are satisfied with a harem of purchased girls. 

The western Sahara, or Moroccan region is, with the exception of a 
few patches, a land of extreme poverty. The men are haggard with 
hunger, and whole populations are decimated by famine. In such condi- 
tions it would be surprising if large households were common. Never- 
theless, there is little definite evidence of general monogyny, except for 
a few communities, such as the Dads of the lower Atlas, and polygamy 
is found in every district. Dr Westermarck cites Chavannc, who refers 
to Vincent as stating that he ‘did not meet a single man who had a 
plurality of wives’. Dr Rohlfs met one at Tafilet, in the heart of the 
same region, who had three hundred; and Mr W. B. Harris, who per- 
haps knows that region better than any other Englishman, speaks of the 
harems and of the large polygamous households and slave-girls of the 
Sharifian families. 

From India, Dr. Westermarck has not succeeded in culling a dozen 
instances of tribes alleged to be monogynous. Among these are the 
Khasis. ‘The practice of polygamy’, says Mr Gait, ‘is usually said to be 
uncommon amongst them’; but he adds: ‘an educated Khasi whom I 
consulted assures me that polygamy is by no means unknown. It was 
formerly considered meritorious for a Khasi to beget offspring by differ- 
ent wives.’ Among the Nagas, who are also alleged to be monogamous, 
‘polygamy is very common, and is limited only by the men’s resources’. 
The Mikirs, who are cited by Dr Westermarck as monogamous, are 
expressly stated by Mr Stack to be polygamous. It is noteworthy that 
polygamy in India is characteristic of the more primitive rather than of 
the more advanced races. In southern India, the most ancient aboriginal 
inhabitants are supposed to be the Yenadie, Villee and Vede; they are 
polygamous. 

‘The early discoverers of the Philippines’, says Dr Westermarck, 
‘found legal monogamy combined with concubinage.’ What the early 
discoverers of the Philippines found, according to one of the oldest 
accounts, was that the natives ‘marry as many wives as they can afford to 
keep’; what Magellan found was that ‘they have as many wives as they 
wish’; what de Legazpi found was that ‘the men are permitted to have 
two or three wives if they have money enough to buy and support 
them’. What the discoverers found in the Bisayan, or Middle Islands, 
was that ‘all the men are accustomed to have as many wives as they can 
support. The women are extremely lewd, and they even encourage their 
own daughters to live a life of unchastity’. Father Chirino assures us 



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that ‘we are gradually uprooting that hindrance to conversion so com- 
mon among those people and so difficult to remove, the practice of 
having several wives’. Dr Westermarck’s remarks concerning the 
Subanu, the Italons, the Tinguianes, the Tagbanuas of Palawan and the 
Negritos of the Philippines are equally ill-supported. 

The Igorots of Luzon have been specially instanced as an example of 
‘primitive monogamy’, and also of a ‘lofty ideal of chastity’. Various 
authorities contradict this, and the missionaries expressly denounced 
the polygynous habits of the Igorots. ‘In case of adultery’, says Dr 
Westcrmarck, ‘the guilty party can be compelled to leave the hut and 
the family for ever.’ Dr Jenks says that there is no tribal law against 
adultery, and that married men commonly frequent the ‘olags’ of the 
unmarried girls who solicit them. 

We have seen that the ‘primitive chastity’ which has been ascribed to 
the forest tribes of the interior of the Malay Peninsula is as imaginary as 
that alleged of the Igorots. Among the Mantras (a tribe of the Jakuns) 
polygyny. Dr Westermarck tells us, ‘is said to be forbidden’. ‘It is 
nothing rare’, says Father Bourien, ‘to meet individuals who have been 
married fifty times’; and, in spite of the alleged prohibition, some 
nevertheless live in simultaneous polygamy. ‘Most of the Binua, 
according to Logan’, says Dr. Westermarck, ‘have only one wife’, but 
what Logan actually stated was : ‘Most of the Binuas have only one wife, 
but some have two, and there does not appear to be any rule on the sub- 
ject’; and he adds that separation is easy, that husbands commonly ex- 
change wives, and that adultery is frequent and unresented. 

‘The Central African pygmies’, says Dr Westermarck, ‘seem to be 
mostly monogamous . . Mgr Le Roy, who is perhaps one of the most 
competent authorities on the Central African Pygmies, says that 
‘polygamy is not condemned among them; on the contrary, if it is not 
universal, it is because it is not always possible’. Sir Harry Johnston 
says of the pygmies of the Tanganyika region: ‘According to the evi- 
dence which I have myself collected, they seem to approach very near to 
promiscuity, and even incest, in their marital relations.’ Similarly, the 
Bushmen have as many wives as they can afford, despite Dr Theal’s 
assertion that they are monogamous. 

Dr Westermarck has not been able to discover any suggestion of 
monogamy in Polynesia or in Melanesia. The Rev. W. Y. Turner 
received the impression that the natives of Motu were monogamous, 
but subsequently discovered that, in addition to the wives with whom 
they happened to be living, the men had other wives in the next 
village. 

Nowhere among the Australian aborigines is there even a tendency 
towards monogyny. ‘Polygamy to the fullest extent is an Australian 



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institution 5 . Dr. Wcstermarck says that Mr Curr ‘has discovered some 
truly monogamous tribes’. But nobody else has, and Dr Malinowski 
contradicts him, saying ‘polygyny seems to be found in all the 
tribes’. 

The customs of the now extinct Tasmanians appear to have been 
practically identical with those of the Australian aborigines. ‘Plurality 
of wives was the universal law among them’, says Mr Lloyd. 

It would be difficult for any hypothesis to be so uniformly and directly 
in contradiction with the facts than the theological doctrine of primitive 
monogamy. ‘The evidence’, say Messrs Hobhouse, Wheeler and Gins- 
berg, summing up their collection of reports, ‘does not make for the 
association of monogamy with the lowest culture, but only of monogyny 
with one particular form of that culture (the forest tribes), and that only 
partially’. Their extensive tables, though containing several disputable 
entries and open to certain criticisms, exhibit the general distribution of 
polygyny very well. The factors which are supposed to make for mono- 
gamy, the authors observe, ‘in every grade, when considered as a whole, 
are seen to be overborne by the opposite forces making for polygamy’. 
The number of a man’s wives reach as a maximum in pastoral societies, 
which are invariably polygamous. 

While polygamy is everywhere disappearing with the advent of more 
complex economic conditions, there is no reliable instance of a people 
among whom monogamy was once the rule having adopted polygamy. 
Most allegations that a given people were ‘formerly’ monogamous, such as 
that of Father Charlevoix concerning the Hurons, or of Major Cremony’s 
concerning the Apaches, are manifestly destitute of significance. When- 
ever it is stated on more solid grounds that a change from monogamous 
to polygynous marriage customs has taken place among a given people 
it will be found, I think invariably, that their earlier condition was one 
of unrestricted relations within the permissible degrees. 

Thus, Wcstermarck mentions the Alfurs of the Minahassa peninsula 
of North Celebes as having formerly been monogamous ; and he might 
have mentioned a much more authoritative statement of Professor 
Wilken to the same effect concerning the Alfurs of Buru. But the coastal 
tribes of the Alfurs are certainly not their primitive state. There are, 
however, several examples of tribes of the same race which have re- 
mained isolated from external influences. Their ‘monogamy’ bears little 
resemblance to what we understand by monogamous relations. Thus 
Heer Sachs admits with reluctance that he was unable to discover among 
the Alfurs of the interior district of Setie, in Ceram, anything that can be 
properly termed marriage. ‘They live in a state of free love. The woman 
keeps company with the man of her choice for such length of time as it 
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Status of Different Wives in Polygynous Families 

The women in a polygynous family are often spoken of in reports as 
‘concubines’, with the exception of the one first married. Actually, the 
distinction between wives and concubines belongs in general to ad- 
vanced stages of society, although some war-like tribes draw a distinc- 
tion between captured female slaves and wives of their own nation. In 
some uncultured societies one wife (not invariably the one first married), 
is referred to as the ‘chief wife’. It has been suggested that in such cases 
the ‘chief wife’ is in reality the only ‘real’ wife, and that the others are 
little better than ‘concubines’, thus implying that such marriages, 
although in appearance polygamous, are theoretically monogamous. 
But it can be shown that development has commonly taken place in the 
opposite direction. Where the wives are sisters, the eldest sister natur- 
ally exercises over the younger ones a certain authority and enjoys a 
certain precedence, which would be the same whether they were mar- 
ried or not; and an older woman usually has the privileges of seniority. 
But these distinctions are different from that between the ‘chief wife’ 
and other wives which is found in some societies, and which observers 
are prone to detect in uncultured peoples, among whom it is very rare. 

Reliable reports from all over the world stress the complete equality 
of wives. The wife who is spoken of as the ‘chief wife’ is very frequently 
merely the favourite for the time being, and very often the last married. 
Thus among the Sioux, the oldest wife, being generally the eldest 
sister, enjoyed a certain precedence; but the one who was last married 
had an equal status. Among the Chukchi, and the Eleut Tartars an old 
wife is deposed and becomes the servant of the younger ones, or is 
driven from the home. 

Distinctions between the various wives are found chiefly in Africa 
and Asia. Nevertheless, wives are on the same footing among the 
Central African pygmies, the Congo tribes, in Angola and Abyssinia, 
among the Banaka and Bafuku of the Cameroons, etc. 

In Africa the term ‘chief wife’ commonly refers to the distribution of 
agricultural duties among the wives. A ‘chief wife’ is needed to direct 
the work of the others, like a foreman. In Senegambia, if the ‘chief wife’ 
proves incompetent, her position is given to another wife. Among the 
tribes of British Central Africa, a man may change his ‘chief wife’ 
whenever he thinks fit. Frequently, when a man possesses extensive 
fields, he has to appoint several ‘chief wives’. Among the Medge, when 
a man’s wives become too numerous to live in one hut, he divides his 
establishment, appointing a ‘chief wife’ for each group. Such practices 
are scarcely indicative of monogyny. 

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between a ‘chief wife’ and the other wives may have a real juridic sig- 
nificance; and one which has an important bearing upon the develop- 
ment of monogamic institutions. A woman of higher social rank natur- 
ally enjoys a superior status; such status is independent of whether she 
has been married before or after other wives and of the husband’s 
predilections. Among the Binjhalsa of Bengal a man is bound to take a 
new wife when he succeeds to the rank of ‘zemindar’, or landowner, 
even though he is already married ; the new wife is the ‘pat rami’, or 
‘principal wife’. The social rank of a man’s first wife, who is usually 
selected for him by his relatives, is regarded as of the highest impor- 
tance. It is obvious that the trouble and expense of securing a wife of 
suitable social qualifications can rarely be undertaken more than once. 
Hence it is a general rule that such social and mercenary considerations 
are taken into account in regard to a man’s first wife only. These require- 
ments once satisfied, a man must, as a rule, be content to select his sub- 
sequent wives by such less reputable considerations as love, youth, 
beauty and industry. The position of a man’s first wife is thus often, 
quite apart from any relative status bestowed upon her by her marriage, 
socially superior to that of his subsequent acquisitions. 

These considerations acquire an enormously enhanced importance, 
when, as in many advanced societies and in early patriarchal societies, 
the paramount consideration comes to be the breeding of legitimate 
heirs. A ‘legitimate’ wife is primarily a wife who can give birth to a 
‘legitimate’ heir. It is the legitimacy of the heir which makes the wife 
‘legitimate’; a wife who is barren is not regarded as legitimate, and can 
in all lower cultures be divorced. Sometimes — as, for instance, among 
the Maori — when no distinction of social rank exists between the wives, 
the ‘chief wife’ is she who first gives birth to an heir. Where primitive 
tribal organization is still strong but is passing from a matriarchal to a 
patriarchal order, a ‘legitimate’ child means a child which belongs to his 
father’s and not to his mother’s clan; the breeding of illegitimate chil- 
dren in this sense defeats the main object of procreation, the increase of 
the tribe and its perpetuation. The breeding of such ‘illegitimate’ 
children is consequently as great an offence against patriarchal society as 
the transference of women to another tribe is against matriarchal society. 

Islam condemned the once-common free contract between a man and 
woman, known as ‘al-motah’, because it gave the man no offspring that 
could be reckoned to his tribe and not to the tribe of the mother. 

One of the merits of polygyny in the eyes of uncultured peoples is that 
it increases the number of a man’s progeny. But where the transmission 
of private property becomes an important consideration, it is incon- 
venient to have numerous heirs, and the bulk of the property, or the 
whole, is sometimes transmitted to the children of the ‘chief wife’ only. 



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In such conditions — and they are the conditions of settled agricultural 
society — what is desirable is not a large progeny but an heir, and what is 
required is not a large number of legitimate wives but one legitimate 
wife. That other wives should be ‘legitimate’ is not only of no impor- 
tance but is positively undesirable. 

Obviously, the distinction in rank between the mother of the legiti- 
mate heir and other wives must become more sharply pronounced as 
private property grows more important. This differentiation will be 
accentuated by the reluctance of self-respecting families to allow their 
daughters to occupy an ever more disreputable and ‘illegitimate’ posi- 
tion. 

In settled civilized society, the wife thus acquires an entirely new 
function. Whereas among primitive people she is primarily an economic 
associate, a provider of food, a labourer, and thus the chief source of 
wealth, in pastoral and higher agricultural civilization, only her sexual 
value is left. This sexual value consists in her attractiveness, in her 
function as an instrument of pleasure; the beauty of idle women is 
cultivated, and they are gathered together in large harems. Settled 
agricultural civilization bestows upon woman a new function and a new 
sexual value — that of legitimate wife, of mother of legitimate heirs to 
property. 

The contrast which we have noted between pastoral and purely 
agricultural societies is thus accentuated. Pastoral property is readily 
subdivided and multiplies ; the importance of transmitting undivided to 
one or a few heirs is not pressing. Essentially pastoral peoples, such as 
the Semites and the Arias of Asia, have in general retained their pastoral 
traditions with extreme conservatism. Yet, even here the acquisition of 
other forms of property has tended to reduce the extent of polygyny. In 
India, in like manner, polygamy has tended to become restricted. 
Modem economic conditions, together with the pressure of European 
opinion, are converting the polygamous institutions of the East into 
virtual monogamy. 

Polygamy and its Decay amongst the Jews 

An evolution similar to that now taking place in the Orient took place 
under the Roman Empire among the Jews. Like all other Semitic 
peoples, the Jews were polygamous; the harems of Jewish kings were 
vaunted for their exuberance (Genesis iv. 19; Judges, viii. 30; etc.). 
Nowhere in the fastidious Jewish law is there any condemnation of 
polygamy. Hebrew Law assumed polygamy. Among later Talmudist 
doctors opinion varies : some recommended that a man should not have 
more than four wives ; others thought he might have as many as he could 
afford. Moses Maimonides said: Tt is lawful for a man to marry as 



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many wives as he pleases, even to a hundred, either simultaneously or 
successively/ In Italy as late as the sixteenth century a Jew who had 
had no children by his wife married another, a formal dispensation for 
the bigamy being obtained from the Catholic Church. In Spain, Jews 
were polygamous as late as the fourteenth century, and still are so in 
some polygamous countries. The first pronouncement against polygamy 
among the Jews was made in the eleventh century at Worms, but was a 
merely local resolution. Since no law has ever existed against polygamy 
among the Jews, should a Jew in England at the present time contract a 
bigamous marriage, it could not be dissolved according to Jewish law 
without a formal divorce. 

The object of Jewish marriage, as of all marriage in a settled order, 
was to obtain a male heir; hence, as in lower cultures, a barren wife 
might be divorced, or she might evade this by supplying another wife — 
for instance, one of her slave-girls. The offspring, of course, was 
accounted the son and heir of the husband. A male child was accounted 
the son of the chief wife, no matter who was the actual mother. Hence, 
respectable families became unwilling to sell their daughters except as 
‘legal’ wives. 

The Oriental Harem 

The undignified status of secondary wives depends upon the accentua- 
tion of the distinction between them and the principal wife, and not on 
the fact of polygyny. In the most highly developed juridical polygamous 
families, such as those of the Muslim world, where the distinction of 
wives has no juridic significance, the position of women is very far from 
being one of degradation. Popular Western notions concerning the 
Oriental harem are, of course, little more than a tissue of myths. 

Competent persons agree that the position of women in Turkey is, 
and was, actually higher, freer and juridically superior to that of women 
in Western Europe. T think I never saw a country’, said Lady Craven 
over a hundred years ago, ‘where women enjoy so much liberty and are 
freer from all reproach as in Turkey.’ The Turkish woman is free to go 
and come as she pleases; she spends most of the day out of doors, 
usually absents herself for the night when visiting some friend, and is 
never called to account for the way she spends her time. From a juridic 
point of view, the position of Turkish women is certainly much higher 
than that of English women before the passing of the Married Women’s 
Property Act . 1 A Turkish woman has equal rights of inheritance with 
her brothers. She has the uncontrolled disposal of her own wealth and 
property, and can inherit property without the intervention of trustees. 

1 Briffault is, of course, speaking of Turkey before the reforms of Ataturk. 
G.R.T. 



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224 

She can sue, or be sued, independently of her husband, and also sue, 
or be sued, by him. Although freedom of divorce is ostensibly greater 
on the part of the husband, yet the wife can obtain it without difficulty. 

The Oriental woman enjoys, as a rule, more consideration and more 
deference from her husband than the average European wife. The great 
difference lies, of course, in the complete segregation of the sexes and 
consequent absence of intersexual social intercourse. This is not an Arab 
or an Islamic institution, but was introduced into Islam from Persia, 
where it had been customary from remotest antiquity. The Persian 
harem — the word means ‘sanctuary’ — derives not from any degraded 
status of women, but from the almost superstitious reverence with 
which they were regarded. All records bear witness to the high position 
of women in ancient Persia, a position which amounted to gynaxocratic 
domination. A man might not even sit down in the presence of his 
mother without her permission. The original harem was in all prob- 
ability the matriarchal home of the mother, with whom her children 
remained, the father being excluded from even seeing them until they 
were five years old. ‘The harem’, says von Hammer, ‘is prohibited to 
strangers not because women are considered unworthy of confidence, 
but on account of the sacredness with which customs and manners 
invest them.’ 

Much of that predominant position persists in Persia at the present 
day. As in Turkey, there is in fact very little real seclusion of women in 
Persia. Every woman goes as a matter of religious duty, each day to the 
‘hammam’ or bath ; and this is a sort of club where she meets her friends 
and usually spends seven or eight hours. The position of women in 
Persia is indicated by the form of the marriage ceremony: the woman 
places her right hand over that of her husband ‘to show that she ought 
always to have the upper hand of her spouse’. 

Inevitably, the harem has at times degenerated into an instrument of 
male domination ; and seclusion has undoubtedly narrowed the mental 
outlook of the Arab women, formerly conspicuous for her achievements. 
But this atrophy has been greatly exaggerated. The frivolity and mental 
undevelopment of the harem woman is not in general greater than with 
many women of fashion in Europe. While the aristocratic lady cultivates 
such arts as embroidery, many of the Persian middle-class women are 
highly educated according to Oriental ideas. They read, and often write 
poetry; they sing, play and do plain and fancy needlework. The wife is 
consulted in all things to a much greater extent than is the case in Europe. 

In the Oriental polygynous family, although there is a ‘chief wife’, 
there is no real social or legal distinction of rank between the several 
wives. Indeed, it is a current Islamic doctrine that the True Believer 
who displays any partiality for one wife above the others will incur a 



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special punishment at the Day of Judgment. There is no juridic distinc- 
tion whatever between the children; every woman who bears a child 
becomes thereby the legal wife of the father. There are consequently no 
illegitimate children in T urkey. If the man has already four wives, the 
woman becomes an odalisque, but her children have the same rank and 
rights as the children of the ‘chief wife’. If the woman is a slave, 
motherhood makes her a free woman. 

The evolution from polygamy to monogamy has been completed 
among the Osmanli Turks in our own day — not by reduction in the 
number of ‘legal’ wives, but by the gradual elimination of concubines. 

Marriage and the Position of Women in China 

In China, in contrast, the differentiation between the chief wife and 
other wives became so complete as to constitute juridic monogamy, 
while the Chinese woman gradually sank in status to perhaps the most 
depressed level found in any cultured society. 

Chinese marriage institutions are virtually identical with those of the 
Mongols and Turkis of Central Asia. The same elaborate ceremonials 
involving ‘go-betweens’ arc found in both ; and the fact that these cus- 
toms are regarded as immemorial institutions among the remotest 
tribes precludes the supposition that they were adopted from the 
Chinese. Among all Mongols, the same verbal distinction is made 
between the ‘great’ wife, or ‘tsi’, the ‘little wives’, or ‘tsie’, and ‘concu- 
bines’, and has practically the same significance as in China. The 
Mongols are frankly polygamous ; yet such is the emphasis laid upon the 
position of the ‘great wife’ that they regard themselves as monogamous. 
The children of the ‘little wives’ have no legal right to a share in the 
inheritance, though they may be given one. Among the ruder Western 
Mongols we find the same situation; but, according to an early eigh- 
teenth-century account, the significance of the distinction between 
‘great wife’ and ‘little wives’ and concubines was then very much looser. 
‘It is a constant rule among the Tartars, who look for nothing but youth 
in their wives, to give over lying with them when they draw near forty 
years, reckoning them no more than old housewives, to whom they give 
their victuals for taking care of the house and tending the young wives 
who may occupy their place in their master’s bed.’ Thus, the hierarchical 
distinction, so important in China, can scarcely be said to exist; the 
‘great wife’ is merely, as in many African families, the favourite wife for 
the time being. Among the Kirghis the conditions are much the same. 
Among the Mongol Khans the legal distinctions up to the twelfth cen- 
tury were exactly similar to those noted among the Eleuts and the Kir- 
ghis. But no indignity whatever attached to the status of ‘little wife’. 
Powerful khans gave their daughters in marriage to other khans irre- 
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spectivc of whether they went as ‘great wives’ or as ‘little wives’. 
Jinghis Khan had over 500 wives and concubines, and all his wives were 
daughters of khans. His first wife was termed the ‘mother of his sons’; 
his second wife was the daughter of the Emperor of the Manchus. Even 
children by concubines were regarded as perfectly legitimate, those of 
the legitimate wives merely taking precedence over them in the order 
of succession — though they could also inherit. 

The usages of the ancient Chinese chieftains were identical with those 
of other Tartar khans, and it was common practice to marry two sisters 
or two cousins. Polygamy is the law of the land and is by no means 
confined to the well-to-do. Marriages of ‘little wives’ are performed 
with the same pomp and solemnity as with the ‘great wife’; and they are 
officially presented to friends and relatives. The distinction between 
‘great’ and ‘little’ wives is a purely juridic one, intended to preserve the 
unity of the inheritance. Hence ‘little wives’ cannot inherit, although 
their children, who bear their father’s name, do so under the legal fiction 
that they are the children of the ‘great wife’, married with the assent of 
the ‘great wife’, and frequently at her request. 

Marriage becomes indissoluble after the first three years. The union 
is contracted not only for this world but for the next. Formerly the wives 
of the emperor were killed at his funeral, as in Africa. Until lately a 
widow was expected to commit suicide on the death of her husband. It 
was, and is still, the correct thing for the announcement of her suicide 
to appear in the papers beside the death-notice. A widow may not marry 
again, nor may she return to her own family. 

The position of women in China was, as we saw, formerly much 
higher and freer. Among Mongol tribes, both eastern and western, it is 
one of considerable independence and influence. ‘In the household’, 
says Prejevalsky, ‘the rights of the wife are nearly equal to those of the 
husband’; and the latter is sometimes positively henpecked. Women 
have the right of divorce. Tartar ladies are viragoes, who may sometimes 
be seen pursuing a terrified husband with a whip. Throughout Tartar 
society the mother occupies a position hedged about with reverence and 
awe. Even the redoubtable Jinghis Khan, the ‘scourge of Asia’, ‘the 
conqueror of the Universe’, quailed before his mother and was compelled 
by her to alter his policy. 

In historical and modem China, on the other hand, the status of 
women is abject; according to the Confucian dictum: ‘The woman 
obeys the man: in her youth she obeys her father and her elder brother; 
when she marries she obeys her husband; when her husband is dead she 
obeys her son.’ The education of a girl, according to the rules of the ‘Li 
Ki’, consists in learning to spin and to be submissive, docile and 
obedient; a boy is taught to speak boldly and clearly, a girl submissively 



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and low. A woman may be divorced because she is too talkative. 
‘Ignorance and retirement are proper to a woman/ Most Chinese 
women are illiterate. In the olden days, exceptions were common in 
mandarin families. The most famous is Pan-Hoi-Pan, who wrote a 
celebrated treatise on the duties of women. ‘We occupy’, she says, ‘the 
last place in the human species, we are the weaker part of humanity; the 
basest functions are, and should be, our portion.’ She proceeds in the 
same strain through seven learned chapters, citing authorities. From the 
age of seven the seclusion of Chinese women is absolute. Up to the 
seventh century women were veiled. Married women go out only in a 
sedan-chair with the blinds drawn — though women of the highest rank, 
when attended by a numerous train, have the blinds drawn up. At the 
present day [1927] if a woman or a girl should be seen in the open street, 
she is subjected to obscene remarks. In the house, it would be the 
grossest insult for a visitor to inquire after his host’s wife. A woman may 
not eat with her husband or with her son, and she may not even remove 
the dishes from which they have eaten, for her touch would defile them. 
When a man entertains friends in his house and female company is 
desired, courtesans are called in. 

It is not surprising that societies have frequently been formed of girls 
who are sworn to celibacy, and who vow to kill themselves rather than 
accept marriage except on purely matrilocal terms. ‘It is not an un- 
common thing’, says Mr Dyer Ball, ‘to read of girls in various parts of 
China committing suicide rather than be forced into marriage.’ 

Chinese marriage has nothing whatever to do with affections or 
sexual relations. It is regarded as a duty for the perpetuation of the 
family and the transmission of property. It is usually entered into as 
late as possible. 

In Korea, marriage customs are identical with those of China. The 
marriage relationship is briefly summarized in the remark of a Korean 
gentleman: ‘We marry our wives, but we love our concubines.’ 

As a consequence, the professional courtesan has attained the highest 
degree of development. There are various different classes of ‘daughters 
of flowers’ as they are called. ‘One must not confound the accomplished 
and learned Chinese courtesans’, says M. Bazin, ‘with those who 
“publicly display their smiles”, as the Chinese poets have it, and run 
after pleasure.’ She must be proficient notably in music, dancing, history 
and philosophy, but must also be able to write the tao-te-king characters 
of the book which contains the doctrine of the philosopher Lao-tse. 
When thus qualified, she becomes a “free woman”. She is emancipated 
,/rom the duties of her sex, and may well account herself superior to the 
legal concubine and the legitimate wife. Many Chinamen of the better 
class marry such women, who become devoted wives. 



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Greek Marriage 

The evolution of marriage in China is of interest because of its striking 
similarity to conditions in ancient Greece. The early Greeks were polygy- 
nous. In Homer and the tragic poets, the Trojans are represented as having 
legal wives, the Greeks as having ‘concubines’. Polygamy was the rule in 
Troy. Priam had many honoured wives; the progeny of Antenor, wisest 
of the Trojans, was brought up by his chief wife, Theano, with her own 
children; Andromache even suckled the children of Hector’s other wives. 

The households of the Greek chieftains are described as abounding in 
‘concubines’, but no great weight can be attached to the distinction: 
Thesaeus is expressly mentioned as having married his several wives ‘in 
legal marriage’. Even in historical times Dionysius of Syracuse had two 
legal wives and Philip of Macedon had numerous legal wives, many of 
whom were princesses. 

There was a very good reason why, in archaic Greece, secondary 
wives should have fallen to a subordinate status, and why one wife only 
should have come to be regarded as ‘legitimate’. It was the princess 
whom a chieftain married who bestowed upon him rights to the throne 
and to her possessions ; even Agamemnon only held his throne through 
his wife’s rights. It would, obviously, have been impossible to have 
more than one such wife. The wife proper did not resent the presence of 
concubines provided that they were of lower rank. 

In historical Greece, polygamy was never prohibited, and there is no 
reference in Greek literature to its being regarded as immoral; it was 
merely looked upon as a non- Hellenic custom. Indeed, during the 
Peloponnesian war, when Athens was depopulated by plague and 
casualties, bigamy was enjoined by law. The Greeks were not at all 
eager to marry. In his poem, ‘Works and Days’, Hesiod offers much 
Polonius-like advice to his younger brother, Perses, and counsels him to 
settle down to the quiet rustic life of a small farmer : he should procure a 
house and allotment, a ploughing-ox, and also ‘a woman, purchased, not 
wedded’. Above all, he warns him against the enticements of a woman 
‘with waggling rump’ that should ‘seek after his home’. Marry some day 
he certainly should, but not until he has reached a mature age, at least 
thirty. It is also advisable that he should marry a virgin, ‘so that you may 
teach her chaste morals’. 

In Greece, as in China, marriage was a purely juridic procedure of 
which the object was that ‘the heritage should not be left desolate and 
the name cut off’. In lieu of the right to the chieftainship and lands which 
heiresses bestowed in archaic times, the Athenians offered a dowry as an 
inducement. Medea, in Euripides, complains that ‘We have to buy our- 
selves husbands at great cost.’ 



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Between the dowry and the bride-price there is a developmental 
difference. When property accumulates in the hands of men, they will 
use it to ‘purchase’ wives ; when it remains in the hands of women, they 
will ‘purchase’ husbands. The former, as we have seen, occurs in 
pastoral societies, such as the Arabs, the Jews, the Indian Aryans and the 
Tartars; the latter where arable land is the chief form of property, and 
the society is still matriarchal. This is precisely what we find in regard 
to the transmission of princely inheritance in archaic Greece. It was 
transmitted in the female line ; and the sons of princes went forth from 
their home to marry princesses in order to obtain princely rights. 
Accordingly, the ‘dowry’ remained throughout the social history of 
Greece the pivot of legal marriage. 

In historical times the position of the Greek wife was identical with 
that of the Chinese wife. She received no education beyond being 
taught by her mother to spin, to weave and to cook. She was ‘not allowed 
to see, hear or ask anything more than was absolutely necessary’. She 
should not appear when her husband had invited guests, nor should she 
appear in public. Theban women were forbidden to walk in the street. 
No woman could inherit property; an ‘heiress’ did not herself inherit 
property, but had, on the contrary, to be inherited; the property lay 
fallow so long as the woman had no guardian or owner. When a man 
died his property might go to the most distant male relative but never 
to his wife, who had to return to her own people. In fact, a woman 
never really became part of her husband’s family; Greek marriage 
remained juridically matrilocal; even after marriage, a woman remained 
under the guardianship of her father. On the other hand, a man might 
transfer his wife to a friend. 

Greek marriage had no connection with love. Ottfried Muller 
knew of no instance of the marriage of a free-born Greek woman 
for love. Indeed, marriage and love were regarded as quite opposed. In 
a play of Terence (a translation from the Greek) the lovers lament 
that they are going to be married: ‘Every lover feels it to be a sad 
grievance that a wife should be assigned to him.’ Aristotle, endeav- 
ouring to put marriage in the most favourable light, speaks of friend- 
ship growing up between husband and wife ; neither he nor any other 
author mentions love. The wife in Greece was a housekeeper and 
the bearer of lawful heirs ; she was not the sexual companion of the 
man. 

For his sexual life the Athenian Greek relied on ‘hetairai’. The 
character and status of those women has been the subject of contra- 
dictory accounts, some representing them as being cultured Aspasias, 
others as common prostitutes. The truth is that there were all sorts. The 
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23O 

to all . 1 Originally it was a perfectly honourable appellation. Doubtless 
its use dated from a time when the two orders of union* the patriarchal 
and propertied ‘legal* marriage and the free matriarchal union by 
mutual consent* co-existed. This organization persisted in point of 
fact throughout the hey-day of Greek civilization. No social stigma 
attached in Greece to sexual freedom* because the standards of sexual 
morality had not yet developed. Matrons themselves had no scruple in 
associating with hetairai. They were honoured, as any other persons 
might have been, for distinction of talent, or of conduct* or of beauty. 
No obstacle lay in the way of their social advancement. Perikles sent 
away his 'legal’ wife and installed Aspasia in his house; Myrrhina 
shared with Demetrios, king of Macedon* all but the crown; Thargelia 
married Antiochos* king of Thessaly; Pitho married Hieronymos and 
became queen of Syracuse. Thais was the companion of Alexander, and, 
after his death, married Ptolemy* the first Lagide king of Egypt. 

The two opposite types into which woman, emancipated from eco- 
nomic production* had developed* are thus seen in Greece, clearly 
contrasted. Her two economic values, her two functions, as sexual 
companion and as mother in relation to the transmission of legal rights 
and property* remained separate. The attributes of each function were 
totally differentiated. The hetaira* elegantly adorned and highly edu- 
cated, was a being of a different race from the cloistered housekeeper 
and breeder of heirs, to whom adornment was forbidden and whose 
mind was stunted. 'We have hetairai for our delight,* says Demosthenes, 
‘concubines for the daily needs of our bodies, wives in order that we may 
beget legitimate children and have faithful housekeepers.’ 

Roman Marriage 

Roman marriage differed considerably from Greek marriage in origin 
and development. There are no traces of any phase of patriarchal poly- 
gamy or concubinage. The Italians were more exclusively agricultural 
than the archaic Greeks, and primitive Italian marriage relations point 
to loose matrilocal associations approaching clan promiscuity, in which 
the husband and father was of little account, such as appear to have 
survived until a later period among the Etruscans. No doubt where the 

1 Some of the hetairai, at least, were remarkably cultured. Leontion, the com- 
panion of Epicurus, could hold her own against Theophrastos in written 
philosophical disputation, and the purity of her Attic style is praised; Thais, 
Diotima, Thargelia were celebrated as philosophical disputants. The intellectual 
eminence of Aspasia is familiar. The famous ‘funeral oration’ of Perikles was said 
to have been composed by her; she opened a school for young women at which 
she herself taught. The relations of hetairai to their lovers could be sincere and 
unmercenary. The hetairai in the comedies of Plautus, though in Roman guise, 
are doubtless copied from Greek models; they spurn proferred wealth in their 
self-respect and fidelity to their lovers. 



THE SOCIAL EVOLUTION OF MONOGAMIC MARRIAGE 23I 

estates or titles of an heiress were at stake, the husband acquired them 
through a more formal matrilocal association, much as with archaic 
Greek princes. But, while Greek marriage appears to have evolved 
directly out of such a matrilocal association and remained to the 
last juridically matrilocal, in Roman usages everything points to a 
sudden revolution. The wife was transferred by a legal act from the 
jurisdiction of her father to that of her husband. This innovation was 
introduced in a society still essentially matriarchal; matriarchal influ- 
ence, therefore, instead of gradually disappearing, as in Greece, was 
preserved by the very process which ostensibly abolished it, much as 
pagan temples have been preserved by being converted into Christian 
churches. Thus it is that in the emphatically patriarchal society of 
Rome women retained a much higher position than in the far less 
patriarchal society of Greece; and that the cleavage between the two 
contrasted functions of the woman, as wife and as ‘hetaira’, never 
became complete; thus arose the European conception in which mar- 
riage is identified with sexual mating, ‘legality’ with sentiment — in 
short, the fully-developed monogamic ideal. 

Patriarchal Roman marriage was instituted by the patricians for their 
own purposes, much as the aristocratic class among the Yurok Indians 
remodelled the marriage institutions of their tribe to protect their 
interests. The patrician privilege consisted in having a legally recognized 
heir. The propertied patricians did not recognize the marriage arrange- 
ments of the propertyless plebians as being marriage at all, since the 
plebians ‘did not know their own fathers’. Moreover, they refused to 
allow them to adopt legal marriage because they would thereby have 
become patricians, recognized owners of property with the right to 
transmit it, not to the clan, to which it went under the old law, but to 
their heir, to their ‘family’. 

Patrician marriage was deliberately evolved. Three forms of patri- 
archal marriage were current in Rome in earlier historical times: the 
most primitive was ‘usus’, by which, if a man and a woman had lived 
together connubially for a year, the marriage was recognized as ‘legal’ — 
that is, the children could inherit; this was orginally the only form of 
marriage. Second, ‘coemptio’, a ‘legal’ union, the contract of which had 
to be witnessed by five Roman citizens. The third form was in early 
times the specifically patrician marriage; the contract was witnessed by 
ten Roman citizens, and sealed by sacrificing a sheep. It was known as 
‘farreo’, or ‘confarreatio’, because the ceremony included the sharing of 
a cake of ‘far’, the common Latin flour — our wedding-cake, in fact — 
consecrated by a flamen. The flamen, however, did not take any actual 
part in the ceremony. 

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232 

forms of Roman marriage lay in the former being a ‘religious marriage’. 
We shall see later what a ‘religious marriage’, in the proper sense of the 
expression, a ‘hicros gamos’, really means; it means the marriage of a 
woman with a god, and in many stages of culture it was thought incum- 
bent upon every woman to go through such a marriage. 

But the Romans no more thought of marriage as a sacrament in the 
Christian sense than a modern bride thinks she is marrying a god. It is 
true that an attenuated relic of ‘religious marriage’ was celebrated at the 
same time as the Roman ceremonial, whichever of the three forms it 
took. The bride performed a most indelicate ceremony in connection 
with the statue of a god, the purpose of which was solely to make the 
marriage contract as binding as possible; it was a legal use of religion 
identical with the administration of an oath. 

What was the contract which it was sought to make so binding ? It was 
not the sanctification of the union, it was not an oath of fidelity. It was 
simply this — that the woman passed from the guardianship, or ‘potes- 
tas’, of her father to the guardianship of her husband. It was a deed of 
transfer. The Roman family rested on the notion of ‘patria potestas’, the 
absolute power of the father over the family. ‘Family’ comes from the 
Oscan ‘famel’, a servant, slave, a possession; and ‘father’, ‘pater’, means 
owner, possessor, master. The Roman ‘pater familias’ was thus literally 
an ‘owner of slaves’. He had (theoretically) absolute power over his posses- 
sions, his chattels, his children. He could kill them or take them to the 
market and sell them. Accordingly, in Roman law the wife was tech- 
nically her husband’s ‘daughter’. The contract was a consequence of the 
theory of ‘patria potestas’. The transference of the woman from one 
‘familia’ to another was called marriage with ‘manus’. In later Roman 
legislation all three forms of marriage implied ‘manus’, but in their 
original forms neither ‘usus’ nor ‘coemptio’ did so. 

‘Coemptio’ was a more archaic form of marriage; as the word indi- 
cates, it is a derivative of marriage by purchase. It was interpreted by 
Roman jurists as a ‘mutual purchase’. Probably, as in all savage societies, 
the patrilocal family, the ‘familia’, first emerged when sufficient induce- 
ment was offered to the wife’s parents to allow her to leave the home, 
i.e. by purchasing her. Subsequently, the patriarchal right was made 
more exclusive by the ‘farreo’, said to have been introduced by Numa, 
the Sabine king. 

As soon as the legal distinctions between patrician and plebeian rights 
of property ceased to exist, all these forms of marriage fell into disuse. 
By the time of Cicero, and even as early as the second Punic war, 
‘farreo’ and ‘coemptio’ were wholly obsolete. ‘Farreo’ became a mere 
opportunity for occasional ceremonial display. Throughout the later 
Republic and the Empire marriages were contracted, as of old, by 



THE SOCIAL EVOLUTION OF MONOGAMIC MARRIAGE 233 

‘usus’ only. In Roman law the proof of marriage consisted in the deeds 
of dotal transfer; there was no ceremony. 

In legal theory the woman who passed from the ‘patria potestas’ of 
her father into that of her husband was in a position of absolute sub- 
jection. ‘If’, said Cato, ‘thou findest thy wife in adultery, thou art free 
to kill her without trial, and canst not be punished. If, on the other 
hand, thou committest adultery, she durst not, and she has no right to, 
so much as lay a finger on thee.’ In the early days a law had to be passed 
making it illegal for a man to sell his wife. A woman was, in law, a 
perpetual minor. She could not own or transmit property or enter into 
any business transactions; even her children were not legally hers, she 
had no rights over them. 

In practice, however, the position of women in Rome was from first to 
last more independent and dignified than among any other patriarchal 
people. Precisely because the law was so artificial and an innovation, the 
practice was very different from the theory. The matrimonial social 
constitution of Rome presented, in fact, a striking paradox. Compared 
with the Greek wife, the Roman woman was a free woman and a queen. 
Roman girls received the same education as boys, and in ‘mixed schools’. 
There was no Oriental seclusion, although it was not thought becoming 
that she should resort too frequently to places of amusement. When her 
husband entertained, she acted as hostess. The Romans themselves 
noted the contrast. ‘What Roman’, exclaims Cornelius Nepos, ‘would 
be ashamed to bring his wife in to dinner, and who amongst us does not 
regard the mother as occupying the first place in the house and in our 
regard? They do things very differently in Greece, for a woman is 
never present at a dinner, unless it be among her own relations, and she 
never sits down, except in the internal apartments.’ 

The explanation is that the matriarchal organization could not be 
swept away by a legal measure. The principle of ‘manus’ became abso- 
lute in the later times, simply because women would have none of it; 
and the law had to give way much as in our own day women object to 
promise obedience to their husbands. 

Roman marriage was the last step but one in the evolution of our own 
institutions and conceptions. Roman marriage was converted by Chris- 
tianity from a civil contract into a religious, a sentimental act, a sacra- 
ment. In Christian marriage the extraneous aspects of the relation 
between the sexes, economic and sexual, have for the first time become 
combined in one institution. Although Roman monogamic marriage is 
socially and juridically identical with the institution of marriage as it 
exists amongst us today, yet the sentiments with which it is viewed are 
the products of a momentous change, effected solely by the Christian 
religion. Later we shall sketch the development of these sentiments. 
t.m. — 8 * 



CHAPTER 16 


Tabu 


Primitive Ethics 

Man is a moral animal — the only moral animal. Among other animals 
there is no voluntary suppression of impulse and no self-reproach in 
yielding to it. In order that such a conflict of motives should exist, those 
motives must be consciously perceived. The natural instinct must be 
checked by the force of a conscious veto. 

Curiously enough, these distinctively human prohibitions, instead of 
exhibiting a gradual development with the evolution of human society, 
are found in the greatest abundance in the most primitive phases of 
society. Every act of primitive man is burdened with prohibitions which 
would be accounted intolerable by civilized man. But remarkably enough, 
few of these countless prohibitions refer to what we should regard as 
moral values. 

For example, we consider that nothing is more to be condemned than 
murder, especially the murder of a relative. Most primitive peoples, 
however, view murder with strange indifference. Speaking of savages 
generally, Stcinmetz remarks that ‘the only reproach which the slayer 
of a blood-relation incurs is that he has hurt himself by weakening his 
own family’. The injury inflicted by a murderer is held to be fully com- 
pensated if the loss which he has caused to a given family is made good 
by presenting the relatives of the murdered person with a substitute. 
Thus among the North American Indians the feelings of a mother, 
whose son had been brutally murdered, were assuaged by her adopting 
the murderer in his place. Similarly, a widow whose husband had been 
murdered might be consoled by marrying the murderer. Again, among 
the Habe hill-men of the French Sudan a murderer supplies the family 
of the victim with a woman from his own family ; when she bears a son, 
the boy is given the name of the murdered man and all is well. (The 
principle that the shedding of blood constitutes a loss which must be 
compensated is carried to its logical conclusion by the Goajiros, among 
whom a man who hurts himself is required to compensate his relatives 
on the grounds that he has shed the blood of the family.) 

Frequently little or no penalty attaches to murder. Among most 
primitive people the murderer of a fellow clansman is regarded as 
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as Sir James Frazer has shown, this has nothing to do with moral 
condemnation, but arises from dread of the murdered man’s angry 
ghost. In the island of Futuna ‘in heathen days men-slayers were usually 
respected as well as feared’. Among the Fuegians a parricide is simply 
sent to Coventry. Among the Nandi, a man who has murdered a mem- 
ber of the clan is regarded as unclean — until he has murdered two 
members of another clan, when his moral purity is completely restored. 
In the Jewish code there is no definite penalty attached to homicide; 
homicide may be outlawed, but punishment, or rather vengeance, is 
entirely the concern of the victim’s nearest relative. 

There are two main reasons for this neglect of social principles. In the 
first place, social regulations are scarcely needed in primitive society. 
Human society arose as the outcome of the natural instinct of solidarity 
between members of the same brood. The individuality of each was 
merged in the solidary consciousness of the collective group-instinct. 
The individual did not defend himself as an individual; the group 
defended itself as a group. Being spontaneous, this sentiment did not 
need to be formulated as a law. All primitive societies are highly moral 
compared with ours in respect of just those rules which in our societies are 
enforced by laws and principles. Of the Marquesans, Mr Melville 
writes : ‘During the time I lived among the Typees, no one was ever put 
upon his trial for any offence against the public. Everything went on in 
the valley with a harmony and smoothness unparalleled, I will venture 
to assert, in the most select, refined and pious associations of mortals in 
Christendom. There was not a padlock in the valley nor anything that 
answered the purpose of one. ... I will frankly declare that after passing 
a few weeks in this valley of the Marquesas, I formed a higher estimate 
of human nature than I had before entertained.’ Father Veniaminoff 
gives a similar account of the social morality of the Aleuts. He fancied 
himself among a community of primitive Christians. Their sexual 
morality, like that of the Marquesans, was of course scandalous. In fifty 
years the courts of law established by the Russian government could 
find no employment. In Hawaii, during the time that Lisiansky spent 
there, only one man was tried and executed, and that for eating a coco- 
nut on a tabu day. Of the Iroquois, a Dutch colonist, who gives a 
shocking account of their sexual morals, says of their civic morality, 
‘although they are so cruel, and have no laws and punishments, yet there 
are not half so many villainies and murders committed amongst them 
as among Christians’. Such illustrations might be multiplied. Only when 
the primitive constitution of society becomes sapped by the establish- 
ment of private property, and the instincts on which it is based are 
consequently supplanted by individualism, do social laws and formula- 
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Another reason why such laws are absent in primitive society is that 
such offences are regarded as a private concern. It is for the offended 
party or his relatives to take revenge, and the man who slays his father’s 
murderer is congratulated by all. Primitive legislation deals only with 
group interests. It is in much more advanced stages that the right of 
personal revenge is delegated to the state, the king or the god. 

Nature of Tabu and Sacredness 

The moral character of ethical principles and their character as cate- 
gorical imperatives have been imparted to them by their assimilation to 
primitive tabus. 

When a savage is questioned as to the origin of a tabu, he is usually at a 
loss to explain it, and says that the thing has always been considered 
tabu. Tabus are, in fact, identical with what are among us spoken of as 
superstitions, such as the notions associated with spilling salt, stepping 
under a ladder and so forth; superstitions arc, in fact, survivals of tabus. 
They still flourish in all secluded mountain, rural and fishing popula- 
tions. The inhabitants of the Scottish Highlands, the hills of Switzer- 
land, the Balkans, etc., are almost as rich in superstitions as are primitive 
tribes in tabus. 

Tabus are observed from dread of the consequences of neglecting 
them. In more advanced stages of development the notion of tabu has 
given rise to two seemingly opposed sentiments : a thing may be tabu 
because it is too holy to be touched, or because it is unclean — a breach of 
the tabu would pollute the offender. Thus the tabu may be an expres- 
sion of extreme reverence or extreme horror. But primitive tabu con- 
tains nothing of this distinction. Our word ‘sacred’, the Latin ‘sacer’, as 
also the Greek word r ayQiog\ originally corresponded exactly to the 
Polynesian word ‘tabu’. Sacer meant equally holy and unclean, venerable 
and accursed. The bad meaning of polluting is by far the more promi- 
nent in the early use of the word. ‘Sacer esto’, let him be sacred, was the 
formula by which a man was outlawed, ex-communicated, e.g. for 
treason or homicide. Anyone had the right to slay a ‘sacred’ man — but 
I suspect that this was not the most primitive form of the rule, and that, 
originally, as among certain primitive tribes, no one would have dared 
kill him. Yahweh dealt with the first murderer, Cain, in this way, saying: 
‘Whosoever slayeth Cain, vengeance shall be taken on him sevenfold.’ 

In popular sentiment this idea persists. A lock of hair, a bone, or any 
part of a condemned criminal is a talisman possessing miraculous vir- 
tues. In Cornwall it was believed quite lately that a criminal who was 
going to be hanged could cure diseases by touching people. In Fran- 
conia a salve prepared from the fat of an executed criminal possessed 
such valuable properties that chemists had to put up a preparation to 



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meet the demand. At public executions it was difficult to restrain the 
spectators from dipping their handkerchiefs in the blood of the victims ; 
late in the last century in Berlin, men drank the blood of an executed 
malefactor, believing it a remedy for all ills. The reason undoubtedly is 
that a condemned criminal is a ‘sacred’ person. The execution of a 
criminal was, in ancient times, a solemn sacrifice to the gods. The Celts 
habitually sacrificed criminals, ‘and if a man was cannibal enough to eat 
a bit of the victim’s flesh, he by that act rose in the goodwill of heaven. 
He was supposed to have absorbed into his system much of the sub- 
stance of what was consecrated to God.’ 

So completely did the good meaning of ‘sacer’ displace the bad that 
the Romans were puzzled by the hieratic use of the word. But primitive 
gods are not good; they are dreadful and dreaded, and worship of them 
consists chiefly in placating them. Thus they are sacred in the same 
sense as all tabu beings and things are sacred : the less one has to do with 
them the better. When Protestant missionaries tried to explain to the 
Dakotan Indians that the Bible and the Church were holy, they used the 
Dakotan word for tabu, ‘wakan’. The Dakotas’ natural reply was that, in 
the circumstances, they would rather have nothing to do with them. The 
ancient Jews themselves took much the same view of their holy books. A 
man had to purify himself and wash his hands after handling the Bible. 

In short, no ethical value originally attaches to what is tabu. The 
differentiation which later takes place is not an unfolding of latent ideas 
but an addition. The notion of tabu, though it has come to be connected 
with gods, is not necessarily dependent upon the notion of God. Primi- 
tive gods are tabu and render anything pertaining to them tabu because 
they are dreadful, but a thing may be dreadful without being divine. 
The notion that a thing is tabu because it is the property of a god, or of 
the ghost of a deceased person, implies a clear idea of personal property, 
and it is therefore highly improbable that such a notion was the origin 
of tabu prohibitions. Tabus could not originally have been imposed by 
the authority of rulers and gods, for they are much older than such 
conceptions ; in no primitive society is there a ruler invested with any 
degree of power, and in many primitive societies the authority of gods is 
hazy. 

Different tabus have of course had various origins, but what calls for 
explanation is the whole notion of the origin of a prohibition from human 
instincts. Such prohibitions must have been imposed in the first instance 
in a very categoric form. The frequently-made assumption that they 
were imposed by the arbitary authority of chiefs is an untenable view, 
for there is nothing more foreign to the character of primitive man than 
respect for arbitrary authority, and truly primitive societies are nothing 
if not equalitarian. It is only at the human level, through the medium of 



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language, that a prohibition can acquire the status of a principle. If I 
am right in considering that the authority of the female was paramount in 
the earliest human groups, a prohibition of this kind must have been the 
very first to come into operation . 1 

The Tabu on Menstrual Women 

The most fundamental of all primitive tabus are those referring to 
women and sexual intercourse. Tabus on the approach of men to women 
during and after parturition, and during menstruation, are the most 
strictly observed of all primitive tabus. All the world over, and not only 
among savages, the tabus attaching to menstrual women are similar. 
And those which refer to women in childbed are practically identical 
with them. The latter have little reference to the child, but refer to the 
lochial discharge. Premature births and all issues of blood are treated in 
the same manner as full-time births as regards tabu. 

It would weary the reader to recapitulate the vast array of evidence 
from societies in every part of the world which can be brought together 
to demonstrate the similarity of such tabus. The practices of the Eskimo 
may be taken as representative of all others. Four weeks before her con- 
finement a woman retires to a separate hut, which no man is allowed to 
approach. She remains there for a month after she has been delivered, 
when the father is allowed to see his child for the first time. Should a 
woman be unexpectedly seized with labour pains, all the men stop work 
and build a snow-hut as quickly as possible. During her period of 
seclusion the woman cannot eat or drink in the open air; even the 
remains of her meals must be disposed of inside her hut. She has her 
own cups and dishes, which men must be careful not to use, and is sub- 
ject to dietary regulations. If the few kinds of food which are permitted 
are unobtainable, she may have to go without eating. Among the Tlin- 
kit, females are driven out of the house at the time of childbirth, and 
only some time after birth is a mother allowed to enter a rude shelter 
erected for the purpose. 

In the same way, a menstruating woman is regarded as a being with 
whom all contact, however innocent, would entail dreadful consequences. 
In most societies a special hut is provided to which women must resort 
during their menstrual period. Special ceremonies regulate the first 
menstruation. Thus among the Dene a girl, at her first menstruation, 

1 There is one relation in which normal impulses are interdicted — the beha- 
viour included under the term ‘coyness’. However, the attribution of feminine 
diplomacy to lower animals is little short of absurd. The coyness of the female 
animal towards the courting male is the result simply of physiological conditions. 
The female is not prepared for impregnation except at stated periods of ovula- 
tion and rut. At other times the advances of the male arc not desired. Among 
animals the male can only be repulsed or avoided by resistance or escape. 



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remains isolated for two lunar months. She must not touch even her 
own food with her hands, and is provided with a stick to scratch her 
head. In some cases the woman’s head is wrapped up so that she can see 
nobody, and she is submitted to purges and fastings. In other cases a 
girl, at her first menstruation, is placed in a hammock near the smoke- 
vent of her hut so as to be thoroughly fumigated, and only at night may 
she rise to cook a little food for herself. The vessels which she has used 
are immediately broken and buried. Among the Guaranis and other 
tribes the girls are sewn up in their hammocks in the same way as corpses, 
only the smallest opening being left to allow them to breathe, and are 
suspended over the fire for several days. Not infrequently the unfortu- 
nate girls die under the process of disinfection. In some cases the women 
are beaten and all their hair is plucked out. Some observers have thought 
that this retiring of the women was due to an instinctive sentiment of 
modesty, but since, in some cases, the women are allowed to deliver their 
children upon their knees in the public street in the presence of every- 
one, this is hardly likely. In Russia, a woman after delivery is regarded as 
being in a state of impurity, and may not hold any communication with 
others until she has been purified by a priest. In the province of Smo- 
lensk she is confined in a barn or hut some distance from the house. 

The Hebrews attached the greatest importance to the primitive tabu. 
‘If a woman have an issue and her issue in her flesh be blood, she shall 
be put apart seven days ; and whosoever toucheth her shall be unclean 
until even.’ Anyone who touched her bed or anything that she sat upon 
was required to ‘wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be 
unclean until the even’. On the eighth day after, she had to take two young 
pigeons to the tabernacle, one as a sin-offering and the other as a burnt- 
offering, and the priest had to make atonement for her. 

In ancient Persia the very glance from the eye of a menstruous woman 
was so polluting that she must not look upon a fire or upon water, nor 
converse with any man. She was confined during menstruation to an 
isolated portion of the house, no fire was to be kindled and everyone was 
to remain at least fifteen paces from any fire or water. When the period 
was over, the clothes which she had been wearing must be destroyed, 
and she must be purified by being washed with bull’s urine. The tabus 
attaching to child-birth were exactly similar. The rule mentioned by 
Herodotus that a man might not see his own child until it was five years 
old probably refers to a similar lengthy exclusion of a man from the 
house of his wife. The modern Parsees still observe most of the rules of 
their ancestors, and it is not long since there were in Parsee communi- 
ties public menstrual houses to which women resorted at their periods. 

The Hindus take as serious a view of the impurity of a menstrual 
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menstruating women even more rigorously than the Arya Hindus. Thus 
among the Kamar, when a woman is menstruating, no man of the same 
household can enter a temple without previously having had a bath. 

Much the same is true among wild races of the Malay Peninsula. 
In Africa, if an Akikuyu woman menstruates in a hut, it is at once 
destroyed as unfit for human habitation. Among the Menangkabau of 
Sumatra if a menstruating woman were to go near a rice-field the crop 
would fail. Among the Visayans of the Philippine Islands when a 
woman is overtaken by child-birth everything is removed from the 
house, else the weapons would no longer be efficient, the nets would 
catch no more fish, and fighting-cocks, their most valued possession, 
would no longer be able to fight. Among the Caroline Islanders, women 
are wrapped up in mats from head to foot during the whole duration 
of pregnancy, and seclusion continues for five or six months after 
delivery. They may not paint their faces nor anoint their hair, and are 
unfit to undertake any cooking. Were a man to touch so much as a drop 
of water from the pools in which they wash, it would be impossible for 
him to catch any fish. In Nauru, one of the Gilbert Islands, not only 
may no food be eaten that has been touched by a tabu woman, but it is 
considered that the nuts on any trees within a hundred feet of such a 
woman’s dwelling are unfit for human consumption. 

These ideas of the defiling and dangerous character of the menstruat- 
ing or child-bearing woman appear in many forms. Thus in New 
Britain when a birth has taken place all the men must be disinfected. 
They subject themselves to fumigation and rinse out their mouths with 
ginger. Women, it would seem, can infect even themselves, for among 
the Pennefather and other Australian tribes a menstruating girl is buried 
up to her waist in the sand, a fence of brushwood is built round her, and 
she is provided with a stick to scratch herself, as she must not touch her 
own body with her hands. The Wakelbura tribe of south-eastern 
Australia believes that if a male should see a menstruating woman he 
would die. Sir George Grey observes that the more southerly tribes of 
Western Australia conform to the injunctions in Leviticus (xv. 19). 

As these instances show, the tabus are not derived from any abstract 
principle, but from dread of the dire effects of contact with women in 
these conditions. The Dene believe that contact with menstrual blood 
will turn a man into a woman. The Tlinkit are persuaded that a single 
look from a menstruating woman would completely destroy the luck of 
a hunter, fisherman or gambler, and that it might even, like the Medusa’s 
head, turn objects into stone; a view analogous to that of the Bushman, 
who believes that her glance can cause men to become fixed in whatever 
position they may happen to be, and to turn into trees. Similarly the 
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deprive a man of his manhood; while some South African tribes believe 
that if a man should touch a woman during the period his bones become 
soft and he cannot in future take place in any manly exercise. Not only 
men but their weapons and implements lose their virtues. An Indian 
woman who inadvertently stepped over a man’s gun while she was 
menstruating had to flee for her life, and was only accepted back when it 
was discovered, to the astonishment of all, that the gun could still 
shoot. 

Similar views obtained in primitive Greece; and sceptical as were the 
Greeks of a later age, they still regarded the impurity of a lochial woman 
and of a corpse as equal. Of the ideas of the Romans, Pliny has given us 
a full account. ‘Hardly can there be found’, he says, in Philemon Hol- 
land’s rendering, ‘a thing more monstrous than is that fluxe and course 
of theirs. For if during the time of their sicknesse, they happen to 
approach or goe over a vessell of wine, bee it never so new, it will 
presently soure; if they touch any standing corn in the field, it will 
wither and come to no good. Also, let them in this estate handle any 
grasses, they will die upon it; the hcarbes and young buds in a garden, 
if they doe but passe by, will catch a blast, and burne away to nothing. 
Sit they upon or under trees whiles they are in this case, the fruit which 
hangeth upon them will fall. Doe they but see themselves in a looking 
glasse, the cleare brightnesse thereof tumeth into dimnesse, upon their 
very sight. Look they upon a sword, knife, or any edged toole, be it never 
so bright, it waxeth duskish, so doth also the lively hue of yvorie. The 
very bees in the hive die. Yron and steele presently take rust, yea, and 
brasse likewise, with a filthic, strong, and poysoned stynke, if they lay 
but hand thereupon. If dogs chance to tast women fleures, they runne 
mad therewith: and if they bite anything afterwards, they leave behind 
them such a venome, that the wounds are incurable.’ 

These beliefs are substantially current among most rural populations 
of Europe. In the wine districts of Bordeaux and the Rhine, menstruat- 
ing women are strictly forbidden to approach the vats lest the wine 
should turn to vinegar, and I have seen the same rule observed in the 
Chianti district. In northern France they are excluded from sugar- 
refineries when sugar is cooking, and in Holstein no menstruating woman 
attempts to make butter. No Frenchwoman would attempt to make a 
mayonnaise sauce while in that state. In England bacon cannot be cured 
by a menstruating woman. ‘It is a very prevalent belief among females, 
both rich and poor,’ writes a medical man in 1878, ‘that in curing hams, 
women should not rub the legs of pork with the brine-pickle at the time 
they are menstruating.’ They even render bright mirrors dim. 

The importance of a woman being properly ‘churched’ after her con- 
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in Scotland. One would scarcely expect to find in Europe the rule, so 
common among savages, that a puerperal woman must not touch her 
own head. Yet in Bavaria it is thought that if a woman in child-bed were 
to comb her hair it would turn grey. 

Sexual Separation during Pregnancy and Suckling 

Such tabus are not the only restrictions on sexual relations in primitive 
societies, for it is the general rule that all cohabitation must cease when 
a woman becomes pregnant, or at any rate during the later months of 
pregnancy, and this commonly continues during the whole time she is 
nursing a child, a period much longer among uncultured peoples than 
with Europeans. Children practically wean themselves after anything 
from four to seven years of suckling, though from two to three years is 
the most general duration. 1 

Restrictions of this kind are reported from all over the world. Thus 
among the Warega a wife will not allow her husband to approach her 
until the child can walk, though he may visit her if he sits quietly at the 
opposite side of the hut. Such restrictions are general among most 
African tribes. Among the Suk of Kenya Colony no marital relations take 
place until the child has cut two teeth. 

It is reasonable to believe that such regulations were at one time even 
more general in primitive society than at the present day. The restric- 
tions on the instincts of the male in the more primitive societies are 
evidently much more extensive than any observed by civilized Euro- 
peans. Even the tabus upon menstruating puerperal women are not 
regarded by Europeans with the same dread as attaches to them in 
uncultured societies. Although the Synod of Wurzburg reiterated in 
1298 the prohibition that ‘no one shall approach a woman who is near 
her confinement or in her menstrual fluxes’, even theological opinion 
held such an act to be but a venial sin. Ecclesiastical exhortations during 
the Middle Ages show that abstinence at such times was by no means 
scrupulously observed. Among uncultured peoples today these customs 
are tending to become relaxed, and it is usually enough that a menstruat- 
ing woman should give proper warning of her condition by such acts as 
painting her face yellow (as among the Mandingo), or wearing a brightly 
coloured scarf. 

Origin of Periodical Sexual Prohibitions 

This tendency of such tabus to fall into disuse appears inconsistent with 
the supposition that they first arose as a spontaneous inhibition of 
masculine sexual instincts by feelings of repulsion, since it implies a 


1 A bibliography of 31 titles is appended. 



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greater degree of squeamishness in savage than in civilized man. It has 
commonly been assumed that such tabus originated in some feeling of 
disgust. But primitive man is not disgusted by those things that Euro- 
peans regard as repulsive. In the matter of food, there is nothing too 
disgusting for savages to eat. Some use their cesspools as reserve stores. 
Primitive men exhibit no greater delicacy in regard to the satisfaction of 
their sexual instincts. Those savages who are most scrupulous in observ- 
ing the menstrual tabus will also perform acts the very recital of which 
to us is nauseating. Australian aborigines who die of fright because a 
menstruating woman has touched their blanket habitually perform 
homosexual atrocities unknown to European vice. 

When a savage manifests disgust, it is almost invariably at the breach 
of some tabu, such as eating some food, maybe quite appetising, which 
is prohibited by his customs. The tabu is the cause, not the effect, of his 
disgust. 

The awful character of the menstruating woman has been set down 
to a supposed primitive ‘horror of blood’, notably by M. Durkheim, 
but there is no evidence of any such horror — blood is everywhere re- 
garded as a delicacy . 1 Even peoples whose habitual diet is entirely 
vegetarian will miss no opportunity of indulging in a daught of warm 
blood. The Masai have a special method of shooting a blocked arrow 
into the jugular vein of an ox, so that they may drink the warm blood 
before they slaughter it. Sir Harry Johnston describes how, after filling 
their wooden vessels, they step apart from the crowd ‘to drink the 
coagulating gore with utter satisfaction and a gourmet’s joy’. The 
Australian natives, besides drinking one another’s blood on every 
occasion, use it to bedaub themselves and to attach feathers and orna- 
ments to their bodies. There is no instance known of blood in general 
being regarded with horror by any uncultured peoples. 

It is frequently supposed that the menstruating woman is possessed 
of some dangerous spirit, and the fumigations and flagellations which 
we have noted are intended to expel this spirit. 

That so many speculations should have been put forward is surpris- 
ing, for these tabus are the only prohibitions which are not peculiar to 
mankind, but are common to all mammals. Among all animals the 
female admits the male only at such times as she is prepared for the 
exercise of his function; at others, her attitude to him is one of positive 
hostility. The description given by Pallas of the way the female camel 
rounds on the bull the moment she is impregnated, driving him away 
with snarling, is representative of the behaviour usual with mammalian 

1 There are special circumstances in which the blood of a particular person 
may, like any other substance, be the object of a tabu. It is not blood in general 
which is fraught with dread, but the blood of women. 



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females. Had the primitive human female admitted the male during 
menstruation, pregnancy and lactation, her behaviour would have con- 
stituted a biological abnormality. 

As in all physiological functions, there is an adjustment between the 
inherited disposition of the male and that of the female. It has been too 
readily assumed by naturalists that all animals must have a special 
breeding season, but our information, fragmentary as it is, suggests that 
among most, if not all, carnivores the time of year at which the young are 
bom varies, in the same species, within wide limits. In contrast to 
herbivores, there is no indication that at any time the sexual instincts of 
the male are completely quiescent. Where there is no definite yearly 
periodicity in the female, there can be no exact adjustment of the male 
instincts to that function. ‘Among numerous higher species the males 
appear to be at all times disposed for sexual union, even though the 
females are not in rut. 5 In the primates the mutually-adjusted periodicity 
of sexual instincts has entirely disappeared. To regard these facts as 
imposing restrictions on sexual intercourse in primitive humanity is not 
a matter of hypothesis, it is inevitable. Those restrictions are imposed 
by biological necessities, and are in every respect the same as those 
obtaining among animals. As with every such traditional prescription, 
all manner of superstitious interpretations have become attached to 
the categorical prohibition. They are manifestly accretions on the ori- 
ginal veto laid by women on the sexual instincts of the male. The 
formulated prohibition, like the biological restriction, must have been 
imposed by women upon men and not the reverse; nor are they restric- 
tions imposed on themselves by the men. 

It is often suggested that the restrictions upon sexual intercourse 
during pregnancy and lactation are dictated by concern for the welfare 
of the child. Sometimes the seclusion to which the woman is subjected is 
similarly explained, but these are manifestly attempts to account for the 
custom, and are of little importance as indicating its origin. 

The terms in which many accounts are couched suggest that these 
observances are imposed upon the women by the tyranny and super- 
stition of the men: the women are ‘compelled’ or ‘driven out’. But there 
is little evidence that any compulsion is needed to force the women to 
segregate themselves at such times, and probably the wording merely 
expresses the assumption of the reporters that any ethical regulations 
must have been imposed by the men, except where such observances 
are set down to feelings of ‘natural modesty’ on the part of the women. 
Even where the men are most tyrannical, the women never carry out 
their arduous duties under compulsion, and similar tabus in their most 
rigorous form are observed in societies in which the women, far from 
being tyrannized, exercise an almost despotic power over the men. The 



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women, in most accounts, segregate themselves of their own accord, 
without consulting the men. 

It has sometimes been remarked that such customs are abused by the 
women as a pretext to get rid of their husbands. Speaking of the Beaver 
Indians, Mr Keith says, that a woman ‘pretends to be ten days in this 
state and suffers not her husband except upon particularly good terms. 
Her paramours, however, are permitted to approach her sooner\ 

Papuan tradition represents the men as quite enraged at their being 
repulsed by their menstruating wives. The women of the Tully River 
district in Queensland assert that they are anxious to menstruate regu- 
larly, for if they did not ‘the men would be enabled to continually pay 
them sexual attentions, a course to which the women assured me they 
objected’. In the mythical Alcheringa days, when the tribesmen were 
celebrating the ceremonies of the bandicoot, their totem, a woman, 
through excessive repetition of the rites of fertility, began to bleed pro- 
fusely. She said: ‘I will no longer be a woman, but a bandicoot; and you 
cannot touch me.’ And ever since then the women have had monthly 
periods, during which they are tabu. 

The awful but undefined dangers which attend the breach of a tabu 
are identical with the dangers which result from a curse, than which 
nothing is more dreadful; and no curse is more dreaded than a woman’s. 
Among the Damaras, if a woman curses her husband, he cannot, what- 
ever may happen, cohabit with her again. 

That curse has recoiled upon woman herself. The notions of her 
impurity which pervades the ideas not only of the savage but also of 
more advanced peoples, have their root in the primitive menstrual tabu. 
Woman is ‘the cause of all evil’. All tabus fraught with vague dangers 
tend to become extended in their application. Thus the prohibited 
degrees of marriage have sometimes come to include the very persons 
who were originally prescribed as the natural sexual mates, such as 
cousins and wife’s sisters. The tabu of modesty which originally applied 
only to the sexual organs has often come to include the whole body. In 
the same way the precautions taken with regard to the menstrual or 
parturient woman have frequently been extended to women at all times. 
In China the same care is used in handing anything to a woman as in 
Alaska in passing provisions to her when she is in quarantine. In Tahiti 
women were excluded from religious festivals, neither could they at 
any time eat in the company of a man, nor even sleep in the same 
house. 

But it does not follow that because women were hedged about with 
such vexatious tabus that their position was one of degradation. 
Throughout Polynesia the position of women was the reverse of de- 
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its most extravagant development. In Hawaii, since a woman could not 
eat in the company of her husband, and neither could he eat anything 
which she had cooked, there was no alternative for him but to do his 
own cooking, and he cooked for her as well. Thus the tabu results in the 
women being waited on by the men. Similarly, since it would be danger- 
ous for the woman to handle fruits and vegetables intended for food, the 
men felt impelled to take over the agricultural work, while the women 
had nothing better to do than to amuse themselves making gorgeous 
dresses. When, therefore, Mr Ellis and other travellers deduce the 
shamefully-degraded position of women from the fact that they may not 
eat with the men, they mistake the nature of tabu. An instance of the 
misapprehension to which observers who do not understand the nature 
of tabu is liable is afforded by a recent traveller in North Africa, who 
considered that no further proof of the degraded position of women 
among the polygamous Arabs is needed than that Arabs place women 
and pigs in the same class. But, of course, both women and pigs are 
tabu, which in primitive conceptions may mean either sacred or im- 
pure. In this sense, the ancient Jews placed both pigs and Yahweh ‘in 
the same class’. 

The tabus attaching to women were not originally identified with such 
ideas as impurity, though they have commonly become associated with 
them. Originally, they sometimes had the opposite meaning. In many 
primitive rites the sexual act is a sanctifying and purifying ritual. In this, 
as in all other instances, tabu means primarily ‘dangerous’. According 
to Vedic conceptions, ‘the blood of the woman is a form of Agni, and 
therefore no one should despise it’, and the ‘Institutes of Vishnu’ lay 
down that to kill a menstruating woman is as great a crime as to murder 
a Brahman. In some instances menstrual and lochial blood has a sancti- 
fying and purifying influence. Among the Ainu menstrual blood is a 
talisman. When a man sees some on the floor of a hut, he rubs it over 
his breast believing he will thereby secure success. Although the Dene 
regard menstruating women with extravagant dread, if a child is not 
thriving his mother will fasten round his neck a piece of cloth soiled 
with menstrual blood. In such instances, the menstrual or lochial blood 
is, in all probability, regarded as scaring away the evil spirits and 
influences, rather than as communicating a positive blessing. By this 
principle the dreaded properties of the blood are often turned to a use- 
ful purpose. Among the North American Indians, when the com began 
to ripen, a woman would leave her isolation-hut in the middle of the night 
and walk naked through the fields, thus destroying the caterpillars. The 
ancient Greeks had hit upon the same ingenious procedure, and Colu- 
mella recommends the same method, which was evidently used in Italy, 
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sixteenth century the same device was used near Nuremburg to get 
rid of garden pests, and in Holland today it is usual for a girl at her 
menstrual period to go round the cabbage patch in order to dispose of 
the caterpillars. Northern Rhodesian natives, similarly, believe that this 
will drive away the tsetse fly. 

It will be seen from these instances how easily the dreaded character 
of a sacred or tabu person may logically pass into the seemingly opposite 
notion of a wholly beneficent influence. In primitive conceptions tilings 
regarded as sacred are as often as not looked upon with horror and 
repulsion, and those which have come to be conceived as impure are as 
commonly regarded as divine. 

The Menstrual Tabu as the Type of Prohibitions 

The menstrual and puerperal tabus appear to be regarded by some as 
the very type of tabu. The Polynesian word ‘tabu’, or ‘tapu’, appears to 
be closely allied to ‘tupua’, signifying menstruation. The word ‘atua’, 
which is usually translated ‘God’ and applies to all supernatural pheno- 
mena, refers to menstruation in particular. The Dakotan word corre- 
sponding to tabu is ‘wakan’, which is defined as ‘spiritual, consecrated ; 
wonderful, incomprehensible; said also of women at the menstrual 
period’. 

The assumption that the former meaning is derived from the latter is 
as probable as the reverse. Among the Arabs the expressions ‘pure’ and 
‘impure’ originally referred exclusively to the condition of menstruating 
women. Among the Jews the medium of purification was known as ‘the 
water of separation’, a term used in reference to the menstrual seclusion 
of women. The tabu state is generally signified by marking a person or 
object with blood; red paint serves equally well, for the blood is not the 
cause of the tabu but the mark of it. The condition of a manslayer 
whose deed has rendered him ‘sacred’ is indicated by painting him 
red. 

The practice of painting corpses and bones red, which is well-nigh 
universal in primitive society and has been so from earliest ages in 
Europe, may be regarded as connected with blood as one of the forms 
of the vital principle, or soul, but even this aspect is not unconnected 
with menstruation, for it is from the menstrual blood retained in the 
womb that human beings are believed by primitives to be formed. The 
Maori expressly state that blood is the substance of the human spirit. 
The condition of women in the tabu state is commonly indicated by 
their painting themselves red. Thus, several Australian tribes mark 
menstruating women with red paint, as do Kaffir women; while in 
India such a woman wears round her neck a handkerchief stained with 
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The sign of blood is commonly used to make women tabu in marriage 
ceremonies. The theory of this is expressed by Brahmanic writers : ‘The 
wife is pure to her husband and impure to every stranger.’ Marking the 
bride is an essential of the marriage ceremony throughout modern 
India. The parting of her hair is commonly stained with vermilion. 
Among the Santals, if a young man succeeds in laying a dab of red paint 
on a girl’s forehead, she is his wife. It is considered a serious offence to 
do so, but the marriage cannot be dissolved. The same practice obtains 
in China. The bride is smeared with blood among such peoples as the 
Chuckchi, the Koryak, the natives of Borneo, of the Congo, of the 
Solomon Islands and in Australia. 

Men, on certain occasions, especially when embarking on some peri- 
lous undertaking, paint themselves red, a practice common in Africa. 
Pliny tells us that the Ethiopian nobles of his day did so, and Herodotus 
noted the custom among the Libyans and Arabs. It was common among 
the primitive Egyptians: cups of red ochre have been found in First 
Dynasty tombs. Among the early Romans, war-chiefs were painted red, 
and Camillus proceeded to the Capitol bedaubed with vermilion. The 
idea, no doubt, was to scare away evil and envious spirits; just as 
mothers among the Tlinkit Indians safeguard their children by painting 
their noses red. The door-posts of houses are marked with blood or red 
paint, especially in times of danger and epidemics. This is done in West 
Africa, among the Dayaks in Bengal, as it was in ancient Peru and among 
the Jews. 

All sacred or tabu objects are commonly marked with blood or red 
paint. The sacred stones of various native tribes in India, in Burma, in 
Madagascar, are marked with blood; among the Estonians sacred trees. 
The Greeks painted the statues of Dionysos red, and the Romans 
applied red paint to the face of Jupiter before their festivals. The 
Banyoro, on the day of the new moon, waylay a man and cut his throat 
in order to smear with his blood the royal fetishes. The Australian 
Blacks, who pour blood over their sacred stones, and paint themselves 
red after their rites, volunteer the information that this red paint is 
really the menstrual blood of women. In a Hottentot song addressed to 
the spirit of rain she is addressed: ‘Thou who hast painted thy body red 
like Goro; Thou who dost not drop the menses.’ The deity referred to, 
there can be little doubt, is a form of the moon, and the red ochre with 
which they paint themselves is called ‘gorod’ after her. 

Some other Tabus 

All these facts point to the conclusion that the veto imposed by women 
upon masculine impulses during their periodical unfitness for sexual 
functions was the earliest formulated prohibition imposed upon instinct. 



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and therefore the prototype of all such prohibitions. Actually all subse- 
quent tabus tended to become assimilated to the pattern of the prototype. 
In some societies the arbitrary imposition of tabus became a form of 
tyranny in the hands of priests and chieftains, who imposed tabus to suit 
their purpose. The most highly-developed codes of moral prohibitions 
preserve the original type of such interdicts, for none are regarded as 
more important than those which refer to the restraint of the sexual 
instincts, and morality in the highest cultures is understood to be 
synonymous with sexual morality. 

In primitive society sexual restrictions are connected with nearly 
every activity of primitive man — the hunter, the fisherman, the warrior, 
the agriculturist, the magician, regard abstention from intercourse and 
contact with women as essential to the success of their undertakings. 
Other tabus, less obviously connected with the primitive prototype, are 
nevertheless found on inquiry to be related to it. As illustration, we will 
consider two tabus still observed among us. 

Few people would consider, I suppose, that any connection exists 
between the superstition that it is unlucky to step under a ladder and 
the tabu on menstruating women. The unsuperstitious regard it as a 
precaution against the possible presence of a paint-pot on the ladder, 
but the superstition is much older than the use of paint-pots or ladders. 
It is a survival of what appears to be a very widespread scruple against 
passing under anything at all, a superstition directly connected with 
the menstrual tabu. As Sir James Frazer says: ‘The Australian 
Blacks have a dread of passing under a leaning tree, or even under the 
rails of a fence. The reason they give is that a woman may have been 
upon the tree or fence, and some blood from her may have fallen on it 
and may fall on them’ ; and he cites instances from the Solomon Islands, 
the Karens of Burma, the Siamese and others. A Maori will never lean 
his back against the wall of a native house, for Maori women have a 
habit of thrusting their soiled diapers through the houseboards. It is a 
common notion that a woman should not step over one’s legs when one 
is sitting down, for if she does one will lose one’s power of running. The 
Oraons of Chota-Nagpur are horrified if they see a woman climbing on 
to the roof of a hut. 

The facts mentioned by Sir James Frazer are not adduced by him in 
elucidation of our superstition of walking under a ladder, but of the rule 
observed in Rome that the Flamen Dialis may not walk under a trellised 
vine, for the juice of the grape which was commonly regarded as the 
equivalent of blood might have fallen upon him. But there can, I think, 
be little doubt that our own superstition is connected with the same 
order of observances. 



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The Sabbath 

A much more important example of a tabu still observed among our- 
selves, and one which is derived from the Hebrews, is the keeping holy, 
or tabu, of the Sabbath Day. 

We have seen that it is an almost universal rule that a menstruating 
woman must not do any kind of work, a tabu which frequently extends 
to her husband. Among the Habe, a man whose wife is menstruating 
would not dare to go on a journey or hunt or sow; indeed, it would be 
pointless to do so, for the undertaking could not prosper. Among the 
Monumbo people of New Guinea the husband is subject to so many tabus 
during his wife’s pregnancy that he is virtually a pariah. He must attend 
to all his wants himself and cannot borrow so much as a light for his 
pipe. An Eskimo husband is incapacitated for work for some weeks after 
his wife’s confinement, and he should not enter into any commercial 
transaction. Sometimes the tabu on the woman affects the entire house- 
hold. Thus among the Naga tribes of Manipur even the fact that a 
bitch has laid a fitter of puppies or that the cat has had kittens is sufficient 
to place the whole house under an interdict. These restrictions some- 
times extend to the whole community, all of whom remain at home the 
next day and do no work in the fields, for no good would come of it, 
owing to the influence of the lochial discharge. 

General abstinence from all kinds of work is generally observed by 
almost every primitive community on inauspicious occasions, such as an 
eclipse, an epidemic or the death of an important personage. As Profes- 
sor Webster remarks, those general tabus ‘are to be assimilated to those 
which rested upon individuals alone’. 

Among many peoples there also exist regular tabu days recurring at 
fixed intervals. To the superstitious mind all days are distinguished into 
‘lucky’ and ‘unlucky’. An old resident of Ashanti calculated that there 
were only about one hundred and fifty or so days in the year in which 
any important business could safely be done. The ancient Greeks were 
almost as bad: Hesiod’s poem on ‘Works’ lays down on what days it is 
safe to undertake farm work. The chief purpose of the ancient Egyptian 
and Babylonian calendars appears to have been to mark the lucky and 
unlucky days. The day of the new moon is generally looked on as 
especially inauspicious, and to this the day of the full moon is generally 
added. ‘According to the rules of Astrology’, observes Aubrey, ‘it is not 
good to undertake any business of importance in the new moon, and not 
better just at the full moon.’ To be on the safe side two more days should 
be added, the four days corresponding to the four phases of the moon. 
With many African peoples the day of the new moon is a day of general 
abstention from work. Thus among the Baziba it is ‘a recognized day of 



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rest’. Among the Baganda firewood must not be cut or food cooked on 
that day. 

The two great monthly festivals of ancient Hindu religion, on which 
the sacrifice of the soma, or moon-plant, is celebrated, took place on the 
days of the new moon and full moon. On these days a Brahman might 
not trim his hair or beard or nails; he must not set out on a journey, nor 
sell any goods. The ‘Vishnu Purana’ lays down that anyone tending to 
secular affairs on these days will go to hell. These observances later 
became extended to the first days of the intermediate phases of the moon, 
making the tabu a weekly one. In contrast with observance of the 
sabbath in English and Scottish households, where it was a strict rule 
that secular literature should be put aside, the Brahmanical religious 
considered that the four monthly tabu days were the very days on which 
the sacred books should on no account be read, these days being in- 
auspicious. The Scriptures should not be exposed to the risk of pollu- 
tion. The four monthly sabbaths of Vedic and Brahmanical religion 
were adopted by Buddhism, and corresponding beliefs are found in 
Burma and Siam. 

As we might expect, the observance of tabu days attained its most 
perfect form in Polynesia. The Hawaiian sabbath had quite an old- 
fashioned English aspect. ‘Men were required to abstain from their 
common pursuits, and to attend to prayer morning and evening. A 
general gloom and silence pervaded the whole district or island. Not a 
fire or light was to be seen or canoe launched; none bathed; the mouths 
of dogs were tied up, and fowls were put under calabashes or their 
heads enveloped in cloth ; for no noise of man or animal must be heard. 
No persons, except those who officiated at the temples, were allowed to 
leave the shelter of their roofs.’ In Samoa the sabbath was similarly 
observed, but there was only one regular sabbath in the month, at the 
new moon. The Polynesians therefore took to the fourth commandment 
like fish to water when they were instructed in the truths of the Christian 
religion, but the Hawaiians complained that the missionaries were far 
too lax in enforcing the sabbath, and Sunday Leagues were formed 
amongst the most influential natives, who sent deputations to the clergy- 
men imploring them to be stricter. The missionaries, though shocked 
by the lasciviousness of the natives and by their cannibalism, felt that 
people so thoroughly imbued with the principles of Sabbath observance 
could not be wholly bad. 

It has been argued that the fact that periodic observance is timed to 
take place at a given phase of the moon does not prove that it is associated 
with the moon, except in so far as the moon is a time-piece. But this 
view is untenable; no distinction is drawn in the primitive mind be- 
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effect. You will not easily convince a savage that when two events 
habitually take place at the same time* the one is not the cause of the 
other. The moon, as will later be shown, is not regarded by primitives as 
merely the measure of time but as the cause of time. 1 It is abundantly 
clear from these examples that days of general tabu observance, 
whether arising from special eventualities or whether periodic, do not 
originate from belief in the benefit of rest from labour, but from the 
persuasion that no business undertaken on those days could possibly 
prosper. It is the moon which is regarded as exercising the dangerous, 
malign influence, which is at its peak at certain phases of the lunar cycle. 

Though the conceptions attaching to the influence of the moon 
among primitives are complex, there can be little doubt that the original 
ground for the maleficent character universally ascribed to it is its 
association with the sexual functions of women. (As Darwin has sug- 
gested, the actual connection between the physiological and the lunar 
cycle is probably due to the fact that animal life developed originally in 
the sea, and hence was subject to the periodic environmental changes 
produced by the tide.) The correspondence between the cycle of sexual 
functions in women and the cycle of lunar changes has been noticed by 
even the rudest peoples. In every part of the world women reckon the 
periodicity of those functions by the moon. Menstruation — that is, 
‘moon-change’ — is commonly spoken of by all peoples as ‘the moon’. 
The peasants in Germany simply refer to women’s periods as ‘the 
moon’; and in France it is called ‘le moment de la lune’. I have heard of 
a judge in a native court in India being puzzled by the statement that a 
female witness was unable to attend the court because of the moon. The 
idea that menstruation is caused by the new moon is universal. Papuans 
say that a girl’s first menstruation is due to the moon having had connec- 
tion with her during her sleep, and the Maoris speak of menstruation as 
‘moon sickness’. A Maori stated : ‘The moon is the permanent husband, 
or true husband, of all women, because women menstruate when the 
moon appears. According to the knowledge of our ancestors and elders, 
the marriage of man and wife is a matter of no moment ; the moon is the 
real husband.’ We shall see that such conceptions are by no means 
peculiar to the Maori, but pervade primitive thought. 

By all peoples in lower phases of culture the moon is regarded 
primarily as a male. This is doubtless due to the notion that menstruation 
is due to sexual intercourse between the moon-god and women. In later 
stages the sex of the lunar power is changed, and the moon becomes the 
chief goddess, the Great Mother. Every great female deity, every Great 
Mother — Isis, Ishtar, Demeter, Artemis, Aphrodite — has the attributes 
of the moon and is a moon-goddess. 

1 See pp. 295-6. 



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The cult of moon deities, whether male or female, is everywhere the 
cult of women. Thus among the Ibo of Nigeria the periodical sabbath 
on the day of the new moon is called ‘The Women’s Day’. In the Congo 
women observe special rites at the new moon. The Wemba women 
whiten their faces at this time, and the Aleutians dance in the moon- 
light. These feminine lunar observances are conspicuous in the more 
advanced religions of western Asia, Egypt and Europe. Relics of them 
were, until lately, found in our midst. Thus in Yorkshire and the 
northern counties, according to Aubrey, ‘women doe worship the new 
moon on their bare knees, kneeling upon an earth-fast stone’. In Ire- 
land, on first seeing the new moon, they fall on their knees, saying: ‘O 
Moon! leave us as well as you found us.’ 

The Jewish Sabbath, as we know it, resembles that of the Babylon- 
ians, which was explained as a day of abstinence or propitiation. It is 
known as an ‘evil day’. In the calendar of Elul II in the British Museum, 
the seventh days are marked out as days on which no work should be 
undertaken. All other days are set down as favourable. Probably in 
earlier times only two days a month, the new moon and the full moon, 
were observed as sabbaths. We know from cuneiform tablets of the 
fourth dynasty of Ur, dating from the third millennium B.C., that at that 
period these two days were the chief days for sacrificial observances in 
Sumer. With the early Semites, as with the ancient Hindus, the Dayaks 
and the Polynesians, the monthly or fortnightly observance of tabu days 
became extended to four monthly days. 

It is not unlikely that on her ‘evil day’ the goddess was thought to be 
actually menstruating. The notion that goddesses are subject to the 
infirmities of mortal women is common in India today. Thus in Bengal 
it is believed that at the first burst of rain: ‘Mother Earth prepared 
herself for being fertilized by menstruating. During that time there is an 
entire cessation from all ploughing, sowing and other farm work.’ The 
menstruation of the Earth-goddess is thus observed by the Bengali as a 
sabbath. In Travancore there is an important ceremony known as 
‘trippukharattu’, or purification ceremony, in connection with the 
menstruation of the goddess, which is believed to take place about eight 
or ten times a year, in which a cloth wrapped around the metal image of 
the goddess is found to be discoloured with red spots and is subse- 
quently in demand as a holy relic. Another menstruating goddess is 
found at Chunganur. It is firmly believed even in some parts of Europe 
that the moon regularly menstruates. The peasants of Bavaria, for 
instance, when the moon is on the wane, say that she is ‘sickening’, 
using the same expression as they employ for a menstruating woman. 
Since the days of Homer, it has commonly been believed that drops of 
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rural populations as ‘moon-blood’. In Switzerland ‘the peasants do not 
look upon the “moon-blood” as a figurative expression but as an actual 
physical fact, in the same way as they look upon the moon itself as a real 
living being. Hence the moon is spoken of as “sickening”.’ In Ashanti 
the day of the new moon is called ‘the Day of Blood’, and the Yoruba 
believe that if they were to work in the fields that day the com would 
turn blood-red. 

The Jewish Sabbath dates from before any contact of the Hebrews 
with the Babylonians. The Jews reckoned it among their oldest institu- 
tions. The explanation of it as a day of rest connected with the account 
of the creation was a late theory, according to most competent critics. 
The division of the divine labours into six days, followed by a day of 
rest, proceeds from the institution of the seventh-day sabbath, rather 
than the latter from the former. The Jewish Sabbath is primarily a new 
moon and full moon observance, extended later to each phase of the 
moon. In a subsequent chapter we shall see how intimately ancient 
Hebrew religion was associated, in its origins, with lunar cults, though 
traces of this association were carefully obliterated by editors of the 
sacred scriptures. Yet the connection of the Sabbath with the phases of 
the moon is constantly referred to in the Old Testament. Thus when the 
Shulamite woman wished to consult the prophet Elisha, her husband 
asked : ‘Wherefore wilt thou go to him today ? It is not new moon or 
Sabbath.’ And Amos represents the Jewish profiteers as impatient at the 
restrictions placed on the business by the tabu days, and as exclaiming : 
‘When will the new moon be gone, that we may sell grain? and the 
Sabbath that we set forth wheat . . . ?’ Isaiah, at a time when it was still 
uncertain what practices belonged to the religion of Yahweh and which 
were foreign corruptions, denounced in one breath both ‘new moon and 
Sabbath’. The two are thus constantly associated. (See also Hosea ii. n ; 
Psalms lxxxi. 3.) This association has never been effaced. It is considered 
among Jews to be ‘a very pious act to bless the moon at the close of the 
Sabbath’. 

As with most primitive peoples, the observance of the Hebrew 
Sabbath is regarded as the particular concern of the women. Hosea, 
inveighing against the corrupt practices of Jewish women and speaking 
in the name of Yahweh, exclaims : ‘I will cause all her mirth to cease, 
her feast days, her new moons, and her Sabbaths, and all her solemn 
feasts.’ The character of the sabbath as a women’s festival is several 
times referred to in Talmudic literature, and the sabbath itself is 
spoken of as ‘the Queen’, or ‘the bride’. In the Kikur Sh’lh, it is set out 
that ‘God has given the first day of the month as a festival more for 
women than for men’. To this day, among Jews, it is customary among 
women to abstain from work on the day of the new moon. 



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The Hebrew Sabbath did not differ in origin and character from the 
tabu days of the most primitive peoples. The Jewish institution, already 
popular in Roman society, where Oriental religious observances had 
become fashionable, was adopted by the Christian Church. But Greeks 
and Romans had been immemorially familiar with the observance of 
restrictions on certain tabu days, and especially the day of the new moon. 
When the trial of the bow of Odysseus was proposed to the suitors, they 
objected that it was the day of the new moon and therefore unbeseeming. 
The Greek lunar tabu days never extended to the four monthly phase 
days, but were mostly confined to the first. Although there was no 
general stoppage of business, most public activities except those of a 
religious character were intermitted, and it was considered unsuitable 
for farm-work. A less solemn monthly festival was held on the day of the 
full moon. The Romans observed the Kalends, or days of the new moon, 
in a similar manner, and in old-fashioned households it was customary 
for the paterfamilias to remain at home and offer prayers to the family 
gods. The introduction of the Hebrew usage did not, therefore, bring 
any startling change to the Romans. 

Thus, although our inquiry into the connection between the Sabbath 
and the tabu on menstruating women may have taken us somewhat far 
afield, the connection is a close one; and the observance which in our 
own country bears most closely the character of a primitive tabu is 
immediately dependent upon what we have reason to regard as the first 
tabu, or moral prohibition, imposed upon the instincts of primitive 
mankind. 



CHAPTER 17 


The Totem 


The Sacredness of Food 

Most tabus refer to food and to the manner of eating it. For instance, 
the strict rules regulating food preparation among Jews and Muham- 
medans are familiar. In the religion of civilized peoples the act of eating 
plays a prominent part ; the chief Christian sacrament is a mystic meal, 
and meals are often begun and sometimes ended with a blessing. In 
Scotland neglect of these observances is considered dangerous, not only 
to the consumers but to anyone near. A man who suddenly felt faint in a 
Scottish village was told that he had passed a house where people had 
taken food without asking for a blessing ; to counteract this, he must eat 
a piece of bread over which the name of the Trinity had been pro- 
nounced. 

When a person is tabu, the tabu applies to everything which has been 
part of his body, such as his hair or spittle ; also to food intended for him 
or left over by him. The strictest menstrual prohibitions refer to men- 
struating women handling or cooking food, which would thereby become 
poisonous. Since these rites conflict with the utilitarian value of food, 
they imply some underlying interest ; the only such interest relevant to 
primitive psychology is the reproductive instinct. Just as food is the 
prototype of utilitarian and economic values, the reproductive impulse is 
the prototype of emotional non-utilitarian ones, and since the former are 
typically male interests and the latter female and non-individualistic, it 
is here that we must look for the explanation. 1 

Ignorance concerning the Physiology of Generation 
The knowledge that the father contributes equally with the mother to 
the life of the offspring dates only from the seventeenth century, and 
Spallanzani’s discovery in 1785 of the male germ-cells was greeted by 
fierce controversy. In Aristotle’s view the child was formed entirely from 
menstrual blood; and, as Pliny said, ‘The man’s seed serveth in steed of 
runnet to gather it round into a curd which afterwards in process of time 

1 The comparative sterility of women in creative art appears to contradict this 
distinction, but it must be remembered that art represents an opposition between 
intellectual control and emotional motive. A woman, as Madame de StaSl 
remarked, either has children or writes books. 



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quickeneth and groweth to the forme of a bo die.’ This is a general view 
in the lower phases of culture. 

Paternity was not regarded by the most primitive peoples as a physio- 
logical relation, but as a social and juridic claim. A father is ‘responsible’ 
for a woman’s child in an economic and juridic sense; the Roman jurists 
declared that the relation between mother and child is a natural fact, 
whereas paternity belongs entirely to the sphere of civil law, and this is 
so not only because the actual paternity may be uncertain but because 
the physiological conception of paternity is absent. The peasant popula- 
tions of Europe hold similar views. Physical or mental resemblance 
between father and child is accounted for in other ways, e.g. it is thought 
that the child is a reincarnation of some ancestor or that the mother’s 
maternal impressions impart to the child the likeness to the father. 
When in the early days of Australia women gave birth to light-coloured 
children in tribes near to white settlements, this was accounted for by 
the changed diet, such as white bread obtained from the white man. 
Spencer and Gillen state that the Australian tribes they studied recog- 
nized no relation between sexual congress and reproduction, a report 
which, when first published, gave rise to much incredulity, but which 
has since been independently confirmed and is reported of almost all the 
wilder Australian tribes. 

This is not surprising, for primitive ideas of reproduction are often 
extremely vague. Some tribes have been astonished to learn that men- 
struation could occur without sexual intercourse; others believe that 
pregnancy can only result from repeated connections. The Sinaugolo 
Papuans believe that conception takes place in the breast and have no 
knowledge of the female internal organs. Among savages pregnancy is 
usually diagnosed by comparatively late symptoms, often not before 
quickening takes place. The Baku Bahau of Central Borneo think that 
pregnancy lasts from four to five months ; that is, they are ignorant of 
the date of conception. The Tuareg of the Ahir think it possible that 
pregnancy may last several years. Or again, in Europe, the southern 
Slavs believe that it may sometimes last only six weeks. The Baku Bahau 
expect to breed from castrated dogs. This is not too surprising, since 
Sicilian peasants do not suspect that the seminal fluid is secreted by the 
testicles, but believe it comes from the spinal marrow. In the Trobriand 
Islands girls who wish to avoid pregnancy are more careful not to bathe 
at high tide than to abstain from sexual intercourse. The North Ameri- 
can Indians, like the Australians, believe that women may be impreg- 
nated by the souls of the unborn. 

In general, among uncultured peoples sexual congress is not looked 
upon as the cause of conception, even where it is regarded as related to 
it; a woman conceives because a spirit entered into her, and man can at 
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most act as a medium for the transmission of that spirit. Thus the Nuer 
of the Upper Nile attribute pregnancy to their god, Kosz, ‘with the 
assistance of the husband’. Analogously, the Roman Catholic Church 
teaches that the soul of the human being ‘is created and united by God 
to the infant body yet unborn, which union is called passive conception, 
in which parents have no part’. The problem how children could be born 
from an adulterous union, since God is the real father of every child and 
yet condemns adultery, puzzled some of the early Fathers. 

Immaculate Conception through Food , etc. 

Belief in immaculate conception is universal. It is the usual manner in 
which gods and heroes are conceived even in non-savage societies, and 
legends of impregnation by non-human agencies are innumerable. The 
Subanu of Mindanao, for example, believe that conception may take 
place through the operation of the moon, the sun, by bathing in the sea 
or in other waters, by eating various foods. Pliny, Vergil, St Augustine 
believed that mares could be fertilized by the wind. In northern India, 
as in America, young women are careful not to Unger in the sunlight 
while they are menstruating for fear of pregnancy. A Mongol princess 
conceived through the operation of a hailstorm, and another by an 
aurora borealis. We read similarly of the old inhabitants of Scotland 
that a young girl, walking on an old battlefield, became pregnant when 
a whirlwind threw some of the ashes in her private member. 

In many stories of virgin births conception is caused by something 
eaten; the virgin goddesses and princesses of China usually conceived 
by eating a lotus flower; the Shang Dynasty was descended from a 
princess who became pregnant through eating swallows’ eggs. The 
Divine Mother in Japanese tradition conceived through eating cherries. 
Hera conceived Hephaistos by eating a flower, and in the Finnish poem 
of Kalevala, Mariatta conceives through eating a bilberry. In several 
stories virgins conceive through eating bone-dust. Jacob, no doubt, was 
conceived by Rebecca from her eating the fruit of the mandrake, 

( Genesis xxx. 14-24). Throughout northern India coconuts are eaten to 
cause conception, and Hindu women, Uke those in Tuscany and Portu- 
gal, obtain consecrated food from priests with this object. The dew 
from a mistletoe bough or an infusion of the plant caused animals and 
women to become pregnant, according to the ancient Celts, from which 
derives our own attitude to the mistletoe. The Ainu of Japan and the 
natives of Mabuiag in the Torres Straits take a similar view. 

Relation between Food and Offspring 

Now, it is universally held that eating the flesh of an animal imparts its 
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swiftness from antelopes, ability to jump from kangaroos. Conversely, 
eating deer makes men timid and eating the flesh of cattle makes them 
slow. Eskimo children are given seals’ eyes to eat so that their eyes may 
become bright and clear. The Greeks believed that to eat a nightingale 
would cause insomnia. 

Sometimes it is thought that the person will become completely 
assimilated with the eaten. Thus in the Celebes a woman, after eating 
snake’s flesh, turned into a snake. 

The effect of food on pregnant women is particularly pronounced. 
Indian women of the Gran Chaco do not eat mutton after marriage lest 
their children be flat-nosed. The Ibibio of Southern Nigeria, like the 
natives of Anatolia, think that if a mother eats snails her baby will slaver. 
Similar prohibitions are found in every part of the world from South 
Italy to Penrhyn Island. So numerous are these dangers that primitive 
women are very restricted in diet. Gipsy women eat cocks or hens, 
according to the desired sex of the child, and in southern Hungary they 
eat slices of quince sprinkled with the blood of a strong man. 

Most people believe that the fancies which pregnant women conceive 
for certain food must be satisfied at all costs, and men have been known 
to go fifty miles to obtain strange articles of diet, such as tadpoles or red 
ants’ nests. The Hausa regard birth-marks as the result of leaving such 
fancies unsatisfied, and in Italy they are actually called ‘voglie’ — that is, 
‘fancies’. 

The Importance of Food Animals 

For primitive man the capture of animal prey must for long have been 
far from an everyday occurrence. Even today it is often a red-letter day. 
Savages are ravenously fond of meat, even where they are, from local 
circumstances, mainly agriculturists. Among the Baganda, women are 
said to have at times such craving for meat that they bite the ears of 
their own children. The Wachanga of the Kilimanjaro region will travel 
miles to have a drink of blood. The art of twenty thousand years ago 
deals almost exclusively with animals. The animal on which his food 
supply depended was the centre of man' s primitive interest ; it was his totem . 
(The notion of an intimate relationship between a man and a natural 
object, generally an animal, prevalent in many parts of the uncivilized 
world, is known among the Ojibwa as a totem, from which the word has 
been adopted.) Such traditions are also found in comparatively advanced 
cultures, but, since many changes in the food supply must have occurred 
in the course of migrations and altered conditions, we cannot expect to 
find totemism still in its original primitive form. To interpret totemic 
ideas is difficult. Though many totems consist of natural or even arti- 
ficial objects, there is little doubt that they were originally animals or 



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plants. The primitive identifies himself with his totem, believes himself 
to be of the same species and endeavours to assimilate himself to it. 
We find tribes whose totem is the wind or the sun, or even a tool or 
weapon, but it is clear that a man could not identify himself perman- 
ently with such things, and they must represent badges which are mere 
survivals of the original totemic idea. 

The totem is frequently tabu. It may not be eaten, killed or injured ; 
sometimes it may not even be looked at, but this is comparatively rare, 
and in Australia, as in North America, men kill the totem animals when 
opportunity serves, though the Western Australian tribes will not kill 
their totem ‘if they find it asleep’ and are said to ‘kill it reluctantly’. In 
Chota Nagpur ‘the general attitude of the Oraon to his clan-totem is 
that of a man to his equal, to his friend and ally’. Often the totem is 
killed only after the formality of offering it an apology. 

It is therefore difficult to believe that the totem originally had a 
sacred character. As a rule, in primitive societies the awe with which a 
sacred being is regarded tends to grow rather than to diminish. It is 
therefore inconceivable that in societies which still possess a complete 
totemic organization, this character could have wholly disappeared. 
It is often suggested that where the totem is unceremoniously treated 
totemic ideas are in a state of decadence, yet the whole organization and 
many of the quasi-religious ideas of Australian tribes centre round the 
totem, although it is clearly not tabu. 

It is in Africa, where totemic ideas are overlaid with others and where 
totemic organization is mostly in decay, that we commonly find rigorous 
prohibitions and sentiments of awe attached to it. Further, the tabu on 
eating the totem still has solemn force where every other trace of totem- 
ism has disappeared; while in the more primitive totemic societies the 
breach of food tabus is rarely regarded with horror. We must therefore 
regard the tabu character as secondary. 

Among many totemic peoples a breach of the tabu is not only permis- 
sible but a duty, on certain occasions. Thus, the Edo of Nigeria must eat 
a mouthful of the totem animal on the occasion of the annual festival 
and at the funeral of any member of the totem clan. The food is merely 
tasted; sometimes it is only taken in the mouth and spat out. Similarly 
the King of the Banyoro, a pastoral people, fives normally on milk, but 
must eat a small portion of veal at the chief ceremonies, not as a meal but 
as a sacrifice to bring blessing on all the food of the land. Among the 
Central Australian tribes many of the rites refer distinctly to such a 
meal, although eating a totem does not today form part of the ceremony. 
They rub the sacred ‘churingas’ on their stomachs, for they are sup- 
posed to represent, or to contain, the essence of the totem. As they do so, 
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place at spots stated to be those where the ancestors of the clan cooked 
and ate the totem for food. Although the known instances of the ritual 
eating of a totem which is otherwise tabu are not numerous they are very 
widespread, and they so closely resemble the ritual meals of higher 
cultures that we must suspect that the latter had their roots in totemic 
ideas. 

Long before the ritual usages of totemic peoples were known, 
Robertson Smith concluded that the ceremonial eating of the totem was 
a feature of totemic belief and he illustrated his view by the description 
left by St Nilus of the sacrificial eating of a consecrated camel among 
certain tribes of Arabs on the Sinai peninsula. One of the rules was that 
the whole beast must be consumed, hair, intestines and all, before the 
sun rose. This rule is almost universal in primitive ritual meals, and was 
observed by the ancient Hebrews when they partook of the Paschal 
Lamb. We have noted it among the Australian Narrinyeri; it was ob- 
served by the Algonkins. The Gallas of Abyssinia still practice rites 
similar to those described by St Nilus; they say that the eating of 
sacrificial flesh causes a spirit to enter their bodies. The Catholic mis- 
sionary who reports this laughed when they told him; but when he saw 
how scandalized they were at his impiety he became more serious and 
he comments that ‘the conviction that a supernatural being enters into 
them at the moment when they masticate the victim is akin to the 
fundamental idea of the Holy Communion’. When these same Gallas, in 
the seventeenth century, saw the Jesuits celebrating Mass, they were 
convinced that the consecrated hosts were portions of the spinal marrow 
of a hare. 

The much-discussed question whether the eating of the totem is an 
essential part of totemic practices appears to be misleading. If the totem 
was originally the staple food of the tribe, to eat it would not be a cere- 
mony but a necessity. Meal and ritual were originally one and the same. 
The Algonkins eat the meal with just the same ritual observances as the 
sacrificial communions just described, but this was simply the meal that 
they ate when they returned from the chase with a supply of food. As a 
Jesuit missionary comments : ‘The heathen do not partake of any meal 
without making a sacrifice.’ 

Such meals are presided over by one of the older men of the tribe, 
who open the proceedings with a solemn invocation ; and various rules 
were observed, such as that no cutting instrument might be used. The 
flesh of the animal had to be tom after the manner of primitive man. In 
the laws of Leviticus, none of the bones of the animal might be broken; 
the whole carcass must be consumed. These, in short, were ordinary 
meals; the special significance which attached to them was as much a 
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substantiation. In short, mystic and ritual meals were probably not 
originally religious ceremonies with symbolic meanings but ordinary 
meals. A ritual is a dramatic performance done in memory of the 
significance which the act once possessed. Primitive man never merely 
shoots an arrow, chops a piece of wood, lights a fire, but always accom- 
panies such functional acts by words and actions of a magical character; 
thus there is primitively no distinction between ritual and utilitarian 
actions, between ‘religious’ and ‘secular’ acts. This is universally true; 
among the ancient Greeks cooks and butchers were regarded as quasi- 
priestly for, as Athcnacus knew, the butcher was originally a sacrificer 
and the slaughtering of meat a priestly function. 

In short, the totem was probably originally the food of the clan. In 
several instances, we find it continuing to be the staple or favourite food 
even when raised to a divine position. Thus the Huancas of Peru, who 
worshipped the dog as a deity, ‘considered the flesh of a dog to be the 
the most savoury meat’. ‘It may be supposed’, remarks Garcilasso de la 
Vega, ‘that they worshipped the dog because they were fond of its flesh.’ 
Other Peruvians adored maize because it was their bread, and others the 
fish, which they caught in great abundance ; while the Gollas worshipped 
the white sheep, for they were owners of innumerable flocks. The God 
of the Seri Indians is the great pelican, one of their chief sources of 
animal food, although there is the germ of a tabu in the prohibition on 
killing it during the breeding season. The Oraon clan regards its totemic 
fish as tabu today, but tradition states that they once lived by eating it. 
Some of the tribes of Western Australia were even more explicit. 

Conception through eating the Totem 

The transformation of the totem to a sacred food is logical enough for, 
if the totem was originally the food of the tribe, it is truly from its sub- 
stance that every member of the tribe was formed. This is in harmony 
with the universal supposition that the child’s characteristics are 
determined by the food which its mother eats. The Wogait of South 
Australia say that when a man kills game he must give some to his wife, 
believing that the food will cause her to conceive. Among the tribes of 
the Cairn district of North Queensland acceptance of food from a man 
by a woman is regarded, not merely as a marriage ceremony but as the 
actual cause of conception. Elsewhere the man who kills an animal tells 
its spirit, as it is dying, to go to a particular woman, from whom it is 
thereupon reborn as a child. A native told Mr A. R. Brown that his 
father had speared a small animal, now probably extinct, called a 
‘bandary’, and he showed him a mark in his side where, as he said, he 
had been speared by his father before being eaten by his mother. The 
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The presentation of food by a man to a woman is a customary wed- 
ding rite in every part of the world. It is essential among North American 
tribes, among the natives of Uganda and elsewhere. Even in the Upani- 
shads we read: ‘Animals spring from seed, and the seed is the food.’ 

With the passage of time, the food supply changes; some animals 
become extinct and their appearance is forgotten. When this has 
occurred, a woman’s impregnation cannot be set down to an article of 
food which she has not in fact eaten, and the theory must be adapted. 

Where the totem animal has vanished entirely, dreams and impres- 
sions must take its place as means of conception ; thus among Western 
and Central Australian tribes conception is ascribed to the women 
having been near certain spots where the spirits of unborn members of 
a particular totem group are lying in wait, but we are told that these are 
the places where the ancestors of the tribe actually ate the totem. Since 
women who had actually eaten it would hardly ascribe the impregnation 
to the action of the totem spirit at a distance, we must assume that this 
represents an alternative way, developed when the practice of actually 
eating the totem had ceased . 1 

The Totem as Tribal Ancestor 

The totem is also an expression of primitive social organization; the 
unity of the clan is conceived as founded on the bond which the totem 
constitutes. Most totemic people, asked to explain the significance of 
their totem, say that it is their father or the ancestor of the clan. With 
the most primitive totemic peoples the relation is not so much one of 
historical ancestry as of identity of substance. An Australian native said, 
pointing to a photograph which had been taken of him, ‘that one is the 
same as me; so is a kangaroo’. The Bororo of Brazil, whose totem is a 
red macaw, believe that they arc similar to it in appearance. They say : 
‘We arc macaws.’ Many North American tribes think likewise. 

As man comes to think himself descended from a totem ancestor rather 
than identical with it, the totem tends to assume indefinitely human 
attributes. Thus among the Alcheringa of Australia a man of the 
Kangaroo totem may sometimes be spoken of as a man-kangaroo or as a 
kangaroo-man, while the ancestor, by natural evolution, tends to assume 
the character of a deity and a creator. Thus the Aborigines of Victoria 
say that the world was created by the eagle-totem and the crow-totem. 
The jay ‘was at that time a man’. The iguana ‘plays the part of an august 
divine being’ at the initiation ceremonies of the Murring tribe. 

J Sir James Frazer has set forth a theory of the origin of totemism which closely 
resembles the one here put forward, but he thinks that it may cause conception 
in a number of other ways besides being eaten, though, as he comments in many 
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As in Australia, so in North America. Among the Wyandots the sun 
was created by the Little Turtle. The Manitu of the Delawares is an 
elk; elsewhere he is a beaver, a bison, a squirrel, an otter or a dog. This 
fusion between animals, men and gods is equally conspicuous among 
the peoples of northern Asia. Thus among almost all Siberian tribes the 
most important divinity is the Great Raven, and the Koryak declare 
that in his time ‘there was no sharp distinction between men, animals 
and other objects’. 

Obviously such a totem tends to become sacred, and, from being the 
ordinary article of food, it tends to become prohibited. By a common 
subterfuge only the least attractive parts of the animal are eaten, a 
device which was also found among the ancient Egyptians. Possibly some 
of the split totems may have resulted from the segmentation of clans 
originally having the same animal for their totem. However, no doubt 
many totems never had any connection with the food supply of the clan, 
for in every society new clans must of necessity come into being and 
they must then assume a totem which is little more than an arbitrary 
badge. 

To recapitulate, then, we find a number of linked ideas: 

(1) Many tabus refer to eating. 

(2) A woman may be impregnated by eating. 

(3) The child may be influenced sympathetically to resemble the 
animal eaten. 

(4) Men identify themselves with their totem animal. 

(5) The totem may become the tribal ancestor. 

(6) The totem animal is eaten, sometimes with apologies or precau- 
tions. 

This constellation of ideas seems explicable on the assumption that 
totems were originally the animals on which the clan depended for sup- 
port but which have since become rare, and rituals in which the flesh of 
an ancestor-deity is eaten arise in this way. 

Diffusion and Fundamental Conceptions of Totemism 

Totemism, together with the exogamic totem-clan organization, exists 
in North America, among some tribes of Central and South America, in 
many parts of Africa, among several of the Dravidian races of India, and 
is prominent in almost all of the Australian tribes. Conclusive indica- 
tions of its former existence are found in Melanesia, New Guinea, 
Micronesia and Indonesia. This makes it clear that we have to do with 
one of the most fundamental conceptions of the human mind, and its 
existence in Australia shows that such ideas date back to the Pleistocene 
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universal . 1 However, we are not justified in inferring, every time we find 
a people worshipping a god in the form of an animal, that such people 
once had an animal for their totem. It is improbable that bulls and 
serpents, which are constantly associated with gods, were formerly 
totems, for the symbolizm which has given rise to this association is 
clearly traceable, although the process of making such an association 
may derive from the traditional habit of associating animals with gods. 

Furthermore, we come across conceptions identical with those of 
totemic peoples among peoples who show no other traces of totemism ; 
for instance, the Eskimo, than whom no race shows a more complete 
absence of totemic organization . 2 Nevertheless, the conceptions we have 
been discussing are as prominent in the ideas of the Eskimo as in the 
most typical totemic society. The animals on which they live are not 
regarded as prey, but with sentiments of sympathy and almost venera- 
tion; the hunting of animals is subject to complex magical rites, designed 
to conciliate them, so that they will allow themselves to be killed, and 
this is done with apologies. After a seal, a walrus or a whale has been 
killed mourning rites are observed with the same ritual as for humans. 
The cooking and consumption of the meat are subject to ritual rules, 
and certain parts of the animal must not be injured. The soul of the 
slaughtered creature is supposed to reside in its bladder, and these 
bladders are the most sacred of Eskimo objects. The food animals are 
regarded as limbs of the Great Goddess Sedna, the moon, who is also 
represented as a walrus ; at the same time, they are also represented as 
human beings. The Eskimo also have a notion of conception similar to 
that of the Australians ; a pregnant woman may only eat game which her 
husband has killed, and should she eat any other animal food the hus- 
band would not regard her child as his. The extent to which the 
Eskimo retain or exhibit such ideas shows how fundamental they must 
be, and perhaps the failure of their conceptions to develop into a social 
tribal organization has helped to preserve their original character. 

The primitive man’s belief that his strength is derived from his food, 

1 The substitution of theriomorphic divinities as pseudo-totems for the ori- 
ginal clan-totems is found in the lowest stages of culture. Thus the numerous 
snake, bird and stone ‘totems’ of the Melanesian races of eastern New Guinea 
are certainly not totems in the original sense. As Sir James Frazer says of the 
divine beings, represented as a shark and a crocodile in Yam, ‘they seem to be on 
the point of sloughing off their animal skins and developing into purely anthro- 
pomorphic heroes or gods’. 

Captain Cook directly observed the adoption of an animal as a totem on the 
Island of Atiu where he presented some people with a dog. The clan then adopted 
this animal as their totem and declared it was their ancestor. 

2 Though some authorities declare that the Inuit have no totemic system, Mr 
Nelson thought he noticed among the Eskimo of the Bering Straits some sug- 
gestions of totemic institutions. 

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and that his body and spirit were first formed from the food which his 
mother ate, leads to magical practices designed to promote the food 
supply, and when tribal groups are distinguished from each other, the 
organization is founded upon such conceptions, but this organization 
does not depend upon magical or religious ideas but is a corollary of 
totemic ideas which are probably more general in distribution. 

Priestly Clans 

We can sec how, when totemism decays by the multiplication of totem 
clans, a priesthood could emerge. The members of a totem can exert a 
special influence over their totem animal : members of the Omaha bird 
clan can stop birds eating the corn, and members of the Kansas wind 
clan can create a breeze. When Mr Hollis’s porters in East Africa 
were attacked by a swarm of ferocious bees and were compelled to 
abandon their loads, a Nandi, belonging to the bee totem, volunteered 
to quieten the bees, for, he said, ‘they belonged to him’. Naked, he 
approached the spot and whistled the bees back into their hive without 
being stung. If a man is injured by his totem animal, this is often taken 
as a clear indication that he is not a true member of the totem. Ana- 
logously, ceremonies calculated to promote fertility arc more effectual 
when carried out by members of a totem clan in regard to their own 
totem. Thus, such members enjoy a privilege belonging to them by birth. 
The specialization of a particular totem-group in such matters benefits 
the whole clan, and the clan whose totem has a general economic impor- 
tance becomes a sort of magical society or, as it might be called, a col- 
lege of priests. Such a group, therefore, comes to have magical powers 
with regard to the ancestors of the clan, and so over all forces vital to the 
clan’s welfare, such as the control of rain or luck in war. Such clans will 
become sacred clans, royal clans; their power will be exercised on 
behalf of the people to propitiate the god who represents the transformed 
ancestral totem, and who can only be approached through their media- 
tion. Their sacred character depends upon the fleshly kinship between 
the priest and the god, and this identity with the god is reproduced by 
rites of eating in many religions. 

Primitive Tribal Solidarity 

Such ideas have been the corner-stone of human social solidarity. The 
members of the clan regard themselves as members of one body through 
the community of food. In Arabic and in Hebrew the same word signifies 
‘flesh’, ‘kindred’ or ‘clan’. A similar nomenclature is used in Tibet and 
elsewhere. The word ‘ebussia’, for instance, is used by the Fanti of the 
Gold Coast to connote either the totemic animal or the maternal family. 
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not rest upon a concept but upon a spontaneous sentiment, the irradia- 
tion of the maternal instincts. A primitive man’s solidarity is represented 
in his conceptions by the community of food. The Ojibwa Indians state 
that they have totems in order that ‘they might never forget they were all 
related to each other, and that in time of distress or war they were 
bound to help each other’. It is a universal rule among totemic savages 
that when travelling in strange territory a man enquires for persons 
bearing his own totem, and is at once recognized by them as a brother. 
When there is any possibility of disloyalty, solidarity is confirmed not by 
rules and penalties but by exchanging blood and emphasizing the iden- 
tity of substance. If the Arunta wish to prevent a stranger from revealing 
their war plans, they force open his mouth and pour down blood of the 
clansmen; after which it is inconceivable that he should give away their 
plan. From this derives the conception of the relationship created 
between host and guest by the partaking of common food, and Oriental 
history abounds with instances in which the animosities of mortal foes 
have been paralysed by their having taken food together. A robber who 
gained access to the palace of the prince of Sagistan, happening to touch 
some salt with his lips when he stumbled, had to withdraw empty- 
handed. 

As totemic ideas decayed, concepts derived from them took their 
place — loyalties to divine kings, to a brotherhood, to the state, to the 
throne — but they have proved poor substitutes. Sometimes we can see 
among family groups in our own society the strange contrast of strong 
loyalty within the group and complete callousness to those outside it. 

Where the interests of one member are the interests of all, an injury 
to one is an injury to all. There can be, as Mr Taplin says of South 
Australians, ‘no personal property; all belong to the members collec- 
tively and are the possessions of the clan. Each man cares for his neigh- 
bour’s property because it is part of the collective wealth’. A fisherman 
will call his friends to consult over the repairs to a canoe or to discuss 
the marriage of his son. He is surprised that one should expect him to 
act on his individual judgment; this would be dishonestly to ignore the 
rights of others. Similarly the individual has no personal rights over 
game or food which he may obtain, and the hunter may go short himself 
that others should receive the recognized share. ‘Communism', says the 
Rev. W. Ridley, ‘is another law of the aborigines. They hold the doctrine 
of M. Proudhon, “La propriete e’est le vol”.’ The same surprising 
ignorance of property has been noted among the Fuegians. ‘The perfect 
equality among individuals composing Fuegian tribes is’, Darwin 
thought, ‘fatal to any hope of their becoming civilized.’ A comparable 
communism is practised among the Eskimo, the Veddahs, in Tahiti 
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‘The Indians in their common state are strangers to all distinction of 
property, except in articles of domestic use.’ La Hontan notes that the 
Indians ‘say that amongst us folks will rob, slander, betray, sell one 
another for money . . . they think it strange that some should have more 
goods than others . . . they never quarrel and fight among themselves, 
nor steal from one another or speak ill of one another'. ‘What is extremely 
surprising’, says Father Charlevoix, ‘is to see them treat one another 
with a gentleness and consideration which one does not find among 
common people in the most civilized nations. This, doubtless, arises in 
part from the fact that the words “mine” and “thine”, which St 
Chrysostom says extinguish in our hearts the fire of charity and kindle 
that of greed, are unknown to these savages.’ 

The steadfast fidelity of such men to their fellow-clansmen, found also 
among the Arabs, can be paralleled in Sparta. 

Primitive human nature differed considerably from what we often 
assume to be human nature in general. Primitives do not think in terms 
of their ego and its interests, but in terms of the group-individual. Such 
ideas are not the result of totemistic beliefs ; totemistic beliefs are the 
result of such ideas. The individualism which is the alpha and omega of 
the motives of modern man is not a primitive character but a product of 
social evolution, which has developed mainly, if not solely, in relation 
to social circumstances, and more especially to the growth of personal 
property. Where primitive man has had a few years of contact with 
Europeans a transformation occurs, and the chief cause is acquisition 
of private property and his taking part in individual transactions. The 
peasants of Europe closely resemble the savage in their traditions, but 
differ from him in one respect — they are proprietors, and instead of 
betraying sentiments of social solidarity they display narrow selfishness. 
It is not the operation of individualistic instincts which has given rise 
to the acquisition of personal property, but just the reverse. 



CHAPTER 18 


The Witch and the Priestess 


Primitive Religion not Speculative 

I t has been almost universally assumed that women have had little, if 
any, pan in the development of religious systems, even though they have 
often been their chief votaries. Such an idea should not be accepted as 
self-evident. True, women are little disposed to construct speculative 
systems. But it would be profoundly wrong to suppose that religious 
ideas have grown out of intellectual systems ; rather the reverse. Primi- 
tive man is strangely unconcerned about philosophical questions. The 
following questions were put to a very intelligent Zulu : ‘Have you any 
knowledge of the power by whom the world was made ? When you see 
the sun rising and setting, and the trees growing, do you know who made 
them and governs them ?’ The Zulu, after a thoughtful pause, replied : 
‘No, we see them, but cannot tell how they come; we suppose they come 
of themselves.’ 1 

The Totem as Creator 

The totem is by its very nature the tribe’s progenitor and creator; this 
creative function is naturally extended to include the creation of the 
habitat of the tribe, i.e. the world. The animal nature of ancestral totems 
is, we have seen, but vaguely differentiated from their human nature. 
The iguana, the turtle, the emu in Australia, the Great Hare, the White 
Eagle in America, the Great Raven in Siberia, are all tribal Fathers, 
supreme magicians, creators To the tribal ancestor are gradually 
ascribed all the the functions tmceable to a superior agency controlling 
the destinies of the tribe. He instituted the tribal customs of which no 
one knows the origin, and is angry at any breach of them. 

In more advanced stages the totem or mythic ancestor of the oldest 
and most influential clan occupies a position superior to that of all other 

1 Many similar statements have been cited to show that such savages have no 
gods. This does not follow; it only proves that the savage’s conception of a god 
differs from the theologian’s. Actually primitive man generally recognizes beings 
who may readily be viewed as divine though in many respects most undivine; 
when asked what beings he regards as possessing the divine attributes of the 
theologian’s God, he has no hesitation in referring to them, and he recognizes his 
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tribal totems. He is not merely a clan ancestor, but a tribal ancestor, a 
tribal god. He is not merely the source of a particular supply of food, but 
a dispenser of subsistence, the controller of the tribe’s fortunes. The 
dominant clan is the mediator between the tribe and the controller of its 
destinies. The headman of the sacred clan is the representative of the 
god, his ancestor; he is his earthly avatar, his incarnation, indistinguish- 
able from the god himself. In Madagascar the King is simply known as 
‘God on Earth’, and the creation of the world is ascribed to one of his 
ancestors. The Queen of Angola, on being asked who made the world 
and who fecundated the ground and ripened the fruits thereof, replied 
without hesitation. ‘My ancestors’. ‘Then’, rejoined the Capuchin who 
was catechising her, ‘does your Majesty enjoy the whole power of your 
ancestors ?’ ‘Yes’, answered the Queen, ‘and much more, for over and 
above what they had I am absolute mistress of the kingdom of Matamba.’ 

The divine king does not derive his status from any personal merit or 
attributes, but from the fact of his descent from the god. With the 
development, by ambitious conquerors, of royal power, the character of 
the divine ancestor is enormously enhanced. To us the identification of 
primitive kings with the supreme deity appears sacrilege or flattery. 
But, as a matter of fact, it is not so much the royal personage who is 
exalted by being assimilated to a god, as the primitive god who is 
exalted by the attributes of his earthly representative. The rude tribal 
god, who is in general treated with scanty reverence, first acquires 
majesty when impersonated by a powerful monarch. 

The ancestral god has a special function, closely related to his original 
totemic character: rain-making. Whatever may be the source of a 
people’s food supply, the most important factor determining its abun- 
dance is the weather, and especially the rainfall. It is difficult for us to 
realise fully the meaning of rain or drought to the primitive man. In 
Australia a drought means misery and death to the blacks. In South 
Africa, remarks Father Junod, ‘drought is equivalent to famine, and 
famine to death’. 

The rain from heaven has been the supreme determinant of the his- 
tory of humanity. The great movements of pre-history, which have 
determined the present distribution of human races, took place mainly, 
if not solely, under the urge of the fatal drought. What is now the great 
African desert was one of the first regions from which peoples were 
driven northwards by the failure of the means of subsistence to people 
Mediterranean shores and Northern Europe. 

Thus it is not by mere poetic fancy that heaven is the abode of the 
gods. The supreme gods of early religions not only dwell in heaven but 
are the heavens or the heavenly bodies, thought of as controllers of the 
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peoples the divine name ‘Nyamkum’ means ‘sky’ or ‘rain’. Among the 
Makuas the same word means ‘sky’, ‘clouds’, or ‘God’. With the Basetos 
of the Upper Nile the supreme god is simply ‘the rain-maker’. The same 
nomenclature obtains in Asia. Among the Mongols the supreme god is 
Tengri, ‘the sky’; in China, Ti, ‘the sky’; in Vedic India, Dyaeus, ‘the 
sky’; in Persia, Ahura, ‘the azure sky’. In Greece he was Zeus, ‘the sky’, 
‘the cloud-compeller’. Yahweh, the god of the ancient Hebrews, was a 
rain-god ; ‘He shall come unto us as the rain’, says the prophet Hosea, 
‘as the latter and former rain unto the earth.’ 

Thus it is that one of the chief, if not indeed the chief, functions of all 
primitive priest-kings was the control of the weather, and more particu- 
larly of the rainfall — as Frazer has pointed out. A king was primarily a 
maker of rain, and originally was probably the headman of the clan 
which was credited with the greatest power of wielding such control. 
All African kings were primarily rain-makers. For instance, the function 
of the King of Loango which most impressed the first missionaries was 
his obligation to make rain. In Somaliland a chief is known as ‘Prince of 
Rain’. Throughout the continent, in fact, ‘the chief was the great rain- 
maker of the tribe’. Even the kings of ancient Egypt were rain-makers, 
although Egypt, where it scarcely ever rains, would appear to be about 
the last place for a rain-maker to set up. Pharaoh’s control of the waters 
was naturally applied more often to regulating the river; and he caused 
it to rise by casting into the Nile a written order to do so. Conversely, 
the most important ceremony at the court of the King of Siam was that 
at which the king, like Canute, issued through heralds a solemn order to 
the River Meinam to retire. The Emperor of China also had a similar 
office. Hindu doctrine teaches that Indra sends no rain upon a kingdom 
which has lost its king. Ulysses explains to Penelope that: ‘Under a 
virtuous prince the earth brings forth barley and wheat in abundance, 
trees are loaded with fruit, ewes sit several times in succession, and the 
sea is filled with fish. Of so great worth is a good leader.’ 

The control thus exercised by sacred kings over heaven for the benefit 
of the people is thoroughly practical, and is exactly of the same kind as 
that exercised by members of a totem-clan over their totem. The pur- 
pose of primitive religion is eminently utilitarian. It is part and parcel of 
the means employed to supply and control the necessaries of life, to 
promote the prosperity of the tribe, and above all to provide its food. 

‘The really important question’, as Robertson Smith remarked, ‘is not 
what a god has power to do, but whether I can get him to do it for me.’ 
This is why those divinities which, judged by a theological criterion, 
appear to correspond most closely to the conception of a god — the 
creators and controllers of the universe — are in most primitive religions 
not the objects of worship . Thus the Bahima, who worship a tribal 



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ancestor, have also a god, Lugaba; but ‘they know very little about him; 
he has no priests and so receives no sacrifices’. The supreme god of 
Dahomey is ‘ignored rather than worshipped’. The same remarks apply 
to all African populations. In West Africa generally ‘they regard the god 
as the creator of man, plants, animals and the earth, and they hold that, 
having made them, he takes no further interest in the affair’. ‘The god, 
in the sense we use the word, is in essence the same thing in all Bantu 
tribes I have met with’, says Miss Kingsley, ‘a non-interfering and 
therefore negligible quantity.’ 

Similarly the American Indians ‘nowhere adored the god they knew’. 
The tribes of Guiana, though they have the notion of a supreme being, 
‘concern themselves little about him’. In Australia, Baiame, in whom 
some enthusiasts thought they recognized a ‘supreme being’, is believed 
by the Queensland tribes, says Mr Thorne, ‘to have gone away over the 
ocean so long ago that our informant could give no idea of the lapse of 
time, and never took further heed of the country or its inhabitants’. Of 
Daramulum, another Australian ‘supreme being’, ‘there is no wor- 
ship’. 

The incongruity of divine beings who form no part of religion 
‘becomes intelligible when it is borne in mind that primitive religion 
refers to practical issues. The god in whom primitive man is interested 
is not the sky-god, but the tribal ancestor who is also the supreme 
magician, who can use his power to control the sky-god. 

Since, then, primitive religion has little concern with philosophical 
speculations, the natural inaptitude of women for such speculations is 
irrelevant. 

The Exclusion of Women from Religious Functions in the West 

Nowadays, in Christian and other strongly patriarchal societies (e.g. 
Brahmanical India or China), the notion of women exercising priestly 
functions offends propriety. The suggestion that they should preach 
and administer sacraments is regarded as an extravagance of feminism. 
Such notions are comparatively recent. 

The ancient world was full of priestesses. The Vestal priestesses were 
one of the most ancient and sacred institutions of Roman cult. When 
walking abroad, they were preceded by lictors bearing the insignia of 
supreme command; any insult was punishable with death. In earlier 
times they and other priestesses — the Regina Sacrorum, the Flaminicae 
— played an even more important part in Italian cult. Ancient Italy 
swarmed with priestly and prophetic women who often exercised 
greater influence than the official priestesses. The sibyls of classical 
tradition are the types of prophetic females, or shamanesses; the most 
sacred shrines of Greece, such as those of Delphi and of Dodona, were 



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served by prophetic women. The priestess of Demeter, like the Vestals 
at Roman spectacles, occupied a throne of honour at the Olympic 
games. There can be little doubt that in these primitive cults, which 
later became connected with Dionysos, priestly functions were exercised 
exclusively by woman. In Aegean and Cretan religion, archaeological 
evidence shows us priestesses discharging all religious functions. 

‘As in Greece, so in Babylonia and Assyria’, says Professor Sayce, 
‘women were inspired prophetesses of the god.’ In Assyrian inscriptions, 
they are called ‘The Mothers’. 

None but women were allowed to enter the Holy of Holies of Bel- 
Marduk. In Carthage likewise women mediated between the Great 
Goddess and the people. In ancient Egypt the Queen was high-priestess 
of Ra. There were many orders of priestesses under the Old and the 
Middle Kingdom ; and ‘at the time of the New Empire there was scarcely 
a woman from the highest to the lowest who was not connected with the 
service of the temples’. 

Priestesses in Uncultured Societies 

In primitive cultures, the part played by women in religious cult is 
striking. In the state religion of Dahomey at least as many women as 
men exercise priestly functions; priestesses undergo a three years’ 
course of initiation; they are called ‘Mothers’. Their person is inviolable, 
and they enjoy great privileges. In most African kingdoms, such as 
Ashanti, IJrua and Uganda, the temples of deceased kings are served by 
colleges of priestesses and vestals. The most dreaded deity of Matabele- 
land was served by a college of priestesses who were regarded as his 
daughters; even King Lobengula had at times to yield to it. The numer- 
ous female fetiches, or ‘Mother fetiches’, throughout Africa are served 
exclusively by women. Some of them rise to positions of enormous 
influence. In Loango, the priestess of Atida was called ‘The Mother of 
God’. Throughout the Congo both sexes exercise magical and priestly 
functions. 

Among the Eskimo the shamans, or ‘angakut’, may be either men or 
women. But Dr Rink maintained that formerly all magicians were 
women. Today, in East Greenland, there are two classes of sorcerers, the 
‘angakut’ proper and the ‘gilalik’, an inferior order. The latter are nearly 
all women. Dr Rink believes that the male ‘angakut’ ousted them from 
their former positions. 

Among the North American Indians ‘medicine women’ were as 
famous as medicine men, and on some occasions, such as the Com 
Feast, they exercised almost unlimited authority. Their influence appears 
to have been greater among the prairie and western tribes than among 
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are reported to have been particularly numerous. Among the Yurok 
tribes of the Klamath River district the shamans ‘were almost all 
women’. So among the Zuni, though today the rain-making ceremonies 
are in the hands of priests, and although the priestly college consists of 
men, at their head is a woman, the Priestess of Fertility. She can dismiss 
any of the priests at a moment’s notice, without offering a reason. There 
are several ‘secret societies’, but ‘there is only one person among the 
Zuni who is a member of all the sacred societies and thus knows the 
secrets of all, and that person is a woman’. 

Competition often develops between the sexes for the possession of 
the power derived from the exercise of magical and religious functions ; 
accordingly they are frequently reserved to one or the other sex. But 
such a monopoly is not characteristic of societies which have reached a 
considerable degree of development under undisturbed matriarchal rule. 
Thus, among the Khasis of Assam the priestesses perform all the rites 
and sacrifices, but, as among the Pueblo Indians, the men are not 
excluded, although ‘the male officiants are only the deputies’ of the 
priestesses. The ultimate authority rests with the priestess, who is also 
invariably the keeper of the sacred magical objects. 

From a cursory perusal of the most accessible accounts of Central 
America in the days of the European conquest, one would gather the 
impression that, although there was a considerable sprinkling of shaman- 
istic women, the wizard, or ‘paje’, was usually a man. Dr Brinton’s close 
examination reveals a very different state of things. The ‘pajes’ were 
members of a closely organized and widely spread association which has 
been termed Nagualism . 1 ‘A remarkable feature of this mysterious 
organization’, says Dr Brinton, ‘was the exalted position it assigned to 
women. Not only were they admitted to the most esoteric degrees, but 
in repeated instances they occupied the very highest posts in the organ- 
ization.’ Pascual de Andagoya asserts from his own knowledge that some 
of the female adepts had attained the rare and peculiar power of being 
in two places at once. Spanish writings of the sixteenth and seventeenth 
centuries confirm the dread in which they were held. ‘In the sacra- 
ments of Nagualism, woman was the primate and hierophant’, Brinton 
declares. 

In Guatemala the supreme ministrant of the gods was a priestess, and 
it was to her that the warriors applied to ensure victory. ‘In many native 
American legends, as in others from the old world, some powerful 
enchantress is remembered as the founder of the state. Such among the 
Aztecs was the sorceress who built the city of Mallinalco, famed even 

1 The notion, common also in other parts of the world, that the shaman can 
transform himself into an animal, and that his power is somehow bound up 
with a spiritual double, or ‘nagual’, dwelling in the animal. 



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after the conquest for the skill of its magicians, who claimed descent 
from her. Such in Honduras was Coamizagual, Queen of Ccrqui, versed 
in occult science, who died not, but at the close of her earthly career rose 
to heaven.’ 

The position of sorceresses in South America would appear to have 
been similar. Among all the tribes of the Amazon ‘old women are the 
interpreters of the gods’. In Patagonia ‘the old women, witches, pro- 
phetesses or divineresses are the chief ministers of their cult’. 

Throughout the Indonesian archipelago the primitive aboriginal cults, 
where they have not been supplanted by Islam and other foreign religions, 
are predominantly and often exclusively served by women. Thus among 
the Bataks of Sumatra the shamans may be either men or women; but 
female shamans are far more common, and in several districts there are 
none but female shamans. 

In numerous other Pacific islands, such as Timor and the southern 
Moluccas, the shamans are predominantly women. 

Among the Dayak tribes of Borneo religious functions are almost 
exclusively exercised by women; the shamans ‘are for the most part 
women, seldom men’. The same is true of the southern Celebes, where 
they are knowm as ‘imitation women’. All the deities or spirits from 
whom sorcerers, whether male or female, derive their power are spoken 
of as their ‘grandmother’. According to the tradition of the Land Day- 
aks, the magic art was first imparted by Tuppa, the women’s deity, 
to a woman, and was taught by her to her successors. ‘It seems to me 
more than likely’, says Miss M. Morris, ‘that manangism [shamanism] 
was originally a profession of women, and that men were gradually 
admitted into it, at first only by becoming as much like women as 
possible.’ 

We may here note that any attempt to draw a sharp line between the 
private magical practices of the shamaness and the more dignified office 
of the official priestess proves futile in practice. Thus in Indonesia, 
where the people themselves draw a distinction between the shamanesses 
and the priestesses, both Dr Wilken and Dr Kruijt, the highest authori- 
ties on the religious usages of the region, are compelled to admit that 
there is no psychological distinction between the two. Both priestesses 
and shamanesses are in exactly the same condition of spiritual posses- 
sion, and the magical procedure ritually observed in the public cult is 
identical with the practice of the individual witch or shamaness. The 
distinction between the two is not religious or psychological, but social 
and official. 

Among the Polynesian races, who originally came from the Indone- 
sian region, power has become concentrated in the hands of chiefs and 
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cult — the priestly offices being for the most part under the jurisdiction 
of the chiefs and ruling classes — and the masculine exclusiveness, if not 
the patriarchal character, of Polynesian institutions. Women were, as a 
rule, excluded in Polynesia from the sacred rites of men, so it is all the 
more remarkable that official priestesses, occupied a high position in 
many Polynesian islands. Thus there were priestesses in Rotuma, 
Tonga, Samoa, Paumotu, Uvea and Savage Island. 

‘Nearly all writers on Siberia agree that the position of the female 
shaman in modern days is sometimes even more important than that 
occupied by the male. . . . Among the Palaeo- Siberians, women receive 
the gift of shamanising more often than men.’ According to the tradi- 
tions of the Yakuts, there were formerly no male shamans, or priests, but 
all magic functions were exercised by women. This was still the case 
until recent times among the Kamchadals and the neighbouring popula- 
tions. The familiar spirit from whom every practitioner of the magic 
arts is supposed to derive his or her power is spoken of among the 
Yakuts as his ‘Mother’. In the languages of the Yakuts, Altains,Torgut, 
Kidan, Mongols, Kirghis, Buryat, the term for shamaness is the same; 
while quite different words are used to denote male shamans. From this 
Troshchanski infers that, before the separation of these races, all 
practitioners of shamanism were women and that male shamans only 
appeared subsequently. Male shamans among the Yakuts wear long hair 
and dress as women, whether they are wearing their ordinary dress or 
their ceremonial costume, and two iron circles on their apparel repre- 
sent a woman’s breasts. 

Male Priests dressed as and impersonating Women 

The adoption of female dress by male shamans and priests is a world- 
wide phenomenon. It was prevalent among the North American Indians; 
invariable throughout Indonesia. In Tahiti and the Marquesas the 
priests of the Areois stained their skin a light or more feminine hue and 
affected the manners of women. When Zulu chiefs perform rain-making 
ceremonies they put on a woman’s petticoat. Among the ancient Germans 
male priests dressed as women. In Babylon the priests of Ishtar and the 
Syrian goddess wore female attire. So likewise did the Korybantes, the 
Dactyloi, the Kouretes and the priests of Artemis at Ephesos. The 
priests of Herakles at Kos dressed as women when they offered sacrifice, 
as did male officiants in the festivals of Dionysos. The male assistants 
in cult scenes from Minoan Crete are represented wearing women’s 
clothes. All priestly robes, skirts, aprons, sottanas are indeed everywhere 
of an essentially feminine character. 

On the other hand, instances of a woman dressing as a man when 
exercising priestly functions are altogether exceptional, although women 



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dress as men when exercising any prescriptively male occupation, such 
as soldiering or hunting . 1 

In primitive societies ‘wearing the clothes that have been used by 
another transfers to another wearer the qualities of the former one’. 
Similarly it is a universal principle that the distinctive dress of each sex 
implies that the person wearing it is engaged in the occupations which 
are peculiar to that sex. Thus for instance, among the tribes of California 
every warrior, when too old to take part in active warfare, assumes 
female attire, and thenceforward helps the women with their duties. 

It is frequently stated by those reporting that among a given people 
certain men dressed in woman’s clothes and followed women’s occupa- 
tions, that such men served for the indulgence of unnatural vices. But 
it may be said positively, at least so far as regards the North American 
tribes, that no grounds exist for this inference. 

In primitive societies the assimilating of men exercising priestly 
functions to women goes much farther than the assumption of feminine 
apparel. In the Pelew Islands, for instance, ‘it often happens that a 
female deity chooses for her priest a young man, who is thenceforth 
regarded and treated in every respect as a woman. He assumes female 
dress, and wears a piece of gold round his neck, and he also frequently 
takes up the cultivation of a patch of taro.’ In Cyprus, at the festival of 
Ariadne, the imitation was carried even farther — for one of the officiating 
priests lay in bed and imitated the groans of a woman in labour. Among 
the Yakut it was actually believed that male shamans were capable of 
bearing children. In California the male shamans assume female attire 
because this is regarded as bestowing greater power, and the same is true 
of the Chukchi. In short, this universal practice does not seem open to 
any other interpretation than that magic was orginally regarded as 
essentially a woman’s function. 

It is a curious fact that smiths are widely held to possess magic 
powers. Yakut traditions connect the appearance of male shamans 
amongst them with the introduction of iron. The first male shamans, 
they say, were smiths. The profession of smith is hereditary among 
Siberian tribes, and the Yakuts consider that at the ninth generation a 
smith becomes a wizard. Among the Buryat the spirits from whom men 
derive magical powers are called ‘smiths’, and are thought to have 
taught men the ironworkers’ art also. A proverb of the Kolyma district 
affirms that ‘the blacksmith and the shaman are of one nest’. Among the 
Mongols the same word denotes a male shaman and a smith. Among 

1 The women of the Mawungu secret society among the Pangwc dress as men 
at their festivals. The ‘medium* of the god Mukasa in Uganda adjusts her clothes 
in male fashion when she is acting as the mouthpiece of one god; but at other 
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the Romans ‘faber 5 , smith, connoted ‘magician 5 . In Russian popular 
tales smiths act as assistants to witches. The Kayan Dayaks believe 
smiths to be possessed by spirits, and that their skill is due to this. 
Similar estimates are general in Africa. Thus among the Fans the village 
blacksmith is the priest and sacred headman of the community. Tribes 
ignorant of the art of metallurgy regard smiths with such awe that if they 
obtain possession of a smith's bellows they place it in their fetich-house 
and address their prayers to it. The Arabs and Berbers ban all smiths 
from society. Dr Schneider is probably right in supposing that this 
‘indicates that the art of the smith is regarded as a branch of witchcraft, 
and those who practise it as the possessors of magical powers 5 . In ancient 
Egypt the priests of Horus were known as smiths. In Asia wizards were 
the particular disciples of Tubal-khan, the smith. In Ireland St Patrick 
pronounced against ‘the spells of women, of smiths and magicians 5 . 
Such views accord with the belief (widespread in Europe) that smiths 
are the only men who share the magical powers peculiar to women. 

Priestesses among the Peoples of Northern Europe 

In the druids we appear to have a purely male priesthood. Their origin 
is disputed. Some authorities hold that they were always the priests of the 
Celtic races, others that they are of late origin. It is improbable that a 
highly organized religious corporation could have existed from the first 
in all Celtic countries. Caesar, who enjoyed the friendship of the druid 
Divitiacus, tells us explicitly that ‘the discipline [of druidism] is held to 
have had its origin in Britain, and to have been transported thence into 
Gaul . . . 5 . The facts appear to confirm this. The druids were certainly 
much more firmly established in Ireland and western Britain than in 
Gaul. They are said to have ‘tamed the people as wild beasts are tamed 5 ; 
this would hardly have been needed if they had been their spiritual 
rulers from the beginning. 

That druidism was an importation at the cost of some earlier system is 
suggested by other facts. When Hannibal passed through Gaul it was 
agreed that all damages which might be caused by the transit of his huge 
armaments should be assessed by a council of women. It is scarcely 
conceivable that, had there been a powerful theocracy of druids at the 
time — and we hear nothing of them in this connection — they would have 
kept out of the whole business. Caesar, it is true, does not mention any 
priestesses among the Gauls, though he states that the troops of Ario- 
vistus were forbidden by their wise women to fight before the new moon; 
and Gallic women attached to the armies offered sacrifices and prophe- 
sied. (Some have spoken of ‘druidesses 5 , but there appears to be no 
evidence of any women being connected with the organization of the 
druids.) 



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Moreover, there is abundant evidence of the existence of priestesses, 
who appear to have been thrust aside by the druidical invasion in Gaul. 
Thus Pomponius Mela, in his brief reference to Gaul, observes: ‘Sena 
in the British Sea is famous for its oracle of a Gaulish god, whose 
priestesses, living in the holiness of perpetual virginity, are said to be 
nine in number. They call them Gallizenae, and they believe them to be 
endowed with extraordinary powers, so that they are able to rouse the 
sea and the wind by their incantations, and to turn themselves into 
whatsoever animal form they choose; they can cure diseases which are in- 
curable to anyone else; they know the future and vaticinate .’ 1 Exceptional 
interest attaches to the account, for it enables us to detect tradition 
evolving. Sena is undoubtedly the island of Sein off the coast of Ar- 
morica, far-famed in Celtic legend as the site of the grave of Merlin. 
Now, in these (later) legends Merlin left the court of King Arthur 
accompanied by ‘nine bards’. In other versions of the old druidical tales 
Merlin fell into the toils of the ‘Lady of the Lake’, who became so 
proficient under his instruction that one day, when he was asleep, she 
cast a spell over him, making him a perpetual prisoner in a castle or, 
according to other accounts, an oak-tree, whence he delivered oracles. 
Thus the oracular divinity of the priestesses of Scin appears to become 
a druid; but the priestesses of Sein do not appear to have had, in fact, 
any connection with druidical institutions. 

This is not the only institution of the kind. A little farther south, on 
an island at the mouth of the Loire, near the present city of Nantes, 
there was, says Strabo, another great shrine served by a college of 
priestesses. They were said to celebrate ‘the mysteries of Dionysos’, and 
their cult is described as orgiastic. So little had the cult to do with 
druidism that no man was permitted to approach the shrine. Dionysius 
Periegetcs tells us that in some of the Channel Islands the rites of 
Bacchus were performed by women crowned with leaves, who danced 
and made an even greater shouting than the Thracian bacchantes. 

Similar evidence meets us in Ireland. In County Kildare is a monas- 
tery of nuns dedicated to the service of St Brigit. One of their chief 
duties was to tend, like the Roman Vestals, a perpetual fire. As Canon 
McCulloch remarks : ‘The nuns who guarded the sacred fire of Kildare 
had evidently succeeded the virgin guardians of a sacred fire, the pries- 
tesses of a cult which was tabu to men.’ This is likely enough, for Brigit 
was the chief Celtic goddess. It therefore appears improbable that her 
cult elsewhere, in Britain and in Gaul, was originally served by male 
druids. There are records of other shrines in Ireland where vestal fires 
were maintained. If cults existed in Ireland, the stronghold of druidism, 

1 ‘Gallizenae* is obviously a MS. error for ‘Gallae Senae’, or some such 
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in which druids took no part, it can cause little surprise that in other 
Celtic regions, such as western Britain, druids are scarcely heard of at 
all. The famous queen of the Iceni, Boadicea or Boudicca, was the high- 
priestess of the cult of the goddess Andaste. Pliny, again, refers to the 
rites of the British women who, probably in ceremonies of agricultural 
magic, dance naked, painted with woad. 

It would thus appear that the exclusively masculine magical organiza- 
tion or ‘secret society’ of the druids was superimposed at a comparatively 
late date upon other cults in which the priestly functions were exercised 
chiefly, perhaps exclusively, by women. ‘There is evidence’, Canon 
McCulloch writes, ‘that they [the druids] had ousted women as the 
earlier magic-wielding persons. ... In Irish texts women as magicians 
performing all the magical rites ascribed to druids are much in evidence. 
But their magic was, so to speak, not official.’ 

Among the Teutonic and Nordic barbarians, on the other hand, no 
male priesthood ever became established. In nearly every instance where 
a priestly personage is mentioned it is a woman. The influence and 
power exercised by sacred women and prophetesses are frequently 
referred to, and several were actually worshipped as divine beings during 
their lifetime. Strabo reports : ‘They say that the Cimbri had the follow- 
ing custom; their women, who travelled with them, were accompanied 
by sacred priestesses, grey-haired, white-robed, with a linen scarf 
buckled over their shoulder and a girdle of brass, and walking bare- 
footed. These priestesses, with a sword in their hand, met the prisoners 
of war when they were brought to the camp; and, having crowned 
them, they led them to a brass basin as large as thirty amphorae. They 
had a ladder, which the priestess mounted, and, standing over the basin 
she cut the throat of each prisoner as he was handed up to her. With the 
blood that gushed into the basin they made a prophecy.* One such 
cauldron has actually been discovered at Gendestrup in Jutland; the 
sacrifice is depicted on it; among the deities depicted on it is a moon- 
goddess . 1 

Among none of the Nordic races had the practice of the magic art 
been taken over by men at the time when Christianity was introduced. 
‘Our earliest antiquities’, says Jacob Grimm, ‘impute it pre-eminently 

1 Cauldrons similar to that of Jutland played, as we shall see, a very important 
part in Celtic religious ideas, and a number of epic myths relate the adventures of 
heroes who undertook to obtain the priceless gift of a sacred cauldron, or 
‘cauldron of regeneration’, as they were sometimes called, from some divine 
woman. Those ‘cauldrons of regeneration’, which barbaric heroes coveted, were 
transformed in Christian times into the vessel of the Holy Grail; and thus the 
gruesome rites of the Cimbrian priestesses and the unholy mysteries of Celtic 
witches are intimately connected with the sublimest heights of mediaeval 
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to women.’ Thus among our own ancestors in Western and Northern 
Europe, as elsewhere, it would appear that formerly religious and 
priestly functions belonged originally to the women. 

Traditions of Transfer of Religious Function from Women to Men 

Further evidence of our thesis is afforded by the fact that in many parts 
of the world we find traditions which suggest that religious functions, 
now exercised by men, were formerly the women’s prerogative. 

In Australia, for instance, as we have seen, the women formerly 
played a much more important part in religious functions than now, 
and the traditions suggest that formerly women were not excluded, as 
they are now. They ascribe to women the magic powers today exercised 
exclusively by the men. There is definite evidence that the tooth- 
knocking ceremony, the mark of initiation, was performed on the 
women as well as the men, among some tribes, as recently as the first 
discovery of Australia by Europeans. Moreover, ‘in tradition after 
tradition, we have accounts set out in great detail of how particular 
women of the Alcheringa carried sacred Nurtunja just as the men did, 
and how they performed sacred ceremonies exactly as the men did’. 
The Queensland natives explain that women have a natural aptitude for 
magic, which is precisely why they are debarred from practising it. 

In several parts of the world traditions refer explicitly to the former 
exercise of magical and religious functions by the women. Thus the 
Fuegians still, like the Australians, use their religious ceremonies as a 
means of frightening the women and keeping them in subjection, but 
formerly it was the women who dressed up as ghosts and frightened the 
men. Tradition says the change was brought about by a revolution in 
which most of the women were massacred. The great religious yearly 
festival of the Fuegians is supposed to commemorate the event. 

The South American tribes of the Upper Amazon and Rio Negro 
basin, particularly those dwelling near the Rio Uaupes, have similar 
ceremonies. The traditions of the Uaupes Indians, however, state that 
these ceremonies were formerly performed by women, and that their 
rites were instituted by a ‘council of women’. 

We come upon exactly similar traditions in Africa. In East Africa, 
among the Wanika, a terrorizing cult exists identical in social use with 
those just noted. In one district, however, at Rabbai Mpia, the situation 
is reversed; there is a society which is confined to the women, who 
simulate ghosts to terrify the men. Such women’s religious associations, 
(or, as they are somewhat inappropriately called, ‘secret societies’) are 
common in West Africa. There is reason to believe that almost every 
woman belongs to such a society. What is known of their rules suggests 
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the most famous and powerful is the ‘Njembe’, to which every Mpon- 
gwe woman is expected to belong. Initiation was formerly regarded as a 
sort of religious duty and as a sanctifying act. There are various degrees 
of initiation, and there is a supreme head, or Mother. 

Europeans who have endeavoured to obtain a glimpse of the rites of 
the ‘Njembe’ have barely escaped with their lives. Hence little is known 
about them except that the meetings are held in secluded glades in the 
forest and involve a sacred fire. The women (who are normally modest) 
strip naked and dance until they are exhausted; phallic symbols and 
fescennine songs are part of the ritual, which is also associated with 
serpents, and each women must catch and carry one of the small snakes 
which live among the mangrove roots. In Liberia, ‘If the tribe decides 
to go to war, the declaration of war is not complete until it has been 
referred to the women and they have approved of it.’ 

In the case of the Attonga sisterhood of Sierra Leone, ‘If a man hap- 
pens, through ignorance or inadvertency, to enter an Attonga house, he 
is made one of the society, though contrary to his inclination.’ He is 
henceforth regarded as a woman, and when he dies he cannot be buried 
in the men’s graveyard. 

Special interests attaches to those societies admitting both men and 
women. In the southern Sudan, the Bir society is open to both sexes; 
but the women perform the essential ritual of maintaining the sacred 
fire. So is the secret society of the Butwa, a timid tribe of fisherfolk 
dwelling round Lake Bangwenlu, It is governed by five officials of each 
sex, but the women play the chief part. The female hierophants are 
called ‘the mothers of the Butwa mysteries’. Butwa women compel their 
husbands to join the society. In the Purrah society of Sierra Leone, 
whenever a man is admitted, he must be introduced and accompanied 
by some female relative who is initiated at the same time. The head of 
the society is a woman. The neophyte swears allegiance to the high- 
priestess, saying, ‘You are my mother; I cannot betray you.’ Tradition 
relates that the society was formerly exclusively female. 

What is more, some of the most influential religious societies of West 
Africa, from which women are at the present day excluded on pain of 
death, were, we are told, instituted by women and were once exclusively 
women’s societies. One such is the Egbo, which flourished among the 
Efik and Ekoi people. On inquiring why their ceremonies sometimes 
involve an old woman, Mr Amaury Talbot was told that the Egbo was 
originally a women’s society, and that the men had learned their rites 
and then forbidden the women to participate. At the New Year yam 
festival, the members of another man’s society assemble and perform 
rites, which include songs by a member chosen for his sweet voice. He is 
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society is also declared to have been formerly an exclusive women’s 
society. 

Associations similar to the ‘secret societies’ of Africa are found in 
most parts of Melanesia. In Duke of York Island the most important 
secret society is the Dukduk, from which the women are rigidly ex- 
cluded. Yet we are told that ‘the first “dukduk” was found by a woman 
at Birara, New Britain, floating on four coconuts. She dressed it, and 
soon exhibited it, and got lots of money. The men, however, got 
jealous, and said that women were not tall enough for it, and so they 
bought it and forbade women to go near it ever afterwards.’ As in the 
West African societies, the head of the Dukduk societies, who is called 
‘the Old Woman’, is a man dressed in female attire, and is often spoken 
of as ‘she’. In British New Guinea, again, the initiation ceremonies of 
young men, which constitute the chief religious observances, are said 
by the Masuigam to have been instituted by a woman. 

We thus find identical traditions in such widely different parts of the 
uncivilized world as Australia, Ticrra del Fuego, the Amazon Valley, 
West Africa, Melanesia and New Guinea, to the effect that the rites 
from which women arc at the present day excluded were once either 
instituted by the women, or that they took the leading part in them. 
These traditions reinforce the conclusion which has been reached 
independently in regard to Indonesia, America, Northern Asia and 
Northern Europe, that magical practices and primitive priestly func- 
tions formerly belonged to the exclusive sphere of women and that they 
were taken up by men at a comparatively late epoch. 

Powers of Witchcraft ascribed to Women 

In its primitive phases religion is indistinguishable from magic. All 
religion began as practical wonder-working. The distinction between 
magic and withcraft refers not to the means employed nor the nature of 
the powers used, but to the purpose to which they are put. 

It is therefore relevant to our thesis that the power of witchcraft is 
universally regarded as pertaining specifically to women. The witch is a 
woman; the wizard is a male imitation. In primitive thought every 
woman is credited with the possession of magic powers, wherever such 
powers are believed in. Thus the Chukchi declare that ‘Woman is by 
nature a shaman’. In New Guinea ‘the people will have it that all evil 
spirits are female. They are all women or enter women, giving them 
terrible power.’ 

In many different places tradition holds that women first taught the 
magic arts. In Sierra Leone, although (as in other parts of Africa) 
witches may be male or female, yet the power of witchcraft, which is 
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mother. In India* according to Molwa, every woman was suspected of 
being a witch, and the same test as in Europe was applied of ducking 
her in a pond to see if she would float. In ancient Babylon the same 
notions were held. 

Since it is a common notion that such power is counteracted by child- 
bearing, the power of witchcraft belongs particularly to old women or 
to young unmarried women. Young and beautiful women are often 
‘bewitching.’ This notion is explained by Dalla Porta, who traces 
‘falling in love’ to the magical properties of menstrual blood. ‘If a person 
is ensnared with the desire of a fair and beautiful woman, although he 
be caught at a distance, yet he taketh the poyson in at his eyes, and the 
image of her beauty settleth in the heart of this lover, kindleth a flame 
there, which will never cease to torment him. For the soft blood of the 
beloved, being strayed thither, maketh continual representations of her : 
she is present there in her own blood. But it cannot settle or rest there, 
for it continually endeavoureth to flye homeward, as the blood of a 
wounded person spirts out on him that giveth the blow. But if it be a 
fascination of Envy or Malice, that hath infected any person, it is very 
dangerous, and is found most often in old women. And you will find 
more women than men witches.’ 

A seventeenth-century Italian bishop devotes a chapter to discussing 
‘Why witchcraft appertains to women and not to men’. ‘For one wizard 
or necromancer that one may sec [he notes] one finds ten thousand 
women.’ 

Modem anthropologists have generally sought to account for this 
predominance by reference to the nature of women. Women, it is said, 
suffer more from nervous instability than men; they are subject to 
hysteria and temporary delusions. Such nervous disturbances are similar 
to, or identical with, the state of ‘possession’ in which primitive pries- 
tesses and shamanesses become the medium of supernatural powers. 

I regard this explanation as inadequate. Amongst primitive races 
nervous and hysterical phenomena are found almost as commonly in 
men as in women. ‘Arctic hysteria’, which in Northern Asia is regarded 
as closely connected with shamanistic powers, is reported to be common 
among both sexes. The analogous phenomena noted in Indonesia 
appear to relate almost exclusively to men. Again, men of Australian 
tribes commonly have attacks of hysteria, during which they yell, foam 
at the mouth and dance till exhausted; nothing is said about the women. 
In any case, it is not necessary to be in a hysterical fit to work witchcraft. 

It seems unnecessary to call on such theories. Though women are 
commonly supposed to exercise power by virtue of their being witches 
it seems equally probable that they were originally regarded as witches 
because they exercised power. Where, as among the Seri Indians, the 



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elder women were genealogically and socially heads of the groups, 
mediation between their children and supernatural powers would 
naturally fall to their lot. The primitive mother is, by virtue of natural 
position and function, the wielder of domestic magic. Among the 
Chukchi it is the mistress of the house who applies the sacred paint to all 
members of the family; she has charge of the sacred objects, and per- 
forms all the religious functions connected with the household. ‘Conse- 
quently the women are more expert than the men in the details of the 
ceremonial’, and ‘the incantations and spells which are connected with 
household charms are better known by the women’. The same is true of 
the Eskimo. Among the Patagonians the magic or religious functions of 
the household are the exclusive concern of the mother of the family. 
Among the ancient Germans, Caesar tells us, ‘it was the custom that the 
mothers of the families should declare unto them what they should do 
through divinations and vaticinations’. Thus, if our conclusions about 
the status of women in primitive society are correct the universality of 
the attribution to them of magic powers is self-explanatory. 

The source from which magic powers are regarded as being primarily 
derived is, we shall see, closely connected with the physiological func- 
tions of women; the magic faculties which it imparts to them are, ac- 
cording to primitive conceptions, as much a part of their natural con- 
stitution as are their reproductive functions. This dread-inspiring power 
was primitive woman’s natural means of enforcing her authority — her 
substitute for physical force. Her power was that of pronouncing curses, 
of casting spells. It was by that power, I believe, that sexual tabus were 
originally imposed upon mankind. 

The diabolic nature ascribed to women, not only by the Christian 
Fathers but by all humanity, is rather the expression of the dread with 
which women were originally regarded than the cause of that dread. 
Inevitably, men revolted against that source of terror. On the other hand, 
it is quite inconceivable that female witchcraft should have arisen as an 
imitation of practices invented by male magicians, and then have come 
to be universally regarded as a faculty pertaining to the very nature of 
women. 

Witchcraft and Religious Magic 

It may seem paradoxical to say that the priest or priestess acts by virtue 
of the very powers upon which the witch or wizard depends. But, in 
fact, the distinction between good and bad magic depends on the use 
which is made of such powers in any given instance. The priest who 
bewitches and destroys the tribe’s enemies appears maleficent to those 
same enemies. 

Thus ‘among the Matabele it is well understood that there were two 



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kinds of witchcraft. One was practised by the witch doctors and the 
king, such as, for instance, the “making of medicine” to bring rain, of 
the ceremonies carried out by the witch-doctors to appease the spirits of 
ancestors. The other witchcraft was supposed to consist of evil practices 
pursued to cause sickness and death.’ The only difference is that the 
user of white magic practises it openly, whereas the practiser of black 
magic does so secretly. But ‘the same “medicines”, the same dances, the 
same enchantments are used in both’. 

Among the Eskimo, as among every other uncultured people, the 
practice of witchcraft is abominated; but the magic arts which consti- 
tute the ritual of actual religion arc in every respect identical with the 
magic resorted to for private, maleficent purposes. The Samoyeds and 
Lapps make no distinction between ‘white’ and ‘black’ shamans, but 
every shaman may ‘serve both for good and bad ends as occasion 
arises’. 

Nor can we easily distinguish the witch from the priestess by referring 
to the deities from whom they derive their power, as our forefathers 
attempted to. Frequently the distinction between good and bad deities 
is not made. The same deity can bestow or withhold fertility, can send 
disease or withdraw it. Speaking of the divine beings of the Siouan 
tribes of North America, Mr Pond remarks that ‘evidence is wanting to 
show that the people divide these “Take-Wakan” into classes of good 
and evil; they are simply “wakan”.’ Among all the people of Northern 
Asia, says Mr Staling, ‘there is in the spiritual world of shamanism no 
absolute contrast between good and evil’. 

However, even where beneficent and maleficent deities are recognized, 
it is more frequently the maleficent one who is the main, or sole, object 
of religious cult. The natives of Kadiak ‘believe in a good and a bad 
spirit; they worship the latter because they are afraid of his ill-will, and 
do not sacrifice to the former because he will cause no harm to anyone’ ; 
similarly with the Patagonians. The Yezidis of Armenia, at Easter, 
sacrifice one sheep to Jesus Christ and thirty sheep to the Devil, 
‘because’, they say, ‘he is more difficult to propitiate’. 

Primitive supernatural beings are essentially maleficent. In primitive 
society, power is synonymous with power to harm. The Santal of Bengal 
‘cannot understand how a being can be more powerful than himself 
without wishing to harm him’. The natives of South Africa represent 
their gods as ‘mischievous, delighting to torment them in various ways’. 
The Hottentots ‘have a vague notion of a benevolent spirit, but have a 
much clearer notion about an evil spirit whom they fear, believing him 
to be the occasion of sickness, death, thunder and every calamity that 
befalls them’. Sir Richard Burton spoke to some African Essas about 
God. They eagerly asked where he might be found, in order that they 



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might kill him, for ‘Who but he’, they said, ‘lays waste our homes, and 
kills our wives and catde ?’ 

While maleficent magic is universally abhorred, beneficent witches 
are venerated. In Russia they ‘stood high in popular estimation’, and 
were thought in some respects more sacred than the Christian priests. 
Even in Scotland, where the persecution of witches was once so severe, 
witches have been held in high honour. In some districts fishermen 
would not put to sea until a witch had performed incantations to secure 
fair weather and a good haul. Conversely, priests are often called upon 
to perform deeds of ‘black’ magic. Thus, on the Gold Coast they are 
often asked to procure the death of persons who have offended the 
applicants. The god who is thus ‘induced to gratify a personal enmity 
must be the god which the applicant generally worships; and it is 
imagined to be an extension of the protection granted by the god to his 
worshipper’; which notion does not differ fundamentally from the 
ancient Hebrew beseeching his god to destroy his enemies. 

Witches are not thought of as possessing a power which is exclusively 
and necessarily evil in itself; but all magical power is dreaded, because 
it is susceptible of being used for harm. When such power is wielded by 
one sex alone, this must inevitably arouse alarm in the other. Little 
wonder, then, that men have sought to restrain women from using 
magic, and have sought to acquire the secrets of die art in self-protec- 
don. When magic comes to be exercised by organized male priesthoods, 
the illicit practice of the art by women is regarded as presumably 
malignant in intention. The magic woman who is no longer a priestess 
must necessarily be a witch. 

The Christian tradition that women brought death and sin into the 
world is not peculiar to Christianity, but is universal. Father Lafitau 
compares the First Woman of the North American Indians, who did 
just this, to Eve, while Father Sahagun was struck by the same com- 
parison in Mexico. Many African tribes regard the first woman as having 
brought death into the world, as do the Eskimo and the Melanesians. 
The Igorots of Luzon say that the first woman instigated men to fight. 

We can obtain further clues concerning the significance of woman’s 
mysteries by considering myths concerning the heavenly body with 
whom they have always and everywhere been especially associated — 
the moon, and to this topic we now turn. 



CHAPTER 19 


The Lord of the Women 


Dangerous Character of the Moon 

The dangerous character ascribed to women is extended, in the mind 
of simple peoples, to that celestial body which is everywhere associated 
with women — the moon. The tabu on menstruating women attaches to 
the cause of menstruation also. In several of the myths which describe 
how the first woman introduced death and woe into the world, she and 
the moon are the same person — for instance, in the traditions of the 
North American Indians. The Iroquois warriors, before an expedition, 
consecrated themselves to the moon as to the spirit of relentless ven- 
geance — a practice also observed by ancient Greek warriors. A Wyandot 
tradition relates how Aataentsic, the first woman, planted fever-breeding 
plants in order to destroy men. The myth calls up a picture of the witch 
gathering magic herbs by moonlight. 

In such a night 

Medea gathered the enchanted herbs 
That did renew old Aeson. 

The natives of New Granada tell how a woman of surpassing beauty, 
called Chia (i.e. the moon), appeared and taught doctrines contrary to 
those received from their tribal god, and eventually caused a flood which 
almost destroyed the human race. This myth has parallels in most parts 
of the world: sometimes we are specifically told that the woman is the 
moon, at others it can be inferred. Thus, in ancient Egypt mankind was 
supposed to have been almost destroyed by fire and flood produced by 
the moon-goddess Hathor or Isis. The prominence of the flood in most 
mythologies is probably due not so much to dread of the damage which 
floods cause as to their association with the moon, which is universally 
held to control all waters. 

In general, the moon is regarded as the mother of mankind. It has 
even been suspected that Eve herself, whose name ‘Chawwa* means the 
‘round one’, was originally the moon; a Rabbinical tradition represents 
her as having at first consisted, like other lunar deities, only of a face. A 
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Eve were our first parents, but she protested against such new-fangled 
notions, saying that our first parents were the sun and the moon. 

The dangerousness of the moon is universally conceded. The Solomon 
Islanders believe that she is always on the lookout to kill men, and the 
Eskimo regard her as the cause of all plagues. The Tartars of Central 
Asia regard the moon as inhabited by a giant who used to eat men, and 
the peasants of modern Greece still regard the moon as anthropopha- 
gous. Among the Maori the moon was called ‘the man-eater’, and was the 
source of death; similarly elsewhere. The Bushmen throw sand in the 
air and shout loudly when they see the new moon — their usual procedure 
when they wish to drive away evil spirits. Other African tribes have 
similar customs. One of the most familiar lunar superstitions is that it is 
unlucky to see the new moon through glass. Obviously, in its primitive 
form this myth could not have referred to so recent a luxury as glass 
windows ; the myth was that it was dangerous for the new moon to enter 
a house, or what was the same thing, to be seen from within the house. 
Hence all savages come out of their dwellings to see the new moon. The 
Bushmen are careful to build their huts in such a way that the moon 
cannot shine in at the door, and in Louisiana the window shutters were 
bolted at the new moon. 

As we have seen, many uncultured peoples believe that in certain 
phases of the moon it is inauspicious to undertake any work or enter- 
prise; the new moon or the full moon being regarded as the most 
dangerous phase. The malignant character popularly ascribed to the 
moon reflects the predominance of lunar power in primitive religious 
ideas. 

Precedence of the Moon in Primitive Cosmology 

‘Moon-worship naturally ranking below sun-worship in importance’, 
wrote Tylor, ‘ranges through the same districts of culture.’ Tylor was 
surprised to find that there were tribes who regarded the moon as a 
deity, and ignored the sun, for he assumed that sun-worship took 
precedence of moon- worship ; and that they normally co-existed. This 
idea derives from the fact that people with whom we are most familiar 
have reached the agricultural stage of development. Actually, moon- 
worship long preceded any form of sun-worship and ranges through 
different cultural areas. 

Many students have reported this. ‘It is not the sun that first attracted 
the savage’, remarks one writer; ‘we find moon-worship among most 
utterly savage tribes in Africa and America; and it is noteworthy that 
with them the moon is always regarded as a male, the sun as a woman; 
not until later are those relations inverted. From this we may infer that 
lunar worship is older than solar worship.’ Similar comments are made 

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by Professor Hutton Webster, Dr Schultze, Dr Welckcr and many 
others. Usener says: ‘Originally the moon was the only deity that was 
worshipped.’ ‘As far as can be known, the veneration of the moon has 
everywhere preceded the veneration of the sun’, observes Reclus. We 
shall find similar conclusions with reference to particular regions and 
peoples later. It is significant that innumerable popular superstitions 
(which are relics of primitive conceptions) refer to the moon, while 
scarcely any refer to the sun. The moon-cult survives to this day in our 
countryside in the form of bowing and courtesies made to it. 

The greater impressiveness of the sun (as it appears to us) is easily 
explained away, if need be. The Nagas of Upper Burma, for instance, 
believe that the sun shines by day because, being a woman, it is afraid 
to venture out at night, whereas the bolder male moon is alone powerful 
enough to face the darkness. It is pointed out that the moon is obviously 
more powerful than the sun, for he commands the host of stars which 
are his children, whereas the sun, if a monarch at all, is without sub- 
jects. According to the Guaranis the light of the stars is derived from 
the moon. Again, although the sun is more brilliant, we arc assured in 
almost every primitive cosmological myth that this has not always been 
so. The Methcis say that there were once two suns but they quarrelled, 
and the wounded one became pale; while the Huitotos of Columbia hold 
that the moon was once the sun and vice versa. These traditions persist 
even in advanced religions. Thus in Brahmanical literature it is stated 
that the sun ‘took to himself the moon’s shine’. Though in the Old 
Testament the moon is ‘the lesser light’, in Talmudic literature, where 
many ancient ideas are preserved, it is stated that originally the sun and 
moon were equally brilliant. The Arabs also believe this, holding that 
the angel Gabriel rubbed his wings against the moon and thus deprived 
it of part of its brightness. 

The suppositions which have been put forward to account for this 
precedence of the moon are extremely inadequate. Thus Professor 
Arrhenius suggests that, the difference between the seasons not being 
so marked in the tropics as in temperate climes, the effects produced by 
the sun have not been so noticeable to populations near the equator. 
But in America, for instance, it is precisely among the inhabitants of the 
arctic and antarctic areas that lunar worship is more pronounced, while 
it is replaced by sun-worship in the equatorial region. Tylor, because he 
was misled by the current theory that the religious ideas of primitive 
man were moulded by impressions of natural phenomena, thought that 
the sun must ‘naturally’ be regarded as more powerful. 

In point of fact, primitive man is no more impressed with the spec- 
tacles of nature than the boor who gapes at the enthusiasm of the 
traveller for picturesque scenery, ‘Children and savages’, observes 



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HofFding, ‘have as a rule no sense for the beauties of nature.’ ‘The 
negroes of Congoland, as elsewhere in Africa, take surprisingly little 
notice of the heavenly bodies or the phenomena of the sky.’ 

If the sun and moon were deified, it was because they were credited 
with more or less power of influencing the welfare of men. The moon is 
more important to the savage than the sun, because it is the marker of, 
and therefore the cause of, time and change, and, in particular, of the 
changes in women’s reproductive fife. And it is everywhere dreaded 
because of its association with the sexual functions of women, and it is 
regarded as the source of the awful powers ascribed to the witch. 

The Moon as the Cause of Conception 

As we have already noted, the moon is the regulator and cause of 
menstruation, which is frequently regarded as being the result of actual 
intercourse between the moon and women. Thus, for instance, among 
the Murray Islanders, ‘the moon was supposed to be a young man who 
at certain periods defiled women and girls, causing a bloody discharge’. 
Menstruation is, according to many uncultured peoples, a form of 
pregnancy; the foetus is supposed to be formed from the menstrual 
blood. Pregnancy, as well as menstruation, is primitively considered to 
be dependent upon or due to the moon. The Papuan natives, who ascribe 
menstruation to the moon-god’s embraces, go on to explain that such 
attentions aroused the jealousies of the husbands. He then appointed 
that ‘in revenge all girls and young women should bleed when he 
appeared, but the older and pregnant should be excepted, since in the 
latter case he was responsible for their condition’. The Maori expressly 
affirm that ‘the moon is the real husband of all women’, and that their 
mortal husband is only, as it were, a subsidiary. The Gilbert Islanders 
held that the first man and woman were forbidden to have sexual rela- 
tions, the woman being exclusively reserved for the moon, who begat 
children by her. The Hindus held a similar view. The Australian abori- 
gines represent the moon as claiming that all women belong to him by 
right. In Greenland, the Eskimo believe that the moon has intercourse 
with their women, and ‘young maids are afraid to stare at the moon 
imagining they may get a child by the bargain’. 

The belief that the moon is essential to pregnancy is found among a 
wide range of peoples, from the Indian tribes of Texas, where directly 
after their marriage the women stand naked over a bucket of water which 
has been exposed to the rays of the moon, to the Saorias of the Rajmaha 
Hills, who believe that when the moon is absent from the sky, copula- 
tion cannot result in pregnancy. ‘Among all negro races the moon and 
generation are closely connected.’ 

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in which the moon is reflected and thus ‘swallow the moon’, she would 
certainly become pregnant. In Brittany the women are careful not to 
expose the lower part of their bodies to the rays of the moon, especially 
in the first and last quarters when the moon is homed, for should they 
do so they would at once conceive, or as they say, be ‘mooned’. In 
Germany a pregnant woman must not linger in the moonlight lest she 
bear a lunatic, as also in Iceland. In Africa the waxing moon is supposed 
to produce male children, the waning moon female. In Cornwall there 
is a saying, ‘No moon, no man’. In the Highlands of Scotland, girls 
were wont to refuse to be married except at the full moon; and in the 
Orkneys brides invariably visited megalithic circles, known as ‘the 
temple of the moon’, and there prayed to the lunar power. 

Moles, which are commonly known as ‘moon-calves’, are stated by 
Pliny to be produced by women without sexual intercourse. The 
Romans held a similar notion of the regulation of pregnancy by the 
moon, and thought that satisfactory delivery depended upon its phases. 
In ancient Egypt the fertility of women was thought to depend upon the 
moon, and an inscription at Thebes states that ‘through his agency 
women conceived’. The sacred bull Apis was held to be the outcome of 
the impregnation of a cow by the moon. In Babylon pregnancy was 
controlled by the moon, and the sex of the child was determined by 
whether the moon had a halo or not at the time of conception. The 
belief that a child born during the m oon’s eclipse w ould be born incom- 
plete was held in Mexico and by Hind usanalWal ays . 

The notion that the moon reveals to young girls their future husbands 
is general in Europe. It is found in England, Ireland, Brittany, Ger- 
many, France, Belgium, Portugal, Greece and among the southern Slavs. 
In France, girls sing to the moon: ‘Lune, lune, belle lune, faites me voir 
en mon dormant le mari que j’aurai de mon vivant.’ Girls among the 
Indians of the Paraguayan Chaco address an identical request to the 
moon. Among the southern Slavs the bridegroom at a wedding is some- 
times called ‘Mr Moonshine’. 

The Vedic view that the moon is the real husband of all women passed 
over into Buddhism, and in a Buddhist legend Buddha himself was 
begotten by the moon. In Persia the title of the moon was ‘the keeper of 
the seed of the bull’, for, according to a very ancient myth, the primeval 
bull or male principle of generation deposited his seed in the moon. In 
ancient Babylon the moon-god, Sinn, is also a bull. The Greeks and 
Romans retained the memory of similar views. 

It is a world-wide custom for mothers to hold their new-born children 
up to the moon, which is beneficial to the child. Sir James Frazer 
regards this as an act of sympathetic magic, the growth of the child being 
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the waxing of the moon is regarded as causing weakness in the child ; it 
is the waning which imparts strength. The true explanation is indicated 
by the Isubu of the Cameroons ; when the mother shows the child to the 
moon she says, ‘This is your grandfather’. And among the Kaffirs of 
South Africa, when a mother presents a child to the moon, she says, 
‘See, your child is growing’. So also among the Pelew Islanders. 

It is true that conception is also ascribed to many other causes, e.g. to 
eating the totem animal. But the totem or tribal spirit is frequently con- 
founded in primitive thought with the cosmic deity or moon-god, and 
usually identified with him. In Western Australia impregnation is 
ascribed both to the totem animal and to the moon. Numerous other 
agencies are credited with producing pregnancy, but many of these are 
also emanations of the moon. Supernatural impregnation is often by 
water — but everywhere waters are regarded as being under the control 
of and derived from the moon ; or it takes place through the medium of 
flowers, especially the lotus and its analogue, the lily. But these are 
moon-emblems. In India the moon is called ‘the Lord of the Lotus’, 
and in Egypt and Babylon the lotus was the emblem both of water and 
of the moon deity. 

Again, the sun frequently appears as the cause of impregnation — a 
world-wide notion among agricultural peoples, but at this phase of 
cultural evolution all the attributes, and especially the fertilizing attri- 
butes, of the moon have, as we shall see, been transferred to the sun. 

The Moon Primitively a Male 

In primitive thought the moon is generally regarded a male. In primitive 
mythology all spirits or gods are male or female as suits the occasion, 
and primitive thought finds no incongruity in this. This does not mean 
that the personified power is thought of as bisexual or asexual; on the 
contrary. Primitive mythical conceptions are not a system of theology; 
everyone is at liberty to regard a power as male or female, as circum- 
stances demand. This is particularly the case with lunar deities, who 
commonly have a male and female form. The female lunar deities do not 
become prominent until relatively advanced phases of culture, and, in 
particular, until the development of agriculture. In every instance it 
would seem that the conception of the moon as male is the more ancient. 
Thus among the Australian aborigines the moon is exclusively regarded 
as a male; the sun, on the other hand, is female. The moon is pre- 
eminently male in New Guinea and in Melanesia. In Polynesia the moon 
is currently feminine, but in old myths it is represented as male. Among 
the agricultural populations of Indonesia it is feminine but among the 
more primitive populations it is masculine. It is male among the Eskimo 
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the development of considerable agricultural activities. It is still male in 
Mexico and among the Caribbean races of Central America, and among 
most, if not all, of the tribes of South America. It is male among 
Mongolian tribes and Tartar populations, and among the Japanese. With 
the Chinese the moon is a goddess, but in popular tradition it is repre- 
sented as a man. It is m§lgjnj[nx^^ and among the Nagas, 

the Todas, the Khasis, the Shans, the Siamese; as also among the 
ancient Persians and the Armenians. In all Semitic languages i the moon 
is masculine and the sun feminine. The samels true among all the more 
primitive tribes of Africa, among the Slavs, the Finns, in Scandinavia 
and in Iceland, as well as among all Teutonic races. The moon was 
male among our own Anglo-Saxon ancestors, and the word remained 
masculine in English up to the time when arbitrary genders disappeared 
from the language. It still remains male in English folklore, which knows 
only the man in the moon. Our habit of regarding the moon as female is 
due only to our training in classical mythology — but even in Greece and 
Rome the moon was originally masculine. It was universally masculine 
among the Celts. In France, where classical tradition has been prolonged, 
the moon is feminine, but among the Bretons and the Basques the 
original sex reappears. 

The Moon as a Source of Magical Power 

But while the moon, as ‘the real husband of all women’, is thought of as 
a male, it is at the same time associated with the functions, not of men 
but of women. It is the source, not only of their reproductive powers 
but of all their other powers, and especially of their magical powers. 

The moon is everywhere regarded as the source of magic; the ‘Lord 
of the Women’ is also the Lord of witches and magicians. Thus among 
the North American Indians the moon was ‘the chief of manitus’, or 
wizards. Among the Eskimo the power of the ‘angakut’ derives from the 
moon, and when he is in a trance his spirit is transferred to it. A Chukchi 
shaman ‘when he desires to make especially powerful incantations, must 
strip himself naked, and go out of his house when the moon is shining’ 
to invoke the moon. The Tartars of Central Asia consider that women 
can practise witchcra ft only once a month, at the new moon; and in India 
witchcraft musTBeperformed by moonlight. 

Many other instances can be given. T3ntEe Gold Coast the same word 
means both moon and witchcraft. In ancient Greece all witchcraft was 
held to derive from the moon, and the moon-goddess, Hekate, was the 
special patroness of witches. It is still held by Greek peasants that no 
witch can work without the aid of the moon. In the Shetlands a witch, 
to strengthen her powers, lay for hours in the moonlight to become 
thoroughly saturated with its influence. Among the survivals of pagan- 



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ism especially condemned in the Carolingian capitularies is the belief 
that women can exercise witchcraft by means of the moon. In Germany 
deeds of witchcraft are particularly looked for on Mondays. Cornelius 
Agrippa, to reconcile this view with astrological doctrine, said that, 
though magical power came from all heavenly bodies, it could only be 
transmitted to the earth and its inhabitants by the intermediary of the 
moon. 

The fascination which woman exercises, her beauty (which many 
uncultured peoples regard as a form of witchcraft) is also bestowed by 
the moon. The Vedas state that woman’s beauty is derived from the 
moon, and is promoted by eating the flesh of the moon-hare, or by 
applying preparations obtained from it. The beauty of women is ex- 
pressed in all Oriental languages, as well as in Southern Europe and in 
Polynesia, by assimilating it to the moon. The moon-goddesses are the 
goddesses of beauty and love. 

The faculty of prophecy is likewise derived from the moon. ‘The 
ancients’, says Lydus, ‘regarded the moon as the leader in all divina- 
tion.’ In primitive Greece and among the Semites all oracles originally 
derived their inspiration from lunar deities. 

The Moon as Cause of Time and as Destiny 

The association of the moon with prophecy derives from the fact that 
throughout primitive culture the moon is the only measure of time. The 
solar year is a relatively late discovery, made possible only by ingenious 
astronomical observations. The cycle of seasonal changes is, of course, 
visible to all peoples living in temperate climes, but this affords no fixed 
point which can serve to measure duration. Throughout the greater part 
of human development the moon, whose name in our language is from 
the root ‘mas’, measure, ^ensura’, has been the sole marker of time. 
Even in cultures so advanced aT Islam the sun is never thought of as 
affording a measure of time. That function belongs to the moon. ‘God 
created the moon and appointed its ‘houses’, 1 ” says the Koran, ‘in order 
that men might know the number of the years and the measure of time.’ 

But in the primitive mind the function of the moon is not simply to 
measure time but to create it. The word moon is not derived from 
‘measure’ — the word ‘measure’ is derived from the name of the moon. 
It is the cau se ofj time, just as it is the cau se of menstruati on. Hence the 
moon stands for the conception of fate or destiny which pervades the 
thought of uncultured humanity. 

Further, the moon, as we shall see in greater detail, stands in primitive 
thought for perpetual ren ewal , immortality, eternity. The Siouan tribes 
of America, for example, called her ‘tKe Old Woman who never dies’. 
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One’. In Polynesia, the moon was regarded as possessing the secret of 
immortality; she was perpetually renewed. Among the Chams, the 
moon has the gift of eternal youth; she is never more than thirty. 
Similarly among the Chinese. Among the ancient Egyptians the moon 
was ‘the maker of eternity and creator of everlastingness’. In Latin 
inscriptions her epithet is ‘the eternal’. In Russia she is ‘the deathless 
one’. 

In primitive thought the eternal time-creating nature of the moon 
imparts to it an inexorable character, setting it above all other powers. 
The Iroquois recognized that there was a power above that of all 
‘manitus’, whose decrees were unalterable. This conception, which has 
its parallel in all primitive mythologies, corresponds to that of the Greek 
Moira, who stood above the gods. But the Moira, or the three Moirai, 
or Fates, were originally the moon. ‘The Moirai’, says Porphyry, ‘are 
referred to the power of the moon’, and in Orphic writing they are 
spoken of as parts of the moon. Destiny is assimilated by Sophocles to 
the moon. The Arabian goddess, Manat, was the moon and was also 
Fate. The Teutonic Norns, like the Greek Moirai, were moon-goddesses 
and were ‘older than the gods’. 

Mr Comford has shown the attributes of the Greek Moirai to be the 
prototype of the scientific conception of natural law; he points out that 
the Greek conception of Moira, or Fate, is essentially that of a dividing 
divinity and measurer of lots, who apportioned his special sphere of 
activity and functions, not only to every human being but also to every 
god. These are likewise the functions of the primitive mother, who 
allots to each his portion of food, and who, in early agricultural phases 
of culture, is also the apportioner of cultivable land. 

Lunar Divinities commonly Triune 

Like the Moirai, lunar deities are usually threefold. Among many 
uncultured peoples the waxing, the full and waning moons had three 
different names and were conceived as three different persons. Thus in 
New Britain the moon consists of the ‘White Woman’ and her two sons, 
the waxing and the waning moon. Among the natives of Northern 
Ashanti ‘it is well-known that the satellite is inhabited by three beings, 
similar to men in appearance but provided with enormous ears which 
completely cover their faces. One of these is white and the other two 
black’. In Dahomey the badge of moon-priestesses consists of a white 
shell and two black beads. The Indians of New Granada represent their 
lunar deity by three crosses, one large one flanked by two smaller ones. 
The month was divided into three parts among the Germans and the 
Celts, as likewise among the Greeks, the Romans and the Semites. 

Countless triads of Greek goddesses, such as the three Charities, the 



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three Horai, the three Syrens, the three Hesperides, the three Gorgons, 
the three Erinyes, are primitively scarcely distinguishable from one 
another or from the Moirai. The Muses were originally also three in 
number, and were deities of the night heavens, governing the stars. 
The Mothers, Nurses or Nymphs, who bring up infant gods, are also 
forms of the Moirai, who preside over the destiny of every child, and 
were, like them, threefold. These triads of Hellenic goddesses were 
regarded at will as one or three. They were triune, or three in one. Like 
them, the great goddess of the Semites was worshipped at Mecca in 
threefold form as three sacred trees, and was spoken of as the Three 
Virgins. In Phoenicia and Carthage, as in Krete and ancient Greece, the 
great goddess was represented by three pillars. The Jewish god, Yah- 
weh, appeared in the form of three men whom Abraham addressed as 
one. Threefold deities are prominent among the races of Northern 
Europe and among the Celts. Thus Brigit, the Norns, the Walkyries 
had the threefold character. They were impersonated by three priestesses 
who officiated over the birth of every child. They became the three 
weird sisters. The three Fatal Sisters survive in popular tradition as the 
three fairies, or fays. In many of the stories in which they figure two of 
them are deformed and one of them is rounded and beautiful like the 
full moon. Just as the moon-god of the Ashanti is black in two persons 
and white in the third, so the Erinyes were similarly two parts black and 
one white. 

The principle by which the threefold division of the month was applied 
to lunar deities has sometimes been extended to solar and other deities. 
Thus Zeus has been described as having three hundred heads, corres- 
ponding to the three hundred days of the year. More frequently, how- 
ever, the threefold character of lunar deities having once set the pattern, 
other deities are represented as triune. Thus Zeus was represented at 
Corinth with three eyes. Similarly the ancient Mexicans worshipped 
their gods as a trinity denoted by three crosses. The heathen Slavs 
similarly represented their deity with three heads. The Nordic gods were 
worshipped at Upsala as a trinity. 

The profane mimicry of the mysteries of the Christian religion by 
heathens has naturally been a cause of annoyance to missionaries. Tt is 
strange’, says Father d’ Acosta, ‘that the Divell, after his manner, hath 
brought a trinitie into idolatry, for the three images of the Sunne called 
Apomti, Churunti, and Intiquaoqui, which signifieth father and lord 
Sunne, the sonne Sunne, and the brother Sunne. ... I remember that 
being in Chuquisaca, an honourable priest showed me an information, 
which I had long in my handes, where it was prooved that there was a 
certaine “huaca”, or oratory, whereas the Indians did worship an idoll 
called Tangatanga, which they saide was one in three, and three in one. 

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And as the priest stood amazed thereat, I saide that the Diveil by his 
infernall and obstinate pride (whereby he alwayes pretendes to make 
himself God) did steale all that he could from the trueth to imploy it in 
his lyings and deceits. 5 

Pagan symbolizm has been extensively adopted in Christian myth. 
Thus the three Moirai, or Mothers, have survived as the three Maries, 
the three daughters of Holy Sophia, who is stated to be the moon, or 
as Faith, Hope and Charity. In a shrine at Vallepietra, near Anagni, a 
threefold Christ is held in high repute (Fig. 1). Even cruder ikons were 
common until lately, representing God with three heads, or with three 
faces (Fig. 2). The Church did its best to put down this disguised 



heathenism; Pope Urban VIII had a number of three-headed gods 
removed from the churches of Italy, and in 1628, caused these Holy 
Trinities to be publicly burned. 

The Moon as the Source of Lunacy 

Lunacy, ‘demoniac phrenzy, moping melancholy and moon-struck 
madness 5 , are universally regarded as caused by the moon. Mental 
derangement is also a qualification for the prophetic, magic or saintly 
character. The powers of the prophet, magician or priest are thought to 
depend upon inspiration or possession, and are manifested by various 
nervous phenomena — convulsions, trances, hypnosis, somnambulism. 
The word ‘shaman 5 , like the Greek word ‘mainad 5 , means ‘the raging 
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hyperaesthesia and instability. In Egypt, ‘they look upon all madmen, 
imbeciles, lunatics, and such as are afflicted with the falling sickness, as 
saints’. Lunacy is regarded with reverence throughout the East. The 
ancient Hebrews held that ‘the prophet is a fool, the man that hath the 
spirit is mad’. The Baralonga honour demented persons, ‘believing 
them to be under the direct influence of their tutelary deities’. ‘Regard 
for lunatics is a universal trait among the American tribes.’ ‘The associa- 
tion of poetry, prophecy and idiocy’, observes Sir John Rhys, ‘is so 
thoroughly Celtic as to need no remark.’ 

Not insanity alone, but every disease involving convulsions, is ascribed 
to the moon. Epilepsy, ‘the sacred disease’, was formerly spoken of as 
lunacy. Jesus, for instance, cured ‘lunatics’, oefoiviaCo/tevoi, which 
word is translated in the R.V. as ‘epileptics’. 

Lunar Animals: the Dog , the Hare , the Cat 

Hekate’s attendant animal was the dog, which worshipped her by 
barking at the moon, and announced her coming by howling. The 
Peruvians, during eclipses of the moon, used to beat their dogs to make 
them howl, ‘thinking her affectioned to doggcs’; so did the Hurons and 
Iroquois, while the Apache honoured the moon by yelping. Sometimes 
an Indian, having shot a dog, found the corpse of a woman. 

The association in primitive thought between witches and the moon 
is illustrated by the connection of both with certain animals. It is a 
widespread notion that witches may assume the form of a hare. ‘The 
hare’, says Mr Henderson, ‘is the commonest disguise of the witch in all 
the northern countries of Europe.’ He has ‘personally heard of and 
known many women who were regarded as having the power of shifting 
themselves into hare-shape’. In Wales, ‘only the women can become 
hares’. In the Isle of Man witches regularly become hares ; there is one 
instance of a man doing so, but he was a smith and thus a warlock. In 
Scotland a witch-hare cannot be hit with ordinary shot, but can be 
wounded with a crooked sixpence. In many stories found all over the 
world the wounded animal enters a cottage, and the hunter, following, 
finds there a bleeding, wounded woman. 

The transformation is sometimes effected in a manner reminiscent of 
totemic rituals ; namely, by the witch anointing herself with hare’s fat. 
Indeed, hare’s fat is believed to bring out the witch-nature of any 
woman, as was believed in medieval Europe. Dalla Porta describes how 
modest women ‘set a lamp with characters graved upon it, and filled it 
with hare’s fat; then they mumble forth some words and light it. When 
it burns in the middle of women’s company, it constrains them all to 
cast off their clothes, and voluntarily to show themselves naked unto 
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and the women will never leave dancing so long as the lamp burns’. 

For a hare to cross one’s path is regarded as most unlucky. In Scot- 
land, Ireland and Brittany the very word must never be mentioned. 
Sailors believe that the presence of a dead hare on board ship will cause 
bad weather. In France to eat hare’s flesh is regarded as making women 
more attractive; that is, imparting to them powers of bewitching men. 
Hare’s flesh was eaten for this purpose in ancient Rome. Eating hare’s 
flesh is also believed to render women fertile. According to a widespread 
belief among the Jews, Greeks and Chinese, all hares are female and are 
impregnated by the moon. The antiquity of their association with witch- 
craft among the Celts is testified by the fact that Queen Boadicea, when 
opposing the Roman armies, drew a hare from her bosom and followed 
its guidance in directing her attacks. 

The hare is also widely associated with the moon throughout India, 
where the moon is called the ‘bearer of the hare’. In Tibet and among 
the Mongols of Central Asia, as in China and Japan, the spots in the 
moon are interpreted as a hare, put there by a great magician, a myth 
which is found as far south as Ceylon. The hare plays a prominent part 
in folklore throughout South Africa. ‘He is a small creature, but with 
one exception all the animals are as clay in his hands’; and is often 
regarded as the messenger of the moon, who pronounced upon mankind 
the doom of mortality. 

Such myths are equally popular among the Indians of North America, 
but the hare is often substituted by the rabbit, never clearly distin- 
guished from the hare. There can be little doubt that the Great Hare, 
the most familiar form of the Great Manitu among the Iroquois 
nations, was originally the moon. Hekate was a hare, and in Karia was 
worshipped as the hare-goddess, and her chief shrine was at Lagina, the 
hare-city. Artemis was a hare and hares were sacred to her. Even in the 
present day, in some parts of Albania they ‘consider it a sin to kill a 
hare’. Dionysos, who was a moon-god, changed himself into a hare. 

The close association of the hare with witches and with the moon is 
found in Northern Europe equally. The part which the hare played in 
the agricultural cult of the ancient Germans is indicated by the impor- 
tance attached to it in connection with Easter. It is the Easter-hare 
which lays the Easter eggs, and it figures in association with them in 
Easter cards. Much circumstantial evidence indicates that it occupied 
an equally important place in the Celtic cults of Great Britain and Ire- 
land. The custom of hunting the Easter-hare was kept up until lately 
with much pomp by the mayor and aldermen of Leicester. We know that 
the hare was tabu as food to the ancient Britons, and that it was eaten as 
a sacred food by the kings of Ireland. The hare upon which Boadicea 
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Why is the hare so universally associated with the moon ? There can 
be little doubt that its original relation to the lunar deity was sacrificial. 
In the cults which belong especially to women, the animals sacrificed 
are almost invariably small animals, such as birds, dogs, rabbits, hares 
and pigs, for women are seldom able to obtain the large animals used in 
sacrifice by hunters and herdsmen. Furthermore, the moon’s fructifying 
powers are paralleled by the fertility of the rabbit or hare, which in Aztec 
hieroglyphics had the same ideogram as does the earth. 

In West Africa the cat is the commonest animal into which a witch 
may change, and was the usual disguise of the familiar spirit of witches 
in Western Europe. The cat is accordingly credited with having nine 
lives, with being able to see in the dark and with being able to cause 
storms. It is a widespread superstition in Europe that a cat washing 
herself behind the ears forebodes rain, while in Asia Minor rain is 
expected if a cat licks her paws. In Indonesia to compel a cat to wash 
herself is considered a good way to bring about a good downpour ; while 
the natives of southern Celebes, when there is a drought, carry a cat 
round the fields in a sedan-chair, squirting water over it. In the Middle 
Ages heretics were commonly accused of worshipping cats. The Cathari 
were said, erroneously, to have derived their name from the practice, 
and the charge was brought against the Knights Templar. The Stad- 
inghi, a heretical sect of the thirteenth century, were accused in a Papal 
Bull of the crime of keeping black cats. 

The important part played by cats in the ritual of witches ‘is clearly 
derived from an early form of sacrifice’. Shakespeare appears to refer to 
the practice, and the sacrifice of cats to produce rain is widespread. In 
Bohemia and in Russia a black cat is buried alive in a field to promote 
the fertility of the land ; and in some parts of Lancashire it is still thought 
that to shut the cat up in the oven promotes good luck. Cats are sup- 
posed to become fat or lean with the waxing or waning of the moon, and 
Cornelius Agrippa says their eyes grow wider or narrower according to 
its phases. They are ‘lunar animals, and are of the same nature as 
menstrual blood, with which many wonderful, miraculous things are 
wrought by magicians’. The Australian aborigines and Tasmanians 
identify the moon with a wild cat, and the North American Indians 
believe that there is a cat in the moon. The cat was sacred to the goddess 
Freija, who rode on a chariot drawn by cats; and in Egypt cats were 
sacrosanct. So abundant are cat-mummies in Egypt that shiploads of 
them have been brought to Europe to use as manure. According to 
Plutarch, the cat in Egypt denoted the moon. ‘Though this may look 
like a fiction, yet there can be no doubt that the eyes of cats seem to 
grow larger at the full moon, and to decrease again and diminish in 
brightness upon the waning.’ 



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The Moon as Spinstress 

All feminine attributes, not only fertility and magic, are dependent upon 
the moon. One of the activities most commonly ascribed to it is spinning 
and weaving. The moon is a spinster in innumerable folk-tales in 
Germany and Italy, and the same idea is found among the North 
American Indians, in Central Brazil, in the Banks Islands and elsewhere. 
In Borneo the moon assumes the form of a spider. In ancient Egypt, the 
moon-goddess, Neith, invented weaving. Artemis, Athene, Aphrodite 
and the Nymphs were spinstresses, as was the Nordic goddess, Freija, 
and the Teutonic goddesses, Holda and Bertha. The hare is also found 
in folk-tale as a weaver. Jewish women did their spinning and weaving 
by moonlight, while German women held that spinning must on no 
account be done by moonlight. The Dayaks believed a woman could not 
weave beautiful patterns without the inspiration of her divine protectress. 

It is natural enough to connect the moon as a measurer of duration 
with the spinning of the thread, or the weaving of the web of time and 
destiny. Nevertheless, the primary connection between such pursuits 
and the moon was probably not poetical, but more direct, for the moon 
is engaged in almost every other occupation belonging to primitive 
women. It is known as a maker of bark-cloth, as a basket-maker, pot- 
maker, grinder of seeds, maker of fires and as a cook. Among the Eskimo 
the fires of the sun are stoked up by the lunar deity. 

In Europe the man in the moon is most commonly shown as carrying 
a load of firewood, which is interpreted as a punishment for Sabbath- 
breaking, and in some popular myths he is Cain or Judas Iscariot. The 
representation, however, is much older than Christianity. The Yoruba 
of the Gold Coast see a Sabbath-breaker in the moon who carries a load 
of firewood, and the same idea is found among all the southern Bantu. 
The firewood of the man in the moon has baffled many. But the gather- 
ing of firewood is simply one of the occupations of primitive women. 
Among the Banyoro the first act of a bride, after marriage, is to draw a 
small pitcher of water from a well and to gather a small bundle of sticks. 
‘The drawing of water and the carrying of fuel typified’, says the Rev. 
J. Roscoe, ‘the duties of the wife.’ 

The Moon regarded as the Producer of Vegetation 

In tradition, there are trees and shrubs in the moon. In some repre- 
sentations the moon-man is surrounded by thorn bushes. Thom bushes 
were sacred among the Celts and Teutons, and were used for cremating 
the dead. Trees are observed in the moon in various Molucca Islands, 
in Melanesia, in the Malay Peninsula, in China and in Sweden. In 
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down a tree which grows again every month. The same notion is current 
in China. 

One of the most prominent attributes of the moon is, in fact, that of 
producer of all vegetable life : it is known among the Brazilians as the 
‘Mother of Vegetables’; among the agricultural tribes of North America 
as the ‘Mother’ of corn, and is assimilated by the Cherokee to the maize 
itself. This notion is also found in many other parts of the world. Thus 
in India, the moon is known as ‘the bearer of seed, the bearer of plants’, 
and is identified with some, ‘the Lord of Plants’. The Caribs picture 
the world as having arisen from a gigantic tree, resembling the world- 
tree of Nordic mythology, Yggdrasil, which in the Voluspa is called ‘the 
tree that metes out the fate of men’. It is also the Tree of Mimir, who 
appears to have been an ancient Nordic moon-god. All Semitic moon 
deities were similarly associated with trees and sacred bushes, while in 
the Admiralty Islands the moon is identified with the coconut-palm. On 
some Babylonian cylinders, the moon-god is represented as the trunk of 
a tree with branches growing from every part of his person. In Krete and 
archaic Greece also lunar deities were worshipped as trees. 

The moon is particularly identified with the juices of vegetables and 
the sap of trees, which is supposed to rise and fall with the phases of the 
moon; hence the rule that timber must be felled at the waning of the 
moon. The juices of vegetables arc regarded as their life-blood or soul, 
and so as the life-blood or soul of the moon. Accordingly the highest 
forms of divine inspiration are attained by drinking the juice of the 
soma, or, in South America, the concoction known as chicha, or the 
juice of the grape, which was regarded in Western Asia as the blood of 
the deity. To chew the leaves or fibres of the lunar plant is a necessary 
preliminary to divine and prophetic inspiration. Among the Semites, 
those trees which exude thick saps of aromatic gum were regarded with 
special reverence, and the fluid was employed as incense. ‘The value of 
the gum acacia as an amulet’, says W. Robertson Smith, ‘is connected 
with the idea that it is a clot of menstruous blood, i.e. that the tree is a 
woman.’ The moon was thus the divine counterpart of the primitive 
cultivator of the soil. Hence the presence of trees and shrubs in the 
moon. 

The Moon as Controller of Moisture 

The moon has, by universal consent, control of all water and moisture, 
as part of her office of bringing forth vegetation. Primitive women 
secure the fertility of the earth by watering it and by performing rain- 
making incantations, in which they are assisted by the moon. According 
to the Eskimo, snow comes directly from the moon. In British Columbia 
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upon the moon as being the actual cause of rains and gods, and among 
the Algonkin tribes the terms for moon and water were the same. 
Similarly the serpent goddess of Mexico, who was the moon, was also 
the goddess of water and the ocean. The moon is represented in Maya 
manuscripts by a pitcher of water. The idea that the moon is ruler over 
waters is found in China and Japan, in Central Australia and Central 
Asia, in Brazil and in many other parts of the world. 

Frogs who croak to the moon never fail to obtain rain from him. In 
the Ganges valley, the women, when there is a drought, slowly crush a 
frog to death, and its croaking is believed to be an infallible rain-charm. 
The frog, often interchangeable in myth with the toad and with the 
dragon, is a universal emblem of water and the moon. Among the 
Pueblos, the frog-clans are the rain-making clans, and the great goddess 
of Mexico, who is the moon and the ruler of waters, was represented by 
a huge emerald frog. The North American Indians see in the moon the 
‘Primeval Toad’, which contained all the waters of the world and caused 
the flood by discharging them. Many races, e.g. the Chinese, see a frog 
in the moon. The toad is also regarded as an emblem of the womb; and 
in Germany women suffering from uterine troubles present images of 
toads to the Virgin Mary. In Semitic mythology the moon deity is 
invariably the controller of water and the primal ocean out of which all 
things arose. So, also among the Greeks and the Romans, the moon was 
regarded as the source of all moisture. This list could be lengthened 
almost indefinitely: medieval writers supported the idea. ‘Water’, says 
Cornelius Agrippa, ‘is the lunar element, the water of the sea as well as 
that of rivers, and all things humid, the humours of trees and of animals, 
and more especially those humours that are white, such as the white of 
eggs, fat sweat, pituitary discharge and superfluities of the body.’ 

The notion that the moon is ‘the governess of floods’ persists among 
ourselves in the notion that the phases of the moon are related to changes 
in the weather, an idea which persists in spite of repeated demonstra- 
tions of its falsity. It is anything but obvious why on grounds of mere 
nature symbolism the moon should be universally associated with 
moisture. The connection between the moon and the tides appears to be 
unknown to most uncultured peoples. Those daring seafarers, the 
Polynesians, had no such notion and thought them due to the presence 
of a huge monster which breathed twice a day. If any connection be- 
tween the tides and the moon is recognized by some uncultured 
peoples, probably it is deduced by them from the moon’s character as 
ruler of the waters, and not the other way about. 

On the other hand, nothing would be more logical than that the 
source of magical power should be the controller of the waters upon 
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the primitive rain-maker. The two functions, practical and magical, are 
scarcely distinguished from one another. The drawing of water and the 
watering of the fields are regarded as magical operations, and are carried 
out with the solemnity of a ritual. 

In short, the attributes of the moon in primitive thought are not the 
products of poetic symbolism, but are the transferred characters and 
activities of primitive women, which are regarded as being derived from 
and controlled by the magic power of the moon. Everywhere — from 
China to Peru, from Ticrra del Fuego to the Arctic — the moon is 
regarded as the counterpart of women, their special deity, the controller 
of their beings and the source of their powers. ‘The nature of women*, 
as Rabelais says, ‘is figured by the moon.* 

Now, just as the functions of the moon-deity reflect woman’s share 
in the sexual division of labour, so also the moon’s supremacy as the 
primitive cosmic power is the counterpart of the magical powers of 
primitive woman. Hence wherever we find the moon pre-eminent, we 
are entitled to conclude that women are, or were, pre-eminent too. This 
is perhaps why Spartian says: ‘All the learned, especially in Harran, 
believe that those who honour the moon as a female deity and give it a 
feminine name remain for ever enslaved to their women, but those who 
worship it as a male deity and give it a corresponding name, rule over 
their women.’ Likewise, according to Palgrave, our Anglo-Saxon 
ancestors ‘had an odd notion that if they addressed that power as a 
goddess, their wives would be their masters’. 



CHAPTER 20 


The Resurrection and the Life 


The Serpent and Eternal Life 

With the fall of man and the origin of death, with woman and the 
moon, who are held responsible for these disasters, is associated the 
serpent, an animal which plays a larger part in religious myth than any 
other. In all symbolism it is the emblem of immortality because, instead 
of dying, it changes its skin. Uncultured peoples hold the serpent to be 
the only animal (together with lizards and other reptiles, and also crabs, 
which are regarded as equivalent) which possesses the gift of immor- 
tality. Savages, it should be remembered, do not regard death as a 
natural event, but ascribe it to witchcraft — woman’s witchcraft, or, 
what is the same thing, the moon’s. True, the effects of old age are 
recognized in the wrinkling of the skin ; the natives of British Columbia 
consider that men die because their skin is too soft. If men could change 
their skins as serpents do, they would also be immortal. 

The belief that the first human beings preserved their immortal 
nature by this faculty, and that serpents were involved in its loss, is very 
widespread. Thus the Tsimshian of British Columbia relate that their 
tribal hero, or first man, applied to the moon-god for the gift of renewed 
youth. The divine physician purified him by bathing him, and his skin 
fell from him in the form of scales, leaving him as white as snow. The 
tribes of central California say that death was introduced among men 
by the machinations of the lizards, who obtained from men the power of 
changing their skin; before this men did not die, but merely moulted — 
a view also held by the Caribs. The ancient Mexicans also had a god, 
Xipe Totec — originally a moon-god, but regarded later as a god of 
vegetation — who regularly renewed his youth by putting on a new skin. 
Again, the Arawak of the Orinoco tell how a boy was swallowed by a 
serpent and re-emerged, to the admiration of his friends, with a new 
skin, which was mottled like a serpent’s. We come upon an almost 
identical story in Australia. 

Some Australian tribes believe that the dead put on incorruptibility 
by an opposite process ; instead of being swallowed, they themselves cat 
a serpent. In New Caledonia the serpent is replaced by a sea-monster, 
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In Tonga the god Tangaroa, who is a lizard, is said to have sent his 
two sons with their wives to people the island. One of those sons was all 
that a son should be, but the other turned out badly. So Tangaroa 
appointed that the good son and his descendants should have white 
skins and should go to the land of the immortals; but the bad son and 
his people were condemned to have black skins and to remain in Tonga. 
The same story is told in Samoa, but the personages are lizards. 

In the languages of Melanesia the term for ‘to slough one’s skin’ is 
equivalent to ‘living for ever’. In the New Hebrides the origin of death 
is accounted for in the following story : an old woman went down to the 
sea and, casting off her old wrinkled skin, as lobsters cast their shells, 
she became a young and beautiful woman. But her grandchild failed to 
recognize her in her disguise, and would not let her take her in her arms. 
So she returned to the sea and put on the old skin. The same story is 
told with unimportant variations throughout most parts of Melanesia; 
we find it again in Papua. 

The myth takes another form in the New Hebrides, in the island of 
Ambryn. The two gods, Barkolkol and Buglian, who respectively repre- 
sent the bright aspect and the dark aspect of the moon, created man. 
When man began to age and his skin grew wrinkled; Buglian said to 
Barkolkol: ‘Our man is getting wrinkled, what shall we do ?’ Barkolkol 
replied : ‘We will skin him like an eel ; he will grow a new skin like the 
serpent, and thus he will be made young.’ But Buglian said: ‘No. When 
he is old and ugly, we will dig a hole in the earth, and put him in it.’ In a 
similar story from the Gazelle Peninsula of New Britain the good god 
Kambinana said to his wicked and foolish brother Korvouva: ‘Go down 
to the men and tell them to cast their skins, so shall they avoid death. 
But tell the serpents that they must henceforth die.’ But Korvouva, the 
fool, reversed the message. The Annamites also regard mankind as 
having been defrauded of immortality by the serpents, who so terrified 
the god’s messenger that he reversed the god’s message. 

The same notions are widely current throughout Africa. In the forests 
of the upper basin of the Congo, an account of the origin of death is 
current similar to that which is so widespread in Melanesia. The first 
man, it is said, had two wives. In course of time their skins began to get 
wrinkled. The elder wife then went to a hut, and proceeded to take off 
her old skin, and laid it down on the winnowing fan. Unfortunately the 
second wife happened to need that implement and went to the hut to 
fetch it; there she saw her co-wife radiant with renewed beauty. But the 
process of renewal had not been quite completed, and her entry broke 
the spell, causing both women to fall dead ; death was thus introduced 
into the world. The serpent, on the other hand, never dies, and cannot 
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This myth of a disastrous error or fraud is common. Among the 
Gallas, tradition asserts that the order to slough their skin was by mis- 
take delivered to the serpents instead of to the human race. Similarly 
the Wafipa and Wabende of the shores of Lake Tanganyika relate that 
God once asked the creatures of the earth, ‘Who wishes not to die ?’ 
Unfortunately all were asleep except the serpent, which answered, T do.’ 
The Sea Dayaks have the same story. 

In the more common African form of the tradition the lizard is the 
chief means of defrauding mankind of the gift of immortality. Thus, for 
example, among some Basuto tribes it is related how the good king 
Leobu, grieved at the sufferings of his people, decided to send his own 
beloved son to announce the good news that they should not die but 
have life everlasting. The king’s instructions were, however, overheard 
by a professional runner, whose name was Khatoane — that is, the Lizard 
— and he ran to the people and gave them the opposite message. In a 
Zulu version, the chameleon is sent with the message ‘Let not men die’, 
and the lizard with the message ‘Let men die’. The lizard naturally 
arrives first. This story, in slightly varying forms, is current throughout 
the greater part of Africa, from the Cape to the Sahara. 

Identical conceptions were familiar to the ancient Greeks. The term 
by which they spoke of the cast skin of a serpent was yijQa c, that is to say 
‘old age’. Aelian tells how Zeus, taking pity on man, decided to bestow 
immortality on him, sending the gift on the back of the donkey. The 
donkey, however, was defrauded of his burden by a serpent in exchange 
for a drink. In another story, the wise Polyidos brings about the resur- 
rection of Glaucus, the infant son of King Minos, who died from falling 
into a cask of honey, by rubbing the child with certain herbs, with 
which he had seen a snake resurrect a dead companion. In another 
version, Glaucus obtains possession of the herb of immortality — from 
the moon-hare. (The idea that the moon-hare possesses this herb is also 
found in China.) 

The ancient Egyptians likewise associated immortality with the 
serpent. In a passage of the ‘Book of the Dead’, the deceased prays that 
he may become like a serpent. ‘I am the serpent Sata, whose years are 
many’, he says; ‘I die and I am bom again. I am the serpent Sata which 
dwelleth in the uttermost parts of the earth. I die and I am bom again, 
and I renew myself, and I grow young each time.’ 

In the Gilgamesh epic, one of the most ancient literary monuments 
of the world, a story exactly similar to that of Glaucus is told. In 
Genesis, which appears to have been largely inspired by Babylonian 
myths, the serpent, as in the traditions of the whole uncultured world, 
defrauds the human race of immortality. But the Biblical narrative has 
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commentary on Genesis iii. 14 explains that Adam, after the Fall, did 
not possess the same skin as before, his first skin having presumably 
been immortal; it is in consequence of thus having changed the skin of 
the first man that the serpent is compelled to moult his. An early Mus- 
lim doctor, drawing, no doubt, from the same traditional sources, gives 
further particulars. ‘When the fruit had descended down Adam’s throat 
and reached his stomach, the skin which Adam had in Paradise fell from 
his body. That of Eve fell off likewise, and the soft flesh of their bodies 
remained exposed as it is with us at the present day; for the skin which 
Adam had in Paradise was similar to the substance of nails. When it 
became detached, only a small portion of it remained on the tips of the 
fingers ; and thereafter whenever Adam or Eve beheld the nails of their 
fingers, they were reminded of Paradise and its delights.’ 

The Redeemer Himself was likened by the apostle to the serpent : ‘As 
Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of 
Man be lifted up : that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, 
but have eternal life’ (John iii. 14-15). 

Later, the notion that the serpent possesses the gift of immortality 
was a definite tenet in Europe among the alchemists and practitioners of 
occult arts. Serpents, being undying, are accordingly widely regarded as 
the spirits or souls of the departed. 

Immortality Dependent on the Moon 

The serpent thus shares the moon’s gift of immortality. The moon itself 
is thought by some peoples to owe its faculty of rejuvenation to the 
power of casting off its old skin. The ‘old women’ and other personages 
who, in the Melanesian and Papuan myths, renew their lives by slough- 
ing their skin are, in fact, personifications of the moon. In the languages 
of Melanesia the only way of expressing the notion of eternity is the 
phrase ‘ul ta marama’; that is to say, ‘casting off one’s skin like the 
moon’. So when the missionaries desire to explain that God is eternal, they 
are obliged to say that he sloughs his skin like the moon. In Australia, 
the natives of Queensland believe that the moon sheds its skin every 
month. In Togoland, the Ewe believe that the moon has scales like a 
serpent and casts them off each month; while an ancient Babylonian 
inscription describes the body of the moon-goddess Ishtar as ‘covered 
with scales like a snake’s’. Moon-gods and moon-goddesses are usually 
represented as serpents. 

In a more general way the moon is conceived as dying every month 
and as being bom again after three days, and the power of men to sur- 
vive every month, or the hope that they will survive after death, is 
regarded as being derived from the moon. Thus the eternal moon is not 
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tion. The natives of the Caroline Islands, for instance, think that men 
formerly went to sleep as the moon waned, slept during the three days 
of the interlunary period, and rose again with the new moon. Accordingly 
they rejoice at the appearance of the new moon, and say that they are 
born again. The Sakai of the Malay Peninsula relate that the moon, 
which falls to the earth during the three days of the interlunary period, 
has to be assisted back into heaven by the use of magic rites. Unless this 
is done, all men must die. In India it has been recognized since Vedic 
times that ‘the moon makes life long’. At the full moon, in the month of 
Kuar, the Hindus place food on the house-tops; when it has thoroughly 
absorbed the rays of the moon the food is distributed among the family. 
‘This is supposed to lengthen life. , In the Upanishads the moon is 
represented as the cause and controller of metempsychosis. The Indians 
of California, as they dance before the moon sing: ‘As the moon dieth 
and cometh to life again, so we also, having to die, will live again.’ The 
same belief obtains among other American Indians, as it did in ancient 
Mexico and Peru. The ancient Babylonians prayed in much the same 
manner. ‘May the gods’, they said, ‘give me a life which, like the moon, 
is renewed every month.’ In Loango the women prayed to the new moon : 
‘So may I renew my life as thou art renewed.’ The Christian Abyssinians 
address long prayers to the new moon. ‘He is risen!’ the women ex- 
claim. 

In the African stories in which two messengers bring respectively the 
message of death and the message of eternal life to mankind, the sender 
of the message, in what appear to be the more primitive versions of the 
tale, is the moon. The story is current in this form among the Bushmen. 
Among the Tati Bushmen the moon is said to have given the message to 
the tortoise. The tortoise being incredibly slow in delivering the message, 
the moon repeated it to the hare, which perverted it so as to make it 
mean the opposite of what the moon intended. The moon is the sender 
of the message among the Hottentots and among the Nandi and Masai 
of East Africa. In other versions of this widespread African myth the 
sender of the message is simply the personage who is most prominent 
in the mythology of the particular tribe or people; but it is probable that 
these personages were originally the moon. 

In Madagascar a current myth relates that the first men were given 
the choice of dying like the moon or like the banana-tree; that is to say, 
of dying periodically and being born again, or of dying altogether, but 
propagating the species as does the banana-tree, by its root. The first 
parents foolishly chose to propagate and die like the banana-tree, and 
thus lost the chance of being immortal. This last version of the myth of 
the origin of death differs somewhat from African versions, where, as far 
as I know, no reference is made to the alternative of propagating like the 



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banana. It may have been brought to Madagascar from the Indonesian 
region by the Hovas, for the allusion to the banana in similar myths is 
frequently found there among the Mantras of the Malay Peninsula, the 
Alfurs of Poso and on the island of Nias. 

The reason the banana is chosen as an emblem of sexual propagation 
is probably its phallic form. It is implied in the foregoing myths, as in 
the narrative of Geneses, that men lost, or gave up, their hope of 
immortality through their fatal subjection to women and to their sexual 
passions. In a creation myth from the Gilbert Islands the creator, after 
bringing the first man and the first woman into existence, expressly for- 
bade them to have sexual intercourse with one another, although he 
himself had intercourse with the woman. Propagation by sexual inter- 
course thus appears to be regarded in primitive thought as an alternative 
to eternal life. Mankind cannot have both; men must choose between 
the moon and the banana. 

In Polynesia also stress is laid on the contrast between the immortal 
nature of the moon and human mortality. In various parts it is related 
that Maui endeavoured to obtain the gift of immortality from the relent- 
less goddess by force. The means by which he proposed to accomplish 
this were identical with those by which young men in Australia, on the 
Gold Coast of Africa, and in Guiana, are fabled to have changed their 
skins, and thus, presumably, acquired a new life from serpents, namely 
by passing through the bodies of the monsters. Maui similarly endea- 
voured to jump into the mouth of Hina or, according to another version, 
to enter her womb. This attempt to be born again is said, however, to 
have ended in failure. In the Melanesian stories of the origin of death 
which we have noted, the bestower of life and death is the moon. The 
old woman who changed her skin and wished to bestow the gift of 
immortality on her grandchild was the goddess ‘Round Head’ — that is 
to say, the moon. The good Kambinana, who wished men to live for 
ever, and the wicked and foolish Korvouva, who bestowed the gift on the 
serpents instead, are the Melanesian gods of the full moon and of the 
new moon. 

Similar beliefs are general among the Australian aborigines. Thus the 
tribes of Central Australia believe that formerly men did not die per- 
manently, but rose again after the third day. The belief that black- 
fellows rise up again as ‘white men’ is universal in Australia. When the 
body of an Australian black begins to decay the loosened epidermis 
assumes a whitish appearance; friends assist the dead man to cast off 
his skin by scraping it off with shells. The ghosts of Australian black- 
fellows are, in fact, white; and in the corroborees the dancers, who are 
supposed to impersonate them, paint themselves white with a prepar- 
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timate beliefs of peoples in the five parts of the world, the gift of re- 
newed life, the hope of resurrection and life everlasting, are connected 
with the moon and the serpent. 

The Serpent as Representative of the Moon 

Among the founders of European civilization also, immortality is de- 
rived at times from the moon, at times from the serpent. In one of the 
Greek myths of Glaucus, the secret of resurrection is acquired from a 
serpent; in another version from the moon-hare. Endymion derived his 
eternally renewed youth directly from the moon. The serpent and the 
moon are similarly interchangeable in the beliefs and myths of the peoples 
of Melansia, Australia, Indonesia and Asia, Africa and America. The 
association between the moon and the serpent is thus clearly founded 
upon the possession by both of the gift of immortality through perpetual 
renewal, and the serpent is accordingly regarded as a form of personi- 
fication of the moon. Amongst the Greeks it was a popular belief — 
Aristotle gravely reported it as a fact — that serpents have as many ribs 
as there are days in the lunar month. The Pawnee Indians believe ser- 
pents to be subject to the moon. The Iroquois thought that the moon fed 
on serpents. Among the Algonkin tribes the serpent ‘crowned with the 
lunar crescent was a constant symbol of life in their picture-writing/ 
Their mythical ‘grandmother’, the moon-goddess Aataentsic, was rep- 
resented either as an old woman or as a serpent. In Mexico the serpent- 
woman was the moon-goddess. In Australia, serpents are the ‘dogs* of 
the moon. In Uganda the sacred serpents’ festival took place on the day 
of the new moon. Among the ancient Hindus the Naga kings, or Serpent- 
people, who were supposed to be descended from a serpent, were known 
as the Lunar dynasty. 

So intimate is this association that it may safely be laid down that, 
wherever we find the serpent in symbolism or worship, we may con- 
fidently expect to find a lunar cult. In the religions of civilized societies, 
as well as in those of uncultured peoples, serpent deities are lunar deities. 
In India the great serpent ‘that had been worshipped there since the 
world began’ is specially associated with the moon-worship of the ancient 
Aryas. Among all Semitic peoples the serpent is the avatar of the moon 
deity. The moon goddesses of Hellenic cults were associated with ser- 
pents. The Arcadian Artemis, Hekate, Persephone, hold serpents in their 
hands. The Erinys, Gorgons, Graia are serpent-goddesses whose hairs 
are serpents. There is a popular superstition in Central Europe that a 
hair plucked from a woman who is under the influence of the moon — i.e. 
who is menstruating — will, if buried, turn into a serpent. The hairs of a 
witch, according to Breton tales, turn into serpents. The notion is cur- 
rent in Japan. ‘The myth of Medusa has many counterparts in Japanese 



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folklore, the subject of such tales being always some wonderfully beauti- 
ful girl whose hair turns to snakes only at night, and who is discovered at 
last to be a dragon’s daughter. But in ancient times it was believed that 
the hair of any young woman might change to serpents — for instance, 
under the influence of repressed jealousy,’ All women, being more or less 
witches, are thus thought to have something of the serpent in them. It is 
said in the Congo that at the time of the great flood all human beings, 
through fright or otherwise, resumed their original shape; the men 
turned into monkeys and the women into lizards. A mediaeval legend 
asserts that women were made out of the legs of the serpent, which lost 
its limbs as it entered Paradise. It is supposed to be not uncommon for 
women to give birth to serpents and other reptiles. ‘Neither is it hard’, 
says Dalla Porta, ‘to generate toads of women’s putrefied flowers ; for 
women do breed this kind of cattel, together with their children ... as 
frogs, toads, lyzards, and such like; and the women of Salerium, in times 
past, were wont to use the juice of parsley and leeks, at the beginning of 
their conception, and especially at the time of their quickening, thereby 
to destroy this kind of vermin with them. A certain woman lately 
married, being in all men’s judgment great with child, brought forth 
instead of a child, four creatures like frogs, and after had perfect health. 
But this was a kind of Moon-calf.’ 

In a Tartar poem the hero finds it impossible to kill a witch, even 
though her bowels be torn out of her body, for she keeps her soul in a 
snake. In China serpents are regarded as the source of all magical powers. 
In Hebrew and in Arabic the terms for magic are derived from the words 
meaning serpent. According to Philostratus, the Arabs held that a man 
acquired magical powers by eating the heart or the liver of a serpent. In 
Brittany supernatural powers may be acquired by drinking a broth pre- 
pared from serpents. The Iroquois regarded serpents as the usual dis- 
guise of witches, and believed that all magical powers were derived from 
serpents, although their source was at the same time the moon. Among 
the Algonkin tribes a ‘manitu’ was defined as ‘he who walketh with a 
serpent’; and among the Siouan tribes the words ‘manitu,’ ‘wakan’ 
denoted both wizards and serpents. Among the Missouri Indians, 
Captain Bossu saw ‘an old woman who passed for a magician; she wore 
round her naked body a living rattlesnake’, to whom she spoke. Many 
other examples might be cited. We have seen that in some West African 
religious associations the women who take part in the magic rites must be 
provided with serpents. It is not improbable that the countless images 
of goddesses in Western Asia, in Krete and in Greece who hold serpents 
in their hands reproduce the attitude of their priestesses, who were wont 
to handle sacred serpents, from which they derived their magic power. 
There can be little doubt that the ‘wisdom of the serpent’, the wisest of 



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all beasts of the field, refers to the proficiency of the reptile in the arts 
of magic. 

Women and Serpents 

As some of the foregoing beliefs indicate, women are as closely as- 
sociated with serpents as they arc with the moon. In southern Italy it is 
a current saying that serpents make love to all women — a belief familiar 
from the most ancient times, for the ‘fauns’ of primitive Italy were 
worshipped in the form of serpents ; and, as is well known, women were 
in constant danger of being assaulted by them. Even the Good Goddess 
was ravished by the god Faun us in the form of a serpent. The notion 
was well known to the ancient Greeks. Euripides describes the women of 
Thebes as washing at sacred springs, whence issue serpents that girdle 
round them, fondling them and licking their cheeks. The predilection of 
serpents for women was associated with the sacred functions of women 
in the agricultural rites which came to be associated with Dionysos and 
Orpheus. Plutarch tells us that Olympias, the mother of Alexander the 
Great, who was an enthusiastic devotee of the women’s religion, ‘was 
wont in the dances proper to these ceremonies to have great tame ser- 
pents about her, which sometimes creeping out of the ivy in 
the mystic fans, sometimes winding themselves about the sacred spears 
and the women’s chaplets, made a spectacle which men could not look 
upon without terror’. The ancient Celts also believed that serpents arc 
attracted by women. In several stories serpents are described as fastening 
upon women in such a manner that it was impossible to separate them. 
Tenau ‘of the golden breast’ was so called because a serpent had clung 
to her nipple so tenaciously that the breast had to be cut off' and re- 
placed by one made of gold. In Germany women are said to become 
pregnant by a serpent entering their mouth while they are asleep. In 
northern France and Portugal at the present day women are believed to 
be in constant danger of being assaulted by lizards. 

In Japan and India, as in Europe, Abyssinia and Algeria, girls are 
warned to be careful in approaching serpents lest they should be ra- 
vished. A love-sick serpent will, it is said, constantly follow a woman. 
Woman are supposed to conceive a passion for serpents, and to take 
pleasure in allowing the reptiles to bite them, for they are thought to be 
immune to their poison. The condition is known as ‘nar-ashakh* or 
‘serpent love’. It is to serpents that women turn when desirous of off- 
spring. The Brahmans ‘think that children can be obtained by wor- 
shipping a cobra’. (Children who have been thus obtained are usually 
named after the serpent.) It is a very ancient notion in India and in 
neighbouring countries of the East that women at the time of men- 
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intercourse with a man, are possessed by a malignant spirit in the form 
of a serpent. 

Among the Jews it was a common Rabbinical opinion that menstrua- 
tion owes its origin to the serpent having had sexual intercourse with 
Eve in the Garden of Eden. The ancient Persians likewise believed that 
menstruation was originally caused by the serpent-god Ahriman’s re- 
lations with the first woman. The ancient Eygptians had fables about wo- 
men being pursued by serpents. Among the Hottentots snakes are sup- 
posed to have connection with women while they are asleep. 

In several of the notions just noted serpents are regarded as being the 
cause of menstruation; they thus play the same part in regard to the 
functions of women as the moon. In New Guinea the idea also appears to 
be familiar. Although, as we have seen, the Papuans commonly ascribe 
menstruation to the moon having intercourse with girls and women, in 
their elaborate wood-carvings women are often represented as being 
bitten in their genital organs by lizard -shaped animals. Throughout 
Polynesia women are supposed to be in danger of being violated by 
lizards and by eels. 

This notion has been thought to derive from the phallic shape of the 
animal, and that idea is undoubtedly present in those world-wide be- 
liefs. It was thought by the ancients, and is still believed by the Euro- 
pean peasantry, that during sexual conjunction the male serpent in- 
troduces its head into the mouth of the female, and that the latter gnaws 
and bites it off', thus becoming fecundated. The same idea appears to 
obtain in Polynesia, and is, no doubt, general among uncultured peoples. 
In parts of the world where there are no serpents, lizards and other ani- 
mals which are understood to change their skins, appear in the same 
role. In most of these myths, the animals in question are regarded as 
impersonations of a moon-god. 

A variant of the same ideas represents serpents as stealing women’s 
milk, e.g. among the Namaquas of South Africa. The same belief is cur- 
rent in Madagascar and New Guinea, and has also been popular in 
Wales from time immemorial. In Italy the restlessness of babies is 
frequently attributed to a serpent sucking the mother’s breast, to the 
exclusion of the child. 

The Eskimo have stories of reptiles falling in love with women and of 
serpents caressing women clinging to their breasts. The North American 
Indians likewise have numerous stories of serpents having connection 
with women and falling in love with them. Among the Dene, as among 
the Jews and the Persians, tradition relates that the first woman mated 
with a serpent. 

In South America serpents are generally regarded as the cause of 
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from the assaults of serpents. The Arawaks believe that such accidents 
are quite common. In the Upper Amazon region the god Jurupari, who 
is a serpent, is said to pursue women and to ravish them; they there- 
after give birth to serpents. He himself was conceived by a virgin, who 
had no sexual parts at all, but was bitten by a reptile while she was 
bathing in a pool. The superstitions of the Tupis of northern Brazil 
bear a strong likeness to the rites of the Theban women described by 
Euripides. ‘The Devil’, says Father Yves d’Evreux, ‘has persuaded 
those Gentiles of various delusions concerning waters, fountains and 
streams. Some are inhabited by nymphs, others by goddesses; some 
produce one effect, some another; some are injurious and dangerous, 
others agreeable and safe; some are sacred, others profane. Those 
savages have likewise a superstitious opinion that when they see a cer- 
tain kind of lizard, which resemble those we call “mourons”, or venomous 
snakes, running in the waters, they esteem that the fountain is dangerous 
to women, and that Giropari (their chief spirit) drinks of that water. 
This superstition goes so far that they believe that those lizards cast 
themselves upon women, that they send them to sleep and have com- 
pany with them, so that they become big with child in consequence, and 
give birth to lizards instead of children.’ 

Serpents the Guardians of the Waters of Life 

The association of serpents with sacred springs, just noted, is common 
in many other parts of the world. In an Indian tale a beautiful girl is 
taken by the King of the Serpents as his wife while she is admiring her 
reflection in a spring. The Zulus of Natal have a similar story. In Brazil 
every spring and lake is regarded as being under the control of a serpent- 
deity. So also among the North American Indians. 

In innumerable myths, of which that of Perseus and Andromeda is 
the type, the sun-hero liberates a woman who has been given as wife 
to the serpent of the sea, or of a river, or spring. There can be little 
doubt that the opponent of the sun-god in these myths was originally 
the moon-god. In numerous tales the latter is credited with assaulting 
or kidnapping women while they are drawing water at a spring or well, 
just as the serpent-guardians of the springs. Wells and springs are, in 
fact, particularly dangerous to women. In several Irish tales the water of 
a spring or well overflows and pursues women. Wells also, especially very 
sacred ones, are credited with the property of causing women to fall 
pregnant. We have come upon the belief in South America and in 
Polynesia. Kaffir women, when their children ask them where babies 
come from, tell them that they are found by waters and springs, and that 
‘women bring them back with them when they return from fetching the 
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fear of assault by the serpents dwelling in them. Recently a well near 
Oxford was regarded as being almost as potent as the sacred wells of the 
Tupis. ‘Childs Well,’ wc are told, ‘by the holiness of the chapleynes 
successively serving there, had vertue to make women who were barren 
to bring forth children.” 

Whether it be the serpents which dwell in the wells and springs, or 
the waters themselves, which get women with child, the original cause 
of the mischief is the moon. It may appear strange that serpents should 
be so generally and intimately associated with water. Serpents are not 
usually aquatic animals. But primitive zoology does not look closely into 
classificatory affinities : the serpent is interchangeable in fable with al- 
most any reptile, and with the eel and the crocodile, and is generally 
supposed to have once possessed legs ; it is likewise regarded as identical 
with the worm, and is often so spoken of. Fishes are commonly regarded 
as closely allied to serpents. The Bechuana, for instance, ‘have a prejudice 
against eating fish, and allege a disgust to eating anything like a serpent. 
This,’ remarks Livingstone, ‘may arise from the remnants of serpent- 
worship floating in their minds.’ The Caribs of the West Indies appear 
to have had the same notion. The Tasmanians did not eat any fish that 
has scales, nor did the ancient Egyptians. 

Babylonian gods were conceived in the form of serpents or of fishes, 
interchangeably. Ea, or Oannes, who was the serpent Tiamat, identified 
with the primal waters of life, was also the great Fish. The Syrian form 
of the Semitic goddess, Derketo, was a fish, and her dying and resur- 
recting son, Tammuz or Adonis, was also a fish-god, and was spoken of 
as Dagon, the Fish. Similarly the Hebrews regarded Leviathan, — that is, 
the primal serpent — as a huge fish covered with scales. Joshua, the first 
saviour of Israel, was called ‘the son of Nun’, that is to say, ‘the son of 
the Fish’. Nun, or Ji-nun, the Fish, was, according to learned Rabbis, 
the true name of the Messiah, which he bore before the sun was created. 
He was currently regarded as identical with Leviathan, who having 
died, rose again after three days. The symbolism passed over into early 
Christian ideas, and a fish, an image of which Clement of Alexandria 
recommends all Christians to wear, was as common an emblem of the 
faith as the cross. 

The serpent’s constant association with waters is not, however, due 
to its fancied resemblance to a fish, but to its being a surrogate of the 
moon, the ruler of waters. Throughout Indonesia the ocean is regarded 
as a serpent, the Great Serpent of the primordial waters, from which all 
things have arisen. The great serpent or dragon, so prominent in Chinese 
mythical representations, is the representative of the waters above the 
earth. The association of the serpent with rain has led many to suppose 
that this is the primary significance of the serpent in universal mytho- 



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logy. But rain is only one of the forms of the waters over which the moon 
exercises her control. The moon’s faculty of eternal renewal is fre- 
quently ascribed to her bathing periodically in the waters of pools, lakes 
or of the sea. In Polynesia the moon preserves her youth by bathing in 
the waters of Tane. The Jukon of northern Nigeria say that the moon 
goes to renew its youth in its home in the waters. So do the Huitotos 
of the Upper Amazon. The water which by that baptism imparts re- 
newed youth to her is thus the Water of Life. It seems not unlikely that 
the virtue of those waters is thought to be due to the presence in them 
of their guardian serpents, and that the moon is regarded as deriving her 
powers of rejuvenescence from the serpent, which renews its skin. 



CHAPTER 21 


Primitive Cosmic Religion 


As we have seen, primitive religious ideas are hopelessly parochial. 
They are not general theories of the universe, but arc connected with 
primitive man’s immediate needs and purposes. Superstitions concern- 
ing the moon, however, are of especial interest since they constitute the 
germ of a cosmic religion. Like the totem, the moon is regarded as the 
progenitor of the tribe, and the tribe is equated with ‘mankind’. But the 
moon naturally tends to broaden out into a universal deity, whose 
sphere of influence is the whole world ; such a conception may be called 
cosmic, in distinction from purely tribal and local ones. In this chapter, 
therefore, w r e shall survey the religious conceptions of the less advanced 
peoples, and shall sec how far the moon occupies the chief place in them. 

There is little evidence to support the idea, once popular, that one of 
the earliest forms of religious belief was ‘nature worship’. Primitives, it 
is true, readily regard natural objects as the abode of spirits, but cos- 
mological views do not seem to have developed out of such haphazard 
‘animism’. Nor are the gods of winds and storms true deities; they are 
usually simply aspects of more generalized powers. The facts suggest 
that religious ideas arose from the desire to acquire magical powers and 
not from an intellectual desire to interpret nature. The interpretations 
subsumed under the term ‘nature worship’ appear to be late phenomena. 

All religious conceptions tend to detach themselves from the ideas 
from which they arise. Once a deity emerges with a name and personality, 
these constitute a sufficient account of him, and the ideas from which 
the deity arose are usually repudiated or regarded as a mere allegory. 
The deity is, perhaps, remembered as the Light of the World, and the 
sun is ‘naturally’ likened to the god. Clans which have become pre- 
eminent frequently assimilate themselves to the sun, and favour the 
substitution of the more brilliant luminary. The respective sexes of sun 
and moon become changed. In solar theologies, the moon is belittled 
and discredited; a regular controversy develops between the solar and 
lunar conception of a heavenly ruler. But the attributes of the solar god 
are, in point of fact, just those which have been handed down to him 
from the older lunar deity. In primitive thought the sun is destitute of 
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changes and the course of the sun, are unknown to primitive humanity. 
The most uncultured races do not realize that daylight is due to the sun; 
it is believed to be an independent phenomenon. The sun’s brilliancy 
and heat — the attributes which constitute the manifest grounds for its 
importance — count for nothing in primitive ideas of the supernatural 
which are not a result of the impressiveness of natural phenomena but 
an endeavour to secure benefits by obtaining or controlling magical 
powers. It is the moon, the regulator and transformer, and not the sun, 
which is everywhere regarded as the source of magical powers ; no primi- 
tive magician turns to the sun to obtain that power. In a Lettish myth 
the moon is represented as saying to the sun: ‘What have you to be 
proud about ? Is it that you give heat to the world ? I do more, I cause 
all growth and all existence, I bring to life and I bring to death.’ The 
solar gods of later stages of development are but transformed moon- 
deities, whose functions they inherit. They are life-giving and fertilizing, 
they renew their youth in cycles. But such functions are the attributes 
of the primitive lunar deity. Hence it is that we repeatedly come upon 
incongruities which disclose the substitution: we encounter sun-gods 
who die a monthly death and rise again after three days, or sun-cults 
which are celebrated by night. 

Nor are solar cults alone derived from older lunar cults. The more 
highly developed religious systems of advanced cultures, which have 
the universal bearing and philosophic scope which we associate with a 
religious conception, also betray their development from lunar cults . 1 

Cosmic Religion in Melanesia and New Guinea 

The Melanesian islands provide an unequalled opportunity of ap- 
proaching the root of primitive cosmic religious conceptions — although 
to be sure Melanesian religious ideas certainly are not primitive in the 
absolute sense. The Melanesians have a copious oral literature of myths, 
all of which, from the northernmost groups of New Britain and the 
Admiralty Islands to New Caledonia and Fiji, repeat essentially the 
same themes. These themes are exclusively lunar ; the sun only appears in 
a quite subordinate character. 

1 ‘Observers’, remarks Sir James Frazer, ‘ignorant of savage superstition, 
have commonly misinterpreted such customs as worship or adoration paid to 
the moon. In point of fact, the ceremonies of new moon are probably in many 
cases rather magical than religious.’ True, the rituals by which primitive human- 
ity endeavours to utilize and acquire the virtues which it believes to reside in the 
moon may be regarded as operations of magic. Yet if procedures which are 
intended to secure the continuance of life, the redemption of human nature by a 
new birth, and which are addressed to a power which is regarded as the con- 
troller of human destiny, and as the resurrection and the life, are not religion, it 
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The lunar deities of Melanesia are characteristically represented as a 
pair of gods, corresponding respectively to the lucky waxing moon and 
to the unlucky waning moon. The one is beneficent and wise, the other 
maleficent and foolish. Thus, at Aurora, in the New Hebrides, ‘Tagaro 
wanted everything to be good, and would have no pain or suffering; 
Suqe-matua would have all things bad. Whatever Tagaro did was made 
right, Suqe was always wrong ; he would have men die only for five days.’ 
Whatever Tagaro ate increased as he ate it, but Suqe could not plant 
things aright. Suqe is the ruler of the dead. His head is forked. In New 
Britain the two brothers are called Kabibabam, ‘the Wise,’ and Karvuvu, 
the ‘Left-hand god\ (In the southern hemisphere the new moon cres- 
cent appears on the left-hand side of the moon to an observer facing 
north, the dark shadow being on the right-hand side.) 

The lunar character of these deities is shown in many small ways; 
sometimes they are known as skin-changers, sometimes they are glo- 
bular in shape and sometimes the deity has eleven brothers. They create 
men and constantly resurrect them after three days. Often the bad deity 
seduces the wife of the good deity. 

The bright moon-god is commonly regarded in Melanesian myths as 
corresponding to the full moon. In the island of Erub in the Torres 
Straits, the moon is represented by two sacred stones, one circular, the 
other crescent-shaped. The same symbols recur in almost every re- 
ligion. In ancient Egypt, almost every high god and goddess bore the 
emblems of the full orb and the crescent ; these two symbols have often 
been supposed to represent the sun and the moon — but we find the 
emblems surmounting the figure of the moon-god. Similarly, the various 
attributes of the waxing, or full-moon god, as we find them in Melanesia, 
may easily be adapted to a solar mythology ; all that is needed is to inter- 
pret the brilliant and beneficent full-moon deity as the sun, and to leave 
unchanged the contrast between him and the deformed, dark, maleficent, 
crescentic moon-god. Thus, according to Mrs Hadfield, the natives of 
the Loyalty Islands worshipped the sun and the moon. ‘They say the sun 
reached old age in one month, but owing to some secret and special 
attribute was enabled to renew his youth.’ On the notion of a solar deity 
who passes through a monthly cycle of ageing and rejuvenation, com- 
ment is superfluous. Reporting from Pentecost Island the myth of 
Tortali, who absents himself from the heavens for several days at inter- 
vals while with his wife. Father Suas refers to Tortali as the sun, but it 
is difficult to see on what principles of nature symbolism the sun is 
represented as being absent from the heavens during the interlunar days, 
which the moon is usually supposed to spend in the company of his wife, 
the sun. 

The two contrasted moon-gods of Melanesia are often associated with 


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a moon-goddess, their mother, who is sometimes represented as giving 
birth to them by splitting into two. In New Ireland she is spoken of 
simply as £ the Mother’, or ‘our grandmother’. In New Britain she is the 
mother of Kaninana and Karvuvu, whom she moulded out of her blood, 
and is known as ‘the Old Woman’, or ‘the Shining Woman’. In the Banks 
Islands she is the mother of Qat and the Tangaros, and is called ‘Round 
Head,’ or ‘the Skin-changing Woman.’ In San Cristoval she is the Snake- 
woman and the mother of mankind. But the serpent deity of San 
Cristoval, though regarded in its local forms as a female, is in its generic 
form a male, and has a brother ; it is thus a form of the double moon-god. 
It is regarded as the supreme deity, the creater of the world and of all 
creatures, and is the object of deep reverence. The Great Serpent, the 
creator of mankind and of all good things, occupies the same position in 
the Admiralty Islands, and in Pine Island, at the opposite extremity of 
Melanesia. The same triad of the two moon-gods with their mother is 
also found in New Guinea. 

A misconception which has had a paralysing influence on the inter- 
pretation of primitive belief is the assumption that a given personage 
cannot be a god because he is not treated with reverence, or because 
ludicrous stories are told about him. Such beings, it is supposed, must 
at best be classed as ‘demi-gods’, or ‘heroes’. But these distinctions, so 
important to the Christian theologian, do not exist for the savage. He 
makes no clear distinction between gods and men. The magical attri- 
butes of supernatural beings are but a superlative form of the powers 
daily exercised by medicine-men ; the function of creator does not estab- 
lish a gulf between the god and the man; all magicians are more or less 
creators, and the circumstance that he has created the world is often an 
incidental detail, hardly worth stressing. As often as not, the drudgery of 
creating beings and things is delegated by the god to a subordinate 
demiurge. The god is commonly supposed to have dwelt at one time 
amongst men, living much the same life as his savage companions, and 
changing his residence to heaven by a mere accident in the course of his 
adventures. The character of awful majesty, which we associate with a 
veritable god, the attitude of reverence which we regard as characteristic 
of a religious view of him, are foreign to primitive man’s conception of 
supernatural beings. These may be dreaded as dangerous and evilly 
disposed, but dread does not prevent a sly delight in their misadventures ; 
they may be looked upon as well-disposed and willing to be helpful, and 
are then treated all the more freely with friendly good-nature, but not 
with reverence (cf. ‘the man in the moon.’) Thus it is that the gods of 
Melanesia and of Polynesia have commonly been described as ‘tribal 
heroes’ or ‘spirits’. 

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Europeans, were already in an advanced state of decay, but enough of 
their primitive character survives to show that their central object was 
admission to the company of deceased ancestors by obtaining resur- 
rection and eternal life from the moon. ‘It is possible 5 , observed Dr 
Rivers, ‘that further knowledge will show the presence of features de- 
rived from the cult of the moon in the ritual of Melanesian “ghost” 
societies . 5 And, in fact it does. At Vanikoro, in the Santa Cruz group, 
where, as everywhere else in Melanesia, the creation of the world and of 
the human race is ascribed to the moon; its cult in the stone circles con- 
stitutes, in fact, a regular religious worship. 

Thus the Qat, Qatu or Qetu societies of the Banks Islands and north- 
ern New Hebrides are associations of the moon-god Qat. 

In Rook Island, between New Britain and New Guinea, the boys 
were supposed to be swallowed by a monstrous spirit, and were de- 
livered shrieking and trembling to the masked personages representing 
it, and compelled to crawl between their legs. In the Koko Islands the 
candidates for initiation are seized, blindfolded and thrust between the 
jaws of a vast crocodile effigy, while their parents shout: ‘Do not kill my 
child ! 5 Bull-roarers swung inside the building represent the roaring of 
the monster. At last, yielding to the entreaties of the agonized parents, 
the master of ceremonies consents to beg the crocodile to disgorge his 
prey, on consideration of a payment of some pigs as a substitute for the 
boy, who is accordingly vomited forth a fully-initiated man. Almost 
identically similar proceedings constitute the initiating rites of the 
Yabim, the Bukua and the Kai tribes of northern Papua. 

It would be a misconception to imagine that these proceedings are 
mere pantomines designed to instil terror into the uninitiated. The mon- 
ster is the most sacred and venerated object in the religious ideas of 
those tribes. Offerings and sacrifices are presented on solemn occasions 
to the beasts; and they are consulted as oracles. After a war expedition, 
prisoners are immolated and their bodies are placed in the stomachs of 
the wicker-work crocodiles; they are subsequently removed and eaten 
communally by the men. The holy crocodiles are called ‘kopiravi 5 , and 
are spoken of as ‘kai ai imunu 5 . that is to say, ‘imunu from the sky 5 . The 
term ‘imunu 5 is explained as meaning ‘the principle of life 5 . 

The crocodile monster which devours and regurgitates the candi- 
dates for initiation is thus no other than the ‘kopiravi 5 , or ‘principle of 
life from the sky 5 . In the Kiwai tribe, the initiators representing the 
‘spirit 5 are masked as crocodiles. This conception, ‘which would appear 
to correspond to the “mana 55 of the Melanesian Islands , 5 says Professor 
Haddon, ‘runs through all their religions . 5 The crocodile occupies, in 
fact, a conspicuous place in Melanesian New Guinea. In the Solomon 
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alligators, snakes, bonitos and frigate-birds’. The shark, and the ‘bonito’ 
fish which resembles it, are in all likelihood regarded as marine equiva- 
lents of the crocodile. In Polynesian languages the shark and the lizard, 
the nearest Polynesian equivalent to the crocodile, are both denoted by 
almost the same word, ‘mako’ and moko’, respectively. (We have seen 
that women are represented as being bitten in their genital organs by the 
crocodile.) 

In New Guinea initiation ceremonies the candidates are often said to 
be restored by the monster which has swallowed them — on considera- 
tion of some pigs being supplied by the parents as a ransom. This is not 
exploitation on the part of the hierophants — though, of course, it may 
degenerate into such. In some tribes, in which the ceremonies have 
become reduced to a simplified form, the final investitute of the can- 
didate takes place while he stands on the carcass of the dead pig which 
he has provided, and, before this, he is steamed as if he, and not the pig, 
were about to be eaten. The slaughtered animal is thus regarded not 
merely as a payment, but as a substitute , whose life is given in ransom for 
that of the candidate. The Namau offer their prisoners of war to the 
‘kopiravi’ crocodiles in the same manner as the ancient Celts. In the 
sacred stone circles at Wagawaga and Wani a man was solemnly de- 
corated, tied to a stone, sacrificed, roasted and ritually eaten. In these 
forms of the ritual the substituted victim is frequently assimilated to the 
deity itself; the Papuans doubtless considered that they acquired the 
virtues of the deity by eating the sacrificial victim. In the Solomon 
Islands it is said that formerly men cut up the moon and each ate a 
piece of it. The substitution of a redeemer who gives his life for the 
people is not infrequently enacted symbolically in the same manner as 
the symbolic death of the candidate for initiation is represented by 
a mimic death. 

In Melanesia the lunar power is associated with sacred stones. ‘Sacred 
places have almost always sacred stones in them,’ and deities are associ- 
ated with them. As already noted, in the island of Erub, the moon is 
represented by two sacred stones. In the Solomon Islands, the creator, 
Tantanu, is regarded as a stone. In Fiji the chief god, Ndeugei, is a serpent 
in the upper part of his body and a stone in the lower. The goddess 
‘Round Head’, the mother of Qat, is represented in the Banks Islands 
by a stone. On Lepers’ Island ‘all the stones that are sacred are con- 
nected with Tagaro’. On San Cristoval a magic stone spoke and an- 
nounced the coming of the Great Serpent, and was in fact his daughter. In 
the Massim area of eastern New Guinea, the circles of standing stones, 
which were of old the scenes of human sacrifice and cannibalism, are 
marked with the remains of ancient pictographs; one bears a cross; 
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as it is wholly unlike a serpent. In New Caledonia all magic and re- 
ligious practices are associated with sacred stones, and these bestow 
fertility. In the Belep tribe the sacred stone is regarded as ‘the principle 
of life’. The god Doibet, who is ruler of the dead and of the underworld 
and is manifestly the representative of the dark moon, is represented as 
being, in the lower part of his body, a stone. These sacred stones play 
the same conspicuous part in every district of Melanesia, from the Ad- 
miralty Islands to Fiji. Moreover, individual fetiches are adopted by 
selecting a stone from which the owner believes he derives magic power, 
or ‘mana’. 

Sacred stones are a world-wide feature of archaic religious cult, from 
Japan to Brazil and from Madagascar to Scandinavia. Every Semitic 
deity was embodied in a sacred stone, and could be called down by the 
worshipper by setting up a stone; aniconic stones played a conspicuous 
part in primitive Greece. Sacred stones represented the gods in all Celtic 
countries ; and they are found throughout Africa. 

It might seem that stones afford such an obvious means of setting up 
a durable symbol that the practice of ‘worshipping’ stones scarcely calls 
for any explanation. Yet it appears that the identification of stones with 
the moon comprises something more. The sacred stones of Melanesia 
are not the aniconic idols of a people unable to produce more like-life 
representations of their gods, for few savages excel the Melanesians in 
wood-carving. In the island of Yam, as already noted, two deities, 
doubtless forms of the double moon-god, are represented by elaborate 
images of a shark and a crocodile adorned with tortoise-shell and bird- 
of-paradise plumage and painted in brilliant colours. But the richly 
carved figures are merely presentments; the actual souls or spirits of the 
divinities are situated in two rough stones which lie beneath the images. 
In the myth of the Alfurs of Celebes the symbol of immortality, instead 
of being the moon or the serpent, is a stone ; and we are told, in the name 
of the moon-god, that the stone is the symbol of immortality because, 
like the moon, it is not subject to decay. In New British myths, mankind 
was defrauded of the gifts of immortality, not only by the serpents but 
also by stones. The Melanesians do not merely represent their gods by 
stones, but as being stones. In short, it appears probable that they are 
deliberately identifying the ‘principle of life’ with stones because, like 
the serpent, stones partake of the moon’s gift of immortality. 

Australia and Tasmania 

Australian religious conceptions do not centre exclusively round the 
totem. The control of life and death and the resurrection of the dead are, 
throughout Australia, regarded as depending upon the moon. The 
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mankind. The sun has no place in Australian conceptions of the super- 
natural; when personified it is regarded as a female, presumably the 
wife of the moon. 

The initiation rites of the Australians have both practical and 
magical purposes. I have suggested that the practical purpose may be to 
aid in sexual selection. Be this as it may, these ceremonies, like all rites 
of initiation, whether into ‘secret societies’ or into bridal manhood, are 
regarded as conferring certain magical powers, and admission to the 
ranks not only of living tribesmen but of their departed ancestors, after 
the initiate’s death. The latter object is achieved, as usual, by ceremonies 
in which the initiate is supposed to die and be resurrected. 

The method of resurrection often resembles the Australian story al- 
ready noted, in which a youth is supposed to acquire a new skin through 
being swallowed by a serpent, and those initiation rites of Indonesia and 
New Guinea in which the neophyte is imbued with new life by passing 
through the body of a monster. The supernatural being is supposed to 
swallow the candidate or to bite his head off. The performance is some- 
times represented in a fairly realistic manner. ‘I have seen one of the 
old men’, says Dr Howitt, ‘rush furiously at one of the novices, seize 
him by the head and apparently bite part of it.’ Mathews says that ‘be- 
fore cannibalism ceased to be practised by the tribes he studied, ‘it was 
the custom to kill and eat a man during the “burbling” ceremonies’. 

The Australian ‘bora’ divinities, in whom some authorities have 
thought to detect moral and august deities 1 and who thus initiate the 
youth are, in fact, not remarkable for either their moral or august charac- 
ter. In these myths, they break almost every one of the ten command- 
ments. Their connection with the moon is evident. Baiame ‘appears 
occasionally during the day, but mostly by night’; and is described as 
painted white with the pipe-clay which is known as ‘moon’. On the 
bora ground he is pictured by a huge figure moulded in mud and sand ; 
at its head stands a tree on which is represented the lunar crescent. 
Moreover, the magical powers of Australian medicine-men are inti- 
mately associated with the possession of pieces of rock-crystal, which are 
supposed to be obtained directly from the heavenly magicians. They are 
symbols of the Great Spirit. Daramulum is represented with quartz 
crystals on his head, and Baiame with similar crystals growing from his 
shoulders. 

1 Westermarck cites, as the piice de resistance of his account of Australian gods, 
a paper by J. Manning from the Journal and Proc. of the Royal Society of N.S. 
Wales (1882, p. 157 sqq.). Actually ‘Cockatoo’ Manning was a farmer who 
obtained entry to a meeting of the society and read a paper which was a farrago 
of nonsense. Under the rules of the society, the paper had to be printed despite 
the protests of members of the society, who had heard it with mixed amusement 
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Seeing that various Australian tribes are stated to regard the moon as 
their creator and father, and that the origin of death and the faculty of 
resurrection are even more generally ascribed to the moon, it seems no 
very daring conjecture that their ‘Great Spirits’, the source of all magical 
powers, who are seen at night adorned with moon-paint and crystals, 
who are represented with crescents over their heads, and who kill the 
young men in order to resurrect them, are none other than lunar deities. 
They appear to be, in fact, essentially identical with the moon gods of 
Melanesia and Papua. The two best-known Australian bora deities, 
Baiame and Daramulum, are an associated pair. Baiame occupies the 
superior position, Daramulum acting under his orders as his deputy or 
demiurge in the initiation ceremonies. Baiame is represented as white, 
Daramulum as ‘one-legged’ and deformed; Baiame is on the whole 
benevolent or at least innocuous, Daramulum is evil and maleficent. 
They stand in fact in the same relation to each other as the bright full 
moon and waxing moon-god and the dark waning moon-god of Mel- 
anesia. Indeed, there is substantial evidence that the Australian initiation 
deities and their rites are culturally connected with the correspond- 
ing cults of Papua and the Torres Straits. The bull-roarer and the 
supposed ‘swallowing’ of the candidates are prominent features of both. 
The bull-roarer which in Papua as in Australia is the voice of the initiat- 
ing ‘spirit’, is in the Borli tribe of Papua called ‘bora’. It is difficult to 
avoid recognizing in Bomai and Malu the Australian Baiame and Dara- 
mulum. Malu, the ‘bad’ god, is stated to be like Daramulum in the 
habit of biting off men’s heads. Malu is a crocodile; Daramulum is an 
iguana — there are no crocodiles in Australia. Bomai is a shark; in Queens- 
land Baiame is a tortoise. 

The death and resurrection which the rites are supposed to effect are 
sometimes dramatically represented. One of the older men is buried in a 
deep grave, which is then lightly covered with branches and earth; at 
the conclusion of the ceremony he rises again, bearing in his mouth the 
magic crystal which he is supposed to have received from Daramulum. 
By a converse argument the candidates, instead of being swallowed, may 
be made to swallow a piece of the magic rock-crystal, ‘the symbol of the 
Great Spirit’. 

Here a short digression on the meaning of these sacred crystals may 
not be out of place. The Nutka of British Columbia also achieve rebirth 
and initiation by ingesting pieces of rock-crystal ; the Butwa of the Congo 
acquire immortality in the same way. The rite has analogues in the eating 
of the bark of the moon-palm by South American ‘pajes’, or the drinking 
of a moon-draught by the Thonga medicine-men. All stones partake of 
the lunar nature since they are everlasting and indestructible, and hard, 
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regarded by the wise men of the East as owing their virtues to the moon ; 
thus pearls are the products of the moon, emeralds of the waxing moon, 
cat’s-eye stones of the waning moon. Other gems are associated in 
astrological lore with various planets and stars ; but, as we have seen, the 
magic virtues of these heavenly bodies are supposed to have their source 
in the moon. Furthermore, it is widely believed, — e.g. in China — that 
serpents carry in their head a magical gem. The notion was familiar to 
the ancient Germans, and the ‘snake-stone’ is mentioned in some of the 
most ancient German poems. In Salzburg and the Jura Mountains it is 
believed that one of the eyes of the undying serpent is a diamond. The 
ancient Greeks believed likewise. Diamonds are popularly supposed in 
France to be produced by snakes, while the Danubian peasants believe 
that all gems have their origin from serpents ; a serpent’s nest is sup- 
posed to contain a wealth of precious stones. Among the ancient Celts 
those ‘snake-stones’ or ‘serpents’ eggs’ played an important part in 
religious belief, and bestowed magic powers on the possessor. The 
veneration for such ‘snake-stones,’ ‘adder-stones’ or ‘clach-nathrach’ is 
still prevelant in all Celtic countries. 

The Melanesians of eastern New Guinea hold similar views; the in- 
dispensable means of acquiring magical power is, they believe, to obtain 
a snake-stone. Among the American Indians it was believed that certain 
mythical serpents have horns on their heads, and possession of one of 
them bestowed magical powers. The Armenians tell of a queen serpent 
who paralyses her enemies by means of a magic stone which shines 
brightly when, on certain nights, she takes it in the air. Another Armen- 
ian tradition tells of a man who unknowingly married a serpent-woman. 
An astrologer revealed to him the true nature of his consort, and advised 
him to shut her up in the oven and roast her. This he did, and her ashes 
were found to possess the property of transmuting metals into gold. The 
magic ‘snake-stone’, or ‘moon-stone’, is in fact no other than the philo- 
sopher’s stone, and naturally derives its power of transmuting baser 
metals into incorruptible gold from the moon. The true formula for 
transmuting metals into gold is to treat them with a preparation ob- 
tained by burning a serpent to ashes ; alchemists were commonly spoken 
of in the Middle Ages as ‘serpent-burners’. 

The Nutka of Vancouver, the Congo natives, and the Australian 
aborigines, when they endeavour to renew their life by swallowing rock- 
crystals, are thus guided by the same ideas as the mediaeval alchemists. 

The ceremony which constitutes the central rite of Australian boras, 
and which takes the place of the immolation and resurrection of the 
candidates, is the knocking out of one or two of their front teeth. This is 
represented as a commutation of more severe proceedings. It is said that 
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that, in reality, he contented himself with extracting a tooth. The 
evulsion of teeth thus appears to be regarded as equivalent to being 
swallowed and restored to life by the initiating spirit. The evulsion or 
filing of teeth at initiation is a widely distributed custom. 

The teeth are, according to many uncultured races, the part of the 
body in which the immortal soul resides. This is in accordance with 
savage logic. The most enduring or immortal part of man is regarded as 
being his bones. The Choctas say that ‘the real seat of the human soul 
is in the bones’. The Hurons likewise called the bones ‘the soul’. The 
ancient Hebrews appear to have had similar notions ; the word for ‘bone,’ 
‘etzem,’ meant with them a man’s self, his person. Among the Central 
Australian tribes, the word ‘kutchi’, means both ‘bones’ and ‘ghost’. The 
bones of the dead are accordingly the object of elaborate attention the 
world over. The bones which are regarded as possessing in the highest 
degree the quality of immortality are the lower jaw and teeth. In Uganda 
the jawbones of the kings are alone preserved ; they are spoken of simply 
as ‘the King’, and are consulted in all important affairs. The Ewe of Togo 
state that babies are formed out of the jaw-bones of the dead, thus rein- 
carnating them. Warriors adorn their trumpets and drums with the 
jaw-bones of their slain foes, thus effectively conciliating their ghosts. 
For the same reason, in Porto Novo, the executioner keeps the jaw- 
bones of his victims securely in his house. 

This conception parallels the view that stones possess the virtue of 
immortality; and that the teeth should be accounted as possessing that 
virtue in the highest degree follows by the same logic which sees in 
crystals the most immortal order of stones. The bones of the dead are 
referred to in Mayan codices as ‘precious stone bones’. In Samoa the 
spirit of a shark-god was supposed to be immanent in a shark’s teeth which 
were consulted as oracles. The holy tooth of Buddha is similarly wor- 
shipped in Ceylon. The dragon’s teeth which Kadmos sowed, from 
which armed warriors arose, probably contained the spirit of the divine 
animal. Teeth are also associated with the moon in primitive thought, 
because they possess to a certain extent the property of being renewed. 
Among the natives of the Loyalty Islands ‘it seems to have been the 
general opinion that the moon possessed an unlimited supply of teeth 
to dispose of; so that whenever a man pulled out a decayed tooth he was 
mindful to throw it over his house on a moonlight night, calling out at 
the same time to the moon : ‘Here is my old tooth, take it away and send 
me another in its place’. This faculty of renewal is shared by the hair, 
the growth of which is commonly believed to depend upon the moon. 
Accordingly, the cropping of the hair or complete depilation is an 
essential part of the Australian rites of initiation. When, therefore, 
Daramulum bites off the teeth of the initiates as a compromise for biting 
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off their heads or swallowing them bodily, he is selecting the most 
appropriate substitute for the whole man, and the portion best suited 
to receive the gift of immortality. 

In short, among the Australian aborigines, who exhibit one of the 
most primitive surviving examples of religious conceptions, rites and 
conceptions of lunar origin are no less important than those associated 
with totemic animals. The same appears to have been the case with the 
now extinct natives of Tasmania. 

Traces of Lunar Cults in Indonesia 

Where agriculture has become the chief means of subsistence, the sun 
naturally assumes a special importance. Since the races of the Malay 
Archipelago are mostly dependent upon primitive agriculture, the most 
general cosmic conception amongst them is that of Father Su, the hus- 
band and fertilizer of Mother Earth. Their religious theories have, how- 
ever, been influenced by Hinduism and Islam, as shown by the fact that 
the Bataks, the most primitive race of Sumatra, have a trinity which in 
some respects conforms in nomenclature to the Hindu triad, while even 
the wild tribes of Borneo Dayaks call their supreme being Hatalla or 
Magatalla, which is simply the Arabic Allah ta’ala. 

Nevertheless, more ancient ideas everywhere gleam through such 
advanced concepts. Thus, the triad of gods of the Toba-Bataks, al- 
though adapted to Hindu ideas, is known as the ‘Lords of the Moon. 5 
With them is associated a moon-goddess, who, having bestowed upon 
her children the power of controlling demons, retired to the moon to 
watch over them. ‘When we are in need, in trouble, or in anxiety,’ say the 
Bataks, ‘when a child, a woman, or an oppressed person amongst us is 
in need of help, we look to the moon, and take courage.’ 

This strange combination of primitive with later cosmic conceptions 
is manifested in the Kei Islands and in Aru even more incongruously; 
the chief god is spoken of as the ‘Sun-Moon’. In Ceram-laut, and in the 
island of Gorom the moon is feminine; but the women address her as 
‘Our Grandfather’. 

In the sixteenth century Barthema noted that the moon was wor- 
shipped in Java. In the Kei Islands and in Timor the moon is the chief 
object of worship. In Timor she is served by aged vestals, who tend an 
undying fire. In the island of Babar the supreme god dwells in the moon. 
In Nias the cosmogony is purely lunar. In the Middle Celebes, among 
the Bataks of the Tomori region, sacrifices are offered to the moon at 
harvest-time, with songs in which it is addressed as ‘Mother’. Among the 
Dayaks of Borneo, we are told, the ‘veneration for the moon, formed the 
chief basis of their worship and myths’. When the Spaniards first 
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was that ‘they pray to the moon, and ask her for children, abundance of 
cattle and of the fruits of the earth, and other similar things’. 

The moon is regarded by the Dayaks as the cause of time and of every 
event. ‘It is certain that solar mythology was originally foreign to all 
purely Indonesian peoples.’ 

Survivals of Primitive Cosmic Religion in Polynesia 

The decay of the original conceptions upon which Polynesian myths 
were founded has proceeded much further than in Melanesia. Though 
the Polynesians preserved their myths with wonderful unity, their in- 
terpretation was not an object of religious or of magical interest. Hence, 
so far as they are ‘interpreted’ at all, they are interpreted ‘naturally’: 
that is, in accordance with the more obvious aspects of natural pheno- 
mena rather than with their primitive religious and magical significance. 
Solar interpretations, if not insisted on, are at least accepted. This has 
given European inquirers the impression that Polynesian myth presents 
a typical example of the primitive ‘solar religion’ imagined in the theory 
of ‘nature worship’, and the Polynesians have even been sometimes 
termed ‘The People of the Sun’. 

Actually there is no trace of sun-worship or solar mythology anywhere 
in Polynesia. The sun plays no part in Polynesian myth, except as the 
wife of the moon. The most prominent mythical figure is Maui, the 
‘creator of land,’ the ‘creator of man’. He has been identified with the 
sun; he is, however, the son of the moon, Hina; and the most famous 
of his myths relates how he conquered the sun. Maui is demonstrably 
identical with the moon-gods of Melanesia. His name means ‘left- 
handed’; and he is thus, like the ‘left-handed Karvuvu’ of New Britain, 
the new moon-god that grows from the left (west) in opposition to the 
‘right-handed Kabinana’. His name is also used as a synonym of 
‘witchcraft’. 

As in all traditional mythologies, the same deities are known in Poly- 
nesia and in Melanesia by various names, and the traditional names be- 
come transferred from one deity to another. An instance of the con- 
fusion which may thus arise is presented by the myth of Rona, who in 
her best-known form is the woman in the moon, abducted there by the 
moon-god, while she was drawing water. In other versions, however, 
Rona is a male and an ogre. ‘Rona is lord of the sun and moon. Rona 
eats the moon and the moon eats Rona; but as each becomes exhausted 
and devoured in the monthly battle, they go to the Life-waters of Tane 
to bathe and be restored to life and strength, by which they become able 
to renew the struggle.’ 

The two moon-gods, the favourable and the unfavourable, not in- 
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as a good-natured hero anxious to confer benefits upon mankind, is in 
Tahiti a fiend who desires to slay men. 

The wife of Maui is Rohe or Rau. ‘She was beautiful as he was ugly, 
and on his wishing to exchange faces with her, she refused his request. 
He, however, by means of an incantation, managed to gain his point. In 
anger she left him, or refused to live any longer in the world of light, but 
proceeded to the under-world.’ As in the parallel Melanesian myth, the 
wife of the moon-god is the sun. In the Solomon Islands, in the Loyalty 
Islands and in New Guinea, the sun and the moon formerly travelled in 
company, but quarrelled and separated ; in New Zealand the moon said 
to the sun, ‘Let us travel together at night’; but they disagreed and 
separated. Rohe, the wife of Maui, is in fact said in New Zealand and in 
the Chatham Islands to be ‘the sister of the sun’; but it appears manifest 
that, like Ro Lei, she was in reality the sun itself. In Polynesian myth, 
the supposed sun-god is thus, under the thinnest of disguises, a female 
and the wife of the moon. 

In western Polynesia, Tangaroa occupies the place which Maui 
occupies in eastern Polynesia. A Tongan version describes four Tan- 
garoas, and associates them unambiguously with the four phases of the 
moon. Tangaroa has, of course, been claimed as a sun-god. In Samoa he 
dwells in the moon. In Hawaii and in eastern Polynesia, Tangaroa is an 
evil and maleficent god; he is the ruler of Hades; in the Marquesas, he 
is a god of darkness and is defeated by the god of light, Atea. He is 
identical with the Tangaroas and Tagaros known throughout Melanesia. 
‘It would be quite erroneous’, remarks Professor Schimdt, ‘to regard 
him [Tagaro] as a loan from the Polynesian Tangaroa. He is, of course, 
identical with him — not, however, as an imitation, but as an earlier form 
of him, which has more distinctly retained its lunar character.’ 

Maui, Tangaroa and other corresponding Polynesian gods are, like 
those of Melanesia, incarnate in serpents, lizards and eels, and in stones. 
The deities of Polynesia and their mythology are in fact identical with 
those of Melanesia. 

Polynesian kings were primarily ‘sacred’ kings, — that is, representa- 
tives of the gods — from whom their power was derived. The Tuitonga, 
the sacred king of Tonga, was regarded as the direct descendant of Maui, 
Tangaroa and the goddess Hikuleo. Thus they were associated with the 
moon. In Samoa, where the name of a chief might not be pronounced, 
least of all when he was dead, the phrase by which his demise was an- 
nounced was: ‘The moon has fallen.’ 

Few particulars are available concerning Maori initiation rites but, 
there can be little doubt that they included a symbolic representation of 
death and resurrection. In the sacred enclosures human sacrifices were 
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the candidate, painted red, received a new name. The death and resur- 
rection of the god himself formed an important part of the rites of the 
Areoi, although the ritual was of a solar and not a lunar cycle. But the 
god whose death and resurrection were thus celebrated — mostly, it 
appears, by night — was the moon-god of Polynesia and Melanesia. 

The dualism represented by the two moon-gods, the bright and the 
dark, which is so conspicuous in Melanesian and Polynesian myth, and 
of which we find clear traces in Australia, is met with everywhere in 
primitive lunar cosmological conceptions. This is not the expression of 
a sense of the opposition between good and evil forces, but derives in 
every instance from the contrast between the two beings who, in 
primitive belief, are supposed to contend for mastery in the course of 
the lunar cycle, the one loving darkness rather than light, and seeking 
to destroy the other who would bestow light and the power of regen- 
eration upon the world. 

Primitive Cosmic Religion in North America 

This contrast is expressed by the Greenlan